Question Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 10:58 pm
I am 13/f and Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months now. For a while now he has been acting very strange, like he hasn't been calling me as much as he used to, whenever I call him he always has to go after 30 minutes. That isn't the only thing that has been getting me mad about him he also has told me he kissed another girl and then said that he was just trying to make me jealous and I don't know if I should beileive him or not. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????????
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? aidenisfire answered Wednesday February 13 2008, 9:20 am: well... it's difficult to tell what he's trying to do here. often after a couple has been dating for awhile it's not quite the same as it was when the first started dating, some of the "magic" fades. this may be why he isn't talking to you as much as he used to. as for him kissing another girl, the fact that he told you means he probably was trying to make you jealous, because if he was trying to cheat on you he probably would've tried to keep it a secret. however, he may have been trying to get you to break up with him by telling you what he did. i think the best thing to do in this situation would be to talk to him and ask him whats going on. ask him if he feels different about you now, and say you're kind of concerned because things have been a bit different lately. if you don't get a clear answer from that, then just see how he responds afterwards. if he seems to be making an effort to talk to you more and act diferently, then he cares. if he doesn't seem to change at all then it may be time to move on. good luck. [ aidenisfire's advice column | Ask aidenisfire A Question ]
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