I'm a simple girl, I don't need a lot to please me. I love giving advice and the greatest pleasure for me is knowing that I have helped people out. I am often misunderstood and judged to quickly because of my age. But I have been through enough in my lifetime to understand and identify with many of the people who come to me with problems. I am willing to do whatever I can in order to help you all out, so anything you need, just ask :) I answer all questions honestly... no matter how much the truth hurts.
E-mail: xkelseyx12@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Age: 15
Member Since: June 6, 2008
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well ive been single for a really long time and,im only 15, i know. i decided to sign up on a dating site, well this guy i though was really cute he's 24yrs old, i think thats an ok age so he asked 4 my email and were chatting, except he lives in korea& on his site theres only 1 pic do you think i should trust him,and believe he's what he says he is? also umm..do you think online realtionships work out??and can you actually call them a realtionship even though you cant see them>?? (link)
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absolutely not! internet relationships have bad idea writtien all over them. you are only 15 years old, you have plenty of time to find a boyfriend and you dont have to go to a dating website in order to do that! and 24 is way old... and you dont honestly know if that is the truth. please please be careful and break it off. there are plenty of places to meet boys that you can actually see and that are your age! don't be discouraged because it has been a long time since you've had a boyfriend. the right guy will come along!
good luck :)
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does anyone have any quotes about really missing someone who has died? (link)
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Your absence has gone through me
Like thread through a needle
Everything I do is stitched with its color.
~W.S. Merwin, "Separation"
I think about you constantly, whether it's with my mind or my heart. ~Albany Bach Reid
I dropped a tear in the ocean. The day you find it is the day I will stop missing you. ~Author Unknown
Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you like hell. ~Edna St Vincent Millay
The third one is my favorite one. I hope these help you. Also you can find a lot if you google quotes about lost loved ones. or missing you quotes.
:)
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im a 15 year old girl &i used to date this guy asian gangsterish type guy (not really gangster) who is 16yr, one year older than me. i thought i really liked him untill i found out he had a really sick realtionship with his ex gf.like he used to tell me he used to get sexual with her in his bed,even though were only in high school. any way he was my fist guy, i lied to him and said he's my third guy and the second day we dated i started getting sick of looking at him he grossed me out then a month later i was plaining 2 break up cause he stsred bugging me but i was too scared cause i thought he would do something crazy, so i tried liking him so, then we went to a movie and he kissed me but when we did it was really gross!! nothing like i imagined!!eugghh!! does that mean im lesbian or is it cause, i didnt really have feeling 4 him?? help seroiusly!! (link)
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Just because your first kiss was not like you expected it to be doesn't your a lesbian. DONT FREAK OUT! haha its all going to be okay. It probably was not "magical" because you don't really have feeling for him. My first kiss was absolutely terrible, it felt like I was kissing no one because I felt absolutely nothing. But once you find the person that you genuinely really like, there is the fireworks like you read about :) and trust me it is worth all the terrible kisses you have to endure in order to find the one who kisses you and gives you chills, and you will find that person... eventually. Be patient and in the mean time, don't lead this guy on anymore. You have to tell him that you don't have feelings for him.
Good luck :)
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there's this song "never felt so lucky" by roark. and i can't find the lyrics ANYWHERE. so if someone could help me out it'd be greatly appreciated :] (link)
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Sleeping on your shoulder
On this huming train
That lipstick makes you look older
But this pillow feels just the same.
Far beneath the bench we ride
The metal tracks lay side by side
Caught in the coast through this life
And you close your eyes whenever we collide
And it's pushing these questions aside.
But you're black and white
So then capture the feeling
But this countryside is gonna come to life
You know I never felt so lucky
Never thought that I'd feel so alive
You know I never felt so lucky
Never thought that you'd be by my side
Sad, clean and still I seem
My memory rolls
To a time when I was 6 years old
Driving through my mind like smoke, like fire
Like the voices of a choir
Telling me "never give up"
But you're black and white
So then capture the feeling
But this countryside is gonna come to life
You know I never felt so lucky
Never thought that I'd feel so alive
You know I never felt so lucky
Never thought that you'd be by my side.
