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I'm a mom of two, who has had her share of problems, and likes to help others with their own. I love helping people, and knowing that I can make a difference. I can't help with everything, but I'll always try to make people smile and just feel good about themselves. I've had more than my share of family drama and problems; what with my parents coming from two different and clashing cultures. I've also moved around a lot and had to deal with changing schools and all the trauma of making new friends and fitting in. I'm good with questions about friends, relationships (love, family..you name it), tough decisions, technology, and other weird random questions.
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Hi all I am 28 years old and I have a daughter who is going to be 9 this year and she has been asking me how babies get into the tummy and what pads are for and I am having truble getting the right way to say it...As I dont remember my mom talking to me about it...But I wont to be the one to tell her so she will be able to talk to me about anything....I was not comfertable talking to my mom and I wont my daughter to be able to talk to me.......if anyone could help me please do.thanks

Weeell, I was about your daughter's age when my mom told me. She basically just told me everything straight up, and she got me a book. (She read the book with me though) and I definitely think its better for her to hear it from you, just make sure you tell her she shouldn't tell other people about it. :D the second i learned everything i grabbed my book and took it for show-and-tell. not a great idea!

but yaa just be direct and honest, dont make things up, and theres the book store too. or you could always wait until she gets her first period which shouldnt be to far away.

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