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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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Well i used to be friends with the popular group, but i drifted away. We are still friendly, but not real friends. Well the group i joined had really nice and honest people, well, i thought. My mom never liked them. She thought that they would ditch me in a second, and they were sluts. Well that was 2 years ago, and one person, Hilary moved away, and she was bffls with Jess. Well Jess and i were amazingly close, until Hilary came to visit. Then Jess got weird, and disappeared when we were supposed to go out. She was out with Hilary every night this week, and i was home alone because i was supposed to hang out with them and they kept ditching me. What do i do? I cant leave this group now! I mean im in middle school, they are all i have!!! And i cant keep on getting ditched. THanks in advance
13/female/left out
hilary and jess probably just missed each other a lot. they might just want to spend some time alone. give them some space. everything will probably go back to normal when hilary leaves.
14/f
my boydfriends sister wants me & her to like bond tomorrow.(like go to the mall shopping)
But 2 of her friends are going with us.
i kinda dont like hanging out with them.
but i do want to hang out with his sister because she seems really cool.& i want to hang out with her more.
theyre all really skinny and i know this sounds wierd but i feel like im just going to break them whenever im near them.
should i cancel with her and tell her something came up? but then id have to tell my boyfriend. or should i go and just try to have a good time?
Thanks in advance.
i think you should go. you want to get on her good side since she is your boyfriends sister. just try to make the best of it. its kinda rude that shes bringing friends though. maybe ask if you can bring one of your friends along so its less uncomfortable for you?
theres this guy i talk to and he always calls me "boo" but i cant thing of anything flirty to call him..any suggestions?
umm you could call him:
baby, babe, cutie, sexy, sweetie, hottie, etc.
My parents are forcing me to write a letter to one of my cousins that I never met that's about 18 and I'm fine with it but there's nothing to write.
Any ideas or what you would write?
tell them about your life. about your friends. what kinds of activities/sports you do. what you like to do in your free time.
ask them questions about those types of things too and hopefully they will write back and answer them!
16/f
So for my second year in a row, I have no plans for New Years. First I was supposed to have both of my best friends over for a sleepover. A few days after we made the plans, one of my friends admitted she had to stay home with her parents because they will have guests. Just a few moments ago, my other best friend told me that she can no longer come over either, she cannot get a ride home from her dad`s house and doesn`t feel like taking the bus. She doesn`t even sound disappointed, she will be with her cousin (her other best friend..). They just think I am whining when I say how disappointed I am. I can`t even make other plans due to extenuating circumstances with basically every other person I know. What do I do?
I know I won`t be making plans with other people, I don`t have siblings .. and I will be sitting alone in my room. I guess I could act like it`s any other night and just go to bed, but that still doesn`t make me feel any better about how little my friends care. They just know they still have plans, and it techincally isn`t their fault that I will be alone. Thanks for the advice.. =(
maybe you could go to your friends house that is going to have guests. im sure if she explains the circumstances to her parents they will be okay with it. maybe make plans with cousins if you have any? or you could just do something with your parents. or since youre 16 and im sure you can drive maybe you could go to a fun party or something in the area.
I always like to act and dress up like a little kid sometimes (I'm 16!) and sometimes I have this urge to scream or shout I HAVE DOWN SYNDROME =] when I'm outside.
But i was just wondering if it will be offensive? Because I think down syndrom is a mental disability( or correct me if I'm wrong) so it will be offensive to many people?
umm yes i think that would be really offensive. many people suffer from down syndrome. if the wrong person hears you say that then they could be really offended. its like someone running outside saying "I HAVE HERPES!" People do it, but it's still offensive. its mean to joke about stuff like that but people do anyways. so really its up to you if you want to do that or not. just think about who your audience is before you do it. i wouldnt do it at schoool either.
1. ok,well i havent heard from him in 4 to 5 days now...do i call him so that he knows that i care? or do i waut untill he calls me?
2. ok, well what else can i do to like get him "fired up"(turned on)do i touch him? or like lay ontop of him or sit ontop of him?
pleasehelp
1. you can do either. dont feel bad that he hasnt called you though. some guys just dont call girls or dont realize that girls expect the guys to call them. you can call him and then he will realize that you like talking to him on the phone. maybe ask him to hang out?
2. yeah any of that stuff is good. boys get turned on pretty easily.
Ok,well me and my boyfriend have been going out 4 about 3 weeks now.we have different lunch times and we have 3 classes together,but we see each other about 7 times a day. ok well here r the questions:
1.he tells his friends that he wants to make out with me but i dont have a clue(at all what so ever)on how to make out or frankly kiss him wothout laughing(we r a comfterable couple that r always laughing)What do i do?
2.When he hugs me he puts his arms around my shoulder.i am grabbing the waist.how do i let him know that i want him to grab my waist?
3.he is somewhat playful,(pokes me,slaps my ass,grabs my ass,and tickles me,)but how do i get him to be even more playful?
4.when he comes to my house he always stares deeply into my eyes how do i get him "turned on"
5. how do i flirt with him? are there special places to touch or somthing?
6.how do i holdd him or kiss him on the ear,to get him to get really turned on?
**sorry that this was so long but i have a lot of questions**but please please help me!
1. making out isn't that hard. you just kiss him and then go with the flow. follow his lead. as for laughing, one guy i made out with was like laughing in the middle of it. it was actually kinda cute so it's not that big of a deal i wouldn't really worry about it.
2. put your arm around his shoulder. or like take his arm and put it around your waist.
3. you can't really force him to be more playful. but if you're more playful then he will probably be too. he just needs to know that you're okay with him doing more than that.
4. touch him?
5. anywhere. ask him?
6. just kiss him.
