Hi. My name is Alissa-marie, by friends call me Alissa or lis. I'm really open to comments and questions, because i get them alot. OK, Im supposed to give some sob story of why im here. But thats not gonna happen. Because im here because i feel the need to help some one, and i like to do it. You dont like what i say, oh well. I am an up front person. I know how to beat around the bush and i know how to jump into it.(perferably, jumpin, lol)So, now u know a little bit about me. But this is all you need to know. Why? Because this column isnt about me and my woes-you can go to my live journal for that. This is about you. Ask intelligible questions, and you get one back. If you ask a dumb question -and i dont always have a sence of humor- dont expect an answer.**There is a wonderfull button called 'reject'...**
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E-mail: mizsweetheart101@msn.com
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Location: I live in fl but born in NYC
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what color would a smurf turn when u choked it?
and should vegitarians be allowed to eat animal crackers? LOL THOSE ARE FUNNY! (link)
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a smurf would turn green!!! Just like black ppl turn purple!! And, also, Vegetarians should NOT be allowed to eat animal crackers, hence the name. Hey-if your not gonna eat the meat, why eat something with the same name?
Laughing lots,
Alissa
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nd shes really nice to me when its just us but if she is with another friend she is a butthead and i get madf at her all the time but then we talk on the fone or5 have a good time sumwhere and we r friends again what shuld i do i am mad at her again (link)
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tell her to stop being two faced!! You enjoy hanging out with her, but tell her that its hard to hang out with her and other ppl when she is totally mad and degrading. If she talks, listen, even if u r really really pissed. To continue in a friendship, both ppl have to be willing to listen, remember!!
ALissa
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I have a script on my Xanga that makes a frame load around it, and once my friend tried posting a comment and it disappeared. I want to know if I have made it impossible to comment.
Can anyone try to post a comment on my Xanga? http://www.mousyland.cjb.net
I have tried posting a comment from a different account and it worked, but my friend couldn't post... I want to know if other people can comment or not...
Please login before you post the comment or it definitely won't work... (link)
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Go to your settings, and you may have made a block for her. I understand how hard it it...i have xanga, too. If you go through all those settings and make sure that you change everything so that it allows ALL responses, you should ok. If all fails, she needs to make sure shes not writing anything inapropiate, since xanga can delete a file or message that they do not approve of.
Hope I helped!!
ALissa
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I go out wit dis guy. And my mom doesnt agree and my dad does! I love him wit all my heart and i dont know what to do.. PLease help me
PEACE (link)
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Ak your dad why your mom doesnt like him, dont ask your mom first, 'cause that can get ugly. After that, talk to your mom and explain how you feel. And listen to what she has to say, dont tell her off if she doesnt agree. Maybe agree on a day for him to come over for dinner.
Hope I helped!!
ALissa
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what should i do with a friend that just sits there and does nuthin all day long just sit there not even watching tv (link)
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You should invite her over to do stuff with you. She may be depressed, and if she is, shes gonna need your help now more than ever! Whenever your going out with a group of friends, or with your mom and you dont want to be stuck with her all day, invite her to come with. When you go over her house, do craft projects. Get her INVOLVED!
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well i have a boyfriend but i really like my best friends boyfriend…but so does she…she absolutely loves him! my boyfriends really nice…and i like him and my friends boyfriend the same…which is a WHOLE lot…please help! (link)
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Whoa! 2 guys? Babe, chill it! Ok, lets slow down, we need to figure this out. You need to have a talk with your bf, and ask him, wtf? Do you really love me or there something wrong? Why ask him? Because, lack of attention from him might be the cause of your distress. You should give that a try. If thats not it, talk to your friends bf. Question their relationship. See what he says. Ask around. Is he a playa? Does he mess with ppls emotions? Then sit down and think it over. Thats all I can do for ya, hun!
Hope I helped! Alissa
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Okay my friend well call her CH asked my boyfriend (IB) if we were going out and I didnt tell her to and he said no but the other day he told me that we were I have known my boyfriend longer than crystal and i was friends with him for several months before he asked me out and i dont know what to do i wrote him a note asking him if it was true but i dont know if that was the right thing to do i havent given it to him normally id call him but hes grounded because of bad grades and i am really confuse i love him so much i dont know what i would do with out him and i am in desperate need of help so please help me i dont know what to do...-*-Blonde with Love-*- (link)
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Girl, if you love him and he loves you, then you will find the way. Not a way, THE way. How it will go.Tell him that your kind of confused, and if you guys are an item, tell him you need to be his b4 all the competion!! (NOT THAT EXACT WORDING, PLEASE!!) Make the best of your situation untill you can talk to him again. If thats a while, kepp Crystal busy.......hehe!
