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how can you get a curvy body?
curvy body is in your genes. either you have it, or you dont. some people say if you are REALLY fit you will get curves but that is ALWAYS true. as you develop more, you get more curves so if you are still going through puberty..its coming! if not, then you might just not have curves in your genes. but personally..i dont like curves on me but they look good on some people =D hope i helped
--jenna bean
My legs and arms, well, more like my whole body's skin is like vainy. Its so annoying! So like when i wear shorts or shirts, my skin looks like blueish,purple,etc. Is there anyway to make them non-vainy? or something like that
thanks!
im sorry, there isnt anything you can do. you may try going to the doctor but i doubt there is anything that can help that. you could stray tan so they wouldnt be as visible but they will still probably show a little.
--jenna bean
Ok, I'll start off by saying I'm in college and I've only really had one real relationship in college that lasted about 6 months. There's this girl across the room in class that I think keeps looking at me and I think is really cute and nice, but we never seem to make eye contact (we have a couple times though). She doesn't have facebook or myspace, so I cant tell if she has a boyfriend or not and I'm too shy to just go up and talk to her. I found out though that she's graduating in May (I'm here for another year), so I have 2 problems; I dont really know what to say to her or how to approach her. And time is of the essence, because I really want to talk to her before she leaves to see if something comes of it. How can I just go up and approach her? What would you want as a girl for me to do? Thanks
well usually, first step into a relationship is being friends and hanging out. dont be shy to go up and talk to her, you have nothing to lose. introduce herself and ask a few questions about her so you can get to know her better and as well tell her somethings about yourself. ask her if she wants to go bowling, arcade, lunch, etc. with some of your friends to just hang out. yall with really connect if you hang out as friends first, trust me. that is pretty much all i have to say but most of this has to come from your confidence to get up and talk to her. good luck! =D
i hope i helped
--jenna bean
ok well obviously this is really embarrassing, but i just recently switched to tampons. the first time i tried it hurt like HELL. then i tried agin. and again. and pretty soon i used up 3 boxes just TRYING...i talked to my mom (that was tough) and she called a gynocologist (sp.??) and my mom said she told her not to worry, the hole is usually smaller at such a young age of 13....so my mom baught me the slender kind. but it seemed like they were just too big too.....she says its normal and i dont have to worry, but im stressing out if i will EVER be able to wear tampons
ANY advice?
well i do not have any experience with them but my sister tries to get me to so she tells me everything about them. lol. but it is probably just different for you and your not used to it yet. i mean, it cant feel normal having something up there for the first time ahh i can't even imagine how you do it. and once you start wearing them, i know it is hard but you have to change them at least every 6-7 hours or you could get TS (toxic shock) which is very severe and can be deadly. going to the gynocologist is probably a good idea though, she can show you how to use them properly and you can ask any questions you need.
hope i helped =D
--jenna bean
well i was really good friends with these 2 girls last year and now they like hate me. i have tried apologizing like 5 times and they just are like ok. we used to be really good friends too! and i really miss them. now i just feel like theres nothing i can do. help!
try to talk to them, ask them what happened to yalls friendship. girls..they dont really forgive that easily so it may be pretty hard. dont annoy them by asking them though. but if they keep ignoring you, there isnt much you can do..eventyually they will find it in their hearts to forgive you. remind them of the good time yall had and you are sorry if you did anything to them and that you miss them terribly because they were really good friends and yadadada stuff liek that. that is the best apology =D good luck! hope i helped
--jenna bean
can you tell me your first kiss story? Just what happened?
Mine was less than wonderful haha.
Just to see as a little comparison of things. thanks!
ehh well mine probably was worse =P. well i was at a pool party and me and my boyfriend (not together anymore) chickened out of kissing their because everybody was pressuring us. he had his first kiss already but i hadnt. later that night after the party, we talked and we both felt really bad for chickening out so he asked if i wanted to go to the park the next day and kiss. i said sure even though i thought i was really gay that he was planning it because he was too stupid to know how to make a move. i thought as my first kiss to happen naturally, but ohh well. okay well my friend went with me to the park and she was like screaming at us because we wouldnt do it because we were so nervous and we went in this little play train thing and she made us do it. and his lips were chapped so it was kind of sickening but it was just a peck (thank goodness aha) but yea that is pretty much it. lol i hope yours was better than mine!
hope i helped =D
~~jenna bean
ok so there is this really sweet, funny, kind, cute ( i could go on 4ever) and he knows that i like him (along with everyone else in the whole world!) and i don't know if he likes me bc his dad (my math teacher and his too) says that he thinks he likes me (don't ya hate it wen parents talk about you) and he is showing all the signs that he does (looked it up online) but when i asked hi out (well my friend asked him out for me but i was watching) he blushed got all confused and said no. there is a dance coming up and i want to ask him if he wants to go but i don't want him to get mad at me thinking that i am stuborn and just don't get it. i really like thi guy but i don't know what to do! PUH-LEASE help me!
aww honey, i know what you mean. guys are sooo confusing. when it seems they like you and they give you all the signs, you could me right..or you would be wrong. but in this situation, his dad should know and it seems like he likes you. so when you talk to him just be like "so are you thinking about asking anyone special to the dance?" and if he says yes, he may tell you..he maybe wont..or he may just ask you =D. and if he says no, he is probably lying haha. good luck
~~jenna
I've tried a lot of codes before.