Never Felt So Lucky
This time I wanna see the ending
Find out if love is worth waiting on, yeah.
I know the fire, I'll just stand here waiting
To see that love, I burn.
I burn.
You know I never felt so lucky
Never thought that I'd feel so alive
You know I never felt so lucky
Never thought that you'd be by my side
You know I...
You know I never felt so lucky
Never thought that you'd be by my side
... the website I found them on was
http://www.lyricsmania.com/lyrics/roark_lyrics_33492/other_lyrics_64393/never_felt_so_lucky_lyrics_758810.html
Hope these are the right ones :)
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whats the difference between a private college and public college? besides cost. (link)
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There isn't really that much of a difference. Private schools you don't have to pay out of state tuition, just private tuition and they tend to be a little harder to get in. Other than that, they are basically the same.
Hope this helped :)
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so most of the guys that i have liked have been preppy.
cute type boys.
but then one guy came up and started flirting.
callin' me "beautiful" and "baby" and all this stuff.
its kind of obvious he likes me.
[not to sound conceded]
and i didnt think he was cute or like him really before, but every sine he called me those things and we flirt or wahtever i have grown to like him.
is this because he likes me?
is this the wrong thing to do?
im prepppp and he is hardcore!
weirdd. (link)
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The fact is every girl loves to be called beautiful, and sometimes we all need change. If you genuinely like him, there is nothing wrong with it. Just because you didn't like him first, doesn't mean you can't like him now. Just make sure that you truly like HIM not just the attention taht he gives you. And if you find that you really do like HIM, then I say go for it. It doesn't matter that he is hardcore and your not. If you both like eachother, that is all that matters.
Good luck :)
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okay so i have dirty blonde/light brown w/ blonde highlights hair and dark blue/gray eyes. i usually wear black mascara on the top lashes and black eyeliner on the bottom lid. i basically think my eyelashes are too short and i wanna know what would make them look longer? thankss. (link)
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Well I have basically found the miracle mascara. At least I think so. It is called Volume Express Turbo Boost Mascara by Maybelline. You can find it at target and walmart, it is pretty inexpensive. I apply one coat, let it dry and then apply another coat. Then use an eyelash curler, or eye lasy comb so get all your eye lashes going the same way.
I hope this works for you as well as it did for me :)
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I was wondering were I might find vintage shirts. From like the 80's with cartoons of like Popeye the sailor man. For a girl by the ways.
Thanks in advance.
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I am not exactly sure about an actual store you can find one. But I love vintage t's and I buy them online at this website.
http://www.t-shirts.com/style/Juniors/Girly-T-Shirts.html
Hope this is what you're looking for :)
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I was wondering if there are any stores that have the Little Miss Sunshine shirt?
Stores in the mall or like Kohls?
I wanted that shirt and was wondering were I might find it.
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I have seen it at Kohls, Pac Sun, Nordstrom, Anchor Blue, and Tilly's.
Hope you find it :)
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ive had my permit for awhile and im not the best driver but im not that bad. none of my family trusts me driving and they expect me to be perfect at it..practice makes perfect, but they dont like my driving so they dont let me practice. then i always have to hear crap about how bad i drove when i made a little mistake because im a NEW driver i cant be perfect. i've driven with an instructor for 6 hours, ive read the book. but good driving doesnt just come overnight. im so sick of getting **** for my non perfect driving. i try talking to them but they dont think i take it seriously and i really do! but driving takes practice and time which im not getting..what the hell am i supposed to do!? thanks. (link)
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well sit down with one of your parents... if you confront them in a group, they will be more liekly to think of it as a joke. so sit down one on one with your mom or dad and just tell him exactly what you just wrote to us! Tell him that you really really want to be good, but in order to do that you need their help. Parents always want to hear that we need them. So just tell them that you can't do it without them and you really are in need of guidance from them. Then ask them if you can go driving with them one day, for the whole day. You may not want to give up a whole day to spend with your mom or dad, but if you parents are anything like mine, they will jump for joy when you tell them you want to spend the day with them!
