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i'm so confused lately. like i have to write an autobiograpy for one of my classes and it's all about out experiences as a child and teen and even up to dating and stuff. it got me thinking a lot. i think i might be gay or like bi. i never really think guys are cute or hot and i just never really care about them like most girls my age do. i'm not interested in dating guys anymore like i was and i don't know. in the assignment it wants us to talk about seeing ourselves being married and stuff and i just cannot picture myself being married. i've never felt like actual feelings for a girl, but i kinda feel more attracted to them..i don't know..
any advice would help me a lot, and if you need more info or anything just ask
thank you
My guess would be your Curious. Your not BI or GAY or STRAIGHT. Your still 'experimenting' alot of young guys and girls are like that. Don't Fret!
So I've been with my boyfriend on and off now for almost five months. Lately though he's been acting really .. off.
I don't really know how to explain it. Like usually he's really funny and sarcastic and he used to call me every night.
But for maybe the past two weeks, he barely talks when I see him, he's hitting the ignore button when I call him, and he won't tell me what's wrong!
The "I'm tired" excuse isn't flying anymore because I know that's not it. And I've been bugging him about what's up but he refuses to tell me. I don't know if it's something I've done or what. Because honestly, there's only one thing that I can think of that he could be upset about.
This guy who's a junior keeps flirting with me and being really touchy feely whenever I'm around him, but my boyfriend KNOWS that I love him. We've been through so much together, I don't believe he could doubt the way I feel for him.
What should I do? I don't want to pry into his life, but I hate seeing him upset. :(
Don't bug him about it. When he wants to talk to you he will. He probably IS tired, he would probably have enough brains to say some other excuse if he were ignoring you. That junior needs to back off you and know you have a boyfriend. And you need to tell him that and show him / let him know. He's not going to back off unless you tell him. If he doesn't stop, go to the principal about harrasment; yes. That's harrasment, it might seem childish, but if anything it will show your boyfriend you don't like this guy :D
Ok, this is a really stupid question but what the heck does imao mean??? People keep using it and i can't figure it out! Thanks! And i will rate you for helping me with my dizty blondness! lol jk blonds can be super smart and im a brunette but i def. can be a dumb blond somtimes!
lmao. its LMAO. meaning laughing my ass off.
or LMFAO meaning laughing my fucking ass off.
I need some help. Adults idea would be appreciated too. I'm in 9th grade and i would like to do a science fair project that has to do with dance. Please something specific!!
ask a friend to help you with this.
in the morning for idk a whole week or two dance a little in the morning, then see if it improves you school perfomance or not.
then for the length of time you did that, dont dance in the morning and see how it affects your performance.
ask a friend to dance though so you can see the results, even better if you can have like a couple do it, so the results are more even [:
ok i read you thing on my picture captions but i have donr it several times and it just shows up as .. everytime whats happening?
oh that happens to me sometimes too, make sure your link is not too long, upload it to TinyPic.
www.tinypic.com
and copy the url they give you, not the one from the top of the page, but off to the right side of the picture.
Ok so i've fallen really hard for one of my like best friends Josh. Now josh has a girlfriend and i know that. But he calls me everynight just to talk and he's always making plans and telling me to come see him. And apparently we both constantly talk about each other to our mutual friend. We work together and at work we steal each others rings (and wear them all day)and joke around like crazy and flirt. He never talks about his girlfriend and doesn't hang out with her much. Does he like me? What should i say? I will never be the other woman cause i will never beleive in it. So what should i do?
Guys are confusing. He could like you, He could also be entertaining himself at work. You never know. I think theres something between you two. So what do you do? Wait. Don't be all like obvious your waiting though. He obviously likes his girlfriend, and maybe he just needs time to think about dumping her for you, or giving her a change. Like I said. Guys Are Confusing.
