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well last year (6th grade) i was asked out by one of my best guy friends and i said yes, but then the next day i told him that is was just to weird and i wanted to go back to being a bff, so that whole rest of the year i have not talk to him and the whole time of this year i have not been talking to him, i mean sometimes we talk on AIM, but its just so weird, and im not sure that i really want to be his friend again, one of my other guy friends told me that he still liked me... so i was really confused. so in all of my class that are with him, i get soooo shy, and i have not raised my hand once in that class and im not as social, i am always just soo hyper and entergetic and crazy around everyone else! i dont want to talk to him, but is there any advice on how to just be more in to the game, because i am getting really bad grades in that class because im to shy to raise my hand to ask about something that i dont get!so i need serious help and advice!
You gotta forget here's there. Just shut out all of your bad vibes or scardedness. Wen you tlka 2 him or hav contact you probably get all nervous rite? well then just tlak tlak tlak. evben more, Talk to him online so that if you ever tlka 2 ghim in person you wont be quite as nervouse. Tell him you like him as a freind and say that you herd he liekd you more. Then , just tell him no matter ehat you JUSt want to be freinds nothing more. Tell him youve missed bein frends- but nothin more. Be relly straightforwards and mabe he'll finnally get it. Hang out wiht your other frneds before and after the calass, so that once your up and tlkain alot and in da good move, at least you wont feel so shut down by da class. NO matter how much you dont feel like it you haveto raise your hand, even if you don't want to. Write a huge reminder note in ur binder that says"raise hand! or ull get BAD grade" mabe that will remind you this is your grade that's being ruined because your too shy about a guy you don't even like more then a freind. Also, study at home if your still having problems. YOu can read the notes you get, and try to make sense out of them, or even ask another freind fro help. GOOd luck!
okay i used to go out with this kid but i dumped him and then i went through this phase where i hated him but now i luv him agen and relize i hav the whole time but now hes got a new girlfriend but everynow and then he cums on line and leaves me messeges to my away like "i miss you" or sumthin and i rlly like him and i want him back so bad hes like all i ever think about but hes goin out wit sum else and she also happens to be my friend... and plez dont tell me to try not to think of him and jus get over him bcuz ive tried that... i luv him too much
Wow.... you realy are caut up on this guy. Well, if she's(hes gf) your freind you rly font wanna betray her and try to get him to like you not her. You alsom, deff. dont wanna compete with her in the way liek ":do you like me or her more' it'll make things a hole lot more ocmplecated and messed yup. What you should do is tlak to her about it, just tell her that you would never do anything to hurt her feelings, but you like her bf, say your not going to steal him, but just that she knows and that you can't help it. If shes a real frend she'll deffinaltely understand. Now aBOUT HIM, yOU should probably if he already has a clue jus say you still have feelings for him, but youll try to bend them into freindship. And your rite, in this situatuion it probably wudnt help to just not talk to him. But, talk to him as a freind, nothing more, and eventually, the more and more you realize he's moved on the more your feelings 4 him will cool down. Play things slow, and if ur feelings dont wear down, then mabe its time to take action and tell him full head on. He might get mad, but at least he knows. Also his 'i miss you messages" might mean somethign more then freinds ship, which means he's not being loyal to his girlfreinds. How would you feel if that were you his gf??? hes lying and in a way cheating... but not rly... just in a term a speech
gud luk!
Can you give me advice why I'm shy and how I can make it go away????
-Unhappy
Sometimes people just are just shu because they don't feel like they can compunicate, and are ant-shocial. Like me, I used to be reallly shy in tliek 3rd grade and 2nde. Now, I'm really not shy at all. I think it was that I finnally realized I'd havte to open up to people if i wanted to have fun and a good time. It's a totally natural thing to be shy, so don't sweat it. There are lots of sites you can also check out if you thnk it's not a naturakl thng. Ask you doctor if he thinks It's non-scoail and that you have a problem. There are alot of anti-depresents out there, but be aware of the risk and make sure to double check with health advisors, a odcotr, and parents first, and make sure that if the medicine isn't heklpin you don't take it anymore(i kno i rly duwatch 2 much tv)
gud luk!!
Im wayyyy too tall to be my age.... I don't like it at all.... I don't even do basketball!!!! The boys I like are way too short for me and it hurts my back when I try to kiss them!!! Is there anything I can do!!! Or to get shorter or stop growing??!!!!!!!!
Well no,I don;t really think there is anything you can do that's not drastic to change you height. And 4 da guys part- there's nothin wrong weith u @ all it's just the people you like. There are some fasions and certain kinds of pants/skirts that can hepl you look a little more short and not so tall and lasnky. check out seventeen, cosmo girl, ym, teen people etc. for them. Your probably just an eraly starter eith the groth thing, and as people start growing more and more yol feel alot less tall and more comfortable. If you are talll thougth you'll adapt to it and not feel so awkwaRD naturally. O and 2 help u wit da back- icy/hot really helps! gufd luck!
does anybody know if claire's or hot topic does belly button piercings? thx ahead of time!