Hope this helps a little :)good luck!
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well there's this boy i like, and one of my friends thats a boy, gave me the boy i likes number. i am goin 2 call him but i dont know wat to say becuz i never talked 2 him b4, just like good job at things in track but i dont wanna talk about sports or school because its the summer so what do you think i should do (link)
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just be really casual when you call him. if theres something that reminds you of him or something just call him and be like wow I just saw (whatever it is that reminds you of him) and I totally thought of you! and then just you can ask him how his summer has been and his plans for the rest of the summer.
... if you dont want to do this. something i always do if I cant something to say on the first phone call is call and be like wow I just saw someone who looks just like you and I made a total idiot out of myself by calling out him your name! I know it seems lame but it breaks the ice becausr you both have something to laugh about and it works! that is actaully how I started talking to my boyfriend... and then you can just talk about summer and everything and maybe even set up a date??
good luck :)
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So.. I told this guy me and my friend are having a movie marathan and he should come cause he never really just chills out and watches TV. This was a lie. I just want to hang out with him. So I told my friend "hey, totally random idea, we should have a movie marathon" and she said "YEAH that sounds great".
Now how do I, as smoothly as possible turn this into a bigger event without to many people getting invited? I DONT WANT ANY OTHER GIRLS THERE, so it would be stupid tosay "lets invite some more people, cause all her friends are girls" I just want this guy and his group of friends there without it seeming too obvious that I organized it to meet this guy. The girl who's having the movie night knows one of the guys in that group really well.. if that helps.
Exactly how do I put the sentence together when asking her? TO SUM IT UP: I need a a better, more discreet, way of saying "hey, how about you invite john and all of his friends, although you hardly ever ´talk to them, to the movienight? LOL
Appreciate your help ;) (link)
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hmm you could say something like... "Hey why don't we spice up this movie night and invite some boys to join us." what girl can turn down a dark room with lots of boys hah :) and then when she agrees, which she hopefull will, be like well I was talking to John the other day and it might be fun if him and his friends joined us.
Hope this helps :)
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16 f okay so i have really poofy hair and since summer is starting i really want to curl it up and i dont have time to straigten my hair all the time so i wanna make it curly but everytime i use gel it doessnt work on my hair it leaves it curly for like 2 hours and then it goes poofy. i want something that would work for my hair its like a little below my shoulders and i really want it to get curly help please i rate!
please dont say get a curling iron a hair product that works is what im looking for thanks! (link)
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I have the same isssue :( but I use either Bed Head Control Freak or Herbal Essences Totally Twisted curl boosting mouse. Both work really well for me. And you can find them both at target or walmart.
Hope these help :)
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what can i use for my skin that will help these problems?..
-my skin gets really really dry after i wash it/use acne creams (i put moisterizer on but its only temporary and then..
- throughout the day my skin gets really greasy
i have mild acne. my friend said antioxidants really help, is this true?
alsooo my skin is kind of red, especially after i wash it, my acne really stands out because of this.
so what products would be good for my skin? thannks (link)
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I have the same problem with my skin drying out all the time. The face wash I use is Cetaphil Daily Facial Cleanser and then after I wash with that I use Cetaphil Moisturizing lotion. It works really well for me because it helps keep my face clear and it doesn't dry out my skin. Both these products can be found at target or walmart.
...also my sisters face gets really oily throughtout the day and she uses a simple blot powder to take away the greasy look but without having too much heavy make up on. she uses MAC powder but you can basically use any kind of powder, just as long as it is blot powder and doesn't have color to it.
