My name is Jesseca. I live in a small town, but I have big city ideas. People here do not have open minds, they aren't cultured, they're everything I don't want to be. So let me share with you what I know, how I feel, and just plain how things are.
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14/f.
i don't know why, but in my school, i get like so much attention, its insane. now, i know most people that just read that, would probaly think like luckky or something. because, i mean yeah sure i like attention, but too much, just gets annoying.
here are some examples on how i get itt..
-ok, i like spilled a little bit of the water, & my teacher is like..teasing me & telling the whole class like how im funny or something. & like, its not like i was the only one that did it either, like i was the 5th person to do it. & he didn't even say anything to them, he like just told them to clean it up.
-i say a guy is cute right, the next thing i know, the whole grade is asking if hes my boyfriend.
-i was washing the tables, & like everyone was saying stuff.
& so on, if i name it all, itd take too long. & i don't feel like it. oh & that was all just in one day, so yepp.
anyways, i'm just sick of. like i'd just like to not have everyone know, every little thing that happens to me. i mean, i guess i know, i'm popular. but, i feel like people obbess over me or something?
*oh yeahh, & when they put the attention on me, its never to be mean.
so my question to you is, what can i do to get the attention off me? or is there anyway to tell them i don't want it be .. all about me? (link)
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There's not really anything you can do other than tell the people who pay attention to you that you dislike it.
It's high school (I'm guessing high school, 'cause your fourteen, if not - Jr. High is almost worse.)
A lot of people will know your business, if you like it or not.
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It has to do with school I think.
but what does "ISR" Mean.
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Depends on where you see it at.
In-School something, probably.
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This month I'm having a Rocky Horror Picture Show party with some of my friends, most of which have never seen the movie. I was hoping to make it fun, starting with invitations, but I'm strapped for ideas. What kind of games or Rocky Horror related things can I have to make my party fun and unique? (link)
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=00!!!! Someone after my own heart!
=DD Make them dress up! I went dressed as Frank for Halloween (of course, I went via labcoat, rather than... well, y'know.)
Well, let's see how I can help.
Invites -
What about making them shaped like a pair of lips and on the inside write "you're invited to the late night, double feature picture show." and then whatever other info you need.
Have a Time Warp dance contest!
Maybe a "who said it?" quote game?
I'm also strapped for ideas at the moment, but your party sounds fun - hope I helped a little.
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have friends that are turning 16...okay a lot of them. Anywhos I just don't know what to get for this one girl. I've never been to a sweet 16 party nor have I had one (duh)
So are gift cards okay? If so about how much should I give (Note that I'm 14 and I'm like broke) Also I was thinking of giving this girl a set of lotions and bath stuff from body works and put it into a basket and give that...is that suitable? If so what scent do most people prefer?
Any other ideas? Amount and details would be great. Thanks a lot (link)
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I'd go for the lotions/bath stuff - because it really sucks to give gift cards that are super cheap and then you can't really buy anything good with them.
For my sweet 16 (which wasn't that amazing) one of my friends handed me a wad of cash and I had no idea what to do with it. >
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please name the college's location, why they are great, tuition fees, average g.p.a sat scores ect...it would be appreciated! (link)
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Normally I'm not mean, but you know what this sounds like to me?
PURE LAZINESS.
Google it yourself, it's not that hard.
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how do i get my friends pics in a scrollbox to put on my myspace? like i want to take the pics from their myspace and put them in a scrollbox on mine. (link)
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To do that you would have to go to the picture on their myspace that you want, right click and save - and then upload all of the pictures to a photo hosting site, such as photobucket or imageshack. Then you'd have to find the code for a scroll box - and insert the links now provided for your pictures.
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ok i have this boyfriend o0o by the way im13\f and he is so sweet but l8tley he has hung up on me twice ignored calls and then denied it all....everyone says he is young he is 11 n im 13...and i just dont know wut to do i cried and i also like sumother pplz but then again i justlove austin!!i dont know wut to do plzz help me____racerchic4390@yahoo.com____thnxx..**A person who needs help** (link)
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Alright, so I have a little sister around your age, and she's dated younger boys - and she's had that kind of problem as well.
Personally, I believe it's the age difference. You're at a point where you're finally growing up. Thirteen was a bigger milestone for me than sixteen was.
You're probably beginning to want relationships with some depth. Something more than saying that you're dating and then just acting like your best friends.
Your boyfriend is eleven, he's still a little kid. Maybe he's just not mature enough for dating.
If you really wanted to stay with this kid, Austin, then you really wouldn't say that you liked other people.
If he's ignoring your calls, don't stress it. Just act like you aren't interested in dealing with it. Don't let it bring you down. There's no need to be mean though.
He might just want some space.
I'm sorry if I didn't help, I don't understand why you asked me this question - since I really don't do good with relationship advice.
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okk so heres the story..