No Claire's only pierces ears.. and i dont know about hot topic ive only been there once cause they have reallllllllly cute shoe laces ! :) but clairs sells all the earrings and u know
i'm 5'1 and i'm really short compared to my friends, its kinda embaressing since i use to be taller than most of them.. what can i do to grow taller? no pills or w/e
I dont think you should worry about it at all, but you can always wear high heels!!! And also, depending on your age you will probably grow some more, and catch up a little bit
hey u got it right IM EMILYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY. ya that carmel stuff was pretty darn funny.... it was like hard and wouldnt come out. wellllllll ill talk to you later
lol haha! we rocked at making sundaes tho!!
Hey lexybel and lisa,
Guess who I am.... In your school, and im one of your friends. Im not on your team. and i have a twin-
Hey-
hehe lol yah *EMILY* the twin part did give it away! Emily u rok - great freind!! (Caramel hahaha lol good times good times *Lisa*)
-L&L
i smell. i dont know why. i shower. i go tot the doctor. i clean myself. and i still smell. i wear pefume, but i still smell. i dont know what to do . i take showers twice even 3 times a day. help me please.
Hmmm.. here are some ideas:
*Use Deodorant, if you dont already.. maybe also use an especially strong one or something
*Get a good smeling lotion that you can use. and perfume too
*Brush your teeth ATLEAST 2x a day more is defintealy better and carry mints with you.
*Make sure your clothes smell good, choose a good detergent and fabric softener.
*Have sweet smelling shampoo/conditioner and any other hair products - maybe fruity or whatever smell you like.
*Also, make sure the soap you are using is good smelling, and maybe get a stronger one.
I'm sad because im going to die in 1 week. the doctor told me 1 year ago. What should I do for the last moments of my life?
Omg, that is so sad.. :( :(
..But to answer your question here are some ideas: spend tons of time with your family & freinds & pets, go see a movie, eat out at fancy resturaunts, go shopping, read a good book, do something you've always wanted to do that you never had the guts to, play your favorite sport, try something new..but most importantly, do something that will make you happy and that you will enjoy every second of..!
.. Hope i helped a little..
I have a lot to sayyyyyyyyy.....THis is a very personal question.... i dont know how to shave my legs can you please help me???
-hairy legs
First of all before you start shaving you should make sure you have womesn shaving gel and if needed moisterizor/lotion. For some people, even soap is okay but for others with sensative skin it's better to use a thicker gel. All you do is rub the gel over your legs. Then with a shaver just drag it not too much pressure over your legs. once your done rise the gel off. If your legs are pink/red or feel irrutated or dry just rub alittle lotion on them to sooth. the first time you do this, you might have a couple of cuts from where the razor shifter or you aplioed 2 much presure. Once you get used to it, youll get better and better. Just make sure you don't rush, the more time you take the better theyll look.
i just got my hair permed 2day and i was wonderin if i can get it wet and just not wash it??? thanks
Well i personaly have never gotten a perm, but NO i wouldnt get it wet at all cuz i think it messes up ur hair or sumtin. (lik in legally blonde in the court thingy! lol) just wiat however many hours they say.
ok theres this guy- and i *used* to like him a whoooole lot.. we went out for a while but he turned all shallow and went dumped me for this girl who was my bff a couple years ago (however i was already in a fight with her so this just pissed me off even more) then he dumped her for this other girl i dont kno and then he dumped her and now he likes this girl.. ( this all happened in like a month ) and so im friends with the guy and stuff but i kinda still like him even tho he can be a COMPLETE IDIOT and like whenever im around him he gets all * go away * but his friends are totally nice to me (they rock) what should i do about my feelings for this guy?
wow he really does sound like a jerk.. major. well you already realize hes a BIG jerk, and once you start liking him again, and he even likes you, that its not really going to last along time. But you never know he could change. First of all, If no matter what you know you still like him and that the feeling isnt going to go away anytime soon, you have to go to the point where at least he's not telling you to go away or to leav him alone. Re-gain his freindship and trust. You could do this by hanging out with his freinds and him. If his freinds are nice to you, then they probably wouldn't back him up with his taughntingness. The more you hang out with him the more he'll realize how cool you are. (jus remembr not to forget your other frends 2 back you up if u fall) after your frends(if it happens) take it a little farther and tell him you like him/. good if he liks you if he dont then shrugg it off your feelings will eventually go away. However, if none of these steps work, then just try not to think about him, hang out with you other frends , and focus on you not a guy that shouldnt be worth your thoughts.
