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Well I just found out lots of stuff about world war 2 and hitler that I didn't know before.. and I have one question (and I pray to God someone has the answer to this) HOW THE HECK could Hitler break that peace-agreement they made in Versaille, without any other country stopping him??? Am I the only one who finds that ridiculous?? Any answer (or even oppinion) is welcomed.
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i don't think there's really a reason that no one stopped him, because quite a few countries knew about it. i think it was simply that no one believed or wanted to believe what he was doing, and they knew it would take a war to stop him. which is really unfair to all the jews that had to suffer through the holocaust. but america's made a lot of mistakes as a country. unfortunately.


Im after songs like stand in the rain by superchick.
thnx








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in terms of lyrics the song "stand" by rascal flatts is similair to an extent. and if you're just looking for encouraging songs saying not to give up i also suggest:

-"me and jesus" stellar kart
-"hold on" stellar kart
-"hold on" good charlotte
-"inner strength" hilary duff
-"wishes and dreams" stellar kart

hope you like some of these and they fit what you were looking for.


well i've started to do more things with guys
but i've never had a guy finger me
i tried doing it myself but i can only fit one finger in
is this normal?
usually when guys joke around they always put up two fingers.
im just lost :/
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it's normal to only be able to put one finger in right now because you haven't been stretched out. start with one finger and then move to two. it's going to hurt when it stretches but it's a great way to prepare for sex.


I can't seem to get my iTunes to Sync the songs into my iPod Nano. I've tried the following:

-changing the cords I've been using to connect the iPod to the iTunes
-Restart computer
-going back to the Apple menu and starting over

Still, it doesn't seem to be working!

PS: My brother and I got into a fight today and he threw a tantrum. I happened to be listenting to my iPod at the moment and he whacked my hand so that the earphones disconnected from the iPod and the iPod fell to the floor (it hurt like heck). I think that might be a possibility... Ugh, I'm going to KILL my brother if it's his fault... (link)
it's highly possible that it's broken because it was dropped. try resetting it by pressing and holding down the center button and the play button, and if that doesn't solve the problem you can send an e-mail to apple telling them what your problem is, or take it in to best buy, they have geek squad in their store to fix ipod problems. hope this helps.


i usually shave my pubic hair every so often but it hurts when i shave it.
then when it starts to grow back it gets itchy.
does nair work?
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yes, nair works very well, however it may not be so easy to use on areas other than the legs, because even using it under the arms becomes difficult. however, if you are willing to sit and wait and spare a little frustration it will work.


Alright here is the deal i need a song that me and my boyfriend can call ours. But i dont want it to be just another frilly love song that has really nothing to do but love. I want a song that has to do kinda with our life and our love. See iv lived a kinda bad life and iv been through hell and back and when he met me i was down in the dirt lower than you can get, and he picked me up and hes my night in shining armor. I want our song to have something to do with life being hard and thinking of the worst and then someone coming to save you. But if anyone can give me any good love songs that will be very well appreciated. Thanks

Short N Punky (link)
"the last night" by skillet. some of the lyrics are "this is the last night you'll spend alone, i'll wrap you in my arms and i won't let go i'm everywhere you need me to be, the last night you'll spend alone, i'll look you in the eyes so i know you know i'm everything you want me to be..." hope you like this one.


i shaved my eyesbrown, ha (ew) how i make them grow faster? eatting a onion? (link)
unfortunately there's no way to make your eyebrows grow back faster. i accidently shaved off half my eyebrow in seventh grade, and it took about a month to grow back fully. in the meantime try using eyebrow pencil so it doesn't look so bad.


Okay, this question is really strange....How can I stop my boyfriend from eating his boogers? (link)
wow. umm... this is a weird problem to have. but talk to him about it. tell him you would really appreciate it if he didn't do it anymore, that it really bothers you. offer him rewards and stuff if he stops doing it. or say things like, i won't kiss you until you try and stop, stuff like that. a habit takes 30 days to make or break, so if you can get him to stop for 30 days you should be fine.


I am 13/f and Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months now. For a while now he has been acting very strange, like he hasn't been calling me as much as he used to, whenever I call him he always has to go after 30 minutes. That isn't the only thing that has been getting me mad about him he also has told me he kissed another girl and then said that he was just trying to make me jealous and I don't know if I should beileive him or not. WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????? (link)
well... it's difficult to tell what he's trying to do here. often after a couple has been dating for awhile it's not quite the same as it was when the first started dating, some of the "magic" fades. this may be why he isn't talking to you as much as he used to. as for him kissing another girl, the fact that he told you means he probably was trying to make you jealous, because if he was trying to cheat on you he probably would've tried to keep it a secret. however, he may have been trying to get you to break up with him by telling you what he did. i think the best thing to do in this situation would be to talk to him and ask him whats going on. ask him if he feels different about you now, and say you're kind of concerned because things have been a bit different lately. if you don't get a clear answer from that, then just see how he responds afterwards. if he seems to be making an effort to talk to you more and act diferently, then he cares. if he doesn't seem to change at all then it may be time to move on. good luck.


