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I asked for a camera for christmas, the sony cybershot 8.1 mp with the touch screen LCD and its only available online and i came to reason and yeah i really like it but i started to come to my senses that maybe 300 dollars is a lot for a camera right now. What cameras do yall have that you REALLY like and would recommend?
Thanks Guys =] (link)
its not new, but i think its a sony that you can put a floppy disk into so you can just save it onto there and if you want put it onto your computer.
Im sorry i dont know the name, but i hope you find the kind of camera you want!


I heard a song on the radio today and I really liked it, but I searched on Google and everything and I can't find what it is.

The singer sounds like Nickelback, but I guess it's not because I looked at all their lyrics and it doesn't have it.

The song says "Ayo" a lot, and it's somewhat up beat, but still rock.

Does anyone know what song I'm talking about? Thank you. (link)
im sorry i think it is nickelback. im not sure what its called but i THINK its by nickelback. hope you find it!


this one is for the shy ones...if you like a girl how do you show it...or do you hide it and not show anything... (link)
hug her or touch her arm lightly to hint to her that you like her. you dont have to show anything, but if you want a relatinship you have to show her or tell her you like her.


i've looked at pictures of people kissing and it seems like the girl is kissing the top part of his lip, not the bottom omg how do you kiss i know its suppose to come naturally but im so nervous cause i just got a boyfriend and were going on our first date and what happens when we lean in , i dont know what to do help pleasee! 15/f (link)
it does come naturally, dont be nervous, if you are comfortable around him it shouldnt matter. there is no certain way how to kiss, just ask him. i know you probably dont want to ask him, but bf's and gf's are supposed to be able to talk to each other. i can tell my bf anything! ANYTHING! He tells me everything, like when he's turned on, when he's mad at someone, anything that comes to his mind. We have been going out for a year, but we have always been able to talk. just ask him what he thinks about the whole kissing thing. me and my bf didnt kiss till 3 or 4 months into our relationship, french kissed 3 times, and barely ever hold hands. if you need to, wait, just tell him, but if your sure your ready, tell yourself you will do good, and you will!

i hope you are more comfortable, and that everything goes well, and remember if you mess up anything, just laugh it off!

hope i helped.
~Ali Renee~ 14/f


whats is stereotype? (link)
its what people think of someone, or a group of people. Like people say that the black people are criminals, or that gay people are bad. or how everyone says blondes are dumb. stuff like that. I hope I kind of helped you.


I have a song on my iTUNES that won't sync on my iPOD..But everything else is working fine..And it plays fine on it..It just won't show up on my iPOD? I know I still have some space. (link)
Ok so theres 2 things you can try. if it shows on ur ipod but wont play, delete it, wait a minute and try putting it bak on your ipod
or go to itunes library and right click, slect the button convert selection to AAC. and then put the one it makes onto your ipod..
hope that helps


who do u like (link)
i like my boyfriend.


Okay so i have a boyfriend. And he's so cute and funny and i like him soo much. He is sarcastically mean to people but he's joking all the time about things that he says and i don't think that people know that. Like i know that he's joking but everyone's like wow he's so mean but he's not! My friends always say he treats me like crap but he doesn't! I think its because i only told them when we used to get in fights..but we havn't gotten in a fight in a long time. My one friend has been spreading rumors about him and saying all this stuff and she wont stop no matter what i say. She's my best friend and i'm not sure if she's like trying to get us to break up cause she doesn't like him? It makes it so hard to want to hang out with my friends when i know they'll just bash on him. (link)
i kinda know what you mean. my friend sarah, used to like my bf, as a friend, but then after last christmas just got annoyed at him, and hated him.
if she doesnt like him and doesnt accept that you like him, you shouldnt be friends with her. or just talk when she's not around and make an agreement not to talk about him.
and dont care what other people think or say, they dont know how you feel towards him.
i hope i helped!


What is the best face wash to get rid of acne that isn't a set? Nothing like proactive...just a regular facewash I could get at a grocery store. (link)
one word. NOXEMA!


in like the 1800s did women get their periods?

if so, what did they use for a tampon/ pad??

i know this weird but im very curious.. (link)
they didnt have a period every month, but they did have one. it started as a monthly thing when there was birth control.

for tampons/pads, they used rags, and stayed out of society until it was over.


Okay. This is really gross, but it seems like my period blood is clotting. Its really gross, but I'm not sure if its something I should get checked out. I've had pretty bad cramps, and way more bleeding than usual. Is it possible that something's wrong? (link)
Well, I THINK it just does that, and i think its supposed to, and if not im in trouble :)
and some months you have worse cramps, and some you bleed more than usual. i think its just normal! but if you want to get it checked out, then you can.


My bf is 15 and weve been getting closer kissing and feeling each other and the other day while we were making out i noticed he had an erection and he gor really embarrassed he pulled away and cover it up i told him not to worry its normal
but he still gets embarrassed what can i do? (link)
Well you can tell him that you dont care, and to not be embarrassed. you are bf and gf. you need to trust each other.
Tell him how much you love him, and tell him, that you dont care if he gets an erection!