M/16 Ok, so me and my friends have been hanging out with a small group of girls. One of the girls I kind of like and I would like to ask her out. One of my friends heard that she likes me, so I'm really not too nervous about asking her out. I just dont know what to say. I mean, I know I shouldn't say "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" But when I ask her out, do I literally say "Would you like to go out with me?" Just confused about what to really say. Thanks
One time this guy walked up to my locker, and litterally said 'so I heard you like me, and i like you. so you wanna go out?' I was like, uh yeah? So don't say that. Haha. When your asking a girl out, just be chill. Their the same, we just have boobs and vaginas. Going too far out can be a turn off also though. So if you find a balance your as good as gold. Such as 'so _______ I'm going to the movies this weekend and i was wondering if maybe you would want to come' or something. It's suddle, but cute :D
has any girls here have been in any girl fights like where you get physical? im just wondering im not actually planning on getting into one. so yeah please let me know!
girl fights suck /=
they hurt like hell. girls have nails, they pull on your hair, hit your boobs, call you a whore/slut/sleeze etccc, kick, bite, punch, bitch slap which hurts like hell.
their just not fun. at all. yes, i have been in fights before, im not just saying from stuff i saw. usually though girls end up cat fighting.
Ok,so I'm a guy and I want to dress as a cheerleader for Halloween and I want to look like a real girl cheerleader.Not just a guy in a cheer outfit.Where is the best place to get the outfit and also,where do I get the pantyhose that cheerleaders wear? I live in Pennsylvania if that helps.Any and all suggestions will Def help.
you can try party-city, walmart, target, a friend who cheers, big lots maybe. and i would imaging panyhose is lollipops aka spankies. i think it would be really uncomfortable for you to do that, but go to a sporting goods store, ex - dicks. it wouldnt come with a uniform you bought, and i dont think your friend would loan you those if you borrowed from her :D
Okay,my flute is broke and my mom doesn't have money to fix it right now. I can't play my middle f and e. But I can play my middle a but nothing higher than that. So I was just wondering if the pad on the first key in the middle column is broke or whatever,any advice would be great. Thanks
Okay, So You Probably Already Thought About This, But Take It In To Your Music Teacher At School And They Can Probably Tell You And Loan You One For The Time. Or Take It In To Your Local Music Shop And Ask Them How Much It Would Cost To Be Fixed, How Long, And What's Wrong. And They Can Probably Tell You All That Just By Looking At The Problem.
hey! so i'm 14/f and i would really like to model. How can I jump start that career to become a good enough model to submit my photos to agencies and things? ANY HELP is appreciated!
p.s ive never done or tried anything before. so if there are any models out there, how did you start?
Mkay, First, If Anyone Asks You For ANY Money Up Front, It Is A Scam. Just As A Warning.
Okay, Just Because I Don't Know Your Location I Would Suggest Going Into Your Phonebook And Finding A Small Agency. They Can Just Help You Get Some Portfolio Pictures And They Can Help You By Giving You Tips. Take A Modeling Class, Or Maybe Even An Acting Class Because They Do Act Sometimes And It Helps With Camera Presense. Watch America's Next Top Model On MTV Also, You Can Really Learn Alot From That Show.
14/f
okay, well my sister has scabbies, since last year. and she didn't find that out till later. and then i'm sooo mad at her, because she said it wasn't contagious, until later on i found out it was. and i've been sleeping with her for 2 months, because she was scared to sleep alone. i don't think i had it till LATER LATER on. or i'm no sure if i even have it. but i'm seeing the doctor sometime this week. i'm really scared that i might have it, or it could get really really bad. because i'm scratching and stuff like that, and i'm getting little bumps. or is that just allergies? after i found out, it was contagious. i didn't want to get near my sister after.. and i'm sleeping alone now and stuff, so is it really just allergies from what you're reading right now? or am i just being paranoid? is there something you can use from making you to stop scratching or something? anything? HELP!! i'm stressed out over school & know skin problems. T.T
Okay, First. Calm Down. Freaking Out Could Acually Be Causing This, Maybe. I'm Not A Doctor, So I Can't say. Just See Your Doctor [Like You Said You Are] Also, Go To Your Local Drug Store And They Have Tons Of Products, I Don't Know Any Names Off The Top Of My Head Though Sorry.
Is there any good hair products for scrunching hair like gels or hair cremes i heard bedhead was good but is there any others?
garnie fructise.
sorry i cant spell [: but im sure you know what i mean. if not just leave it in my feedback and ill figure it out :P
I just got my imac and i've never had one before. For some reason everything on the internet is working but ichat keeps saying it temporarily unavailble. This is brand new so nothing can possible be wrong. How do i fix this?
acually something can be wrong .. manufacturing defects. take it to where ever you got it and ask.
