Well Lets see here.. Theres not much to me.. I'm 21 yrs old. I got married in march of 2008... My husband is in the army... He is currently serving his second tour in Iraq.. He's due home in a couple of weeks! I love to help people in anyway that I can.. I hope to go to nursing school here very soon... I guess thats all to me
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i dont know whats wrong with me. my current b/f was my first kiss and ...other things. but hes told me about all the other times hes made out with girls and he suposidly liked me when he made out with one of them at his dads camp. i had liked him then too. but he doesnt go to the same school as me...and his best friend is always checking out girls so he always points them out to my b/f. i just dont know how to stop thinking about it so much. i know he loves me and he wants to marry me(we're 15 but still...)i dont know how to get it out of my head and when i think about it i cry...please help me. (link)
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If he truely loves you... You have nothing to worry about.. I am sure if he doesnt love you he would tell you.. Most guys are pretty honest when it comes to that... Well the guys I've been with anyway.. But dont get too jealous about it.. because then he will think you dont trust him.. and you dont want that..
I hope i helped..If ya need anything drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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I like this girl and i think she likes me she gives me clues that she does but im not 100% sure I like her but i have a g/f and i dont want to make it obvoiuouse that its me who wants to know if she likes me how do i find out if she likes me without her knowing i want to know?? (link)
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Hmm.. That is kinda tough.. but... When all my friends are interested in someone and dont want the person to know they tell them they are asking for their friend because she is kinda shy... that always seems to work.. so you should try that... Hope this helps.....
If ya need anything. Drop one in the inbox..
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Ok well theres a fair in town.ive been goin every nite. Well Neways. Theres this really hot guy that works at the ferris wheel. Whenever im theres hes always staring at me n smiling and talkin to me does he like me?. I wanna tell him that i like him n stuff but i dont wanna sound stupid. Thing is hes also older i heard him talking to his friends and he said he doesnt mind dating younger girls. What should i Do?
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Well I dont think you should mention anything.. because with fairs like that.. most likely the next time they come around the same people arent working it.. and maybe in this case you wont see him again.. but if you feel that you have true feelings for him... Then you should tell him.. and see how he feels... I don't know if this helped any.. But if you need anything.. Drop one in my inbox
~*Jackie~*
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There are 2 guys i have my eye on. There both in my social studies class and on the same swim team I am. Guy #1- he is nice, and gets along with pretty much everyone. My brother has a class with him though and he says that he flirts a lot with this other girl. So he might have a gf. Guy #2- he is nice, very cute, and kinda shy. Whenever i talk to him i get one word answers, but we just started talkin a couple of days ago. My brother said he eather is nervous around you or not interested. He talks to other girls on the swim team though.
I want go with one of them to the movies this weekend. So I was going to ask them on wendsday. The thing is I dont know which one to pick cause the both haven't really come up to me yet. So who should i pick, and should i even ask them to the movies or wait. (link)
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well.. you dont seem to know them very well.. But... maybe going out with one of them one night... youd beable to get to know them.. I would go with guy # 2... That would give you the chance to see if he is interested.. I wouldnt go for guy # 1 because your brother said he flirts with other girls alot.. and he may have a girlfriend and you dont want to interfere with that..
I hope I helped...
~*Jackie~*
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my friend Breanna is pregnant. But she smokes and drinks every month. What do I do to stop her from killing the baby?
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You need to tell her that smoking and drinking can cause serious problems with the baby... Depending on what she smokes.. if shes into drugs. Then the baby can be born addicted to those drugs.. so you need to tell her that she has to stop drinking.. or her baby will have serious birth defects.. or she could possibly kill her child..
hope I helped..