Hi im a 14 year old female and i am about 4foot9 in height and i only weigh like 74.6 pounds and i really want to fit a size 0 or 1 in skinny leg jeans because all of my jeans and school pants fit way too lose and when i finally find a pair of pants that fit tight enough they are too short and when i find a pair that are long enough they are too big and i dont have an eating disorder or anything (i eat alot by the way)so when i asked the doctor what the problem was she said that my weight was steady so i cant gain or lose weight so i just wanted to know how i could go from a size kids 12 to a regular 0 or 1 please and thank-you! (link)
one of the things that works best is simply taking in a lot of calories a day. eat three meals a day, but also eat snacks throughout the day to help you gain weight. also, if you don't like eating nonstop you can make shakes that have a lot of fruits in them and milk and such. some stores sell protein powder and stuff that will help you gain weight as well. desserts will help you gain weight fast because they're high in calories, but don't eat too much of that because it will also become unhealthy


I want sad love songs, i love breathe again by TSFA, and Teardrops on my guitar. Can anyone help me?!! (link)
here are some sad songs about losing someone you love, etc.
-"miserable at best" mayday parade
-"three cheers for five years" mayday parade
-"almost lover" a fine frenzy
-"i can't make you love me" bonnie raitt
-"winner at a losing game" rascal flatts
-"stay" sugarland
-"it's not over" secondhand serenade
-"if you're not the one" daniel bedingfield
-"your call" secondhand serenade
-"sunday drive" the early november

hope you like some of these and think they relate to what you were looking for.


ok, so i like this kid a lot. i've known him now for about 6 months. he is one of my best friend's brother and is 3 years older than i am. i really like him alot, but i am never good with talking to guys like that. I can be a friend but when it comes to liking someone i can't even talk to them in person. he is a senior this year so he'll be going to college next year.. i just don't know what to do.. if anyone can help, thank you so much. sorry about not being able to explain everything too well. (link)
when you want to talk to him, ask him about things he likes, that way you can find out if you have any similair interests. think about how you talk to your friends, and try to talk to him that way. if your friend knows you like him and is okay with it, ask her what he's interested in so you have something to talk about. good luck


i dont have crabs, but like i was just thinking.
if you shave "down yonderr" can you even get crabs?
gracias. (link)
you can't get crabs from shaving, but you can get a lot of little red bumps that can itch or hurt. to prevent this make sure you use shaving cream and shave down, not up.


anyone know the name of that movie where that girl has a baby in i think walmart?

she names her americas?

i think i spelt it wrong but yeahh

helpp?? (link)
i think it's "where the heart is." with natalie portman...?


i hav dark brown hair, and it looks black, i want to put bleach blond streaks in, im not sure if it will look good or not. im not tan, but im not super pale. should i do it? i want to do it because i want a new look. (link)
it depends on the look you are trying to achieve. if you want something that really stands out and looks edgy, then yes, this is a good color choice. however, if you want something that looks more natural and are looking for streaks that will look like they came from being out in the sun a lot, then you want to choose a brown that's a couple shades lighter than your own hair. also, if you're looking for an edgy look bleach blond is a great color cuz you can dye your hair any color you want later on, and because your hair is so dark the color will only show up on the streaks so you can end up with blue or pink streaks. have fun.


which one is better for movies subscription? (link)
it depends on what you are looking for. they both ship movies to your house for about the same price. however, netflix has a slightly larger collection of movies, and a shorter wait to get brand new movies when they came out. if you get a blockbuster subscription you can take the movies you get in the mail to a blockbuster store and trade it in for a movie from there free of charge. if you get netflix and are getting three or more dvd's at a time you can download and watch movies on your computer free of charge and as many as you want per month. hope this helps.


my old best friend thats a guy who i love told me he doesnt wanan be my best friend or makeout and do stuff with me naymore. i cant stop crying and i love him so much for so long. i really just need to get over him hes not even nice to me anymore! and please give me songs like tied together with a smile by taylor swift that show how pretty you really are in the inside. thank you so much! (link)
it's hard to get over things like this. but if he doesn't want to be with you, then he obviously wasn't the one for you and you wouldn't want to be wasting your time on him then when you could be finding someone better right? i don't know why he said all the stuff that he did to you and changed so quickly, but he had no right to break it to you the way you did. try doing stuff that you like doing to take your mind off him. read, a book watch a movie, hang out with friends. hanging out with friends is a great idea because they love you and will try their best to make you feel better. as for songs, i don't know any like the taylor swift song, the only ne i can suggest is "beautiful" by christina aguilera. hope this helps.


