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okay i am part of the club cali at hollister and i had a question with the stash points or whatever


okay so you can redeem those points for a $25 stash card. what is a stash card like a gift card? (link)
you go to hollisterco.com
and then at the bottom of the site
you find a place to click that says club cali
then you click there, sign in
and you are direct to this other part of the site
you can get your card there, or you can get other stuff


and yes, a stash card is like a gift card.

oh, p.s they are stopping club cali the first i believe.


ok im 14/f/eng
ma b-day is on the 28th of this month and ive got this low rise top to wear on the day the thing is i have terrible spots on my back which i need to try n get cleared up by then! so ive got 17 days and need to no some good products to use!

so...
if you can help me please please please answer! im so desperate im gettin really annoyed with them now!

i rate! (link)
http://www.origins.com/templates/products/sp_nonshaded.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY5808&PRODUCT_ID=PROD43
that works so good. its from Origins, im not sure if you have one of them in your mall.
you can also use oxy pads, those work great too



oh, if things dont clear all the way up you can always put a little of cover up on it


I keep breaking out around my face is there something that will work? I have tried almost everything. (link)
oxy pads work really good
also St. Ives appercot srub, and anything else by them work great too
those are the two things i use .

i used to break out horrible. but now that i use those (oxy 2 times a day, St. Ives once) i barely have to use make up!



I took my first school picture..
the eye doctor said that after getting my first glasses this summer my eyes might get a little light sensitive
they got REALLY light sensitive on picture day.
I ended up blinking in my school picture.
I freaked out, then took retakes.
They came back today.. eyes closed.
I already talked to the yearbook sponsor. She said that I can bring in a picture of me and they'll scan it into the yearbook.
But there will be a different background and stuff and it will be at the end of the yearbook.
I have this AMAzing picture of me and i want to put it in, but i'm not sure if people will laugh at me or anything or talk about it if it sticks out.
Should I have stick out or not have a picture in there at all?
I rate 5s for constructive answers. (link)
i would put the picture of have of you in there.
no one is going to laugh at you
every one will be jealous!


does anybody know any good lipgloss/chapstick/etc...brands or flavors that work well while kissing? I'm looking for something that is moist like chapstick, flavorful, and looks good...i'm actually more concerned with the moist and flavor thing..any ideas? thank you.
I RATE HIGH (link)
bath and boyworks would be a good place to look
they have this good stuff
http://www.bathandbodyworks.com/family/index.jsp?categoryId=2128726&cp=2073258.2079003
any of those work great
you can also get lip smackers those work really good

those are the two things i use, and the boys love them


Recently I got my haircoloured (5 days ago) I opted for permanent dye. I got it coloured black btw. However, everytime I wash my hair the colour comes out. I wash my hair each day, and don't think this can be right. Should the colour be coming out 5 days after I got it done? Am I doing something wrong? Should I head back to the salon?

Thanks. (link)
im not sure about 5 days, but it should wash out some at the begning.

maybe you can call up your hair salon and ask them
&hearts


How do I made a messy bun so it stays in place?
It always slip out after a cuouple of minutes..or directly if I run =/
Sometimes it ends up being a ponytail ;P
What am I doing wrong!? (link)
you wrap the ponytail holder around your ponty tail, and on the very last on dont pull your hair all the way through.
you can get theses different holders called stay put by goody .. they are really good for holding your hair up


Whot for hair style should I have when I swim and bathing??
Everything I ever had slides out! The bun fell out one time =/ ooh...sounds stupid, I know! But I hate those Bath Hat!! Never gonna use them ;P
So what can I do with my hair instead ? How do YOU put up your hair ? (link)
when i swim i just put it up in a ponty-tail
there are these ruber bands that i wear and they are called Stay put. but goody.
they stay in when you run around, or swim, or do any sports.


why do people like to follow fashion trends? (link)
im not sure of that my self.
i think its more of a safty thing.
people think "if i wear this, i will fit in. and no one will make fun of me"
but i think its stupid for people to follow the trends.
i make my own. ♥


hey!
where can i go (online since this is like a usa thing!) to get GREAT clothes? (link)
you can go anywhere.
here are some sites::
http://www.ae.com/web/index.jsp
(american eagle)
http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/homepage.html
(hollister)
http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/StoreCatalogDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10001&langId=-1
(pacsun)
http://www.forever21.com/Default.asp?cookie%5Ftest=1
(forever 21)
http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/lifestyles/html/homepage.html
(abercrombie and fitch)
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/
(urban outfitters)

that's just a few♥


A few days ago I broke my dominant arm. Therefore, it is hard to dress. I can hardly button my pants buttons and it is annoy and somewhat painful to dress and undress as a whole. So does anyone know any *specific* items of clothing that will make life easier for me? Websites would be good too. Also, any jean skirts that dont have buttons? Thanks. (link)
you said no sweat pants, but you can always try the tight ones.

boho pants are also really cute
here's just a link to show you some :
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=8467&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=10&iSubCat=594&iProductID=8467
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=9136&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=10&iSubCat=19&iProductID=9136

i dont think you're going to find skirts with out buttons.
the shirts that will be easiest for you will probably be tee shirts, short sleved. and just jackets.

im sure if you ask some one in your house to help button they'd be more then welcome to ♥