14/f && i have a boyfriend
the problem is hes like really prude
&& ik that he really wants 2 do stuff cuz he keeps telling me he does & stuff
& i only see him like once a week becuz he goes 2 another school but he like never makes a move
so what should i do?
should i like make the move or what?
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Maybe he's just nervous.
You're still really young (and I'm assuming your boyfriend is the same age or close to the same age).
He's probably never done anything before and he's nervous.
If you're really impatient, go ahead and make the move - I'm sure, if he's ready for that, he'll appreciate it.
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do guys like it wen girls shave?
and how do u shave?
and how much hair do you shave off?
im so confused (link)
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Wow.
Alright, well - no judgement here, but you sound a little too young to even worry if guys care about what's down there.
But if you really want to know, I suppose I cannot deny you information.
It depends on the guy. Some do, some don't, some don't care.
How do you shave it? Well... how else? Maybe you should use some kind of hair removal or wax if you don't understand how. That would probably be easier.
How much?
All of it.
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I love acting, drama, and getting the moods. I love placing myself in the position of a chracter. But I cannot remember my lines! I freeze, I switch words, I mispronounce, I totally screw up! What one earth is wrong with me and what are some ways besides just reading them more... That doesn't help. I've even tried learning them as song lyrics... that doesn't help. I'm so doomed! (link)
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Alright - memorization would be the exact reason why I don't do plays at my school.
But while I was in theatre, and actually taking it as a class for credit - I learned things that do kind of help.
Think about the most recent cd you've purchased.
Sure, maybe you knew a few of the songs on it - but what about the ones you didn't?
A few days/weeks later, you realize you know EVERY SINGLE word to EVERY SINGLE song.
How does that happen?
Listening to it over and over again, seeing it, hearing it.
My suggestion to you? Write your lines down. Take a pencil and some paper and just write them down. Hell, you can even type it if you want - but writing it down yourself is easier.
And don't just do it once! Do it over and over and over.
And pretty soon your lines will be just like those songs you didn't know before.
Hope I helped!
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Hey!
Happy Turkey Day!
I was wondering how you put uggs boots over jeans without it looking funny and binched up?
Is there any trick to it?
If someonbe could answer in the next cuople hrs. that would be awesome!!
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All I can suggest is tuck and pull.
But if your jeans are tighter around that area of your leg it might help.
If the jeans you're planning on wearing aren't already tight right there, try folding it over (kind of like a pleat) and pinning it in place. Undo the pins as you put the boot on. Hopefully that helps.
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well you know when you tie your hair and when you take it down its kind of bent? i really hate when this happens and i was wondering if there were any hair ties that don't make your hair bend. (and please don't say don't tie it tight because i don't) thank you! (link)
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It's gonna happen no matter what you do.
Unless you use scrunchies, in which case, the elastic is looser, but the hair tie itself is usually a lot bigger. There are some out there, that are woven, and it looks like they're loosely braided or crocheted - and the insides of it kind of look like string. They don't have any particular name, but those also work well too.
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it would be awesome to get like one of those really expensive flat irons for christmas, but my mom has no clue about that stuff. i have really short, curly hair, and my flatty doesn't do that good of a job. i need on of those where it would take me 10-20 minutes to straighten. any suggestions? (link)
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You want an expensive one?
CHI. IS. AMAZING.
And if your mom is going to buy it for you... definitely get a chi.
Get the skinny one.
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on Neopets, i always hear things about a lab ray and how it changes your pet's colour. But i don't know where to find said 'Lab Ray'. Can anyone help me out? (link)
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Wow, it's been ages since I did that business.
To my knowledge you can't FIND the lab ray.
You've got to collect all the pieces of the lab map.
And then the lab ray is yours to use.
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is there anyway to edit songs on itunes that are from limewire? i downloaded limewire yesterday so im totally new but ive had itunes for 2 years. well you kno how in the itunes menu it says "so & so's limewire tunes" or w/e and its its own folder? well ok first of all what format are they in? and if its not AAC can it be changed? and can you edit the song names and artist and stuff because whenever i click the get info thing everythings gray! (link)
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I have no idea how itunes works.
But limewire titles/artists can be changed. In your "library" screen - create a playlist by using the enqueue button. (Note: I probably spelled that wrong.) Save it, and open it your media player.
The songs should be editable from there.
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I would really like to lose 10 pounds, and everytime I try it doesnt last very long...Like i tried to make a plan and it lasted for only a day....everytime ive tried and failed...I just dont know how to stay with my diet...and it really doesnt help when i weigh more then my mom and she makes fun of me for it, and my whole family alwayz calls me a fatty, (in a jokingly way) but it really gets to me...cuz they never stop and its like they really believe it. My whole family is really skinny my mom is like almost annorexicly skinny and so is my sister..and so its just soo hard to measure up to them, and my mom alwayz is like stop eating that you'll get fat stop that, bla bla bla, does that sound like encouragement to u? but yeah so could anyone just please help me lose 10 pounds, I really wanna do this for myself, I need to feel good about me. I weigh 110, 5'5 and I knw you probly like oh shes just a whiner and sh it but seriously I'm not, I even have frikin stretch marks..its distgusting...I really wanna get back to the weight I was like 2 years ago...
but yeah could you maybe give me sum advice on how I can stay on trak and sum diet plans maybe? Also what to tell my mom when she says mean stuff like that
thnk u!!
ill def rate high if u really try and help me out! (link)
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Tell your mom that she needs to eat a freaking hamburger or something.
