Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com Gender: Female Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California Occupation: Current Psychology major Yahoo: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com Member Since: January 25, 2009 Answers: 154 Last Update: July 31, 2010 Visitors: 11464
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Thank you very much for being out there just waiting to selflessly give advice :)
Here's my problem:
My best friend has a new boyfriend and she is spending 24/7 with him (almost literally, this is college and people can do that easily)!
He is a really great guy: he is taking things slow physically, he does not seem like the jealous type (I am a guy, not a girl, so this is important) ect... However, I rarely see her anymore (as opposed to spending probably half our free time together before this guy came along). I have lots of other great friends, I date a lot of girls, and I have a great social life, but I really miss my best friend.
I have talked with her about it, hinting how hurt I am, but she just makes excuses, says that eventually (months down the road!) things will tone down a little (but still not get anywhere near normal!!) ect... If I were a little younger, I would just wait this out for a few weeks, but we are getting to the age (19) where these things can begin to last a LONG time. I feel like once its over, I can let her know, not only how bad for romantic relationships this sort of thing can be, but how much it hurt me as a friend. I trust that after that, she won't do it again in her next relationship. However, it seems like it could possibly be months or even years and until the relationship is over, I doubt I can make her see the light before then. What do I do?
-Hurt and Confused
PS if you think what she is doing is ok (I think its very wrong on two levels: hurting your friends AND unhealthy relationship) it is interesting to note that HE is still spending HOURS EVERY DAY with his friends, she just tags along
PPS I'm not close to my family, and I don't value significant others much (I enjoy the time with them, but I know it doesn't last). Therefore, needless to say, friends are far more important to me than they are to most people. Since this girl is (was?) my best friend, it would be difficult to overstate how important this is to me and how much it hurts. (link)
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Hello, how long have you guys been bestfriends and has she had previous short relationships whil you two were close? Well I can tell that she has a great liking for this guy which is why she is fpending mostly all of her time with you. I do not agree with the way she is trating you by not giving you as much attention and spending time with you when that is what she used to do, but you have to realize when a girl finds a great well good guy they tend to cling to them and want to spend every waking moment with him. It is really hard to balance two strong relationships when you are basically torn between the emotions of the two..you have a totally different realtionship with her than he does even though it may seem similar. If you have already talked to her about how much this is hurting you and she hasn't come around I am pretty sure she doesn't notice how much it really is hurting you emotionally. I think she thinks you are just not use to not being able to spend time with her. I think you should try to have one more heart to heart talk with her about your feelings and maybe she will begin to get the picture, if not then it will still take her time to balance the two realtionships but if not then she might not be worth your friendship if she is choosing him over her when you two have a strong relationship as well. Another factor you may not see is that you do not value significant others like you do friends while she does, having a significant other is very important to a girl, it brings joy to a girl in a different amount of ways. Does she seem like she values friendship as much as you,you seem to know her pretty well, like does she seem like the type of person to blow you off for a new beau? I don't think you should jump to conclusions yet and say WAS your bestfriend, in time you two will grow apart and just be good friends or not friends at all you don't want people in your life that value someone new more than you when you two have a rather strong bond.i hope this was helpful, If you have further questions i can be of aid If I wasnt specific enough or guided you in the right direction you can ask me a direct questions and I hope it works for you:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND
P.S update me on how things go I hope well,remember everything happens for a reason whether good or bad and everything in life is temporary there are true friends that stick around and the ones that are here for a period of time, you will know the true ones:)
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I am a married man I am not able to have sex,when i feel the erg there is no erection Am up in age now but it started when I was about 30. now Am now 58 I still believe I should do better I think some thing is wrong.
