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ok..i'm 15..im seeing this guy who's 16..and i really like, ok well love him and everything's so perfect right now..BUT i've never made out with any1..i've been the type of girl always into sports, school..not really had time for boyfriends or serious relationships..BUT he thinks i have "french-kissed" some1 and i feel dumb telling him
AwW! Well hun I would just go with the flow i guess!! Dont be nervous or nething cuz that wouldnt b good... lol!! Let him do all the w0rk!! :0) And always REMEMBER.. Have a breath mint b4 u see him just in case cuz u dont want ur breath 2 smell bad lol!! Well Good Luck!!!
im going out with this gurl hoo lives aways off but there is another gurl i like that lives closer to me but i never see the one that lives out of townbut i cant get ahold of her should i just say im breaking with out her nowing causs i dont have her # wat do i do and i like this other gurl.
Ohh WoW!! This Is like WaT happened 2 my friend.. But she was the gurl who lived FAR away!! lol!!
Well Since I know what happened 2 my friend. I would mayb try 2 get her number on like whitepages.com or sumthin!! Or if u have her email or AIM sn that would work 2!! And if u get a hold of her!! Be NICE!! :0) But if you cant do any of the above just move on in ur life! But if u ever do meet again i would break up with her!! Mayb yall could b Friends?! It would probably be a lot easier!! If you like the other gurl.. move on.. But tell her about the situation so then she knows if sumthin happens... she knows u arent cheating or w/e and ur actually tryin 2 get out of it!! GooD lUcK!
i like this guy and he only likes me as a friend so what should i do?? i will rate u!!! plzz help!!
confused- gurl :(
Well I would just be friends with him.. make him laugh a lot!! Like try 2 impress him!! Things lyk that!! Just remember he can change his mind so its not like its hopeless! Good Luck!!
what r some things that i can say 2 the guy i like?? how can i become a better flirt...lol...??
Just make him laugh.. Thats all u gotta do!!
I've been really depressed since i graduated middle school back in june, but its not really obvious to my friends and family. Well, maybe it is, but they don't really ask me about stuff, and let me know that they can tell i'm depressed. I dunno if i'm ever going to feel better, and I just wanted to know if anyone had tips of moving on from a broken heart.
Thank you.
AwWw!! Im SrY suM1 broke ur
Im having this party for my birthday but im not sure if i should invite one of my friends because im kinda worried that she might end up trying to hook up with my bf. Shes had a crush on him before i went out with and it seems like she still does. Ive talked to my bf about it and i know that he wont try anything with her but like i said... its her hooking up with him that im worried about. She knows that i MIGHT be having a party but that im not sure. We are friends but i barely talk to her since she goes to another school. Should i invite her?
Well she doesnt seem like that great of a friend if u think shes gonna hook up with ur bf!! I would invite her.. But.. Keep on eye on ur bf.. but most of all on HER!! lol. An easy way would just b with ur boyfriend at almost all times at the party or just ask a friend 2 keep on eye on her!!!!
okay me and my ex bf broke up about 8 months ago. we were going out for a year, there was a huggeee fall out between the 2 of us and we supposedly "cant stand eachother". atleast thats what i say to make it not look like i still have feeligns for him. whenever i see him he doesnt really talk to him, etc , but when im not around and whenever he sees one of my friends, he ALWAYS asks about me, like how i am and if i have a bf, etc. what do u think hes feeling? do u think he still has feelings for me?
Yah it seems like he does still have feelings 4 ya!! Why else would he ask ur friends if u had a bf!! If you still have feelings 4 him.. next time dont b so0o distant next time u c each other! Pretend like nothin happened!
ok well i am a crazy grl u noe and i like to be with my bf a lot u noe and i still like to make out and all that crap but other tiems i just want to hang or have fun like i do with my freidns like egg ppls houses or teapee u noe jsut pure fun and do guyz not go for like just full of energy personality grls i mean will they ever wanna do that kinda stuff with their girlfrend give me some advice
i think that they will!! cuz its great when ur bf/gf is just like 1 of ur best friends!! u can do everything 2gether!!! just ask him if he wants 2 go egg sum1s house or w/e u wanna do!! im sure he'll say yah!! Have Fun!!
