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Well. Lets start with my name. My name is Whitney. I'm 13 years young. I'm pretty cool if I say so myself. Most likely, I'll stereotype you, place you into a group, and judge you; So prove me wrong & show me who you really are. My favorite stores are Ruehl, Nordstroms, & Rearends; but, I'm not scared to be seen in a salvation army. It's kind of like, if I see something I like, I'll get it. I am my own person. I can be the nicest person you'll ever meet, or the meanest. My favorite color is brown. I'm allergic to cats, but I have three. My friends mean the world to me, and my sister is my major role model. If I'm having a bad day, watch out. I LOVE LOVE LOVE when people drop things in my inbox. I WILL try my hardest to answer your questions & give the best advice I can. I'm not too good with relationship problems, only because its hard to explain over the internet. I've gone through a lot through these measily 13 years, but I'm telling you, I've got some knowledge.

But anyways, I really hate talking about myself. So I'm done.
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My bestfriend is a guy, and ive known him for like 6 years and i dotn know why just all of a sudden i think im in love with him, its just the little things that he does and, i think hes the only guy that really looks into my eyes and tells me things..I mean we are best freinds so of course we tell each other everything, but he tells me like ALOT, and he seems that he likes me sometimes..he used to be like a brother to me but i kno theres no way i could or would ever go out with him..what do i do? (link)
Well, since you guys have such a great friendship, going out with him will probably ruin your relationship completely and you know you dont want that. I mean, since you guys are bestfriends, you are probably with eachother constantly anyways. So maybe having him like a bestfriend, is like going out with him but just keeping your great friendship! Good Luck!


Theres this guy at my camp (teen) lol, and hes black, Im white. And hes really nice and sweet, funny, cute, hot, and i think its true love ive only known him for 3 weeks and i wont see him ever again after friday. I sad and confused i know its love not just a crush because you feel kinda sad and happy at the same time and you cant eat or sleep and you want to cry type deal. How do i get his email or IM (i cant call him) without sounding like an idiot and how can i tell if he likes me or not without sending a messanger to ask him? please help me im really sad that ill never see him again and ill never know how he feels about me.


He use to be mean to me and now hes nice and sorta quiet.

ill rate ya if the advice is good. (link)
YES! You are completely right. DO NOT send a messenger to him. That is the worst you can do. Just get a lot of people's sn's and email addresses that day and just ask him. I promise. It isn't weird! GOod Luck!


my cat is breathing hard and his mouth is partly open. and hes just lying on his side a lot! he went into the bathroom and just layed there under the sink for a long time. is he dying? or is it because of the hot weather? When my hamster was dying, she was just lying around and breathing hard. please answer imidiatly. i love my cat. (link)
I would probably take it to a vet. (it might be pregnat!) :)


I don't know if anyone on here is gonna know anything about writing music but I was wondering if anyone has any tips on writing music with guitar. I can write lyrics but not music. I've tried writing some music but it usualy ends up very badly. So any tips? (link)
This isn't the best tip, but I've been playing piano for a while and I know a little bit about chords. Start by doing a melody without chords, just notes and then when you start singing, go into major chords if its a happy song, and minor chords if its sad. Sorry if that wasn't the greatest tip...i tried :-/!


okey dokey, i'm gonna be a freshman...14/female and my brother is gonna be a senior, so he wasnt much help. ok if you're a guy, what do you like to see on girls, and if your a girl, can you help me out with some good stores to shop at and what clothes would look good for this school year so i dont look like a fool in front of the upperclassmen? thanks in advance. (link)
Okay I am a girl and I would love to help. Everybody has different ways to dress---punk, goth, skater, prep, jock, etc. I will give you a few stores that I think wont make you look like a fool in front of the upperclassmen.

If you want to be a...
...Goth, shop at Hot Topic
...punk, either shop at Hot Topic or PacSun
...skater, shop at both PacSun and Journeys for shoes
...prep (my favorite, shop at Abercrombie (fitch), Hollister, or Aeropostale and for shoes i would suggest Phat Pharms
...jock, shop at any sporting stores. But, if i were a guy i wouldnt want to see girls in big baggy sport clothing becqause that is what they should be wearing if anyone.

I hope everything works out. And if you are short on money rigt now or saving for something, try shopping at Kohls or JCPenny's because there clothes aren't too bad, and they are starting to make clothes that look like popular brand name clothing but only for less! Good Luck!


heyy ii really need someone to help me in this situation. please i rate high =) ..

ok well my boyfriend and i have gone out like once or twice b4 and were going out as of now again and the first 2 times i broke up wit him for the same reasons being 1) he acts all different around me and its like its not the person that i actually like in him 2) he choses like his friends over me for example we`ll be talking on the phone and hes like ''my friends calling i gotta go love yah bye'' *hangs up* its like yeah i love yah 2 .. talking to the dial tone. and im just soo stuck.. i mean 2day he came over and ofcorse he just had to bring over one of his friends.. and this is one of the problems tha way he acts when hes around his friends compared to me.. and like his friend wanted him & i to make out and stuff and thats just not something that my bf would do right away in a relationship and stuff so he started acting like lets do it type of thing when thats really not like him.. idk and like he tells me im beautiful like only when his friends are around i mean is he just trying to get something from me, im soo confused. do i believe him or not? .. and im always tempted to break up wit him but the past 2 times i broke uhp wit him i regreted it .. and soo yeah im really just stuck..and i just wanna move on in life.. i dont know what to do .. anyone have any sugguestions between break up or just like any other ideas? please help!! (link)
Okay. Well it seems like he is a little "friend obssesed!" what you need to do is sit him down and talk to him!
talk about the following--
--how he needs to pay a little more attention to you or you guys need to break up
--how he needs to include you while hanging out with his friends
--how he needs to spend some individual time with you at least 1 every two days
--how he needs to act more like your BOYFRIEND! Tell me how everything works out...I hope it does!


how do i get a girl to like me (link)
Okay, well i am a girl and i know how to help you. Okay, well first start by giving her compliments. But don't be too creepy on the compliments because sometimes it scares them away. Also, always remember to be yourself, because if one day you try and be someone different, she may not like you anymore. Next, always ask/talk to her by yourself. Girls always think its hott and kool if guys have enough courage to talk to them in person because us girls can be pretty scary sometimes! Ha. Never swear around a girl, ignore her when you are with your "kool" friends, cheat on her, be overly obsessive with her. GOODLUCK! You will get her, because you seem really concerned and loving and paonate enough to get help!




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