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♥ I had this column awhile ago, but I recently stopped using it.. I like deleted everything. But I decided to start giving advice again! I'm Becky, 16 years old, leave a question in my inbox, I elaborate more on those questions!

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How do you turn off an iPod mini? Seriously i thought they would make it really obvious. So what i do is put it on hold and push pause and it eventually turns off i think? Am i wasting battery this way?

You hold down the bottom button, which is the play/pause one. You're not wasting any more battery than you would when you just leave it on and put it on hold.

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i'm a guy, and is it wrong to just want sex? honestly now, its what everyone wants

Uhm no, who doesn't?

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i need to eat heathly because i need to lose weight in less than a month, plz help me what should i eat?

It's not really healthy food that make you loose weight it's less calories. But healthy food makes you more healthy. Food with a low amount of calories are fruits and vegetables, popsicles, pickles, whipped cream, 100 calorie packs, and soft serve ice cream. You should also try to excersise more to burn more calories. Jumproping really helps.

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so my boyfriend is coming over later and i have a feeling he is going to wanna kiss me, french kiss me. the only problem is that i have never french kissed before and he has so i don't want it to seem like i am unexperienced, so i need some tips on how to french kiss him well. i rate 5's for good answers! thanx!

Let it naturally come to you. If you're comfortable around him it won't be hard. Go to http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/french.html for detail.

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i need help, you see, i have a school dance tomorrow night and i was told that my boyfriend wants to grind with me, but i don't know how. can someone please give me some tips on how to grind with him? thanx in advance! i rate 5's!

He'll put his arms around you kind of near your vagina behing you. You hold onto his hands and kind of dance to the beat.

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Hey guys, like you know how what you've searched gets saved on google so if i write in "C A" then "CAT" will appear if Ive searched it before ? Yeah how do you get rid of that so it doesnt save what Ive searched? Is there some way i can make it so that nothing gets saved on other pages too, not only google?


Thaaaank yoouuu!

It depends on what browser you have. I only know how to erase it on Mozilla Firefox, though, because that's the only browser I have. If you have this, then go to Tools, Options, Saved Form Information, and hit clear. It should all be erased. You can also delete your History by doing this. If you don't have Firefox I suggest you download it at www.firefox.com because it's a very good browser.

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im 13/f about 5'2, 5'3 ish i think ?
anyways i weigh almost 100 lbs and i think thats too much. im not even big, so idk
is that normal for my height/age?
thanks

Yes it is. Well I'm the same thing but I'm 15 ; it all depends on the genes that you inherit. It isn't too much, the average weight for a 14 year old is 120, so I'm guessing for 13 is like 110, so you have nothing, nothing to worry about.

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Do hickies hurt when people give them to you? I'm so confused about it...

Lol, it actually depends on how vigorous it is. Like my friend had one and it was bruised and purple... but in most cases, no.

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My mom is bugging me to death. I've told my friends about everything that she does NOT let me do and they agree with me: it's ridiculous. I'll turn 16 in about 3 weeks. Anyways, she won't let me have a myspace because people get raped and stuff through that. Well the ONLY information about me that's on my myspace is my first name. I lied about my age and city and state on it. AND I set my profile to private, and I still can't get on it. It's not only myspace, it's parties. When I go to a party, I have to be home by 11 pm, and all my friends (even freshmen!) can stay 'til whenever the party is over. Not only that, but she won't stop asking me what I do at the parties. She'll say "How was the party? What did you do?" And I'll say "Good. Nothing." because she doesn't need to know everything (and no I don't do anything illegal or have sex or anything). She even asked my sister once what I did at a party because I told her, and she told my mom that we played truth or dare and I got kissed twice (which is true but who cares??). My bedtime is 10:30 and my friends don't have a bedtime. ALL my friends think that she's having trouble "letting me go" and I agree but how do I tell her that hey I'm about to turn 16 leave me alone? Today I got on myspace cuz I'm at my dad's house and my bitchy sister had to call my mom and tell her. Now my mom is mad. What do I do about all this?

It sounds like you're not close enough to your mom. First, you have to gain her trust. This sounds weird, but you have to become best "friends" with her and try to tell her a lot about your life that you don't tell her about. When you tell her about all your friends and such she won't feel as paranoid about you going to parties with them. If one of your friends are really bad and you don't want to tell her about him or her because you think that she'll get more paranoid, then either lie that they're good, or don't hang out with them. The closer you get to your mom, the more she'll trust you. Soon you will probably be close enough that you can say "I'm 16 and I should be old enough to make my own choices. You don't need to make all my choices for myself." About the myspace... tell her that you only have your first name and that that's the ONLY information you have & you only use it to talk to your friends. Tell her that you don't do stupid things like having sex and that you never will. Maybe she had a bad experience when she was your age and she's trying to protect you so you don't experience what she did.

