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I'm looking for a song about a guy and a girl who live a long distance apart and love each other so much and she misses him like crazy even though he's only been gone a little while. It would also be perfect if the song was about them loving each other but neither of them has said it yet, like they aren;t actually together, but they have strong feelings for each other. And she just wants to tell him.

I'd really really appreciate anyone who can help me. Thanks s0o0o0o0o much to anyone who can.

xx

nickelback- Far away

Incubus-wish you were here

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I am 16 years old female, and I wondering how severe is an ovarian cyst, and other information about it:

1)How severe is it or how severe can it possibly get (I heard it somewhat depends by age group)?
2)How do they detect it (A gyno), and how do they remove it?
3)Is the non-cancerous cysts potentially fatal or can cause illness?
4)What are the common symptoms of having one? How can you tell if you have it?
5)How long can you possibly go untreated?

I am asking these questions because I think I may have a cyst. I haven't had my period in nearly a year, so I am concerned, as well as my family and friends. I know it may be for other reasons but ever since I heard this may be the reason, I got pretty worried. So please give me very thorough answers. And links are OK with me, too, as long as they answer my questions.

Thanks for your time!

okay...i had surgery on my ovaries because of a cyst.

1- if you don't take out the cyst you can have cancer

2- well, they detected mine from a MRI and cat scan. what they did was put me in a hospital room with this big thing with a circle and they injected a needle in my arm to make me feel warm. before that, they had me drink this smoothie thing. it was NASTY! and i also had an ultrasound because my doctor thought i had a baby! even though i told him i didn't do it!

3- well, you dont know, until after the surgery.

4- common symptoms are when you feel pain near your ovaries. you can tell if you have one by feeling your belly. if you feel something hard. your most likely to have a cyst.

5- well, it depends. if you leave the cyst in there too long it will start to twist and you will feel pain.

if you have any more questions just e-mail me! i went through this at the age of 11. its really nothing


you can find my e-mail on my column.

dont get worried, you'll be fine.

all i have is 3 small scars on my belly button, and on two other sides.

they will probaly only have to remove one ovary. the good news about that is YOU CAN STIL HAVE CHILDREN...if you want

hoped i helped and please e-mail me if you have any more questions!

♥ Flaggal

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hey ;;
ima 13 // f
and im in love with this guy .
he nos that i like him
but he doesnt no how strongly i feel
and he doesnt even care that i do
he makes it rilly awkward but we used to be friend before i told him
and recently i told him that i didnt like him, and now its even more awkward and we rarely talk .
hes been ruining my life and i fell so hard for him .
ive been cutting my wrists and my friends have been very supportive .
but i just dont kno waht to do .
because i love him, but i dont want to scare him off or anything, so please help ?

sorry if its long i didnt mean for it i just tried to explain as well as i could
please leave advice :]

well if this guy is 13 like you then he has to be scared.

teens including me tend to fall in love 'easily' and its not a problem but sometimes it gets out of hand.

its not a good idea to cut yourself because of 'a guy'

and yes you may be in love with him

but IF he's not in love with you,


its his mistake.

that is what you call a big jerk.


ask him 'do you love me because i need to get on with my life if you don't'

tell him how you feel and a 13 year old shouldn't feel this way.

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I'm going to a "freedom" themed party on friday, as its the end of our exams, and i need a costume idea - any suggestions? The theme is pretty "free", haha, any interpretation would be fine!
Thankyou!

how bout dresssing up as:

lady liberty

a flag

a patriots fan

the presedent

a immigrant


hoped i helped
♥ Flaggal

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How come people write double 'and' symbols? And why? example: peaches && cream. What's with the '&&' ??

thanks. I know this must sound stupid!

some people like to do that...personaly...i think its stupid but i have a habit of doing taht on AIM

people think its funny and cute but its SO annoying


man! i gotta stop doing && on AIM!

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when people write 'yew' is that like 'you' or is it like 'yoooohooooo!!'

sorry, but whats it mean?

on AIM or the internet it means you

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I love singing. But i have a shyness of singing in front of people. I have before and people were shocked. I think im really talented at singing but it just the shyness that is a problem. How do i get over something like that?

i had the same fear.

its hard to get over but this is what i did:

1- i sang aloud in the car, no matter WHO was in there.

2- my friends came over and i had a 'talent show'

3- i let the most unlikely person hear me sing.