Does anyone know which brand would sell the best At Home Microdermabrasion Treatment?
go to your local beauty store and ask.
edit- tahaha, if you could have. why didn't you [:
well i was wondering if anyone has any essay writing tips.
and.
how do you start a good essay, like how do you make an outline, i never really leared how to.
thnx.
xoxo
well heres something i learned this previous year, its called the 'house' technique. this is what you do. draw a house, with
- a basement
- first/second/third [depending on how many body paragraphs you have] floors.
- a roof/attic thing.
okay, basement is the opening. preview your opening in that and whatever.
now the floors are body paragraphs. so the first floor is your body paragraph. seconds your second body paragraph. etc.
now the roof/atic thing is the conclusion.
okay. now when your writing your essay, look back and put the Basment FIRST paragraph in the essay, The 1st floor, the second paragraph in the essay, the 2nd floor, the THIRD paragraph in the essay, and etc.. then the Attic is the last one, no matter what.
on the house you can write in there ideas and such. its acually a pretty good technique. jsut make sure every [body] paragraph looks like this.
intro. idea/resoning, idea/reasoning etc.. conclusion.
and your intro PARAGRAPH and conclusion PARAGRAPH have
an attention grabber/what the essay will be about [or an overview of the essay depending on if its the conclusion or intro]/conclusion.
GOOD LUCK!
heyy, me and my bestfriends are planning on being barbies for halloween like on never been kissed. the only problem is we dont know what to wear for costumes and like what barbies there are. we're going to be blonde original barbie. then the barbie with brown hair and a black barbie. i know theres like malibu barbie and whatnot but like i cant find any costumes. *note we are 17 and dont want to look like 5 year olds. its going to be cute and one of out friends is ken we already have his outfit. so like can anyone help, send links, whatever you can.
blonde wig, pink shirt, capris / pants.
get a barbie and look off her [:
ive had anxiety for years now, likw 9 i think, ive been on medicine then off and now im back on,but its not working, school just started and my anxiety is like my health, like im afraid ill be sick or have some desiease. so in health i dont feel comfortable when we talk about anything! drugs,std's,anything! and in gym i wasnt feeling good and went to the nurse and got sick so now i feel sick in gym class along with health! im fine in any other class really. what can i do when i feel the wave of anxiety come over me in school? if its breathing i need to know exactly what to do.i need help please!
okay here's what i would do though, but really i wouldn't take my word for it, cause im 13. but when it starts happening, take slow deep breaths and remind yourself theres nothing wrong with this Gym/Health. or try to ignor it.
my parents have blocked one of my fav web site and wont unblock it no matter how much i ask them. so is there any way to unblock or get ride of firewalls on Mozilla Firefox? one more ? how do you get a site off the ban list on Mozilla Firefox? please give easy to follow directions cauz im a blonde?
okay first off, does it really matter that your blonde? Not to be rude or anything, but being blonde has nothing to do with it, either your stupid or smart or in between mkay?
and second
14/f
okay im gonna apolize now for the lengthh.
so friend of my familys died a few days died a few days ago and at the wake you no they have the whole line of family and your supposed to shake hand or hug them or whatev. well i got to his son whos a year older then me and i never really talked to him before. and we like stared at each other for a second and then i decided to give him a hug bc i felt bad and everythingg. and then i dont know it like felt right, i just dont how to explain it with out sounding completely corny. and like i hug guys all the time not to sound slutty or anything but this time it just felt different.. in a good way. haha and after that i was thinking about him alot.
and the next day i didnt go to the funernal.. but a friend of mine was telling me a story, adn i guess the kid (the son) asked his ex-gf to go to the funernal he still has feelings for her adn she doesnt. and she didnt go bc she slept over her friends house or something and she said she didnt want him to get the empresion that this is gonna be a chance for them to get back together or something like that yeah i no pretty messed up so after i heard this i was pissedd. at the ex gf. and i felt even more badd for the kidd.
okay so now the things i needed advice on.. ok i dont know if i like the kid or not or if its just more that i feel baddd for him with everything that hes going threw. and i wanna start talking to him more but like we go to different schools and the only time i really see him is during hockey season (which starts in like 2 weeeks) bc we both play at the same arena but different teams. and i dont know how to like start talking to him with out making a fool out of myself. so thats what i need advice on ahaha thankk you for reading all thisss =]
um. talk to him more.. like at the arena and whatever, and then when you get to know him more im sure you'll know if you were just feeling pitty or its real feelings..