Hope I helped!! Alissa
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OK...im a female and im 14 I really like this guy but im with his best friend and now i dunno what to do because im startin to like his friend alot, he kissed me the other night and im not gonna tell my boyfriend because i dont want him mad at the guy i wanna be with..but my boyfriend loves me but im startin to love the other guy, but the guy i wanna be with has a past for CHEATIN and my boyfriend doesnt...WHAT DO I DO?Because no matter where i am im always thinkin bout the other guy, instead of my boyfriend? (link)
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Be up front with the friend. You already have your guy, and although you've been having mixed feelings, its best you stick with the one your with.
I know, its painfull! But, hon, its for the best. If you break up with your boyfriend, then a whole bunch of whoop-ash is gonna come about. I know that because its happened to good friends. And once that happens, unless your going to brain wash your boyfriend, thats not going to work!
Srry, Alissa
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Howdy; it's advice-giver lovelyrita in the mood for some advice-gettin'. I'm a 21-year-old female and I'm an incredible cheapskate when it comes to clothes (or anything, really). When I was younger I was Thrift Store Girl, but nowadays I take advantage of the incredible sales at websites like Alloy, Delias, and GirlfriendsLA (RIP). I know I'm a bit old to be shopping at places like that, but I can't resist the call of Sweet-Ass Tops for Under $10. So my question is: do you know of other websites that have fantastic sale sections? (link)
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Girl, i understand your dillema, and my answer is SPEND A LITTLE MORE! Get an Old Navy or NY and Company card. They have the bomb sales, and there perfect for your age. Ny 'n Company is more business casual, while Old Navy is awesomely cheap with the best clothes!!
Power to the cheap ppl!!
Alissa
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okay, well I'm a columnist on here, and give good advice, but still...
Whenever I'm listening to Ashlee Simpson Pieces of me on the computer, Windows Media Player.. It skips, usually that's the only song that does it, does anybody know how to fix it, I click on the 1st link besides the video that pops up
Should I try clicking on a different link, or what? (link)
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Yes! I'm going to a techie school, and babe, you need to always check your options. If there are certain requirements, make sure to fit those best FIRST. Have at it!!
Alissa
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I'm a little unexperienced in the dating world. Entering highschool and having only dated one person is nothing to boast about. I have a hard time realizing that guys are cute and always needing a second opinion... But this guy, is different, I've known him since Elementary and he's a Buddhist, Commie, and Libral Democrat. I think I'm in love. The problem. 1) I don't know how to approach him, 2) My friend, we'll call her Sarah and her best friend Melanie, likes him too... They've always had no trouble and are putting me under a lot of pressure. Don't know what to do... Help? (link)
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Think about this really hard: Do you really like like him? If your answer is yes, then you need to talk to him in a way that shows that your kinda interested, but not trying to be your regular slut. Since you dont look at guys and totally drool, like your friends do, then you know that he'll give you a better chance then the other 'pros'.
hope i helped!!
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okay so my best friend she has this problem where she flirts with EVERYONE! she like cheats on all her bf and flirts with every guy she sees and does stuff with them too. well there is this guy mike and i realy like him and i have for awhile but she just told me that shes gonna go hang out with thim tonight...and i dont knoe wut to do i mean i can't really tell her that i still like him cuz we just got into a fight and like i don't want her makein-out wit him tonight cuz i have him right at my fingertips we're almost even goin out.. and im afraid that if she flirts with him tonight he will prolly do sumthing wit her and then i'll lose him all over again!
so please help asap!
sorry if this is soo long (link)
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Wow! Thats alot of stuff that your feeling. My advice, ask her whats up with them, if shes serious or what. She might ask if you like him, and you might think to lie. But DONT!!! That is the worst thing to do, especially when you just had a big fight. If she denies you an answer, go to him and talk to him, but, please, dont blow your cover!!!
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