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I have a problem I did somthing i shouldent have my mom told me never But i was curios so I looked a porno online should i tell her i looked at it or just leave it as is?

leave it as it is unless she questions you don;t tell her

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Hi My Name Is Katy And I do not what Jay-Z to retire. Do you?

Help!

P.S.
What Highschool do you go to?

Signed Jay-z Rules

yea I don't want Jay-Z to retire either I love his song 99-Promblems. I go to Shawsheen Regional High School.

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Ive been goin out wit muh b/f for almost 2 weeks now but we knew eachother like 3 weeks before that and we were kinda close before he asked me out. Well a couple nights ago muh friend talked to him on the phone and they got on the subject of sex n all that. Now I am 15 goin on 16 in 3 months and hes 17(senior) goin on 18 at the end of sept.Well they were talkin and now hes really into wantin to do shit. Before we juss chilled n all we did was makeout and still do.I mean hes not pushin me to do anything I dont wanna but I did tell him I would have sex wit him but not now ya know?! But yeah I wanna but I dont know if Im ready or not. I like him alot and I can see my self bein wit him for sometime now. I have talked to some of my friends that arent virgins and about like when its ur first time n all that. Im juss scared about like the consequences and of it hurtin or somethin??.. Can someone PLEASEEE gimmie advice worth taking..Thankyou:)

if you want to wait to have sex then wait. Another thing is when you are ready you will know. You won't have any doubts or concerns. Don't think that after a certain amount of time you have to have sex. Every person is different I have friends they started having sex 3 weeks into their relationship and it ended soon after and then I have this other friend who's been going out with this girl for 15 months and they still haven't had sex because she isn't ready and he's perfectly happy with it and will wait forever. One last thing the sooner you have sex the sooner the relationship will end. After you have experienced everything with that one person and get bored its over and that could be after only a month of going out.

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Where are some cheap places to find a homecoming dress? I'm basically just looking for a black one, nothing too formal.

Deb, JCPenny, Sears, Delias and Alloy

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k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!!

Fredrick's of Hollywood, Victoria's Secret and La Senza all have very cute ones

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Hey i'm not allowed to get a tattoo, so i really want to get a henna. where can i get a really good henna kit, thats not expensive?
thanks.

hot topic has the kits. But don't get the black kind. Get the brownish-red. The black is really bad for your skin.

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Can Sex keep you in shape?

yes yuo burn calories I don't know the spefic numbers. Also the sweat produced during sex gets rid of pimples. Endorphins are also released and they make you feel really happy

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erk.... there's a banquet in honor of one thing or another (i wasn't really paying attention to what the heck my dad was saying) and there will be dancing. my boyfriend says he would love the honor of having the first slow dance with me. one problem is... i'm not sure how to slow dance. i mean i know where to hands go... but the feet positioning and the movement just kind of gets me. >_< please don't make fun of me. please help.

all you do it put your arms around his neck and shuffle you feet side to side

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what r some ways to get rid of cramps

midol, tyneol, advil, heating pads, warm bath

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i'm on my sister's advice name, but im a guy and i have really hairy arm pits. is it weird to um...shampoo it? does anyone else do this? thnx

i don't know of anyone who does this but I don't watch guys in the shower. But if you think your armpits need shampoo then do it. Nothing is worse than a smelly boy

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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!!

cutting is when some cuts themselves on purpose. Usually when someone cuts there is one or more reasons why they are depressed and don't know what else to do. They think that by cutting themselves the physical pain of the wounds will help them feel better.

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Ive been going out with this one boy for about 2 months. and i like him a lot but we havent kissed! and i do not make the first move. how can i make him kiss me?

14/f

you can't make him kiss you. But why not make the first move. maybe he's waiting for you to make it. So make the first move and see what happens

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do people really like stick gerbils or animals in thier buttholes?

they are some REALLY werid people out there so yea maybe but that's nasty

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every once in a while (but not too much) I go to some sort of fancy dinner and I always get so confused when the first course comes with my silverware. Which fork do I start with? Usually I just use what the person next to me uses, but what if they're waiting for me to use a fork first? it could become very very confusing.

Just remember this work from the outside in. That's all you need to know

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i have a question. what is oral sex? i hear about it but am confused on wut it is

oral sex when a guy or a girl sucks on someone elses clit or dick. Its like giving a HJ but using your mouth instead of hands

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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay?

no your bi-curious your sexulity can take years to figure out so don't worry

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i have this friend(lets call her mangan)and latly (especial last year) we have gotten into a lot of fights (not physical, but like over stupid thisngs) like 1 time when i didnt get her some shoe! but anyways we have been frineds since second grade and it is now eighth. she is makin new friedns and so am i, and i am afaidi will lose her, and that is the last thing i want to happen :( i just gotn know wut to do cuz i love her to death and always will please help me!

signed,

tryin to hold on!

(dont deleat cuz i really need adviuce!)

No matter how hard you might and try to save the friendship you two still might not be friends anymore. People grow up and grow apart that's fine. Just remember all the good times you had together.

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I slept with like 5 or 6 guys one night (i dont really remember) i was drunk. i wasnt really sure what was going on. now i think i am pregnant... what should i do? and i dont know who the babys daddy is...im 13

first get a pregancy test. If your not pregant but even if you are I would stay away for getting drunk since it clouds your judgement. If you are preg. tell your parents everything they might be upset at first but you are they're daughter. Then get to a doctor to find out if everything is ok. Then REALLY think if you can support this baby. Think of your options, have the baby and raise it, open adoption, closed adoption then of course terminating the pregancy. Your 13 which means your still in middle school so really think long and hard on what you want to do. if you have any more questions drop them in my inbox

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