But I can't seem to find a code that works.
I really want to hide my 'last login' on myspace.
but the codes i've tried havent worked.
can someone help me please?
go to http://www.myspace.com/crash_codes
you have to add them first but after they accept, go to their blogs and click codes and there is a hide login code in there. i tried it out and it also erases where you live if that is okay with you.
hope i helped =D
~~jenna bean
Hi.
I'm 14/F.
To start off, I hate my life.
My parents hate me and they say I should die.
I don't enjoy life. I cut myself all the time to take a way the pain. My mom won't take me to see a doctor since she hates me.
School is rough. I'm called names everywhere I walk. I'm made fun of for no reason. I feel hated.
I feel like I don't belong. I feel like if I committed suicide, I would definitely be happier. People would be happier.
I know you probably either want to say "Suicide Isn't the way out!" Or "Your parents really love you!"
They don't my parents don't. They told me they don't.
I feel like I don't belong. I've had so many breakdowns. I sit alone at lunch. I don't have any friends. What should I do? Whats a good way to commit suicide?
Please help.
I need it.
your life might not be how you like it now but i really dont think you should kill yourself...if you work hard in school you can get a really good job and you will never have to deal with all the mean people ever again, im not gonna pretend like i know you but, you only have 4 more years of school. if you can make it threw 4 more years of your life than i bet your life will be a lot better. a lot of people that commit suicide dont think of the future and how it can be better they just think of how misrable they are now, and i feel you it must reallly suck having all those gay people be mean to you but in a couple of years you life will take a big turning point i really dont think you should kill your self. you are still young and you have a lot ahead of you i know its hard now but it will get better.. maybe you should call child services they can get you a doctor for free and maybe a new family...you dont deserve to have an unhappy life. no one does. anyway there are a lot of alternatives than killing yourself.
if you need anything else myspace, aim, or email (the addresses are on my profile) or my friend, cathy, that practically wrote this www.myspace.com/cathy_loves_that_song
good luck and i hoped i helped
~~jenna and cathy
i think i'm like a booty call. because guys in 8th grade tell me that their "lunch table" rates me 4-5 in the schools girl rating system. How do i fix that?
well you can't really fix it, it sounds like they are using you. just ignore them and dont play along and they will eventually stop. hope i helped, good luck =D
~~jenna
OK, im doomed! I stayed back last year and they think I dont shower, im gross and all this stuff.Well I do have friends and I hang out with this kid named Steven, and I like steven. Now kids know I like steven but I dont want steven to know.. Its not as easy and I ask him out everyone would lauph and it and it madders to me. And it sucks because we have to do tis inventors thing and he's my partner and he does nothing! and its hard to try and concintrate next to the kid u like I really need a good grade so how do i concintrate on my work and not flirting with him??
Its not just Studing its everything, he likes olivia this girl who treats him like crap! How do I tel him that he should stop going out with her everytime she want too and find someone who really cares about him. He's the sweetest boy and deserves so much beter
well maybe just groom yourself a little bit better, do your hair nicer, dont wear the same clothes too much, dont make them all wrinkly and coming up your belly and stuff and put on some nice makeup. accesorize accesorize accesorize :P. hmm well next time he gets upset or mad if she does something to him,tell him that he deserves better and not to be treated like that. let him know that he is not be treated bad. try not to be distracted. just try to get him to work, im not sure how to explain it. good luck and i hope i helped =D
if you need anything more
aim me- cookiemonsters46
myspace me- www.myspace.com/jennarosaaa
or email me- cookiemonsters46@yahoo.com
~~jenna bean
ok so theres this girls and in the beginning of the year she liked me but i didnt like her and now i like her...we went to a conference and we were flirting back and forth and shes been sending me messages that she likes me and she says stuff like you're hot and i love you and then she kept asking me who i liked and i didnt say because i like her but then i told her best friend and my best friend and they were like asking her and it turns out she doesnt like me with all these mixed messages shes been sending and now im upset and i found out she likes a tenth grader and not me...what do i to get her to like me but i dont want it seem that im attached to her or that im clingy in anyway?
i seems like she is denying it. from past experience, i know that if you like ALOT someone for a really long time then it gets kind of intiminating when they dont like you back. so she might just be saying she doesnt like u just not to get embarrased because she thinks you dont like her. i think that you should tell her, you have nothing to lose. but if im wrong, just flirt a lot but still be yourself. girls love flirting :P but dont like be OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH YOUR SO HOTT! so she doesnt think you clingy. hope i helped, good luck =D
~~jenna bean
what do girls like in a guy im 13 m and id like to know what girls like anfd stuff like what are their faveiot features not just on looks but like other things like persanality to
well in personality, girls LOVE humor..if you can make them laugh and they feel a connection..you got it dude. be sensitive but not pussy, and of course sweet and know how to treat a girl. girls love hugs, and yes, there can be good hugs and bad hugs.