4- i recorded myself

5- i had another 'talent show' with my friends when they give me dirty looks ~for me to have confidence~


6- i practiced like CRAZY

7- pretend your singing to....someone special


8- HAVE FUN!


i hope i helped
♥ Flaggal

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how come there are some people that have everything? like theres this girl that used to be in my class.. shes practically perfect. she was blessed with really good looks (she was like one of the first people to start wearing make up and unlike most people, she looks really good in it), amazing hair (always a different hairstyle everyday, too!), and... jesus.. you like never see her wear the same outfit twice! and every outfit looks sooo trendy and cute. she has soo many accessories and etc.. she also has a ton of friends, and an older sister. she's also an amazing soccer and basketball player, and even though she doesnt get the best grades (shes in low literacy, too) shes pretty nice to everyone, so its hard to hate her! but i swear, I bet everyone is jealous, lol. I used to think that she lives in an apartment, but it turns out she lives in one of the gigantic mansions in my area! and her parents are still together and have alot of money (obviously). everything seems so perfect! and she doesnt get upset alot, but once in 6th grade she was like really upset that like.. gum got on her $40 dollar bra from victorias secret. omg.. who buys a bra for 40 dollars I ask you!?!?!? how is this possible! she also gets alot of her stuff from hollister, which isnt even in our nearby mall.. so she must go to those other real expensive malls where she gets all her glam stuff. jeez... some people have all the luck! me and my friend were talking about her.. i knew her last year, and she was nice and has a good personality, (though sometimes she can seem too overconfident.. if you know what I mean) but you couldnt help to be jealous! now when i look at my life.. my family is not all that rich, but we're not poor either. my dad is starting a company which probably will be big if it works out (hes still setting it up) but like.. I dunno. then i'd have to leave all my friends here.. and that would suck because its not the same when you meet new people and you havent known them since kindergarten.. or like it may, but its better to grow up with people... if you get what i mean. anyway, i'll probably wear an outfit and then mix it up a little the next week.. but basically still wear the same thing. i only have 1 pair of jeans that actually looks good (from american eagle) and well.. yeah. i cant really follow trends because now my parents arent all that rich. heck i couldnt even have a 13th bday party and i have to pay for me and my friends to see a movie instead. (I'm 13 today and my "movie party" is next week). I'm pretty, but my mom wont let me get make up.. i dont even have enough money to get my own make up, nor do i know how to apply it. i'm kinda shy unless you get to know me, and well i do good in schools, and i like to play soccer, basketball, and dance, but I'm not like an amazing athlete like that girl im talking about was. like i didnt make the soccer team (im in 7th grade) and she made the team, and its the A team! most of the A team is 8th graders, and most of the B team is 7th graders. wow.. just wow. she even gets to play soccer otherwise in a different county than ours like 30-40 mins away.. and its travel soccer! i only get to do rec.. and i've only played in 3 seasons. i wish i started soccer earlier.. basketball too, but im better at basketball than soccer. ugh.. i just.. dont know. i guess like.. everyone has something special about them.. im not saying that i dont like myself.. I think I'm a great person and all, but like.. its just kinda unfair that this girl has like everything! i dont even have an ipod, cellphone, etc. I have like.. gameboy color, and a gamecube, opposed to nintendo DS and playstation 3. and.. like etc. i know this was ridicuosly long, but its been in my head. i dunno if i just like have no self confidence.. sometimes i dont, but usually i do... well it depends if im in a good mood or not. or maybe its because im wacko, which some of y'all may say. or maybe im just a green jealousy-person. ugh.. well.. yeah thats pretty much it.

also, what do you think it takes to be popular? i dunno what i am.. i dont know anybody that hates, me and i have friends and junk (no boyfriend, too). i dont deliberately try to be mean to people, if i am, im probably just joking around, unless i really mean it, but thats rare. i wont be like "your such a bitch, amanda!" since i'm like a positive person and think everyone has a good thing about them (I know.. kinda retarded way of thinking. like theres this loser guy in my class and even though hes made fun of me before (it was really retarded, and this guy i liked stuck up for me, though i dont care what the loser guy says

umm... to tell u the truth i didn't read this all but just be yourself and dont strive to be perfect. it makes you...less [perfect. be yourself


-tat was corny-

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how come some people like me for instances get a whole bunch of acne and some dont EVER get pimples. I take good care of my skin and dont see why I always break out and some people can not wash there face and will not get one pimple!

its all genetics. like mah family has CRAZY acne on mah mom's side but on mah dad's side, nobody has acne. acne is kinda like a "diesiese." a lot of people get it. some people don't get it but most people do.


if you want to "try" and get rid of your acne, tell a dermataligist

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There is a boy at my school who i seroiusly adore, and sometimes he flirts with me, but other times he just blows me off. Hes my friend, but we never get in any 'friend talks' just flirting. Is he into me? Is he playing hard-to-get? I need love advice!

i've been there. LOTS OF TIMES! you really never know until it happens. -confusing ehh- talk to him more and more and just say

*hey ur kinda cute*

or just give him a cute nodd

ask him -in a nice way- why do you blow me off?

