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I have blonde hair & greenish/hazel eyes .. i love to CHEER & DANCE!! and i also love giving advice :) so yeah..ask me some questions!!

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E-mail: thecoolestchick1156@hotmail.com
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Location: Massachusetts
Age: 16
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Member Since: May 25, 2005
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Last Update: August 23, 2005
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I really need to get in shape this summer but I can't find a gym..I finally found one near me..Bally total fitness gym..is that place for adults only? (I'm 15/F) ..can you bring guests? Do you have to join? Do you have to take a class there or can you just walk in and start working out? Please help..I will rate 5's I PROMISE!

i've heard of ballys before. im pretty sure you need a membership to go there. you can sign up if you're under 18 but you need a parent with you. try finding the website on google and they will have more info. or just call them and ask =)

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when does the guy put on the condom? does the girl do it or does the guy?

if you dont know this then i dont think u should be having sex.

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how do i make out with a boy? i'm going to a party this weekend and i need to know how!

i know u've probably heard this before but trust me - it will come naturally! just follow the guys lead!! make sure u have good breath & dont be too messy..dont use too much tongue!! and take it slow at first! hope i helped & good luck!!

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When I was younger, I met a friend online that was a year older than me. We grew totally close, and then like all friendships, we had a fight. She knew I lived near NYC and the day after 9/11 she imed my AOL sn that I had kept the same. Then, I didn't want to get hurt again, so I made the friendship fail. I know this sounds stupid, but I want to find her and talk to her again. Her AOL sn has changed, and I tried asking a site for her new sn but htey neer contacted me back. How can I find her?

I dont know if there is a deffinite way. If you know her first & last name then you can search that way on AOL but if she didnt fill out a profile then I dont think it will come up!!!

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Can anyone give me some fun websites to get quizzes and internet games from? I rate high for good sites.

www.bored.com !! or go to snood.com and download that game. its addicting haha

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I'm going to a movie with my best friend, her boyfriend, and his friend who I like tomorrow. The boy I like and I are good friends but I want to know if there are any hints I can give him tomorrow at the movies, maybe to lead him on. People say he likes me and he's been giving hints but how should I act tomorrow. Any tips?

flirt, laugh alot (dont be annoying though), be kinda touchy. something that i always do to give them a hint is be like "you're my type" which doesn't really tell him that you like him but deffinetly gives a huge hint!

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My friend and I think these 2 teachers in my school are going out. I really think they are going out. They show all the signs but I dont really know? I try to find out .. but are there any ways that they are expressing their love secretly that I am not seeing. I knwo you are probably like just mind your own buisness but this is really important and its a long story. I justt need help i rate high !! thanks soo much

Ask them ? If you just judge by what they are doing together then you could mis-interpret the truth which starts rumors.

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i have to give 2 presentations at school. One on tuesday for history and another on wednesday for health. im sooo afraid. i am 18 years old and have been doing school presentations forever but no matter how many times i do them or no matter how much i practice and prepare ahead of time, i get up in front of the class and my voice shakes a million times a minute and im so embarrased and scared and just want to die! no matter how calm i am before i go up there, once i face the class, im done. what can i do to help me with this??

dont look at them!! try not to make direct eye contact & just pretend they aren't there! :)

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Last Friday me and my friend (lets call him Joe), were cuddling on the couch. But it was big like he had his arms on my hips and everything. it was kind of cute. Anyway we've kissed once as a dare and 3 times in this game suck and blow(they play it in the movie clueless, its when you put a piece of paper to your lips and suck in that way you can hold it up and then the person sitting next to you has to get the paper to stick of to thier lips so if you drop it you kiss.). The funny thing is he kept saying he was this master and dropped it like 3 times haha. We always flirt thats a given. He said to my friend that me and him are friends with benifits are we?

Well yes, if you guys are doing stuff together and not technically together then you are friends with benefits. I'm not really sure what the question/problem is here ..

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I have a pet monkey. I also have an awesome girlfriend who I plan to ask for her hand in marrage. I love her a lot and she means the world to me. However.. I had alredy bought a very expensive white gold and diamond encrusted engagement ring. But.. I know this is going to sound stupid and made up.. but my monkey ate it. He seriously honest to god te it! I dont have enough money to buy her a new one.. so what to I do?

tell ur girlfriend what happened! it will be a funny story for you guys to laugh about at a later point in life... :)

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i have a strange feling of the urge to do it but don't have a boy friend what do i do?

well if you dont care about waiting for someone special then go meet a guy somewhere. im sure it wont be too hard to find a guy willing to have sex.

