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My parents disapprove of a lot of my friends. One of them.. ok.. shes a slut.. and they know that.. and they think im gunna be like her (i sorta am.. but not NEARLY as bad.. shes been with like 15 guys.. me only 2) and another friend has been pregnant before (shes 16) and another friend Steals and gets high alot... (they only know about the stealing)
My parents dont know i've had sex.. and they dont know i've been high (AND THEY AINT GUNNA!)
Since I hang out with these people (nicest people i know).. they dont trust me to even be around them at skool.. how can i get my parents to trust me more? I havent done anything to lose their trust (that they know of)
Theyso wont let me stay the night with anyone.. even the people they trust.. how can i change this
DONT TELL ME QUIT DOIN THE STUFF I DO!! I DONT DO IT NOW! AND DONT TELL ME THAT THEY DO HAVE A REASON NOT TO TRUST ME CUZ I ALREADY KNOW THAT.. BUT THEY DONT KNOW MY LIFE.. SO THEY ACTUALLY DONT..
quit doing the stuff you do, and they do have a reason not to trust you.
thx, itz wat i tried to doo!
I have to do a project with this kid... and ever since... i think i like him... its weird because hes like that cool, funny guy but hes not my type?
Sincerely,
what should i do?!
I'm 13 and a female
dumb ?'s once again. give me a break.
ok well theres this guy that i like but hes 2 years younger than me and i wanna go out with him but he sees me only as a friend and he knows i wanna be more than. he just doesnt understand and i have talked 2 him about it. wut should i do??
wow. cool.
whats happenes wen ur hvin a panic attack?
u panic.
I am 13/f
I have a friend. We'll call her "N". Well N is very moody sometimes. And, yes, I do know about PMS but its everyday. It seems like shes nice to me on and off or when she wants to be. I don't know if she is using me or anything but she just sometimes have this attitude when I talk to her. She doesn't listen or look like she is. And thats one of my BIGGEST pet peeves. But then she talks to me about her day and everything. And I listen and set the example. I think my friend is personally full of herself in ways cuz she thinks she can have any guy she wants and can be conceeded at times. And then calls herself the ugliest thing or not that pretty. (and she is absolutly soooo pretty) It bothers me cause she brings me down. I can never talk to her about my problems. But I have to listen to her?
Please help me
What should I say or do? Because she is very nice but the thing I just typed above..I want to stay her friend.
xo0x :)
give her a lap dance.
13/f
Hi,
I am doing a play with a kiss scene. And the person that I happen to be kissing is my guy friend. So its really akward. I really try to make it non-akward after but somehow it just is. And I was going to do the "theatre illusion" of kissing someone but the drama teach says it looks to obvious (putting your thumbs over the person's mouth and kissing your thumbs). Is there any other way to make it illusion? so its not all akward. We already kissed for once and for real. Boy, I was mad. All my friends are like aw, you should go out with him. I mean for heaven's sake! It was a staged kiss!
Any adice?
Por Favor :)
xo0x Pucker Upp
no advice here.
now lori and alex are going out( if u readed my other questions you know that i like alex) well anyways alex is still flirting with me and omg he stares right into my eyes forever and i stare back and its like he can read my mind. our eyes justlock with each others. he is always hitting me like just playing around and i hit him back and lori gets all mad. anyways he treats lori like shit like if he doesn't care about her and he lies to her. but thats only when i'm there with them or near them. what does this mean?
i dunno, look it up!
ok, why is everyone always asking 'does he/she like me?' i mean, come on, only that person knows!
u can say that again!
People say I'm skinny, but I think I could lose weight. I'm 13/f, and weight 108 pounds. Is this a little overweight?
ha, i weigh 92!
Ok... so there is this guy, he is a senior. I am a freshman. He came over to my house this afternoon and at first we sat across the room from eachother and then he threw a pillow at me and the we got in a pillow fight and then my dad came downstairs and told me to behave so "adam" says yea sit down and behave and pointed to the seat next to him, so I say down, then he put his arm around me and we just flirted around for and hour. Do you think he likes me?
Thnkz
ask him loser.
okay so my boyfriend is turning 15 january 11th...im turning 15 decemeber 7th...im kinda already just THINKING of things to get him bc ive never had a serious bf lyke him and ive never got a guy a present...im kinda basing it on if he gets me a present then ill get him 1...but i reallie almost KNOW hes geting me one bc he gets me lil presents alot lyke when he went to vegas he got me a little keychain that sed my name...yannoe? just cute stuff like that but ii wanna get him something nice...hes a skater boii n he lykes H.I.M and BAM....ne ideas wat i coudl get him?
12 roses. 1 fake. tell him ur love for him will die when the last rose dies. my boyfriend gave it to me once, and after 1 1/5 years we r still together. HOW LOVERLY!
does anyone have good advice on getting over guys that you're only attracted to? there's this one guy i like, but it's only b/c i think he's gorgeous...and i don't wanna like him for that reason...i really don't think it's a good idea for me to like him at all....but just any suggestions about stopping being attracted to guys...(lol sorry its a little confusing :o/)
thanks!
get over them.
