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I have an urge to splatter paint and, well, I have an empty room in my house and here's the idea I have:
First, cover the floor with painter's tarp then, I want to cover the walls with either huge white paper (like from the big rolls of paper), but I don't know where to find the huge white rolls.
any ideas? (link)
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i have little sisters who use huge rolls of white paper for art projects and we just get it at any art store. do you have a michaels around where you live? if you do, or any other art store check that out, also places like walmart and target might have it.
also, i'm not sure exactly what you're doing, but what about cardboard? if you took big boxes, like refrigerator boxes, and cut them and put them together it would be as if you were putting in a real wall on top of the other one, that would be cool and you could spray paint them white before hand
goodluck, sounds like an awesome endeavor
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okay so theres this guy.. and i like him. i talk to him bacically every day, but sometimes we have awkward silences. i dont like them.
like i cant talk to a guy. you know? its really hard. like ill be talking to this guy and it will go like this
me-hey
him-hey
---awkward silence
him-did you do your math homework(okay he asks this question like every day, but its about different subjects)
me-oh crap! (i get out my book)
(i do my homework)
--awkward silence
me-did you win your game last night?
him-no
me-who'd you play
him-saint paper of pens(fake name..duh :])
me-aww..whens your next game?
him-next friday
--awkward silence
okay so thats how it goes. i dont think he likes me that much, but i really want him to..yeahh..heres how another conversation went::
[[okay im telling a really long story..and i just ended it]]
me-hhaha
him-haha i was counting the times you said "and i was like" and it was 52 times!
--awkward silence
so yeah thats my story
how do you talk to a guy?
hellppp meeee :] (link)
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ok well he might not like you, but if you really want to get to know him better and talk to him, i suggest questions that are more open ended, so that he won't just say yes or no and then the conversation is over, like "how'd the game go?" and follow it up with"how did you play?" instead of just did you win or something. ask other questions that you are honestly curious to ask him so that it seems more genuine and you can have an honest conversation, i hope this helps a little, just try it and if he isn't responding at all like he likes you then move on, it's not worth your time trying to get to know someone who doesn't put in effort to get to know you as well
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15/f
Hi, I LOVE to exercise but I can't seem to keep a flat stomach without being flat chested. When I am not exercising a lot and my stomach starts to get more fat on it, my boobs are only a 34 B. I'm fine with this, but when I exercise and get a flat stomach (which I like the look of) I am 34 A. There doesn't really seem to be a "happy medium."
In your opinion, which looks better? Decent sized boobs and slightly large stomach? Or smaller boobs and flat stomach? I am on the fence.
Thanks! =) (link)
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personally i'd go with flat stomach and less boobage, i'm 15/f too, i thnk that's the way to go, think of people like keira knightly and paris hilton (whom i personally hate) they are pretty flat but they are considered hot anyway. Also you can do pectoral exercises along with ab exercises, that will make your boobs a little bit bigger.
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does anyone know where I can get these shoes at?
http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?c=vendors&s=girls/Adidas&id=48747
i don't want to get them from a website. thanks (link)
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i'm sure any sort of sports store would have them because they are sneaker like, even if they aren't for running and stuff. go to finish line, lady footlocker, dick's, champs, whatever, the website says journeys, so is there a journey's store around where you live? that would be best.
sorry i can't help much since i don't know what stores are around you, just check out sports and shoe stores
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i'm bored with my music. i doubt any of you will know of any good music, but i'll ask anyways. these are the bands I currently listen to:
modest mouse
wolf parade
tv on the radio
devendra banhart
tokyo police club
babyshambles
the microphones
animal collective
beck (link)
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I like a few on your list so maybe you'd like some of the ones i would suggest, but this is my opinion so i'm sorry if you hate all of them:
Guster
Keane
Ben Kweller
The Dandy Warhols
The Raconteurs
The Subways
Rogue WAve
Rooney
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so im 16, 5foot7 and like 120 pounds. id like to tone up a bit soo pretty much jus runnin, dancin around lol, different crunches, and maybe weights, and some spot toning. the thing is im kinda slender built i guess and im only a 32 A. and im worried if i start workin out that'll be burned off and ill have nothing left and id like to be able to fill out clothes & bathing suits at least a little lol!! push up bras dont work so yeah is workin out gonna affect my size much? (link)
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you defnitely don't need to lose weight, so i suggest doing mostly weights rather than too much cardio. Also don't eat junkfood but eat lots of protein and healthy complex carbohydrates (like wheat bread, wheat pasta) that will help and if you do lots of weight, you might gain a little weight but it will be entirely muscle and you will look much more toned
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16/f. Dad and I go shopping, but we can't agree on pants... I like hip-huggers, he's offended by them... He likes wranglers, I hate the fit... Are there any pants that are fairly high-waisted, but don't have a funny wrinkle in the crotch when you sit down and are form-fitting (not tight) flares? (I'm about a 3 or 4 size). Any help is appreciated! (link)
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i'm the same size as you and I personally wear jeans from GUESS. They are a little expensive, but they fit very well without being too low
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Okay, this can get confusing. I'm 14/f and I have 3 gay guy friends. Let's call them Bob, Fred, and Joe. Bob and Fred are both in 9th grade with me and Joe is in 10th grade. Bob and I have been bff since ever. I met Fred and Joe at the end of last year and I'm good friends with both of them. Bob, I love that kid to death and i would never ditch him for another person.
