can you still have sex and get pregnant if you havent gotten your period yet? im just curious, im not interested in actually having it tho.. but what would happen instead? 13/f
yes you can, because your already partially developed, you just havent started ovulating yet. so yes. hope i helped xx -sara
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i was wondering if anyone new any cute short love qoutes. nothing like long poems or real snazzy ones just short and cute. or any links to one? thanks.
i looooove this girls pictures and quotes. but the music is kind of annoying so i would suggest turning off the sound lol anyway http://www.xanga.com/STFU_i_HAVE_HOTTicons_N_QUOTES adorable xanga site that i get quotes from
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i feel soo alone and i think every yr it gets worse. i mean i dont hang out with anyone and now out school i have a hard time finding someone too hang out with.
the people i were hanging out with i decided to distance myself from cuz they didnt treat me well or respect me and some of the things they were doing I dont approve of and want to be around. some people i used to talk to went to another school or dont talk to me cuz we either grew apart or because of last years drama.
i dont know why! is it because im smart? i mean im not dumbing myself down for people to like me and this one girl was like "who wants to be friends with people like that they're no fun" i hate it, i only have 3 more yrs and im just tired of everything. what can i do? im friendly and nice but still.
wow. i feel for ya. feeling alone sucks. drifting away from friends is painful. is there anyone you want to be friends with that you arent? if so try to get to know them, or relate to them, but dont make anything up. be yourself. if you just say a few simple things like, 'god i hate history class why does this class have to suck so much' or 'did you ever notice how ms. soandso says yep like FIVE BILLION times during one class' haha very random examples but anyway. if you just say stuff like that, or maybe speak up about something in class or idk just let your personality shine. if your shy, its harder, but you can certainly attempt talking to people. myspace might let your aqwatences get to know you better,if you have one. you sound like a really really strong person. its good that you know who you are. if you want to talk my aim is solightninglove, and my myspace name is 'your the yellow bird that ive been waitin' for'
xxxx -sara
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my bff and i cant see eachother because his mom doesnt like me. im 13 hes 12 in 2 months hes 13. hes a prep im i goth but were still bffs. and we kinda love eachother and my longest enemie told everyone. everyone is against us. all our friends because a prep and goth as bffs or bf gf. his family because i wear black and scare his youngest brother. my family because they just dont like anything I EVEN DO. his oldest brother first said for his parents to leave us alone but he saw my piczo now hes like why do you like that whore! it used to be fine us together but its just as bffs. IM NOT like extremely gothic i wear jeans or black or red or purple skirts or both I DO NOT EVEN WEAR the gothic pants. yes i love them but no one will let me wear them or even leave me alone about my fucked up life! i wear any shirts. I DONT GET IT! EVERY ONE IS AGAINST ME AND AGAINST US. probly mainly because of me. everyone hates how i dress and what i do. my piczo is kinda creepy to other people but its what i like. only he understands me. hes the only one that kept me living all these years. because i didnt want to hurt him if i killed myself. his parents dont even know about my life only what i look like my music and my piczo. they have no idea about suicide or me cursing or even my personality either side of me. his mom started it then his older brother only made it worse. i used to be great friends with his brother till he met the real me. my bffs is starting to go gothic at first it was to piss off his family but now from all that happened he is. i even tried changing for them but it dosnt work its my personality. i do not even show my real self in front of anyone but him. hes all i got and all i want and all i need. id do anything for him and hed do it for me. whats wrong with everybody. HIS PARENTS ARE STEREOTYPING PEOPLE NOW!!! what do i do how do i change it omfg please help me.
