Ok I have this problem...I have been dating my boyfriend for a while. Sometimes i get kinda board with him. Like I dont even know what to say, and you get the awkward pause.... It's hard we dont hang out with the same people. When I go to Parties and stuff sometimes I feel like other guys are hitting on me and I wont lie I do like the attention from other guys. There is this one guy I think im starting to like I have spanish with him. My boyfriend HATES THIS PERSON WITH PASSION!! I'm so confused what do I do?
*Don't know what to do?*
yea, it can be very hard not hanging out with the same people. and yea, what girl DOESNT like attention from other guys? its totally understandable, and girls are allowed to enjoy attention. i can see why it would make your boyfriend jealous though. still talk to the person in spanish. i knwo it sounds bad and like ur cheating on your boyfriend, but if its innocent talking, its not cheating. no dates, no hookups though. get to know him better. once you know what hes like as a person, say to urself, "ok, there's my bf, and then there's Mr. Espanol." which one is the better match for you? which one has a better personality? who do u like more? u shouldnt be able to answer these questions until you have taken the time to know Senor Spanish. and there are awkward pauses in ALL relationsips. its natural. but if you feel this starts to be a problem, and you think that there is really something between you and this dude in spanish, reconsider ur current situation with your boyfriend. that's my advice to u.. hope it helps! [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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