I am from Jamaica. (link)
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Hello, it has been going on since you were 30 you say, that is a fairly long time..if I might ask how have you been fufilling your sexual needs if you have yet to have an ercetion in 28 years? Well as you know erectile dysfunction(impotence) is common at your age, hormones change and libido goes down, howevr every man is different. So lets get into the basics I am more than sure that you have an erctile dysfunnction, this is as you know an inablity to get or keep an erection before or during intercourse..There are various forms but you say you have yet go get an erection since you were 30, can you be alittle more specific please.:)In men your age impotence can occur if damage to the arteries, smooth muscles ,fibrous tissues, or veins are damaged. This can occur from surgery,certain side effects from medicine,accidents, or even psychological porblems. Since you have been having this problem I think it is vital to see a urologist and inquire about some drug thearpies such as Viagra, Levitra, or Cialis, oral testoterone, vacumn devices, and even injections of medicine into the penis:(.I hope this was helpful and if you have any more quesions I am always here..goodluck
SINCERYL,DIAMOND
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My parents and I are constantly fighting. There saying now they are going to kick me out (I am 18 so they can). Right now there saying I'm just going to go stay a couple of days with my sister until things calm down. The issue is, I'm worried about my school work. My parents are telling me that they don't care. What do I tell the teachers if they ask why I was gone? Plus I have this huge project due and the teacher has already extended the deadline for me because I was out sick last week. I really don't know what to do... Please help? (link)
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Hello,communication is a big issue in this situation,I am not sure what is going on wiht you and your family but if you all sit down and have a heart to heart about this issue(s) you may have a good chance of sticking around, I am sure all you of you guys can succumb to some sort of aggrement and or compromise, in order to work things out you must put everything on the table I know this will ne difficult but it is worth a shot and will be well worth it. Education is very improtant and since you missed days previous to this event it is vital that you atleast try to talk about it,if you have no clue how to comfront your parents regarding this issue you can send me a message and I can be of aid to you in any way possible, son't hesitate to ask me. If there is no chance of you staying at home with your parents all you can do is possibly call the school couselor or attendance office and tell them that you are having family issues and can't make it to school this way the school will know in advance,that is a pretty hard step to take though, you can email the teacher directly and if you are seriously behind in the class you can explain vaguely what is going on and that you cant make it to school. Also if you have to go to your sisters you can complete or try to complete the project in time to possibly get the assignments to school whether it be by your sister or some other way.There always many ways to work out issues but its hard finding the right way:). You may want to complete the project just in case the tacher accepts it late, Just try to be optimistic and if you have any further questions you can send me a private message and i can try to help you morei hope this was helpful I am deeply sorry for the situation tha you are going through but remember everything happens for a reason good or bad. I am not sure why you and your parents are constantly bickereing but there is obviously a major or a few minor issues at hand.getting through this difficult time may brign you guys closer as a family:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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I just graduated from high school and I really really like a boy who i used to go to school with. None of our friends know each other. What i'd really like to do is get together a huge group of us from high school and have a big gathering or party or something and I'd like to invite him and his friends too.
The thing is, how am i going to get him and his friends to come if none of my friends know his friends. And also where are we going to have such a big gathering?
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Hello so basically you are only trying to get this big gathering together to get the attention of the guy you are interested in?If that is the case I think it would make more sense to find him via myspace and or facebook and add him as a friend and shoot him a message or comment,unless you enjoy the whole party scene,however finding a place for this get together,gathering his frends that you dont know and him might be very difficult.You alsi dont know if he will show up due to previous engagements or something elses for that matter.I must admit that was a clever idea but in a way sort of difficult:).If you are very adamant and determined you meet him in some way,"WHERE THEIR IS A WILL,THERE IS A WAY!"....if you would like any more advice on finding better ideas to see this guy you can send me a private message anytime..I hope this was helpful..I wish you the best of luck!! SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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how do girls cum??