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Well this morning i woke up and my boob was hurting. what could this mean?? 14/f. thanks

They're growing!! YAY for you!!! Or you just slept in a weird position. haha

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Ok, so I have this major confession!! I have a boyfriend, lets call him *Bill and he is super annoying. He wont shut up!! And when he does shut up all he wants to do is to have it w/ me!!! And the thing is, I don't really like him that much cuz im in love with this boy that i met on the internet and I REALLY want to meet him but I can't!!
Thanks,
Debbi

P.s. I rate high!!!

go for the guy on the internet! ;) no point in staying with someone u dont like!!!

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Hey guys um I weight 128 and I am 13 I have been trying to loose some weight. But I never can how is the fastest why to loose weight like 10 in a week or 2 please tell thinks

Eat right. Drink 6-8 glasses of water a day. EXERCISE!!! Atleast 30 minutes a day!

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I was wondering if anyone knew what the slang phrase "mow my lawn" means. One of my guy friends told me that on his knees begging & I can't figure out what it means. Is it like guy code for something? I'm very confused!

xO HiL*

Hahaha um i always thought that meant to shave your "private area", but it doesn't sound like he meant it like that. Sounds kinda odd ..

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i love my X but he has a gf now.. we were together for 8 months and i broke up with him and left for vacations. after i came back he asked me back but for some reasons we never hooked up again and fought. he started dating this girl and now they are together. when he was with her he used to call me but i never answer my cel because i was angry at him. about a month ago we saw each other at a party and he was with my best friend the whole party taking about me, he said "i would leave my gf just to be with her, i still love her." and more.. we talked but not much because i was too nervous to face him. we chatted and i asked him if what he had said was true and he said yes after that we didn't speak again, he didn't do anything neither did i. about 3 days ago he saw my best friend in tennis and they talked. she said "i always believed that you and alex would end up together" and he said "me too".. he always has in his nicks about past love and first love quotes like "i would never love the way i loved you" "it's so hard to forget about you" .. in his profile (wich he updates every week" he has "single" in his status. my parents were getting divorced, i was dealing with bulimia and my mom found out and gave me a hard time, i was feeling very low about me at that time but now i want him back. i think i'm losing him because he has on his nickname "now a love story is coming to an end" ..PLEASE advice me because i DO love him but put yourself in my position and tell me exactly what would you do!! remember that putting myself out there IS REALLY HARD.. PLEASE..advice me!!

you NEED to tell him how you feel. otherwise he will think you're not interested. you already know how he feels but he wont feel that way forever so go get him while he does!!

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heyy, i'm taller than my b/f, hes 4'11 and im 5'0.. I hate wrestling with him cuz every time I go near him he gets into the feidle position and goes 'oh crapp' I weigh 90 pounds and im 13, so im not overweight at all.. But how do I stop making my boyfriend scared of me!

Haha aww thats horrible. But girls always grow before guys!! Just wait it out, he'll grow eventually. In the mean time don't wrestle him I guess?

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ohk so im sick of people in school calling me a whore + hoe. i mean im 13 im 7th and still a virgin. yeah i've gone out with some people but that is no reason for people talkin shit about me! ohk well everyone in school (the ghetto ppl whi used to all be my "friends") want to beat me up because im a "whore". the preppy's say that im one of the prettiest girls in school and that i can get any guy i want, so thats why they call me a whore because there jelous of me and they see me as competition. when a guy grabs my ass i turn arround and slap them or kick them and tell them off and to respect me! well they wrote stuff about me in my locker "______" sux ass and in the bathroom they wrote "_____" is a bitch and slut ... this gets me so upset especially the people who say that act all big and bad but they cant say it to my face ... and i get so upest i dont eat at all, and i've been cutting lately and i know its not worth it! so what can i do ?? please help me

Deffinetly sounds like jealousy to me!! That's horrible what they wrote on your locker & in the bathroom, you should deffinetly report that to your principal or someone!! Girls can be so mean..but you just have to learn to ignore them & realize that it's your life - you know that you aren't a whore! Dont let it get to ya!! And pleeeease stop cutting .. that makes me sad!

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My friend gave me a mood ring and i was wondering what do the diffrent colors mean? I know all it is is it changes when the temature changes but just wondering.. thanks

The ring should have come with a paper that tells you what each color means .. ask your friend if she still has it!

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Yesterday my boyfriend of six months broke up with me. We broke up because he has to work this summer and he says itll be really hard for him to just see me for one day a week instead of the six that were used to. I was so sad after hearin this, I cried almost all night cause i really miss him. Now last night he started to second guess himself, and he tells me how he made a huge mistake and he didnt think it thru. Well he wants me back for the summer. What sould i do, I do really like him amd want him around. Should i let him back??? just be friends??? or take a step backwards and say were just dating again????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!

I would say to go back out with him. If you really like him as much as you say you do then you will only be hurting yourself by not going back with him..it's not like he did anything wrong to you like cheated on you, lied to you, etc. He just made a bad decision & is now realizing that!

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