Okay
So basically I live in Arizona
and it's pretty warm here year-round
& a few of my friends have heated pools and they throw x-mas/newyears pool parties.
Problem is:
I kinda lost my bathing suit and I need a new one.
Anyone know where they sell juniors (xs,s) bathing suits?
online,in stores, I don't really care.
Websites are helpful =] (link)
american eagle sells them online. and they are really cute
you can also try department stores, they always have them

you are so lucky you live in arizona! and can go into bathingsuits now!! ♥


okay so there is this guy i REALLY like i mean even my friends know ilike him more than anyone i have liked before and he did like me but then all of a sudden he likes my best friend and i dont know how to get him to like me again what do i do?? (link)
i wrote my answer on your other question.


okay so as i said previously i REEALLY Like this guy and he likes my bff and now she tells me she likes him but they wont do anything because of me but idont know if i can trust that i mean they could secretly be going out and talk like crazy online and i wouldnt know i want to cry help me
(link)
well first off, you need to trust your friend. if she says she wouldnt date him, she wont date him.. or atleast shouldnt.

just flirt with him .. and try to get him to like you again.. you cant make any one like you though.

maybe you should let him know how you feel, that might turn him on knowing that he wont get rejected

good luck ♥


i go to a school mostly with white kids...you see, i'm asian and there's only like 5 of us. my school's not really diverse but i like it there. but there's something that's been kinda bothering me. you see, a lot of the kids there tell racist jokes about blacks, jews, asians...you name it. one kid even talks about lynching people of other races...this really bothers me. i've told the kids to stop but they don't do anything. i even think one of my teachers might be racist. she thinks i'm illiterate because i'm asian and even enrolled me in one of her classes to "teach" me about the superior race and language. i used to really love my school but lately all the racist crap is just really getting to me. should i just suck it up and tolerate it all until i'm done with school?
(link)
we'll that's just horrible, kids need to grow up.
if i were in your possition i would just stuck it up and stay there.. and show the kids that i am not some dumb person. and show them that i am the same as all other kids.

so i would say, stay there.. and stay strong.
but if you feel like your going to break, then i would say go some where else.
where ever you feel most comfortable in, and safe.

good luck, and dont listen to the racist jokes, people are just immature ♥


ok well long story short. me and my friend lets say her name is kim. We were really good friends in the beggining of the year and one day she came over for a sleepover and my mom goes how about u guys plan a christmas party. We were all excited and stuff. but as we got closer to the christmas party I feel like "kim" is planing everything without me. And I am scared to tell her or I have tryed and now we are in a big fight. I called her yesterday and said hey kim what did I do wrong and she started spazzing out at me and I started to cry and get all depressed. she says that I am stealing her friends which I am not. some of my friends are telling her lies about me, which kim belives. I want to be friend. and the christmas party is in a week. I have no clue what to do. We are both guilty for this fight. but she takes it all on me and says she did not do anything. and it makes me pretty low. She is talking about me behind my back. please help me. I am getting really deppressed and I am scared that I might do something. (link)
first off, just take a deap breath. and let out the air. you first need to relax. you said you talked to kim yesterday. dont call her or anything until .. Monday. that will give you both time think about everything.
It's really good that you know that you are both equally to blame for this fight, and she will come to realize this sooner or later. but dont go and point out all of her faults, because it will make her feel really low aswell.
you said that you and kim were really good friends, so you will get over this.. if you let your selfs.
when you talk to her just let her know that you are really sorry for all of the things that you've done. and as for the friend part just let her know that you really like her friends, because she's got good taste, and you wanted them to be your friends too. let her know how much she means to you, and how much you want to be friends again.
what you shouldn't say is that she is wrong, or not right. and that she is being stupid. because that will get her more mad.

time will heal this, you guys are just having some speed bumps in your friend ship and if you alowe your selfs you will get through them.

i wish you the best of luck ♥


i like this guy...... and he acts like he likes me but we're really good friends and i don't know if he acts that way with all his girls for friends or just me?? like he always sits with me and he gives me lotss of hugs and tickles me and when people piss me off he's always the first one to say something. i really like this guy a lot but if he's the same way with his other girl friends how can i tell?? (link)
you can always ask one of his friends or have one of your friends ask one of his friends.
or you can simpily ask him .. do you like me or who do you like


how do u make sweat pants look sexy? any advice *i rate 5 for any try that isnt just random* (link)
if you have the elastic things and the end, push them up so they are about mid-calf.
and then have them sitting on your hips, if not a little lower.
not to baggy.
i have done this with some one mine::
i paint splattered them.
they look really cute.
i have a bright pink pair (from victoria's secret) and i splattered green, yellow, and blue paint. and put hand prints on the butt.. guys loved it.
Victoria's Secret has some really cute ones.


hey how do you "make him want you"? like what kinds of things do you say or do? thankss! (link)
smile .. alot.
and ask about his life, but dont ask him so many questions that he just wants to slap you.
flirt a lot but make sure you are not doing all of the talking
act interested
and dont expect just to be his girlfriend, you have to be friends first.


HOW DO I GET RID OF DEPRESSION? I ve tried but I cant. Please give me some suggestions. Thankz bye. (link)
i would go to the doctors, and ask them about it.
its the safest way ♥




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