wow, thats an intense situation for someone your age. i can't imagine all what youve been through. just dont give up. never let down, as my big bro always says. people are stereotypical. you cant really change that fact. its awful but almost everyone is a complete moron. if you love this kid, you cant let anyone come between you. which is obv a hard thing to do since parents control so much of theyre childrens lives. just dont loose touch. do you go to the same school as he does? and as for his parents i would try to somehow show that just because you look different, you can be responsible. thats a difficult thing to do when all you want to do is punch them in the face haha, but it could help your stat a little. if people look at you different you cant help that. i usually just brush it off. or laugh. or sometimes i say 'boo'. haha. but really what is normal. THERE IS NO NORMAL. dont let anyone convince you to change. you change if you wanna change. but it doesnt sound like you do. no one can force you to be someone else. try to look on the bright side, you have someone who cares for you and you care for them. thats whats great. thats something not many people actually have. i really hope i helped and if you wanna talk my aim is solightninglove and i actually have a piczo its "http://kleptomaniac2.piczo.com"
xxx - good luck - sara
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ok so i have been friends with this boy since preschool. were now freshman in highschool. and well i was absent one day and my ex boyfriend talked to him and went to my best friend who i have also known since preschool and told here that richie said he liked me. so my friend that day went to him (their also friends since preschool) and asked him and of course he denied it but he was blushing liek crazy. so the next day i came back and i went to talk to him and im liek ehy whats up? and the normal stuff. and he was smiling the whole entire time. btu then yet he always says he hates me. so i went back to my friends at lunch and then my bff went to him and asked and he denied it again but was blushing like crazy. then a couple of days ago i was walking home and i passed him and he was smiling so much. but he wont admit that he does or if he doesnt. and also he was very upset when iw ent out with my ex boyfriend. hes like hes not good for you you could do better. and hes also the kindof person where he will be scared to go out with me becuase it might ruin our friendship. but im good at keeping friendships if we had one before. so do you think he likes me or? and im not going to go and ask him. i dont have the guts. should i get my hopes up that he does or? and all my friends have always been saying that we would be soo cute together. and at my church we have this group of 4. me my best friend and him and this other guy. well my best friend is going out with the other guy. and ever since we were in the 3rd grade everyone at the church is like ok your gonna marry him and shes gonna marry the other guy. and so far half of that is right. and i sorta want it to come true. but im not sure. im so confused.
i think that if you like him, you should tell him. it sounds to me like he likes you back. if he cant help smiling around you. and if you cant tell him ask if he wants to hang out sometime. no pressure just see what he says. if hes enthusiastic about hanging out with you then he probably likes you. im no expert on guys. and this one sounds like a confusing one, but it sounds to me like you two could have a great relationship. if he hated you, he wouldnt smile so much around you right? just take your time thinking about it and good luck deciding on what to do. xx -sara
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evanescence's song tourniquet explains me right now. the first line i tried to kill the pain but only brought more. yea i cut im fed up with my life. im cutting dieing screaming praying bleeding crying pretty much going crazy at the moment. i need help from anyone and everyone. just help me give me advice pleeaaaaaaaase soon befor its too late for me. i regret it. its deep
please dont give up hope. i can't imagine what you must be going through. but you cant give up. sometimes i feel like i want to die too. but just breathe okay. its hard. ive known so many people who've hurt themselves in the past. to read this makes me sad because i know so many people and afraid and lost and scared and they arent asking for help. you are. i want you to know that your very brave. do you want to talk about why you feel this way. i hope you know there are people who care and love you more than anything. i know its asking a lot from a complete stranger but, just dont give up okay?
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have a big problem...i'm 15 and i'm goin to be 16 soon, i have never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy...is something wrong with me? what should i do?
hey. dont stress over it. i did for the longest time and its really no big deal. as i get told often, its not some life or death thing that is gonna really hurt you in the future. i'm seventeen (about to be 18 in june and i just got kissed for the first time yesterday. it was pretty amazing. but thats not the point here, there might be a reason you dont have a bf like are you shy? are you intimidating? are you like SUPER pretty and guys are afraid to talk to you lol or maybe it just hasnt happened yet. the point is its not that big a deal. there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. and you just have to let life happen to you. you really remind me of me when i was your age. and dont worry. things will get better.
and when it comes to boys to steal a line or so from my brilliant brother
"treat yourself right ... with respect and dignity. and make sure they do too."
"have fun! always with everything you pssibly can... thats part of my philosophy...
but you have to be responsible for what you do as well."
dont stress over it. it will happen eventually.
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