♥ Flaggal

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I am a 16 year old female with a 17 year old boyfriend. I drive, he doesn't. We live about 30 minutes from each other.

My boyfriend gets upset with me because I don't want to hang out every opportunity we have. It's very difficult for us to hang out. I can drive BUT my parents won't allow me to drive him anywhere or go to his house.

When he comes over to my house, my parents usually let him stay no later than 9:00 and my parents drive him home. I live about 45 minutes away from the movie theater (this is really the only teenage hangout spot around here). It really wears me out to go to the movies even for a few hours. I'm really one who doesn't like to hang out with friends. I'm tend to be a homebody.

We got into this big argument over how I never WANT to do anything. I will hang out with him even though I don't really want to because I get worn out easily. We see each other every day at school.

So, any ideas on what to tell him?

you can say:

*hun, listen, i want to spend time with you but its sooo hard because of my homework and my strict parents*

*don't say that! you know i would spend every waking moment with you but its just that, i'm SO tired. when i get home, i just wanna sleep in my bed for a little, i'll promise we can spend more time together*

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Okay, for myspace really want a cute name. like my friend has hers as Ma-di-suhn™ but I can't think of anything cute for the name Brianna any help?

Bria
anna
Bri
bri-an-uh

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it's my mom's birthday in the morning, so this is kinda urgent...
I've found an old photo of my mom from when she was just a toddler and printed it out and made a card out of it. I'm putting $50 in the card for her but inside looks a bit plain. I've jazzed it up with some coloured paper but I'd love to include maybe a poem or something on the blank side of the card. I really need something tonight..like in the next few hours before i go to bed. So does anyone have any good ideas or even know any websites maybe?

thank you SOOOOOO much to those who can help me out. Meanwhile, I'll keep googling! :]

xx

http://www.poemsforfree.com/mothpo.html
http://www.indianchild.com/mother1.htm
http://www.mothers.net/motherspoems.htm
http://www.donnasholidaysentiments.com/dearmom.html
http://www.poemhunter.com/poems/mom/

i got these from typing mom poems @ www.google.com


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Gr every time i log into myspace on my phone it logs me out when i click on something any suggestions?

i think you should go to myspace support or tell wherever you got the computer, customer service

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where can i find more of these?

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b232/paige712/hahaha.jpg


Thanks so much

http://images.search.yahoo.com/search/images?p=pon%20and%20zi&fr=yfp-t-501&toggle=1&ei=UTF-8&fr2=tab-web

http://images.google.com/images?client=firefox-a&channel=s&rls=org.mozilla%3Aen-US%3Aofficial&hl=en&q=pon+and+zi&btnG=Search+Images

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Will my iPod Nano 2nd generation play music videos bought from itunes?

nope

iPod nano can oly put podcast and photos, songs, adn contacts


HOPED I HELPED

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how do you become a moderator?

Hey. Well, you have to have THESE qualifactions in order to be a moderator.

You've been rated five times
Your average rating is at least 4
You joined one month ago
If you've ever been banned, it was at least six weeks ago
You've updated your column in the last week

click this link to become 1:
http://www.advicenators.com/mod.php?mode=makeme

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well i've noticed a few people around my school with these gorgeous deep blue/green/teal color eyes. once i ask them about it, they say it's certain contacts they use that have a tint in them. i think they're eyes are like absoluely beautiful and i was wondering would it be safe for me if i started using contacts to get the same affect. i have 20/20 eye sight and i don't want to mess it up! Right now, i have bllack eyes, but i really want them to stand out! what color should i get if i get one? I was wondering if it would be safe to wear contacts the whole day, everyday, but only for visual affects (nothing that helps eye sight). also, whats your opinion on this? do you think this looks cheap and fake? i also had eye infection before because i was wearing too much eyeliner i think or because i waas sharing my eye maekup . do you think its still poossible for me to be ABLE to wear those fresh look contacts? thank you for your advice!

tell your doctor or eye doctor. he/she might know the answer.


to me it doesn't seem cheap or fake. why dont you ask some of your friends since i've never seen you --never mind with contacts--

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Ok, i REALLY REALLY like this guy, like i LOVE him, and he knows it but he just wants to b freinds, and he said he mite go out one day. Hez not that smart,(dislexic)i am all as. and also he likes to hunt, and i aboslutely love animals. We r 2 totally different poeple but, i still love him. No,matter how hard i try i can't forget about him, What do i do.

i've been through that! it was a tough time. just tell him how you feel. i bet you really dont but think of it this way, what if he likes you too?

and wouldn't you want to know if somebody likes you?

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Ok I was wondering what are some easy ways to get rid of a hangover QUIK! I drink, and I need some answers ASAP!!!

well my friend says to eat something

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