I have always had feelings for this guy, and we went out and it didn't work out last year. SO when we came back to school, I liked him even more. Just I don't think he likes me. my friends all say I have a chance, but I don't know what to do. I really want him to see in me, what he saw last year. Please do help me, so I can maybe rekindle our relationship.
Signed,
Looking for Answers
what? you want answers, that i cant give?
Hi can anyone help, I'm 26 yr old male and generally my complexion is ok, a few random minor zits but nothing terrible. However I have 2 reoccuring super spots. They flare up about every 2/3 months in exactly the same place (either side of my chin) and always both together. They start off as hard, sore, lumps under the skin and over a few days they become enflamed and red. Unlike other spots they don't eventually get a 'head' they just eventually die off, usually after 7 - 10 days. I wash with an antibacterial wash twice daily and use 'quinoderm' cream which is effective on most of my smaller spots.
Any ideas would be very gratefully received?
Thanks
happenes to everyone, and they are mega hard to get rid of! try neutrogena, HSN products and serious skin care products (last 2 are from tv)
good luck!
ok so i really want a thong badly, but i have alot of problems
1. what if you have your period
2. my mom wont let me she thinks im not old enough yet, but im almost in high school
3. my friends tease me about it how i am not
wearing one
4. i dont want to sneak a thong in my bedroom i would feel so guilty
what should i do
why do you want a piece of string up your ass? answer THAT first!
i am a big dork at my school im not fat im not ugly but i am just average. i want to get a boyfriend really badly and i dont no how cause i like this guy at my school and i dont no how to be 'cool' can someone teach me how or tell me
you dont need a boyfriend. you need a typing lesson.
alright, if it helps, im tara and im 14.
i've been cutting myself for some time now. always on my wrist and always in the same general area. whenever its a cold day i wear a jacket, and whenever its hot out i just wear bracelets. nobody has ever noticed or said anything. so last night i was laying in bed and i forgot to put on a jacket. my mom came in and saw my arm and said something like 'what's that?' .. i freaked out and pulled it away and said i was drawing.. and she asked why and i said i couldnt find any paper. she asked me if i wanted to talk about anything so i just yelled no and she left. i dont think she has even heard of people cutting themselves. so this morning i covered my wrist with coverup and a few braclets so that she'd think it really was drawings that had washed off. it was very akward and i tried to pretend nothing happened. all she said was 'is body art a new trend or something?' i dont know if she believes my excuse or not.. what do you guys think? and do you have any ideas of how i can cover these darn cuts up? mucho thanks in advance.
PS: oh and please dont tell me to stop cutting. im working on it, i promise. but its like cigarettes or drugs, you cant just stop. it takes time and effort.. =)
congratualtions tara who is 14. yu have just been rewarded the 'Oh Stupid One. I'm Soon Goin To Die From Cutting' award.
17f
okay i like this guy who im good friends with..i just started liking him this yr..this girl whos really good friensd with him told me that he liked me too but he said we are too good of ffriends and he doesnt wanna mess that up so hes not gunna do nething and try to get with me..the thing is, hes reallY INLOVE with this other girl who lives about an hour away..theyve loved eachother for like a yr and he tells me that he wants to marry her, etc..he flirts with me SOOO much though, like he'll tell me im his gf in a joking way and then hell be like just kidding ur my best friendddd..but he will like ALWAYS say that and put him arm around me..then ill be like haha u wish..we kid around like that n stuff...i wanna get OVER him though because there i have absolutely no chance with him bcause he still loves another girl..[they broke up awhile ago but still act like they are together]..we have 3 consecutive classes together and he always waits for me after class and we walk together to our next class, etc..we ALWAYS are partners in group assignments,etc..we are alwaysss together, talking, laughin, joking, etc..we trust eachother, etc..but i wanna get OVER HIM bcause i hate this feeling and the situation that i am like inlove with him when he doesnt realy have those feelings for me..but how am i suppose to just drop him? EVERY SINGLE DAY since the first day of single we have like a retuine..we meet up be4 our class, wait for eachother after class, laugh, joke, etc while walking to our next class, etc and it just keeps going..everyday..i dunno how to get over him if its like that when im always around him..i mean i cant just drop him..i dont wanna avoid him cause isnt that like messed up..i dunno if i should talk to him about it or what because i REALLY dont want him knowing how i feel so plzzz try and give me advice other than telling him how i feel...thanks so much and im sorry it was long..
i dont kno if he likes yu. dont ask these stupid ?'s. kno1 really knows exept, MAYBE that person!
haha, itz not like i actually READ these fucking long ?'s
my friend smokes. and shes 13. she knows i hate it but still does it anyway. and in front of me too! i reli want her to stop. she stoped for a little while n nows she starting! ive treid everything! i lectured her about ive told the pl seh gets them from to not giv her ne. but its not working! how can i convince her to stop. and dont sey let her live her life the way she wants!
thanks....
her problem not urz.
I like this guy, but people say he's getto, and idk if thats good/bad? What does getto mean? And should I stop liking this guy, because all my friends say so. They that he's ugly, and I just don't get it. He's totally not! What should I do?
who cares what anyone thinks. itz ur opinion.