Maybe'll that'll shut her up.
Sorry - I just dislike people like that.
Well, first off - express to your family how you feel about their "fatty" jokes.
As for sticking to your plan? Tell your mom about your desire to lose weight. Maybe she'll help you stay on track.
If she doesn't - I suggest a food journal.
I know, it sounds cheesy. But give it a try.
Write down all the foods you eat for a week (normally, pre-diet) and then eliminate the items that aren't good for you. Replace them with items that ARE good for you. Replace any high sugar/high fat snacks with fruits or vegetables. Cut out all soda pop and drink water.
After you've planned your diet - write EVERYTHING you eat down. Write every excercise you do, the time, date, ect. down as well. Write down your starting weight, and your ending weight with each one. Even if it stays the same.
Not only will this keep you on track with your diet - it'll keep you occupied, so you won't forget about it.
BUT YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE FOOD/EXERCISE JOURNAL WITH YOU EVERYWHERE.
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I've been dating this guy for a month, we've gone on 3 dates, he's 2 years older than me. We're both gay and he's in the closet... I don't know whether or not I should ask him to be my boyfriend or wait for him to ask me... What should I do? His birthday is coming up and I was thinking we could have a candle lit dinner and then I'd ask him if he would like to be my boyfriend in a like proposal sort of way ^_^. He's going to be 19 and i'm 17. We both share roles so that it's not strictly dominant/non dominant. So... yeah any advice?? He's never been in a relationship before and i've been in two... Anymore questions just ask me! (link)
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Dude! Ask him out. I think your birthday idea is super cute. Go for it. There's no reason to wait, even if he is in the closet.
At least I can't come up with any particular reason not to.
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15/f. lately i've been getting really upset because i'm 15 and i've never had a boyfriend, or a first kiss. i get really embarrassed when people talk about their boyfriends and their first kiss. and i'm always afraid that someone will make fun of me because i'm prude and never had a boyfriend. i don't know if it is something about my personality that is scaring some guys away. don't say that i shouldn't change myself for a guy because i would never do that (meaning dress differently or style my hair different). but i mean my personality. i'm a VERY organized person (like everything has to be neat) and i take my grades very seriously. is that a turn off? because sometimes i can become controlling if we are doing a project or something. what is something that i can do to become less controlling in situations? also i don't think that i'm ugly. so what is wrong? i also can get nervous talking to guys. OMG i'm just getting really frustrated with myself.
so basically these are my questions:
1)what can i do when people ask me if i'm prude knowing that i am?
2)how can i become less controlling in group projects?
3)is it weird that i'm 15 and haven't had a boyfriend or a first kiss?
sorry its so long...but thanks! (link)
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1) Laugh at them. Or act like you're proud of it. I freaking am. Hah. My friends talk about that kind of stuff all the time, most of the time I'll cover my ears like I'm not listening and I usually end up getting a few laughs. Don't make a big deal out of it. Trust me, you aren't the only one.
2) SELF RESTRAINT. Despite what you might think is right for whatever group project you're in - ask other people for their opinion. Even if you don't want it.
3) Perfectly normal. I'm sixteen, close to seventeen, and I've never had either. I know plenty of people who haven't either. Boys and girls alike.
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OK, so I'm 15, F, Bi, and have a huge crush on a girl at my school who's a junior. She's also bi, or maybe gay, but anyways...i'm pretty shy around her but I want her to think that I'm not just a little freshmen.
please give me tips on how to flirt and stuff and let her know i like her.. (link)
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Just tell her.
My best friend is a lesbian, and she's constantly telling me that she wishes all the childish "will you go out with me, mark yes or no" crap would end.
This girl is a junior, right? So that means she's sixteen or seventeen. Right in me, and my best friend's age bracket.
Just be blunt.
What've you got to lose?
If she likes you, congrats.
If she doesn't - you get to be the lucky one who skips out on the wondering/waiting/wishing/hoping stage.
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ok, so i've been into rock lately, and i have a lot of rock songs right now, but i was wondering if there's any really really good rock songs that ya'll like. what i'm looking for the most are the songs that aren't all that famous, but are still "good quality". i'm mostly into punk, emo, alternative, and a little of gothic. i'm open to hearing everything. i would really love it if you can give me songs and their artists, if you can. (link)
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The Dresden Dolls.
I'm not classifying them as rock, exactly.
But definitely look into them.
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