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hey is there any other place that i can get LEI jeans besides fileans? those fit me perfectly (im a 12-14 size)and i'd like to know were they are selling :). Do they have a website? thanks!

Any store like Filenes has LEI jeans. I wear them too because I'm a very small size and they make all kinds of sizes. Try Macy's and JC Penny. I'm almost positive you'll find a pair there.

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How did Prue die?! I missed it yesterday!!! I've missed it like twice already!


only search advicenators.com

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Okay, this is really really embarrassing but...I can't think of what else to do but ask it on here...because it's anonymous.
I have these little bumps around my nipples, in the areola kind of, and I was wondering if that was normal...? I'm only 16, so I don't think it would be breast cancer lumps or anything like that...

Everyone has those. They're normal. You don't have breast cancer. Lol.

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I have been sick the last two days and haven't gone to school. I heard from one of my other friends that at lunch my friend Becca was talking about me and not saying very nice things, though he wouldn't say specifically what she said. The thing is, Becca nags on me a lot, and she's kind of hypocritical. She thinks she is a lot better than the rest of us, but I don't think it's a conscious thought. She called me last night, and I talked to her like normal, and she was actually nice, and we were laughing and stuff. I wanted to bring it up, but I hate fights and I don't want to make things awkward when I do go back to school and have to sit next to her at lunch. Now, I won't lie, I've nagged on her a few times too, but it seems like lately she is being more hypocritical than usual, and talking behind my back instead of telling me to my face. Everything that I've been upset with her about I've talked calmly and to HER, not others. I'm just afraid that if I bring it up and ask her what she has to say to me that she will feel attacked (she is a little sensitive). What should I do??

Talk to her online. It's not violent and you're not actually talking to her face. Since she's sensitive then she won't get as much feeling from AIM then from actually hearing your voice. If she's one of your really good friends then you should be able to talk to her simply and explain everything she does and how you're feeling. Explain how it hurts you and that if she really wants to be your best friend, she shouldn't be saying crap about your behind your back if you're sick, because that's definately not best friend material. If she keeps doing it after you talk to her, sorry, but she's just not worth being your friend.

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What are some low-calorie snacks that taste really good? I'm on a diet and I get tempted to cheat! lol

I only eat low calorie snacks because they're healthy and I'm all about eating healthy. Some of these I don't eat but they're still low- caloriee.

-Honey Nut Cheerios- 110
-Whipped Cream- 15
-Popsicles- 30
-Pickles. They don't have any calories but some people don't like them.
-Soft Serve Icecream- 35
-100 Calorie Packs- 100

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i live in san diego too, where do you livee?

I'm sorry but I never give anything more personal to anyone I don't know online than what is already in my advicenators profile. I don't trust a lot of people online.

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I'm interested in purchasing music by swing or big band artists. I want the really popular jazzy type, so if you guys know the name of any artists, PLEASE let me know.

Big Bad Voodoo Daddy? Search them on where ever you get your music. They're really good.

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ok i want to know how to get a heart like on aim. I know you do alt then some numbers or something and you get that copyright sign or...but what are the numbers and what do you do after that?

There's three ways that I use.

1) Change the font name to "Webdings". Type in an uppercase "Y" and it should make a heart with a little tail-ish thing.
2) Change the font name to "Small Fonts" and make the font size "8". Type in an "a" or an "e". This one's my favorite.
3) Change the font name to "Symbol". Copy and paste this copyright sign that you can get "©" here. That should make a heart as well.

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ok so ive had my myspace set to public forever and have now decided to make it private where only my friends can see my page. but when i went to set it it wouldnt do it.. how do you set your myspace profile to private??

Set your birthdate year to 1991 and this will make your age 14. When your age is 14 your myspace will automatically be made private. It doesn't really make sense but that's how to do it.

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What is the average amount of days to have your period?

It really depends on who you are or how long you've been having it for, but on average a week (7 days). But I have a friend and hers lasts for 15 days.

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14/f...I like this guy named Peter and almost everyone knows. I'm sure that he probably has a hint but anyways. He used to like my friend Katie at the beginning of the year but now I feel like every single time that I talk to him he's more into Katie. I know that he doesn't like her but how do I get him to notice me more?
thx
I RATE HIGH

Maybe Katie has a more outgoing personality than you . Guys tend to like the girls that stick out, and aren't just lost in the crowd. If you don't like him paying attention to Katie more than you when you talk to him, why not talk to him alone without Katie? Try to talk to him every chance you have, and he'll definately notice you.

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