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OK...uhmm i have this guy that i really, really like and he treats me like a princess and like im the most precious thing in the whole entire world! but the thing is...my dad doesnt like him b/c he herd sumthing about him and now he has that assumption about him. I REALLY REALLY wanna go out with him and go to our skewls formal but i feel like i cant go bhind my dad and what he says...what should i do? please help me!! thanx!

Have your dad meet this guy. Once, he sees that he's actually a nice guy instead of what he heard...He'll let you be with him...Let your dad get to know him.

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When you get your first period is it normal if it just lasts for 2 days?

Of course!!! Through out your teens, your period isn't always going to have a perfect schedule of when it's coming or for how long. Until your probably in you late 20s, 30s. Your just starting to get your period, your body is going through some changes of puberty. So that's why, don't sweat it.

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don't get mad at me for saying this because i KNOW that not all gay guys are feminine. but what about the guys who dress really preppy and they have the really girly voice, talk with the hand motions, are friends with ONLY girls, read girl magazines, and always know what girls are talking about. are they gay? because even if people asked them and they'd still deny it, does that mean they're gay and just don't know it yet? or they won't admit it? or does that just make them metro?

Guys that act like that could be gay but are not comfortable to tell anyone because of stereotyping....Or maybe your right...Maybe their not 100% sure that their gay yet. Especially someone who is in their teens, because at that age, everyone's trying to find out who they are...

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see i dated this guy that we'll call david and it didnt work out.... but now he always smiles at me in the hallways and i always get chills in my stomach and i like run out of breath should i tell him how i feel?

Do you want to tell him? Do you think he feels the same way about you? Because if he doesn't you could get hurt after telling him...Always go with your gut feeling, I do all the time and sometimes it doesn't work but I like getting it out instead of keeping it all inside!

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ok whenever i ask a chica if she will go out with me she always says no well not no but we are really good friends the uasual thing, and i havn't asked out a girl in a while and i am afraid to get hurt again, my life seems pretty good so far, but there is this one chica that i like but i am afraid to get hurt, so here it is

how do i get her to like me and for once in my life be able to feel the love that most people feel and get a yes from her.

thnx to all

If you really like this girl, don't ask her out just yet. First, you need to get to know her, hang out with her. Just spend time around eachother to get to know one another. And when you think your ready, try asking her out!

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Well my friend ~B~ was acting really weird today! I mean something is wrong with him!! He didn't give me a hug didn't say hay or nething! I tried to talk to him about what was wrong but he just drove off! My other friend ~K~ said it might be bcuz his stepmom and his dad are gitting back together. But I don't know. Well My Q is how can I figure this out and help him cope w/whatever it is? I tried calling him and everything! Please help!

It's great you want to help him and be there for him through a tough time he's going through. But if he doesn't want to talk now, just give him time. He needs time alone right now, he's not ready to open up his feelings(guys hate showing their feelings!)...When he's ready, he'll come to you.

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If you have sex and the next day you get your period how high or low are your chances of being pregnant? There was no conterceptive used.Please let me know what you think.

You can still get pregnant and get your period! But if you have sex right before your period, during your period or about a week after your period, your chances of getting pregnant is actually low...but there is little chance you could've gotten pregnant...Did he ejaculate in you? or did he take it out, then ejaculate? You have to be really careful about this, even if he took it out first, theres pre-cum! Most guys don't know or cant feel it!!! ALWAYS use conterceptive, condoms, birth control pills...especially condoms, you dont want an STD or HIV? right?

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my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!?

I have a friend and she's not allowed to wear tampons because in her religion, using a tampon will break your hymen (when you start having sex, your hymen will break and thats what makes you bleed for the first time) So anyways, by using the tampon, breaking your hymen

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okay, i've been with this guy for a while now and our realationship is pretty good and stuff, but...i somehow want him to show more affection towards me; like more touching or even just talking to me or w/e. He touches me and stuff so its not like he stays completly away, but its always not when i want it. I guess i just kinda hope for the 'fantasy relationship' but i think that maybe his ways could be changed. Do ya'll have any ideas on how i can get him to show more affection or w/e? please help, and dont just say talk to him about it :o) Thanks, i rate!

Why don't you make the first move? He might think that your not ready for it, so he hasn't tired...Or maybe he's the one thats not ready? Give him time if thats the case.

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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!!

I was young when I lost my virignty, I guess I did it just because it felt like everyone else was...BUT...I think it's okay to have sex, just as long as your 100% sure your ready for it. Having sex has a lot of responsibilites...There are chances you could get pregnant or catch an STD...Most teens your age want to experience it because they think it's cool...Whatever you believe in, it's okay...

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I am looking to buy some fun socks, with simple patterns and stipes, mostly black and grey. So far I have found that 1 pair cost 3-7 dollars, even at Target. Does anyone know where I can find really cheap socks?

How about wal-mart or k-mart? (those are the only 2 really cheap stores I kno) ;)

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does anyone have any good ideas for a science fair project, me and my friend need some help!! SOON!!

thx

How about the classic "volcano"....Using a pop bottle and paper mache

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14/f I wasn't sure what category to put this under. I had this dream about this guy at school that I kind of like. I dreamt that I was pregnant with his baby and we were a couple. I'm only 14, but in my dream I was entirely happy about this. What does this dream mean?

The only reason you've had this dream is, you like him and want to start a relationship with him...Try making conversations with him..(chances are, he likes you too!)

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Alright i dated this guy for like a long time and we were really close i mean i would tell him everything and he would totally listen to me but then after a little while he broke up with me and said that he thought we should date other people. well the thing that i am confissed about is that he said I love you and i REALLY like him Alot and i said i love you too and i meant it but like i was crushed when he dumped me and i just could not move on and now he likes this other girl that is alot prettier than me but i really want him back or i want someone who is going to be serious in a realtionship and mean what they say. But what i am confissued about is how i should find someone else or should i try to get him back or does anyone else have any other ideas. Please Help.....Thanks Bunches!*~*

Have you talked to your ex and asked him that? Maybe he's scared of a committed relationship. Always remember, girls are more mature than guys....You say your ready for a serious relationship, was he ready for that? Maybe you too should become friends? I'm sure this sounds easier to say than to do...But, I think that's all your going to get from him...He's starting to move on....Then you should too! You can find other guys anywhere! all ages clubs, mall, school, through friends???

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This may be a stupid question but...

I want to start wearing tampons but never wore them before and i dont know how to wear them. Do they hurt or feel weird? How do i put them in?

It's not hard and it doesn't hurt. Usually every box of tampons have instructions and demonstrate on how to put them in, kinda simple...You can't go wrong....so go ahead and try it!

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Last year I was cool nd evry1 kne who I waz but this year ppl r callin me by my friends name bcuz she looks xactly like me now, she died her hair my color has almost the same style as mine the same face the same frame nd etc. I kno i should b flattered but im not I want my life back! Ive told her this many times but she doesnt get it! Wut should I do?

It is flattering for your friend to try and be like you, but I think it's going to far. You need to go and talk to your friend and tell her exactly how you feel. Break it down to her in the nicest way, but everyone's different and unique in their own way. Maybe she sees how everyone thinks your cool and not her, so shes trying to be like you to become popular...You need to tell her that she has to be her own person (give her complements to boost her self-esteem).

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