I just met my current boyfriend this summer and I really do love him. The problem is, he's moving a little too fast for me. I have no problem kissing him but he's trying to do more and go further. I'm too embarrassed to say something, but I really want to take things slow since we haven't been going out for a while. He's really experienced too and he's done alot of sexual things with his old GFs. I'm not anything like them though! What should I do or say to him?
Tell him ur not ready and u wanna take things slow!! If he doesnt stick around then hes not worth ur time.. and u shouldnt b with a guy who is pressuring u into things!! Take ur time!!
okay.. so i like this guy.. *joe.. and like.. weve kinda been doing "stuff" for a while, im not sure if he REALLY likes me or if hes just using me, ive asked him if hes using me and he said he isnt, but i dont know, tonight hes supposed to come over and i dont want to do anything with him if he doesnt like me and we cant have a relationship ya know? sorry if this is confusing but i really need help, btw i rate
Well if i was in ur situation Id do wat u would like 2 do.. Not do anything probably for a week tho!! If he doesnt get mad hes probably not using u!! (I really hope hes not usin u!
im 14 (almost 15) and my bf is already 15. weve been going out for about 9 months, and weve only done kissing. i want to go further but i dont know how to get him to...help!!!
Just tell him straight out.. Im sure he wants 2 do sumthin more also!! lol!!
I am 15/f and I always end up liking younger guys. Usually guys that are 14. Is there anything wrong with that.. cause some of my friends think it's a lil weird.
No0o!! Its Really Not weird!! Most people who are married are atleast a year apart.. very rarely they r actually the same age!! And it shouldnt matter what ur friends think is weird!! Its not like theyre datin them, RITE!! hehe!!
My romantic life has really slowed down in the past couple of months, and I'm having troble meeting guys. Does anyone have any creative places where they have met guys? What's the best way to walk up to a guy and get into conversation?
HmM!! Well The Mall isnt really creative but a lot of cute guys are there lol!! You could get a job (if ur old enuff 2 work!!) at a store that a lot of guys go into! Like a sports equiptment store or a place that sells guys clothes!! You could go 2 a coffee shop 2 meet guys 2 like starbucks a lot 0f the guys there are cute!! lol!! You could really meet cute guys Newhere! The Best way 2 walk up 2 a guy iz when you know they're interested! lol!! Like you know he likes ya if hes lookin at ya while ur walkin or sumthinn! .. Like Just introduce yourself and be Nice! hehe!! Good Luck!! ;-)
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YaH!! Ppl can fall inlove in a month!
my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP
Woah! It seems like you should Break up with him!! Cuz it seems like he wants to use u!! When your ready.. go for it.. and be safe! but if your not ready then dont do it!! You dont need sum1 pressuring u!!
hey.. im 12 and 5'0 and i weigh 102 im not sure if thats like fat but i mean im a 14 jeans (girls) and ihave very muscler legs.. sadly and its my stomach like i can suck it in and be fine but the sides like poke out! and all i want it to not have to suck it in! like just breathe out and still be thin! all my friends r! and its sooo not fair i think! plz help me lose my extra weight! ill rate!
Ok You Are TOTALLY not fat at all!! And you dont need to lose weight!! If I were you I would start wearing the Juniors sizes!! You'd probably be between size 0-3!! But if you insist on losing weight Run!! On a tredmill or actually run!! Do sit ups and crunches!! And start eating healthier!!
are glasses a throw off to girls?
--- Well it really matters what your glasses look like!! ... Cuz Well No gurl will like a guy with really big glasses.. But if there like nice looking glasses.. its not!! But if you feel like ur glasses are "throwing off" gurls than get Contacts!!! Or just get different glasses!!
hey i'm a 13 year old girl, and i'm really petite(and dont have that much of a chest lol), and i'm like 4 foot 11. evry time i try on jeans, theyre 2 baggy around mi butt.lol. where can i find jeans and shorts n stuff that
HeyY!! i know how ya feel!! idk if you have any of these stores by ur house but.. Rave and 579 have sum good jeans.. and if ya want to shop online or they can send u a catalog.. the websites www.alloy.com!!! Theres a buncha other kewl stuff at that site too!! Hope I helped you out!! :0)