Well, so my problem is that I stopped riding the bus inthe morning and had my dad drop me off in the morning. Then I found out that Joe gets there early too so I just hung out with him in the mornings. Well, there are these two girls, let's call them Tina and Kay? [I was really good friends with them last year but I hate them right now and I'm trying to pull away from them right now--long story] Well, one day Tina was like "Where' Bob?" --In the morning--And I went idk. And then she asks why I didn't know since we rode the same bus. And I told her "I'm not riding the bus anymore. My dad's dropping me off plus I get to talk to Joe"
Let me explain Joe and my situation. We're both in IB Prep and we're both going to be IB sutdents soon [yes, I know we're neerrdds] IB kids..it's like a cult and people out of IB can't be in the cult. Almost all the time anyway. So, Joe and I are usually really busy to tlak on the phone or IM, we don't have any classes together. And so we have on lunch and in the mornings to talk. So one reason I get there early is to talk to Joe and finish hw.
Well, Tina and Kay keeps on telling me "You switched gay guys on Bob!!" And making me look bad. But I really am not. I just want to talk with him like I would with any other people. Also they're saying that because I went to one party with Joe and his friends. ONE!!! They say that in front of Bob too. So I'm like wtf!! But I really am not. I love Bob to death and Joe can never replace Bob. And so one day I asked Kay "Give me 5 reasons and 5 people that says I'm switching gay guys." and she lists 4 people..including herself and Tina and some girl that has no relation to this "problem" and some other person.. And she never gave me the reason b/c I went off on how the other girl doesn't count because she doesn't know crap about this situation blah blah blah.
So my question is how t=do I get it through these girls' heads that I'm NOT switching gay guys? I mean they think that I can have only one gay friend and only the firends I had last year. They don't get that because I make new friends doesn't mean I'm going to ditch bob!! (link)
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the best way to make them shut up is to make your friendship with bob clear, just try to spend more time with him so that he and the other girls don't think ur being mean, that will solve your problems a lot more than talking wit these girls, they'll argue with whatever you say unless you show them that there is nothing to argue about
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there's this guy who works near me and he's really nice. Not that many people talk to him, but I think he's really nice. I like him, id like to be his freind at least. Ive heard he's leaving like in the next day or 2 so how can i get his attention within those 2 days? please help!!! (link)
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get him a nice little gift
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what can i do about my split ends?? like what kind of shampoos or anything ot make it straighter and healthier??? (link)
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once you have split ends, you can't get rid of them without cutting them off, so get a hair cut. after that, to prevent more split ends just use a moisturizing shampoo and conditioner or something that says it prevents breakage, be gentle with your hair and use a comb instead of a brush, especially after showers
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Pls help me. What should I do? Im inlove to a young girl,she is 9 years old????Im already 15 now?!! Is it bad? Im thinking im very stupid. I keep avoiding it but it hurts. What should I do pls?? Help help!!! (link)
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ok, well you can't help how you feel, however it is bad if you do anything. That girl is not old enough to be in a relationship with a fifteen year old, that would be very innapropriate. You need to start hanging around girls your own age, it will make this weird feeling go away. try to ignore it and stay away from the little girl until you know that your feelings are gone, otherwise you could do something that you'll regret.
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Okay. So, I have never actually purchased anything from iTunes. My boyfriend bought me a $25 iTunes Music Card today...
Do you have to spend all $25 at once?
Or can you just spend say $10 and the rest later?
Thanks. (link)
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when you to to the itunes store it'll have a button where it says "redeem gift cards" or something, click on it and follow the steps. on ur itunes it will have how much money is left in the top right corner, and everytime you buy something it goes down
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sorr if it a little long but HELP!
AHHHHH! Okay my sister got an iPod nano and we listen to the same music so she just wanted to hook hers up to my computer. Well the ipod nano needs the new version of itunes so i was like okay ill download it. So now i just did and now i cant open it! When i do something comes up and says 'QucikTime version 7.0.4 is installed, itunes requires QuciTime version 7.1.3 or later
please reinstall itunes.'
