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Question Posted Thursday January 6 2005, 9:58 pm

okay i used to go out with this kid but i dumped him and then i went through this phase where i hated him but now i luv him agen and relize i hav the whole time but now hes got a new girlfriend but everynow and then he cums on line and leaves me messeges to my away like "i miss you" or sumthin and i rlly like him and i want him back so bad hes like all i ever think about but hes goin out wit sum else and she also happens to be my friend... and plez dont tell me to try not to think of him and jus get over him bcuz ive tried that... i luv him too much

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LexybelNLisa answered Friday January 7 2005, 9:55 pm:
Wow.... you realy are caut up on this guy. Well, if she's(hes gf) your freind you rly font wanna betray her and try to get him to like you not her. You alsom, deff. dont wanna compete with her in the way liek ":do you like me or her more' it'll make things a hole lot more ocmplecated and messed yup. What you should do is tlak to her about it, just tell her that you would never do anything to hurt her feelings, but you like her bf, say your not going to steal him, but just that she knows and that you can't help it. If shes a real frend she'll deffinaltely understand. Now aBOUT HIM, yOU should probably if he already has a clue jus say you still have feelings for him, but youll try to bend them into freindship. And your rite, in this situatuion it probably wudnt help to just not talk to him. But, talk to him as a freind, nothing more, and eventually, the more and more you realize he's moved on the more your feelings 4 him will cool down. Play things slow, and if ur feelings dont wear down, then mabe its time to take action and tell him full head on. He might get mad, but at least he knows. Also his 'i miss you messages" might mean somethign more then freinds ship, which means he's not being loyal to his girlfreinds. How would you feel if that were you his gf??? hes lying and in a way cheating... but not rly... just in a term a speech


gud luk!

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