~*Jackie~*
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex? (link)
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I was always told to wait until i was married.. but that never happened.. but you should wait until you feel your comfortable enough with yourself and your body.... to have sex... but when you do.... PROTECTION! there are too many diseases out there.. and young moms... so be careful
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Okay i was just wondering....does it hurt to get your tounge belly-button or nose peirced? and is there like any way you could do it yourself without damagin anything?? and then also..if your like drunk or high or somethin....would it still hurt? and one last thing....does anyone know of any good sites thatll give you tips on how to do it yourself or information on it?? Thnkx alot!! (link)
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I got my Belly Button Pierced a year ago this month.. and it didnt really hurt that much.... but people or different.. DONT do it your self... You could get a bad infection... or do something bad.
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For blonde hair and blue eys what is usually the best color to wear in clothes .. i just want a little adive because my school starts tomrorow and i need some ideas .. THANKS
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When I had blonde hair.. I usually wore light colors... Light blues.. Pinks.. White.... but my eyes are a really light green..
Hope this helped..
Good Luck
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I don't know where to begin with so much going through my mind and my heart except to get directly to the point, which I'm sure you would appreciate. How do you stop loving and caring for someone that means so much to you when you don't even know how the relationship ended to begin with? I guess that's a pretty wide open question huh Doctor? Can you even relate to what I'm talking about because to tell you the truth I am so baffled at this point, things in my everyday life aren't even making sense to me anymore. It's like I'm just going through the motions everyday, but at the end of the day not really remembering too much of anything except the constant, nagging pain in my heart, which is really unbearable. I am an adult female who thought she had a pretty good thing going with an adult male. THOUGHT being the key word here. No, everything was not always perfect, but what is? Nothing major that we couldn't handle. We seemed to make each other happy in all kinds of ways that you may not even be able to imagine. I still do believe that the love was mutual and not just one-sided, but maybe I was wrong. He told me he loved me and I believed him. Shouldn't I have believed him? Isn't that what love should be based on, trust? I actually "felt" the love and caring that he had for me so I know that it wasn't one-sided. I totally trusted this man, with my life, literally. We had constant, daily communication that one day just abruptly came to a halt. And I do mean a screeching halt! Not a halt on my part either, but his. With no explanation in any form he just no longer shared any type of communication with me whatsoever. What's that all about? We had a little communication problem the night before everything ended and I was in a position where I could not make him fully understand what all was taking place, no I was not with another man or anything remotely like that, I was just in a position that made it impossible for me to talk at that moment> Let me stop there because I know that's not making sense to you. However I never got the chance to tell him what the whole deal was. And it doesn't look like I ever will. That was the last night that I ever talked to him. I love this man so much more than I ever thought that I possibly could love someone and I know that we would have been so good together and I know that he knows that too. What's the problem then you might ask? As I stated before, he will not answer any of my calls, he no longer calls me, and I don't really know what to think. I do know that he is a very open minded caring person and this just isn't like the man I fell in love with to not let me know what the problem is, so what do I do? Please don't tell me to just simply ask him what happened because like I said, he will not take my calls or contact me. How can anyone be that cold-hearted? He has totally broke my heart, broke my spirit, and yanked my soul right out! The biggest problem that I have is not understanding what happened! Surely you can understand that? He has to know that doesn't he? You can't possibly be in constant contact with someone throughout the entire day, every single day, and then one day just stop all communications and not expect them to question what the hell happened. Obviously he just doesn't want anything to do with me, that's a no-brainer. But until he tells me so and tells me why, how can I ever have any closure with the relationship, or even have any peace for my ever so confused, battered, busted up heart? I miss him terribly. I guess I got that point across pretty well already. On the flip side of this sad, but true story - Right in sync with him just totally ignoring me, this is unreal, but true, all of these men out of my past and some that have been trying to go out with me or come into my life all called in a one-week period. Sad, but true, I'm just not interested. How can I be even remotely interested anyway when nothing has been resolved with him. I will not be interested in anyone in that same way again because I know in my heart that he is the one for me, I know it, and he knows it too. Or maybe not? How do I find out what went wrong when it's impossible