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Boyfriend/Friend Problem
Okay so i have a boyfriend. And he's so cute and funny and i like him soo much. He is sarcastically mean to people but he's joking all the time about things that he says and i don't think that people know that. Like i know that he's joking but everyone's like wow he's so mean but he's not! My friends always say he treats me like crap but he doesn't! I think its because i only told them when we used to get in fights..but we havn't gotten in a fight in a long time. My one friend has been spreading rumors about him and saying all this stuff and she wont stop no matter what i say. She's my best friend and i'm not sure if she's like trying to get us to break up cause she doesn't like him? It makes it so hard to want to hang out with my friends when i know they'll just bash on him.
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well first you should say something to your boyfriend about how he's jokes come across mean and hurtful rather then funny jokes. he doesnt have to stop joking around he just needs to know how people react to them and take peoples feelings into concideration.
just talk to him about it. As for your friend, people will do anything to get what they want and you never know how far they will go... your friend has no right to spread rumors about your boyfriend especially if there not true. i think you need to talk to her about it and tell her how its effecting you and how you feel about it.
i know she is in the wrong but try not to approach this in a mean way coz you dnt want to lose her.
tell her about all the nice things your bf does for you and how you dnt fight anymore. i think the problem is that she doesnt like him and once she knows how nice he is she will start to like him...soz its long but i hope i help. xxsally:)
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i kinda know what you mean. my friend sarah, used to like my bf, as a friend, but then after last christmas just got annoyed at him, and hated him.
if she doesnt like him and doesnt accept that you like him, you shouldnt be friends with her. or just talk when she's not around and make an agreement not to talk about him.
and dont care what other people think or say, they dont know how you feel towards him.
i hope i helped!
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