Hope this helps :)
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Hi. Ok well my stomache iz pretty flat but my only problem iz my love handles! Ugh. Can u plz tell me how I can rid of them or how 2 disguise them? Thnx=) (link)
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Most girls have this problem, so your not alone in this! This is a link to a website with the exercises I use. I hope they work for you. Also a way to disguise them, so they don't look so big is just wear shirts that are tightly fitted underneath your chest and then flow out. Also don't wear your pants to low on your hips, I know it seems awkward to wear them higher but the lower you wear them the more attention that is going to be focused on your love handles.
http://www.flat-stomach-exercises.com/love-handles.html
Good luck :)
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Our gym class is biking to an ice cream place and we have a uniform. Where could I put my money? I don't want to bring a purse or something because that will distract me and i'll probably crash.
Many girls stick it in their bras but I'm VERY flat chested; if I sticked a penny I think people would notice.
Would it work if i stick it in my shoes? (link)
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shoes will work... or you can just stick it in your waist band if your shorts aren't like baggy.
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how should i meet this indie intellectual guy i really like at school? i have a friend who knows him and she has offered to introduce me but i dont think i have a chance anyways.
help please! (link)
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Next time you see him... say hi and smile, no matter where you are. That way, even if you don't have a real conversation at first, he will still know who you are and the next time you see him, strike up a good conversation. If this doesn't work, go to your friend and get her to intorduce the two of you. Don't tell yourself thatyou don't have a chance, because you never know until you try. and you don't want to psych yourself out.
Good luck :)
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i am really upset over the fact that my phone got teken aaway
i really wouldnt be but the thing is me and my boyfriend go to different schhools
and his phone got taken away too
and i know him, he'll be too scared to call my house
and barely ever comes online
i dont know what to do
i thought about crying
but that just wont do anything
=/
help
any ways of communication would be good ..
ugh
so
mad (link)
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if your not grounded... surprise him! show up at his house, or if he plays any sports, or after school! if that is not an option, you can always try communicating through mutual friends.
Hope everything works out for you, good luck! :)
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so i ate really bad stuff today (fatening wise) so a while after i ate it. like a couple hours later, i tried to throw it up. nothing would coem out after a lot of tries of jabing my finger down my throte. just this heavy thick white salivia. what is that? (link)
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well i'm no doctor, but if you waited a couple hours the food was most likely already too far into your digestive system to come back up. The white saliva is more than likely the liquid that was left in your stomach.
...i know this isn't the advice you asked for but I feel like i really need to say it. Throwing up is not the right thing to do, no matter how fattening the food you ate was. so please don't do it.! it is so dangerous to your emotional and physical health.
Good luck :)
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i know that breaking up with someone you love is hard. especially for me.
well let me tell you about my relationship.
his name is josh. hes smart, sweet, and sensitive.
we been together for about 2 months or so. Although its been a very short relationship, i think that its time to say goodbye.
Josh moved to california about a month ago, and he is not coming back to hawaii for another year or so. and there is no way whatsoever that i can go to california due to expence.
the question is, i still like josh, but i dont want to have this kind of relationship. Everyone tells me that the worst way to break up with someone is in email, text, letter, or phone. but how else am i going to breakup with him. There is no way we can see each other, and i am NOT going to wait a year.
so what i am asking you is... How do i do this the nicest way possible??? I cant see him, and i want to break up. but yet, i still love him. So how would i break up with him? tips are welcomed:)
[just to let you know, josh is very sensitive, and i dont wanna hurt him]
i thank you in advance. you have no idea how much you would help me:)
thanks.
sorry this is long.... kristy:) (link)
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let me first say that I am sorry that he moved away. I know how hard it is to see someone you love move away, but I really admire you for knowing that the right thing to do is break up with him. I know it must have been a really hard decision for you to make. The best way to let him know is to just tell him. I know that you obviouslt don't have the best circumstances because you can't see him in person... but the over the phone is your next best option. Texts and emails are too impersonal because he can't hear your voice. another option is video chat.. if you have it? just tell him exactly what you wrote here... that you still love him, but it is just too hard because you are so far away.
Good luck with everything and I hope it all works out :)
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