What should i do!? where can i download QucikTime, will it give me viruses? If i re install it will i have loose all my music!? (link)
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google quicktime download. it definitely won't give u viruses, it's free and it just helps itunes especially with movies and videos. download it, it won't make you lose ur music
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what are some songs about like friendship and love? and songs about like the beach or california thanks (link)
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well basically every song is about love, so that one is easy.
better together-jack johnson that's a good one cuz it's about love but is a nice song
anything by the beach boys is going to be perfect about the beach and california, they're old songs, but great ones.
we used to be friends- the dandy warhols
with a little help from my friends- the beatles that's a good friendship song
hope this is what you're looking for
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can someone help me divide when to drink 8 glasses of water throughout the day? it's pretty hard now since i have to go to school and i don't bring water to school because my class is crazy and would destroy it or have a water fight with it (link)
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when they say you need 8 glasses of water, that's only 64 ounces of water. You said you don't want to do this, but what i really suggest is just getting a nalgene and bringing it to class. It fits right into a backpack pocket and is INDESTRUCTABLE. that's what i do, because it's 32 ounces, so if i drink two of those throughout the day, i'm all set! it's easier than having this many and that many cups with each meal
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17/M
This is gonna sound really wierd, but my girlfriend of four years, has arranged for one of our mutual friends, a cute girl our age, to have a threesome this thursday...i dont know what i want to do... i mean, this IS kinda every guys fantasy, but i dont know if its RIGHT...you know? should i go ahead with it? i know my girlfriends not bi, and that shes probably doing it for me, but she seems so enthusiastic about it, and so does the other girl...and even if i go ahead with it, if the other girl is doing stuff to me, is it okay to show that i like it? would that make my girlfriend jealous? im just looking to try and enjoy this (i do WANT to do it) and not offend anybody i can...i love my girlfriend with all my heart, and shes the light of my life, i dont want to hurt her...ANYTHING you have to say will be helpfull...thanks...by the way im looking for girls opinions too... (link)
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well, your girlfriend could be bi or just curious, you can't just assume, but that doesn't have anything to do with how much she loves yo. I think you should have a serious conversation with her.
Tell her everything you just said, that she's the only one you want to be with. If she is doing this just because she thinks you'd like it, then she will be so happy to know that all you need is her. But there isn't much more you can do without finding out whats behind this decision of hers. If it turns out she's just in the mood to do something crazy and spontaneous then go along with it, don't hold back when ur with the other girl, just make sure you show your girlfriend as much or more attention.
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Is cracking my back safe?
By cracking I mean when you sit in
a chair and twist around. I picked up
the habit from kids at school and it really
makes my back feel better! However, the
horrendous cracking noises worry me. (link)
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it's ok to crack your back. if you go to a chiropractor they do the same thing. When it cracks it just means that your vertabrae are either adjusting into place or out of place, so if it feels better afterwards, it means it is better aligned. Don't worry about the weird noise and you can keep on cracking, but if you crack it and it feels worse instead of better, go to a chiropractor to be safe.
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Kay, so I got an iPod nano for xmas [a silver 4 GB one] and the first time i added my entire window's media player, everything worked fine and it was a breeze to put the songs on my iPod, but now that everynow and then I just put on one or two new ones that I've downloaded or gotten from different cds, I can't figure out how to put them on my nano.
help, please?
---killerface (link)
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ok well i suggest going to apple.com and downloading itunes. move all your music, then re import it into your ipod. In itunes settings set it to automatic so that every time you add more songs they will go immediately to your ipod. ask me if you have any more questions! i'm happy to help
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I'm 16/f
I just wanted to know what is up with my thigh?
When I look in the mirror or wear shorts or whatever, only thing I notice are my thighs...
When I look in the full length mirror, its so out of proportion to rest of my body.
I am not overweight nor skinny, I am around average weight but my thighs are really disgusting.
I just noticed stretch marks around them.
What can I do? What is wrong with it? Please help. (link)
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theres nothing wrong with your thigh! body fat just isn't always distributed evenly throughout your body, everybody has trouble spots. I suggest just cutting back on fat and calories, just a little, don't go overboard and exercises.
Do lots of squats and lunges, those really help, also search the web for hamstring exercises(back of the thigh muscle). running up stairs and jumping rope will help.
Also, about the stretch marks, those will go away overtime, but you can try some cream- just something from your local drugstore.
goodluck, and remember: no one else notices your thighs the way you do! everyone over obsess's about parts of their body, but other people don't honestly notice or care as much as you think they do.
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i am getting bored with websites.. is there anything else like advicenators myspace facebook or anything that has to do with keeping a teen girl entertained (link)
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ok seriously, what is wrong with people! internet is not the only form of entertainment, i'm sorry if you don't like this advice, but out culture is soooo pathetic! get off the computer once in a while, or you'll end up stupid, fat, and have no life! you have to get off the computer and live!
pick up a sport, a hobby, anything.
you may think this advice is stupid, but seriously, you're going to hit 30 and realize you wasted your whole child and teenagerhood on the computer, and it will ruin yourlife.
do it for yourself.
Please
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