to ask anyone a question when they simply won't talk to you? Now how cold is that? Doesn't everyone deserve that much? I know they do, and yes, I know people don't always get an explanation even though there always is one. I don't know how to make you understand that he is just not that "typical" person that just leaves people's hearts hanging without an explanation, or maybe I just have him figured all wrong. Am I a total fool? If so then I'm a fool in love. If that is the case and I am to never get an answer, how do I go on? I can't keep walking around everyday crying, in a freaking daze, with real pains in the pit of my stomach as well as my heart. All of the people who know me know that I smile all the time and am for the most part a happy person always trying to bring a smile to others. But since that day, they all ask me where my smile is, where's that sparkle in my eyes, where's my spunk, where's my love for life? I'm not going to get it back until I know what happened. What do I do? How does one stop loving when they don't even know what went wrong? How do you ever get your mind, heart, and soul "together" again? How do you ever trust again? How do you stop the very real pain? I am a grown woman and this was not a little crush. I took it very seriously as he told me he did too. I did things for him that I had never done for anyone else to try and please him, which ultimately pleased me in doing so. As you can tell my thoughts are all over the place. And like I said I don't see how I can "pull myself together" without answers. This is really, really rough and I don't think he gets that or he would talk with me, right? What to do? How to cope? When does the pain stop? Why did this happen? Why can't I get any answers? How to trust again? When I commit to something or to someone, I really try to give it my all, which is why I get hurt so easily. That, I can answer.
Signed; Desperately Seeking An Answer
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I think I've been in your situation before.. I dated a guy for 2 years.. and when we broke up.. he never gave me a reason to why we broke up.. He just told me he didnt know... its been almost a year now.. and I love him still to this day as much as I did when i first met him.. If I could go back in time and change the things i did with him to make them right.. i would do it... But I dont think you can ever stop loving and caring for someone that you loved soo much.. I dont think there is any possible way. I know its hard.. But... You only have 2 options here.. and it's either to talk to this guy and see what is up.. and have him answer all the questions you have been wondering.. and your 2nd option would be to try your hardest to move on.. I know it will be hard.. But.. It will be soo much easier for you.. you wont be in as much pain.. and you'll never no.. If you dont start trusting someone or anyone you will never find out whats out there for you.. There are many fish in the sea... go by that.. There is a guy out there wanting a girl/women like you... I hope I helped.. I answered as best I could..
If ya need anything... Drop one in my inbox..
~*Jackie~*
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i had sex like a few months ago...well ive gotten my period since..and its been on a regular schedual but this month it hasnt come...i havent got it!! im freaking out!! it usually comes at the verrrry end of every month n goes into the begining of the new month but this month is hasnt!! =( could i be pregnant since ive already had my period about 2-3 times since ive had sex?? =\ (link)
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I don't think your pregnant.. because you usually dont get your period when your pregnant.. but there could be a possibility that you are.. Some women/ girls do have their periods while they are pregnant. so I think that you should get a home pregnancy test and take that to make sure you arent. Hope every goes well...
Good Luck..
~*Jackie~*
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okay ive had discharge for a while now and i styll havin gotn mah period where the hell is it? ... im turn 14 in april! what the fuckin hell! help me out people
thanx bye
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Have you ever had your period... If so.. r u sexually active? People say when your sexually active your period may come late.. but I hope your not pregnant... I think you need to go see a doctor!
Hope I helped...
If ya need anything.. Drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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okay, so im taking my school picture in two days and i was wondering how i should look i guess, quick description of me: really tan skin, medium dark brown hair (long and straight), not skinny or fat, big hazel eyes, straight smile i guess, im really lost on what i should wear and how i should do my hair if anyone could please help me quick it would be greatly appreciated thanks (by the way im a freshman) i rate! -Nicole (link)
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I would wear a like.. striped shirt that has a couple buttons on it.. leave it un buttoned with like a white camy under it... and leave your hair down straight... I dont know if this helped at all
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ok my friends going to court to see if her dad will get custody of her....she leaving in like 10 mion so i NEED help SOON.....whats it going to be like? will she have to talk? how should she dress???? HELP (link)
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when my friend had to go to court for custody she never had to talk.. But she still dressed up in a good pairs of dress pants and a nice shirt...