Good luck!!!!
i like pie. strawberry, apple, blueberry, but i can't decide wut to make. they are all so yummy and i like pies. help me out plz
umm blueberries- i read in a magazine ther da best fruit 4 u + rly healthy
gud luk!
hey! i am having A LOT of problems...ok..a boy asked me to the dance and i said yes and i asked him if he slow dances, and he said yes, and i dont like slow dancing so he asked me if he can dance with other girls. I am really stupid cuz i said yes! then when we got to the dance we talked 4 a while and whenever a slow dance came on he would walk over to this girl I really hate and he liked her once, and me and my friend(boy) were like WHAT THE CRAP LOL, and um..he went over to him and was like she wants to talk to u, and he came over and like disrespected me soooooo much, and when the dance was over we went outside to wait 4 our parents, THEY HUGGED, and me and him NEVER hugged yet and hes my fukin bf! and THEN when me and my friend, we were still watching them and then when SHE left she kissed him on the cheek and i go over slap my bf and told that "girl" off...and now me and my bf r sorta mad at eachother and he wont regret ANYTHING about them kissing and he acted like NOTHING happened and he is MY bf...what should i do?
~signed: uNfAbUloUs~~ LOL
Wow, thats pretty complicated, but anyways, I guess you need to decide whether or not you should stay with him or say GOODBYE! You need to ask yourself if you really want a boyfriend who will let other girls just kiss him and then he wont even apoligize to you, AND disrespect you when you try to talk to him and also the fact if you really like him or not. You guyz need to forget the fact that your both really pissed at each other or whatever and talk it out, because if you guys just keep silent nothings gonna happen and then your relationship will really suffer. Also, when you talk to him, stay calm and dont yell or anything (even if you really want to) cause then he might just get really mad and not talk to you at all. I hope this helps a little, and that everything turns out OK. good luck and let me know what happens.
Dear lexybelNlisa,
I'm very sad because I have this really close friend and we're hanging out with these 4 girls now instead of us 2. My really close friend has been excluding me and making me feel left out and sad. I know she doesn't mean to.... What should I tell her????
- Sad
Tell her straight up. Jus do it in a way that won't get her mad at you though. Just be liek " hey......(name) we rly needa talk. Do it somewhere that not alot of people are near, including the 'new frends' You approch her simply and just sya that youve been feeling liek she's been discluding you ever scince you 4 strtni hning out. Maybe, once youve told her, she'll start to realize, and if she dowsn't , mabe she's not as good of a frend as you thought u were. MAbe its tiem 2 giv ur frendship a frest
gud luk!
My dad owns his own business and he runs it from our home. It creates tons of stress for my mom and sister and me. My parents have talked about it and of course I think they're fighting and stuff but my mom insists they're discussing my dad's business. My mom says that they think the best way to get rid of the stress created by the business is to move away and sell the business. They know where they want us to live and everything. It's freaking me out because I don't want to leave my friends. The thought of being in a new school with a bunch of kids I don't know seems scary to me. Any advice on how to cope?
Im sorry youre going through this, but you never know, in fact it could really help you as a person. After all moving is a whole new adventure, and you meet more people, learn more things, go to different places. You nevr know, you might end up licking the other place more then you do here. However, if you still don't want to go, you could just plain old tl 2 your pasrents, tell them that you reaslly love it here, and you never know, they could end up agreeing to staying. maybe, even you could make arrangements to mabay live with you family(aunts, uncle etc) for a while if anylive around here, then onnce you've thought it over move bakc in with the rent'sYou could always stay contacted with your frends through im, email, postcards, phone, cell phone, and letters. Whatever you decide, I hope you cum outof it happy weith da decision you made!!!
Hey.. i just wanted to add somehting to wat lexybel sed. my old bff moved when she was going into 6th grd, it was rly hard to b/c she ddint want to leave her frends lik u, but evrything turned out ok, she has many friends, and she still keeps in touch with her old ones. friendships last forever and so will the ones you have here - just keep in touch. also just think if ur family has less stress itll be more enjoyable for everyone, and u will probly be able to spend more time together and relax mroe. whatever happens, i hope it turns out good. -lisa
I really wanna ask this girl out, should i or should i not?
Well it depends on how you really feel about her, it seems like you like her, but at the same time if your asking me it also seems like you have doubts. Basically, the main thing is that the worst thing she could say is "No" but yet she could also say "Yes". I think you should figure out how you really feel and do what you feel is best. Good luck.
My graedes hafe gon down alott. wat shuld I do?
Well for one, you need to really dedicate your time now to studying and doing your homework well instead of IM'ing or whatever you usually do a lot. Also, depending on how bad your grades are you may want to consider getting a tutor. Some schools have peer tutoring programs so if yours does you may want to sign up for a tutor, otherwise you should get a proffessional one if you really need the help (or even just ask a *smart* friend). Finally, stay organized, for some reason being messy can really effect your grades like if your binders all messed up you can lose a paper or something. But i hope i helped and that you do better, grades can be really important.
Hey i have really dry skin, but I never know wat products to use, have any suggestions?
Aveeno Moisterizer, or any other moisturizing product. Also some facial masks that exfoliate your skin and clean your pores may moisturize too, so you may want to look for that in stores. One facial mask that is really cool is the Biore Self Heating Facial Mask!