good hugs- when the guy puts both arms around the girls waist and hold on and then the hug is ending, slowly let go.
bad hugs- quick one-armed. when they are so quick, they bash against you. OUCH
when it comes to physical, they look at eyes, hair, and just face overall. bad teeth might be a turn off but some girls dont care. most girls like longs hair. and weird laughs are turn offs :P
hope i helped =]
~~jenna
Me and my friends are going to the movies with my girlfriend and her friends, and so im nervious because i dont no if i should like put my arm around her during the movie or kiss her during the movie or wat? what should i do?
aww dont be nervous, there is nothing to be nervous about. definatly put your arm around her and if you dont, it will be an awkward movie. after you put her arm around, a little ways into the movie she will probably put her head on your shoulder. if you feel it is right, then kiss her. look at her and wait for her to look at you to and then lean in and do it or you could do it when yall are leaving but i say, do it in the movie. if she doesnt want to, she will just ignore you looking at her and that is okay, she just might not be ready yet, dont worry. or when yall are alone, you can ask her if you can kiss her..that works too :P. ohh yea, and when yall are walking around, hold her hand, girls love that =D hope i helped. good luck
~~jenna
we just got a pet cockatiel and we are stumped on finding a name.
my mom wants a name that means something in another language or just a cute american name.
please an many answers as possible.
thanks =].
hmm well it depends on what the bird looks like but i had a cockatiel and his name was coco puff because he would always fluff up but we called him coco for short :P
good luck
~jenna
my dog died, & i dont think i'll ever be the same. does it ever get better? & what can you do to someone that hit your dog?
oh my goodness, im so sorry to hear that. mine died about 6 months ago and i know how hard it is. and it does take a while to accept his/her death but you just got to think that your dog is not in pain anymore and they are up in heaven waiting for you. like the other girl said, scrapbooks are a good idea and i made a slideshow movie type thing. feel free to watch it if you want http://www.onetruemedia.com/otm_site/share_view_player?p=155cd8d7fc35768276ad8b this really helped me think of the good times we had together. i got her creamated so she will always be with my family. but the best thing that can help you through this is god, i pray so much that he has to help me get through this tough time and that my dog is with Him up there waiting for my family and that she is okay. i hope i helped.
~~jenna
if you need anything more
aim me- cookiemonsters46
myspace me- www.myspace.com/jennarosaaa
email me- cookiemonsters46@yahoo.com
okay.. i need a boyfriend. i haven't had one in about 4 months. i am like really lonely. and i like this guy. his friends are all like "well, you need to talk to him more and he will ask you out." but i never know what to say! and he's like reaaaaally cute so i don't want to make a complete fool out of myself. what are some subjects i could talk about? mabye even like tell me how to be a good girlfriend. cause i'm not that good in relationships either.
love,
anonymous lover.
his friends are right, talk to him. and flirt flirt flirt, that definatly makes a guy interested. i cant reallly tell you much about what to talk about but just maybe funny things that happened, thing sthat are going on in the news, sports if u and him and interested in it, stuff like that. just stuff you would talk about with your best friend, except boys and personal stuff :P hmm relationships well the main thing is DONT BE SHY (a.k.a prude) but dont go to fast. ask him to go and hang out, preferably the movies *wink wink*. and hold his hand, stuff like that. i hope i helped =D good luck
~~jenna
if you need anymore..
aim me- cookiemonsters46
or myspace me- www.myspace.com/jennarosaaa
or email me- cookiemonsters46@yahoo.com
kay, i couldn't help but notice your picture. is your hair red or auburn or what? is it natural? that is how i the EXACT color i want mine to be! :]
lol it is red and its all naturall babyyy :P
~~jenna
im in danceing bluebonnets and last weekend my mom bought me these two thougs for our dance competiton so no one can see my underwear but i dont want to wear then just for dance and everyone in my school wears thongs how do i ask her for more??
kinda shy soo i need help
thanks
well here is my opinion: everyone wears underwear (well atleast i hope so hah) so it doesnt matter if people see your underwear line or whatever, and seeing a thong sticking out of you pants is a little more nasty then just underwear. but many people say they are so much more comfortable, but dont be pressured to wear one just because the people at your school do. ask her if you can go shopping for another bra or something and then you could ask her if you could have another thong when you in the try on room. or just go flat out and say that you like the feel of thongs and you want more =]
hope i helped
~~jenna
If you and a guy you like are hanging out at your house, what are some ways you can get him to hold your hand without actually telling him?
just slowly go and grab it, trust me it works =D
~~jenna