So you've probably all heard about jamie lynn spears being pregnant
But I'm curious to hear every ones opinion on this .
Good or bad what are your opinions on jamie lynn spears being pregnant at 16 do you all think its a bad influence on youngsters? What do you all think ?
Jessica Martinez, - Seventeen Magazine
i think it's a really bad influence on youngsters. so many young children watch zoey 101 and they idolize jamie lynn spears. if they see that she is pregnant they will think it's okay for a 16 year old to get pregnant. it's definetly not okay. i mean 16 year olds do have sex, that's a known fact. but she should have been responsible enough to prevent getting pregnant. i like jamie lynn spears though. i think she just had bad guidance and she doesn't really know what the correct way to behave is. i think she made a bad choice by keeping the baby though. she's ruining her life by being a teen mom. she has so much more to do in life before she is ready to be a mother. if she's against abortion she should have just given it up for adoption.
someone is saying that i am stalking a guy that i dont even care for but i used to like a lot how can i handle this and will karma come around and do the same thing to them
okay you never know if karma will come around and do the same thing to them. you have to learn to ignore what people say. this is gonna happen all your life. it sucks, i know. the guy knows you dont stalk him and hopefully if people ask about it he will tell them that. confront the person spreading this rumor. tell them you dont even like the guy and that its really obnoxious to tell people lies.
whats a good cologne? like what do guys like...basically what do i get my bf...like something ill like but he will too...thats not like...cheap but good. not too expensive. but im willing to spend if necessary! also where to get it!
thanks xxx
umm i like fierce from a&f
it smells soo good!
Okay so I like this guy & I just can't picture him masturbating. Its a turn on to me.. but he is pretty shy and he's polite but idk do you think he does? He is 16/m
okay he probably does. most guys do. even the shyest ones that you would never expect.
xoxo
How do you get pictures from your phone onto your computer? I don't think I have any kind of cable... So I was just wondering.
you send a text to your email address
i have had top braces for almost 2 years now. when i got them on my orthodontist said i wouldnt need bottom. so now my braces are about to come off, like a couple weeks and 2 weeks ago, last time i went he said hes mad because my bottom teeth moved and now they are crowded. so he got my mom and said he would put bottom braced on for only $600 which is like 2000 less that normal. the only thing is that they will be on for like a year! when i got the top he said about 9 months and its been 2 years. i am so excited to get my braces off but it wont matter because now ill have bottom. its my choice but i just cant decide, if they would be on for only a few months i would have them on no problem, i just dont know what to do, i want them but i dont.
i think you should get them. bottom braces are harder to see than top braces when you talk to ppl. also.. if you dont get them youre probably gonna regret it later. its better to get them when youre young. i know youre excited to get them off.. but its better to wait longer and get the perfect smile!
heyy! i was just wondering if anyone has ever used nair and if it works? because i shave my legs but it usually leaves red bumps...and i definitely dont want to wax!!! too painful!! but anyways if anyone could fill me in taht would be great!! thanks!!
nair doesnt work. and it smells realllllly bad.
so just stick with shaving. just use a lot of shaving cream and a good razor (not the disposable kind) and you should be fine (:
hey so theres this guy... and we went out for like a week. hes indian but hes pretty good looking. but anyways we both kindaa like each other and were wicked good friends. however i feel bad because if he asks me out, i would say no... and this sounds really mean but it might be because of his looks.
like i thought to myself, if he wasnt indian and he was amazingly good looking then i would probably go out with him. i swear im not racist!! is this really bad??!
14/f
no its okayy.. i know exactly how you feel. this exact same thing happened to my best friend and its happened to be before. youre just embarrassed of what ppl will think im guessing. just tell him that you just want to be friends bc you dont wanna ruin your great friendship. its a good excuse and hopefully he'll understand!
ok so im in 7th grade and ive only had 3 bf mi entire life. how do i make guys like me and how do i ask guys out and not be rejected
umm 3 is a lot for a 7th grader..so i wouldnt worry about it. just flirt with guys a lot and compliment them.. they like that.
xoxo
whenever i wear a headband, my head behind my ears hurts where i cant stand it. at first its ok but after about an hour of wearing it i have to take it off because it hurts so bad. but i really like how they look, and a lot of people wear them. so, is there any kind of trick to wear a headband without it hurting so much?
ya that happens to me too. only with some headbands though. maybe try a different headband.
I was just wondering if you hand your head for a certain amount of time, could you die?
If so:
Does it hurt?
Does your head really explode?
umm no your head wouldnt explode. and yes im pretty sure you can die because all the blood rushes to your head. thats why its dangerous when roller coasters get stuck upside down.
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and things are really great, except when it comes to the computer. When we first moved in together, he had his own computer and I was waiting for mine to be mailed to me.. So I'd use his computer to get online, talk to my friends, play games, normal stuff. He has it set so he has his own profile, and I have mine. On his computer it's password protected. So a few days ago, my computer came in the mail.. and we're both using it because his is broken. I set up a profile for him and I have mine, password protected. Anyways, the whole problem is, he'll wait until I go to sleep, get online until 4am or so and the other night I had to walk by the computer room to go to the bathroom and he heard me coming and all I hear is "click click click" like 17 times really fast of the mouse. That bothers me, like what does he have to hide? And he deletes his internet browsing history every time he uses my computer? I don't really care if he's looking at porn or whatever, and he knows that, but it bothers me that he deletes his history. I just get the feeling that he's hiding something.
I just need to know how to approach him about it.
It's frustrating me.
next time try to catch him doing it. like pretend youre sleeping and then if he gets up and goes to the computer then follow him a few minutes later quietly. then you can see what hes really doing. :] haha and if you dont wanna do that just approach him about it.