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what do u do when u kno that ur friend is lying to u...but since it is nothing major i dont want to let her kno that i kno cuz im afraid it will ruin what we have :( (link)
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first of all.. how long have you two been friends? do u REALLY have an awesome relationship with this friend? if you do, you should be able to confront her and still be friends. i would try talking to her. but first, make sure you have all the facts. do u know FOR SURE that she is lying to you? if your absolutely positive, confront her. ask her why shes lying and what shes hiding from you. let her know that she can tell you anything and that you want to be friends with her and work out the problem. you have to talk to her calmly though, and show her that you are not going to get upset or angry. consider this: is there anything that you could have said or done to make your friend lie to you? if you can't come up with anything you might have done, then its your friends problem. ask her about it. a simple conversation could work.. at least it has for me. good luck!
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Whenever i make a joke to my friend like hoes be4 bros she is a blonde n doesnt get it (as it reference to her profile chixs be4 dicks) how do i tell this person that there stupid in a nice way instead of just being like DUMBASS lol those ppl annoy me...................:( (link)
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well MAYBE this friend got the HINT lol. and CHICKS before DICKS is RIGHT. not HOES before BROs. i mean come on dude, the saying is bros before hoes, u just cant CHANGE it. haha
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Theres this girl in my interior design class named tara and shes nice i guess but i dont really like her cause shes a little sophomore. i dont know what to do she always sits with me. im like UHHH what do you think you're doing? how do i let her down nicely? hahaha...i told you! (link)
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first of all, i dont find this funny! haha i lied, yes i do! well MAYB this COOL sophomore ONLY hangs out with you cuz theres no one else to talk to and your just a junior that she can socialize with.. for the time being.. hahah jk u kno i love u stef!
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Well see, I tried to prepare a peanut butter and jelly sandwhich the other day, but I just couldn't do it! I mean, how do spead he jelly!? Man, I need your advice Tara, ASAP!
- Erich
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geeze, what do we need to go back to kindergarten when we learned this? lol. there are several ways to do this, but ill tell u my personal fave. take two peices of white bread.. get a knife and spread peanut butter on one side. take another knife and put the jelly on the other side.. then put the two peices of bread together and enjoy! lol ur so weird erich
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alright i was kinda mad at a problem that was goin around. the problem was dealing about me, and my friend found out and got really mad at me..so i yelled at them and got really mad and didnt talk to them for a while but i finnaly said sorry that i did mean for that to happen and they said that it was okay but now i am starting to wonder if it really was okay.. they are having a good day untill the period comes when they have me. they get in the worst mood ever and bitch at me alot. IDK what to do i am really sorry for what i did but now they dont talk to me at all. And i want to be their friend but now they ignore me and wont talk to me. IDK what i should do please help me out i want to be their friend but it doesnt look like that is gonna happen (link)
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what kind of problem were you going through? if you were going through a "problem" your friend shouldnt have been mad at you, they should have been trying to help you. but if YOU were the one who got mad at them first, i can understand why they would get mad at you. think to yourself,what did you do to make your friend mad? were you sincere in your apology? does your friend really know your sorry for whatever reason? if not, maybe you should try giving them a very sincere apology. if youve already tried apologizing more than once, let it go. chances are your friend is still mad and needs time to get over things, and harping on the situation is only going to make things worse, not better like you are hoping for. try talking to this person again, but don't bring up your argument. let that go, and never talk about it again. see what happens. this is kind of broad considering i dont know that the problem was.. but hope this helps!
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ok i have a friend who calls me her bestfriend but she somtimes doesnt seem like it. she has another best friend too and i dont really like her that much cause i feel like she is taking my best friend away from me. we have known eachother for a really long time and they just met not long ago and she doesnt like me much either and i'm not sure why she doesn't? (link)
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it sounds to me like you may be a tad jealous of your best friends other friends. if you and your best friend have been friends for a long time, chances are, that is a strong friendship, and it't not going to fade just like that. it's totally normal not like your best friends other friends. but know that your best friends other friends are probably not trying to take her away. they just want to be close with her and have a good friendship with her, and are probably unaware of the way they are making you feel. i can't answer why she doesn't like you much, because that goes on a more personal note. have you said or done anything? have you had a friendly, accepting attitude? maybe your best friend likes to spend time with you and this other other person separately, because she knows you too do not like each other that much. if that's the case, try going out of your way to be friendly to your other friend. you'd be surprised at what happens. it may even form a new friendship.
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Ok I have this problem...I have been dating my boyfriend for a while. Sometimes i get kinda board with him. Like I dont even know what to say, and you get the awkward pause.... It's hard we dont hang out with the same people. When I go to Parties and stuff sometimes I feel like other guys are hitting on me and I wont lie I do like the attention from other guys. There is this one guy I think im starting to like I have spanish with him. My boyfriend HATES THIS PERSON WITH PASSION!! I'm so confused what do I do?
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*Don't know what to do?*,
yea, it can be very hard not hanging out with the same people. and yea, what girl DOESNT like attention from other guys? its totally understandable, and girls are allowed to enjoy attention. i can see why it would make your boyfriend jealous though. still talk to the person in spanish. i knwo it sounds bad and like ur cheating on your boyfriend, but if its innocent talking, its not cheating. no dates, no hookups though. get to know him better. once you know what hes like as a person, say to urself, "ok, there's my bf, and then there's Mr. Espanol." which one is the better match for you? which one has a better personality? who do u like more? u shouldnt be able to answer these questions until you have taken the time to know Senor Spanish. and there are awkward pauses in ALL relationsips. its natural. but if you feel this starts to be a problem, and you think that there is really something between you and this dude in spanish, reconsider ur current situation with your boyfriend. that's my advice to u.. hope it helps!