or nutt?? (link)
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Hello,women secrete vaginal fluids when aroused,this before and during orgasm..we need to secret this fluid for lubrication purposes and as the female is aroused more and more she becomes more wet however during an orgasm is when you can say the women actaully cums,somtimes women will squirt or just simply have the fluid rush out of her urethra quickly:)I hope this was helpful!if you have any further questions you can send me a private message and I will be sure to answer you quickly:) SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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so ive been talking to this kid lately and we recently started hooking up. ive only kissed one other guy and he basically ate my face. so i never really knew how to actually makeout. this new guy is so experience compared to me and he just texted me saying that im not a bad kissser..but not good. i need advice on how to do it the next time i see him so i can prove him wrong. ahh im so embarassed! (link)
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Hello, thanks you for coming to me directly, hmmm well you already have experience of what not to do,dont eat his face like the other guy did to you.There is no specific way to kiss you have to go with the flow when it comes to kissing you will know whats right. It depends on the guy, some guys like to suck on your tongue, and or lip...you just have to let it happen.A good tip would be to keep your tongue in his mouth lol and move it around at your leisure.If it is possible if yo could desribe alittle of how you kissed him previously that would be fairly helpful in me giving better advice...goodluck and I hope I helped.Send me a message whenever you need to so I can help you further!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:) P.S. LOL HOPEFULY I CAN MAKE YOU INTO A KISSING MACHINE HAHA TTYL
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I can't but any kind of lubericant. So are there any household items that women can use that won't hurt their health? (link)
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Hello,the best and natural lubricant that is sure not to harm you is your saliva in fact, it is very similar to vaginal secretions so its all in all a good idea!!! If anything else comes to mind I'll give you some advice:).I hope this helped if you have further questions you can send me a private meassage..best of luck to you!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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i am torn and have a really big decision to make. i am a sophomore in college.. a college which is 4 hours from my home. its hard being away from home because i love my family..and have an amazing job which i love, and gives me so much experience for my future career. i cannot decide whether i should stay at my current school, or transfer back home and go to the school near my house. they are equal in tuition, going to the school at home would mean i have a job, dont have to pay for housing or food, only tuition. staying at school out here will mean i may have a job (still looking for one), so much freedom (living in a house with my best friends) and i know this is the only time in my life that i will be able to party whenever i want and live with friends..basically not alot of responsibilities. i am not sure which is the best decision. if i transfer, there is a chance that all my credits will not transfer, and i will be stuck in school for longer. anyone have any advice? or even just your opinion.. put yourself in my shoes lol. id like to know what you would do. thanks
if it helps.. i am female and 20 years old =) (link)
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Hello, It is best to weigh the pros and cons and whichever decision had the most that is the one you should go with,go with your instinct, your instict is usually right...i would definitley say the transfre would be the best choice but the nontransferrable cradits would be completley and utterly devastating, you should research alittle more to see if your credis will actually transfer,what gave you the idea that they wouldnt?no one wants to start from scratch when it comes to school and there career,its a major waist of time,money, and energy.School is the vital factor in this decision so if you think there is even the slightest chance of the credits not transferring you should stick where you are at and make the best of it while you can. You have plenty of time to work and you can always visit your family, after all you will be living on your own maybe pretty far from your family so its good to have your independence and freesomd right now.Enjoy yourself and try your best, your future is the main factor in this decsion. If you need any further advice you can send me a private message.the best of luck to you, I jope this helped!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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hey ..about the message before.. in grade 7 he was in my homeroom and we werent reallly tight we were friends though and then in grade 8 he was in 1 of my option classes and i talked to him way more.. but this year we are not or have not been in the same clases i got his number last summer and text him ocationally. in october i recognised how much i like him ..way more than a friend so i told people and he found out but he said he wanted to be single and when my friend asked him if he would date me he said no because we never talk and he thinks im really shy but im not shy i actually talk alot but its just around him i get all nervous and get butterflys in the stomach. so now my friend says if i talked to him more he would like me so one day my friend talked to him again and he said that the guy i like said i would go andtalk to him if i liked him but if i was nervous then hell wait till im comfortable ..so this friday i texted him and we talked for 1 hour and a half and he didnt just do one word answers i asked him what he was doing this weekend and he told me a hockey touranment in cold lake and the he asked me another question so how should i approach this situation?