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i like this guy alot and hes my best friend well i got someone to give me advice and i think it will help i mean i dont know if he likes me but he said if we go out then it will ruin our relationship and i dont think that cause all most every best friend hes nad he went out with before (link)
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When it comes to that... I have alot of guy friends.. But I will not date any of them. because it is true that if you are really good friends with the guys.. and you break up.. it will be ackward between you 2. It's happened to me before thats why I won't date any of my friends. So I think you are better off trying to find someone else to like... but... Its your decision.
Hope I helped..
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ok well i went out with this guy for like a year, but the down part were went out off and on, like we broke up 10 times...stupid i no....but like every time i talk to him, i start to like him again, but i dont want to go back out....i dunno what to do...HELP! (link)
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I know how you feel... I dated my ex off and on for 2 years.. and everytime I see him.. or talk to him.. I fall in love with him all over again.. and I dont want to be with him.. but... you feel this way because you cared deeply for this guy.. and you cant forget someone who you loved and cared for... There will always be a part of him that is with you. But I really do know how you feel..I hope I helped.. If ya need anything. Drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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i really like this guy but he is 2 years younger than me. my friends think its not right and i get really hurt. should i be wrong to like him or should i ignore my friends? im very short so im just a tiny tiny bit taller than him. hes the sweetest guy in the world though. please help me thank you i rate :) (link)
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Oh my... I'm in the same situation.. I'm 17.. and I like this guy that is 15... and my friends don't like it either.. But.. If you like the guy.. Then I really think you should go for it.. You shouldn't care what your friends think. Eventually your friends will realize how happy you are.. and they will realize you made the right decision..
I hope I helped
If ya need anything.. Drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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Hi see I was on My New Honda Motorcycle and I slide and wreck, it didn't hurt that bad but when ever I walk I have to limp, whats wrong.
Im a gurl age is 15 and a Champ of raceing (link)
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I'm not sure whats wrong.. I've never had anything like that happen..but.. You need to go see a doctor.. If you are limping when your walking.. Then there is something wrong..
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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :( (link)
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That is not worth it at all... you do not want to be with someone who just wants you for sex.. and from the sounds of it.. That's all he wants. Stay a virgin until you know your ready to be with someone like that..
Hope I helped!
~*Jackie~*
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i havnt had a boyfriend for like a year and i dont know whats wrong with me i dont really like anyone i mean some guys are real cute but i want a boyfriend what do i do? (link)
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I'm in the same situation... I have had a boyfriend for almost a year.. October will be a yaer..But there is nothing wrong with you.. If you were in a great relationship and you really loved the guy.. Its hard to move on.. That's what's wrong with me.I know some cute guys.. and what I do.. is i find a guy I like.. and I try comparing him to my ex.. and if he doesnt have what my ex had.. I wouldnt date him.. but.. you need to give people a chance.. go out.. have some fun.. meet some guys.. I'm sure you will find the right guy.
I hope I helped..
If ya need anything.. Drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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One of my friends said that her parents thought people who attempted suicide or thought about killing them selves were crazy- and i said that i thought that to, and then my friend said that when people have depression they cant help it so they just kill them selves..i didnt believe it..but is it true that you cannot control ur self when ur depressed? i mean isnt there something u can do about it --HelP * i RaTe hIgH (link)
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I've been in that situation... If you get the right help.. you can control yourself while you are depressed... The people who do commit suicide usually didnt get the right help.. or enough attention.. in most people when things start getting rough.. and they dont want to deal with it anymore.. They all think ok.. I'll just kill myself.. I've had a couple friends commit suicide.. and I never knew why.. But I do know that they needed help.. and wouldnt go get it..
I hope I helped answer your question.
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