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Dear XoLilMsYankeeoX,
I have this friend, well acutally shes one of my best friends and i love her so much, but it feels like were drifting apart, and i hate it. Ever since my boyfriend and i have beein going out, we havent been as close, and i she dosent seem like him him. and i always said that i would never let a guy come between my friends and me. But now i think its happeneing. But sometimes i feel like she kinda excludes me on things.. maybe im wrong, and i do the ssame thing too.. but since we have different groups of friends.. shes usually hers and im w/ mine, and i dont feel comfortable around hers and she knows that but i dont kno if she understands it. But yeah its realy had me down lately and i just dont kno if this is just a phase or if its going to last a long time. I guess what im saying is i need ur help on what are things i can do to maybe help pull my realtionship back together with her. If u have any suggestions that would be great. (link)
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mayb ur best friend misses you a lot and she feels like you don't let her in on anything nemore. you don't tell her nething, u don't talk to her, and u don't come to her with ur problems like you used to. and yea, you two have drifted apart, a lot, and it all is because of this boyfriend. no, ur best friend doesnt like this boyfriend that much but hey, thats a given. chicks before dicks, right? wrong. that's how it was SUPPOSED to be between you and your best friend but it happened neway. the infamous story of the boyfriend coming between friends occurs. ever since you've been going out with this guy, your friend feels as if you don't have any time for her anymore. mayb you're always talking about this guy and nothing else, and then when you sense something is wrong, u stop talking about him altogether, and because u only talked about this guy, there is nothing important left to talk about. and sometimes mayb ur friend might wonder what in God's good name made you go out with this guy? she think's he can be really weird sometimes. but mayb she tried to stay out of it and not get caught up in crap, because she just wanted her best friend to be happy. but that just made things worse, because you two grew farther apart then ever. and yea, she knows you have different groups of friends, but who the hell cares? she doesnt, and u dont, thats why ur friends in the first place? so why should it matter? mayb she hangs out with those friends more often because it seems more and more often you are hanging out with your boyfriend and ur group of friends. and she DOES understand that you arnt comfortable in her group of friends, even tho she has tried in several ways to include you, so its not her fault you declined so many times. mayb ur friend just wants to help you come out of ur box, a plan that was supposed to happen over the summer but never did. and its ok if it never does happen, but it didnt hurt to try. just because ur not hanging out with ur bff all the time doesnt mean u should stop telling her things. because that means she is totally out of your life, and that makes her VERY sad. because she loves you SO MUCH and misses you terribly.. so i guess my advice to you is to talk to her, in person, and give her a huge hug, because that's enough to make anyone's day SUPERB
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is it worth it now? to have a relationship in high school(10th grade) dont all relationships jsut end. i have not had a happy end to a relationship. i put so much in and get little out. i jstu got out of a big relationship and lost alot of convidence. is the heart break worth it? should i jsut avoid relationshpis and getting close to some 1 to avoid the "damage"? no girl i go after seems to want to be as commited as i do? can u help me out?
-Mr. nothing really seems to work (link)
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Mr. nothing really seems to work,
yea, it really is worth it. leaving long-term relationships and getting back into the game is tough, im not going to lie. stop and think to yourself, are you really ready to get back into a new relationship? what are some things that caused the old one to go haywire? what are some things you could do differently? or mayb the problem wasn't you. maybe the problem was the girl that you were seeing, and in that case, your self-confidence should be high as ever. your not the one with the problems. you don't have to rush into a heavy relationsip right away. you can casually date a few cuties, and if you like one girl more than the other, go for her. chances are, she likes you too. don't be afraid to get close to someone again. mayb ur not making the message clear to the grls u like that u like them. there are plenty of ways to do this. have u tried flirting with them? talking to them? mayb even telling them u like them? they may not take you seriously until you are serious with them. hope this helps you!
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I like this guy A LOT... like a whole lot. but he has no idea. and if he does, then that sucks cause he shows no signs and he totally never even talks to me. I try so hard to talk to him but I get nothing. Please Help Me! - Hopelessly Inlove (link)
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Dear Hopelessly Inlove,
ok well first thing here.. guys are totally clueless! he probably likes you too and is scared because he doesnt know if your into him. mayb just talking to him isnt going to cut it. have u tried kicking up the flirting a couple of notches? also, little gestures can let him know what ur feeling without you ever having to say a word. make it subtly obvious that ur into him. go up to him, start the conversations, talk about his interests. try asking him if hes into ne1 rite now. if he doesnt get these hints and ur still into him, consider telling him what ur feeling. chances are, he feels the same way back. if ur scared to do that remember this: the reward is worth the risk.
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Dear XoLilMsYankeeoX,
Everytime i like a guy they always end up being a dick or an ass and its not cool. I want to find the perfect guy but I dont think its ever gonna happen. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!??!
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i think that u should be patient and keep ur eye open. no guy is ever gonna be perfect, but its gonna be pretty hard to find one that comes close. go out places, do fun things, meet some new guys, or get to know some friends better. and DON'T give up hope. keep in mind: not ALL guys are dicks and asses.. you just gotta find the right ones. and trust me.. they're out there
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