Okay so me and the boy have been going out for a year now and ive never let him do anything to me until recently. Sure, I've done stuff for him, lots. Either way like I said, basically hes done the two main things you can do to a girl without going the full way, and I got so worried. Because I thought, what on earth could possibly be pleasant about doing something like that?! I worried about it for days, thinking he'd been like ewwwwwwww for days afterwards. Thing is, he always seems keen and I want to know why?

Boys, do you find doing those things to girls in any way attractive or are they just things you do to keep the girl happy?

If you do like to, how much?! And Why on earth?!

Also. Another bit of advice. I always feel wierd about telling my boyfriend I've enjoyed something he's done. For all my life I've been clever, and everyone knows that. They know, and most of my friends and his friends think that I'd never do the things I have done with him. Sure, I'm popular, but I'm innocent too, in the eyes of most people. It feels wierd admitting to pleasure to him, 'cause I figure he mights be creeped out - I don't know why.

Do guys like it when you admit to pleasure??

This all sounds really naive. But I'd love it if you could help me out :)

Thankyou very much :)

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well, i'm not a guy but i feel that i can help a bit with this. a lot of guys do like doing stuff like that a lot. my bf practically begged for me to let him do it. it just depends on the guy. but most likely he's doing it because he likes it and wants to make you happy. and, yes, guys REALLY appreciate and like it when you tell them you like something you did. it makes them feel good and confident about their skills.


okay so i had two dreams in one night
the first one was a nightmare
where me and my family were up at a cabin
and i kept seeing images of a dead girl
then we were at a beach there and i was terrified my grandma was gonna get drowed by the waves
she didnt but the waves kept coming at me
then we were back at the cabin and they were all about to leave to go somewhere without me but i was too afraid to stay home alone so they called this perky loving babysitter.anyway,they left then the dead girl or whatever took over some kitchen appliance and shot something at her and she died.i tried to call but my phone wasnt working.i ran down to the beach and thought i was safe,but then some live little girl came up i think she was possesed,and threw the appliance at me.then i woke up.


-second dream-
i was able too go back in time,i went back to when i was in like second grade,seeing myself that young alone was amazing,but at first i was with my family playing in the yard and i then i saw me down the street ran after me and little me ran away.i finally caught up when my birth mom came and asked me what was going on and why i was chasing her daughter.i told her she wouldnt believe me but she insisted she would so i told her i told ehr i was from the future and called her the name only i did.she said then i would know that last night they went through s terrible time.I sat there and talked to her then to my younger self and gave her tons of advice.then i told her ide be back a week or day before she went into 7th,and i went back and got supplies and then came back a week before i went into 7th and gave little me even more advice.i brought my camera and took tons of pictures.i was gonna leave but i couldnt no matter what i tried.i was stuck there and stayed in this weird room.i tried to get out everyday.I got ina fight with this girl i talked to barley in elementry that were taunting me.i got up and was about to fight but then said it wasnt worth it.the guy ive liked was with them too.then i kept trying and then woke up.


if you need any personal details ask and ill send a message
if you can help with one or both of these thatd be fantastic.or even parts of them.
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okay. for the first dream i would say that you were probably scared your grandmother was going to get drowned by the waves is because you are worried about her dying soon, possibly? you cold be worried about your family leaving you, or not getting enough time with you, and you dislike feeling alone. maybe the dead girl represents someone in your life who took someone you loved away from you. (maybe a girl/guy who stole your best friend, or your bf/gf)the live girl could represent someone new in your life that is like the dead girl who stole someone away from you, and you are worried it's going to happen again.

now for the second dream. it's kind of hard to interpret what happened in the dream, but i don't think there is a lot of meaning behind it, probably just you remembering your past or pieces of your past with new stuff added in. it might be suggesting that you miss the time when you were that age, or have been wanting to talk to you birth mother.

i hope some of this helped, i'm not an expert at dream interpretation but i've been told that i'm fairl accurate. please feel free to ask any further questions.


So I think this guy may like me. He's two years older than me. And he's been texting me, aiming, and messaging me alot lately. And last night he asked me if I was going to the valentines dance or not, and i said i don't know and i dont have a date, but maybe. He agreed with me and also said he didnt know if he was going either. But it sounded like he wanted to ask me to the dance, but the dance is on Saturday, and I'm not totally sure if he's going to ask me or not. What should I do? (link)
i think he was definitely asking if you were going because he was interested in going with you, however, he may be too nervous to ask you. give it a day or two, and if he hasn't asked you then you could bring up the dance again and ask him if he's changed his mind about going or found someone to go with. and, if you're not too nervous you could ask him if you could go together. if he doesn't seem to excited about it you could always say you meant just as friends. good luck.




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