Well my english teacher is making me type an essay on why he should give me an A. you see i wrote it and i gave it to him and i used because i work hard, i try,and im here everyday.. he said that would benefit me adn not him so he said i have to re write it so that it will benefit him as well. I've been brainstorming for hours nowand i cant think of anything, can you help?

Please and thanks (link)
tell him that when you get an A you will go tell everyone else, and they will like him. if you get a bad grade, go tell your friends and they will hate him!


what do guys consider a good kisser? and what do they consider a bad one? and im talking about french kissing.. with tongue...

guys and girls can answer if they have any information. thank you!! (link)
Well im a girl. but i dont think it matters. It depends on the person. You just have to find the way you like it :)
Hope I helped!


hello i am a guy and i have dark blond/brownish hair and i was wondering if there is some kind of shampoo that will gradually make it blonder. I dont really care if it is girl shampoo--whatever works (: (link)
well to get it like...kinda to bring out the highlights (i know highlights is mostly a girl thing, but still)
you could use this suave stuff. i dont remember what its called, but still it brings out the highlights. Check your local dollar store or CVS, or Walgreens or whatever. also just ask your mom or dad. and if you kind of want to dye it, get a do-it-yourself hair dye kit. if you want it to be subtle just get something a few shades lighter, (and so you dont mess it uup, have your mom do it)
hope I helped.


I feel like I want to cry, and I don't know why..?


This was the best weekend ever, I spent friday and saturday with my boyfriend, and I just want to cry..


It was the bestest weekend ever


why do I feel like this? (link)
It is probably hormones, it depends on your age, but hormones afect a lot of people, and they change. so just cry as much as you need to. I hope u feel better


Okay im 11.Female.
I'm totally a tomboy and like hanging out with boys and not doing girly stuff.( it grosses me out).But some of the boys I really like so I just slap them and punch them sometimes.(Its really
fun). But I don't know how to tell them and I want to ask them out but my mom says im not aloud to have a bf till im 18!!!(its so unfair,my friend is 11 and she had like 5 bfs at 1 time and her parents didnt care).So the questions are, How do i tell the boys that I like them? What do I do If they don't like me and they told the whole school about it and scared me 4 life!(its happend be4)? and What do I do with like my mom and all?(how can i get a bf sort of)? (link)
well, i dont know about how to tell them. I mean you can like ask a friend to tell them, or just try to get enough courage, or if you dont want to ask face-to-face, call them, or Message them on your cell phone/internet, whichever you have.

i dont think they would tell the whole school, but im not sure, i dont know that person, but you shouldnt care what other people think. truely my bf is stupid sometimes, and everyone hates him, but i have been going out with him for more than a year!

I know what you mean with the parents issue. Try explaining it to your mom, dont tell your mom, or wait for her to find out (once you have one, they are better,)
I got a bf, didnt tell my parents, but when they found out, they were ok. now i was 13, and your 11, so im not sure, and i also dont know how your parents are. but i hope it kind of helps! Im sorry I cant help any more!!!


ok, yano when you shave your legs, how far are you suppose to shave? you dont shave past your knee do you? my mom alwys tells me not too. (link)
you can shave there. I do. its just what you want to do. if you have hair there then you can


I always have this one dream when something very important is going to happen to me. Whenever it happens it means something will happen, A death, A relationship, Anything life changing.It scares me because I know something is gonna happen and theres nothing I can do about it. Im in my moms old truck and its completely empty, its rolling toward the ocean, I look out the window and i see myself with the girl I love, usually it is flashbacks of my life, Im laying there with the girl i love and i wave to myself, the truck hits the ocean water and i drowned, then i wake up. Every time i have this dream i understand it more, it hasnt seemed like it was gonna end till now. I dont know what that means, am i gonna die or will i help myself from the sinking truck? (link)
Ok, Im not telling you to believe any of this b/c i dont know your beliefs/religion, but this is what it COULD be based on my beliefs. and PLEASE dont think im crazy if we dont agree on beliefs!!!

1. if you believe in reincarnation, it might be something that happened in a past life...like you died by drowning or a truck wreck or something like that.

2. some people believe that things like this are phycic (however you spell it), some people just have something that clicks when they know something is going to happen. You know, we only use like 10% of our brain, and i believe that sometimes certain people can tap into some more of theirs and have special kinds of abilities like that.

I seriously think you should tell someone that wont judge you or think your crazy (b/c that happened to me before, and that wasnt very good...) i suggest an adult person who can give you their insite into this.
I really hope i helped, and good luck!


My X-gf broke up with me and now I'm going out with her best friend cause my X said that she didnt care, but it turns out that my X still likes me, What do I do? (link)
well think, who do you like more? whoever you like, go out with them!




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