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I really really like this guy, and he totally leads me on and he was all over me a few weeks go but he has a girlfriend but he totally flirts. it's so confusing. he always hints stuff out like he would like me but i hear so much i hear that he thinks im annoying cause i like him while he has a girlfriend but one of his bestfriends said its not true and he talks about me all the time and he likes me alot but see i dont know if that means that he likes me likes me or just likes me. and everytime he sees me in school he like talks to me or finds a way to say hi and he looks pretty much a lot..do you have any advice on how i can tell if he likes me or what i shoudld do..i am just so confused..help me, please

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Unless you want to be the "other girl" in his life you'd better not get to close. The question is how well do you know this guy? If he's looking at you while having a girlfriend then why do you want to be second choice? Why not date other guys and see if someone out there wants to make you their "only" choice?


Okay, this is really odd, and kinda random, but I had an idea the other day. When it's warm enough here to go outside and stay there coatless for hours on end without freezing, I want to grab my boyfriend and do a photoshoot type thing of him. I'm a good photographer, and I have such images and ideas in my head. The only catch is, he won't agree to it unless he can take shots of me...Of course, I'd say okay to this if he didn't want to take them of me nude. Lol.
Now, I hate to admit it, but I really do hate my body. I'm not very comfortable with it, and I don't want any memories of my body...lol. But I'm so utterly determined to get shots of him. I have ideas, and I want to stick with them. I want to see them happen. The thing with him, is he hates his body as much as I hate mine, and is convinced he's not photogenic.
What can I do to convince him to let me do the photoshoot? I just want ideas. I'd appreciate no "lap dance" or anything like that. I'm serious about this, and I'd like ideas as to how to get him to agree or (better yet) want to do this with me. (link)
First of all if you are not happy with yourself, how is your boyfriend going to trust you to be happy with himself. If you are comfortable being around him and with him then he sees you in a whole different light. The concern you have about your body makes him question his concerns about himself. Be happy for who you are and what you have with him because as soon as he sees that positve attitude it will rub off and you two can take as many pictures as you want and appreciate what you have with each other.

Okay, you are happy with your boyfriend and he is happy with you. Tell him this is something you really want to express your love for him. Let him know you are doing this for him as much as for you.


Needless to say, I'm the beast. I'm in love with this great girl (a whole long story) but she's absolutely beautiful. When I first met her, she was a loner as I was, and we connected intellectually. Now, she's a lot more popular, and is hanging out with people just as beautiful as her. She's kinda forgotten about me. I know that looks aren't everything but it is important. I'm trying to improve myself (6' 3" - was 280lbs (used to play football) and now down to 240 lbs.) I can keep losing weight but I have other defects that would require major surgery- I have a huge underbite which to fix they would have to break my upper and lower jaw to re-align it, which means taking bone out of my hip - side effects may include loss of sensation to my lips, tingling down my leg permanent- and not to mention a long time to heal). Also, I had a bad skin infection when I went abroad for a year which left my face scarred and pitted (another surgical procedure to maybe fix). So my question- how far would you go to be more acceptable to the person you love? Thanks for your help > (link)
Hey Phantom! Sometimes we question ourselves on how lucky we are to have that person in our lives. But we never see the answer to the question on how lucky they are as well. You know that you are a good person and have a big heart to love someone like this. You need to remind them on how lucky they are on that. If beauty ruled the relationship then that person who thiks their hot will be the lonliest person as time progresses. Don't lose sight of what's imporatnt here. The love you share breaks all boundaries and you will be both be beautiful to each other.


have been trying for 7 mths and still nothing need advice
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People go through this particualr struggle in life. I've learned it has brought them closer. Maybe trying diffrent positions in the bedroom could be one. If it's not working maybe consult a doctor for other alternatives to getting pregnant. If the love between you and your husband are there then the means necessary to have a child will happen. Hang in there and don't lose sight of the miracle that will happen for your life.


my boobs are always dry and itchy and there are black marks on them. why is that? and what should i do?
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You may be having an allergic reaction to the soap or anything else you use. You need to see a dermatologist so he or she can prescribe something and maybe recommend using a diffrent soap that is not so sensitive to your skin


If a guy doesn't bust during sex is that a bad thing? I mean we do it all the time and it usually turns out normal.. but the last time he said he was done but he never reached his climax. is it just that sometimes people want to, but they just can't? Or is he just tried of having sex with the same one person all the time? I love him alot and im scared that he's getting bored with me......? Please Help (link)
It's not that he is getting bored with you, it's just you need to try new things. Guys are the adventurous type who don't want routine....especially when it comes to sex. If you love him, coomunicate with him. Ask him what a fantasy of his may be. You never know, you might like it as well. Don't keep going through the motions. Experiment with it. He love you a whole lot more and realize how lucky he is.




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