thanks
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Hmm just take it slow donr try to rush into a relationship, but try to be more open and direct so he wont think you are shy..once he really gets to know you he will know that you arent shy at all and this will be no problem. Text him ocassionaly but also give him a chance to text or call you first to see if he actually enjoys talking with you. Once you two really start to get to know eachother you wont need to know how to reaact because it will be natural.Remember just because you like him doesnt mean that you two will definitley be in a realtionship.From what you are saying to me he sounds like he might be interested but then again guys are hard to read at times but if he is consisitent with talking with you, you will know the interest is there just let it happen go with the flow..i hope this was what you needed to hear..you can ask me any question you need regarding anything do not hesitate..update me on the progress and I can guide you along the way if you need it.
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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hey im 18 and female i live in south cali and would like to meet new people and just chil and talk to them my life is currently boring and well during my free time i would like to meet new pple im outgoing funny and latina i like novelas and if you know what that is its kool but if you dont know its kool well im not picky and looking for sumthing in particular i just want pple to chil with if intrested plesae leave me a comment or message thanxs and take care (link)
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Hello, I dont think you will have much luck meeting new people to ahng out with on here. you will have better luck on myspace,facebook,but a great site is plentyoffish.com its a free dating service site...you can meet people just to hang out with or even to build a relationship, pictures are viewable on here..good luck on your search..I hope this was helpful!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)If you need help with anything else you can send me a private message..Adios Senorita!!!
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ah okay. my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9 months, it'll be 10 months by valentines day. but shes in college so we have a long distance relationship.
we wont be together on valentines day but i still want to do something sweet for her, whether i mail it or whatever.
any ideas?! (link)
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Hello, try to go off of stuff that you know she really likes,be original..if she likes poems yoiu can express the way you feel for her through words, if she has a favorite song you can send it to here through email..You can always send her the regualar,chocolates,teddy bear through mail or a special peice of jewlery that would mean alot to her.If you could give me ideas of what she is interested in you can send me a private mesage any time and I will ne glad to help. Remember it is the little things you do to show a girl you really care..I hope this was helpful..I wish you the best of luck! SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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hey i saw you answer other questions and they were really good. so i really loike this guy and i texted him on friday and tomarow is monday and he knows i like him and he knows im really scared to talk to him so hes just gunna wait for me to come and talk to him but how do i do that because i dont want it to get awkward? and what do i talk about? and how do i flirt with him without being to out there?
thanks soo much
loveboys (link)
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hello thanks for coming to me directly I appreciate it..How did you get his number and did he respond to the text?You should be natural and be yourself when trying to get to know a guy you are interested in, do not try to act like someone else. If you are naturally funny and witty be that. you should just start by saying hello whenever you see him,try to compliment him on thngs he wears, or you can some how try to stike up a conversation about soemthig you know he may like or be interested in. Yes you have t have a balance when trying to get a guys attention dont go after it too much but just enough to know you are interested. I can give you better advice if I know alittle more about how you guys know eachother and some intractions you have had....hope to hear from you soon and hope that was helpful
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Well i am sorta talking to this guy. He supposedly like me a whole lot so i am getting to know him better to see if i like him and see if we would ever date. He texts me everyday and we talk a lot. Today is the first day he hasn't texted me or called. We never had a fight or anything, so i don't know what's up. We said goodnight last night and the said he would talk to me today. He ususally texts me in the morning but today he didn't. Now i am wondering why he hasn't texted me. Any suggestions or reasons why?? thanks! (link)
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Hello,how long have you guys been talking?Does he always text you first,if so maybe he wants you to show an effort that you want to talk to him and is waiting for you to text or call first.Also he may be busy,you never know what kind of day he is having,you should text or call to sed how he is and what he is doing just to check on him you know...if he responds you hav nothing to worry about,if you guys dont talk for the rest of today or tomorro then maybe something is wrong..dont panic just yet iys fine..if you have further questions or need advice just send me a private measage or email me at princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com i a hope this helped...goodluck with everything! SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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what are other things besides dry humping, hand jobs, fingering, bjs and eating out can you do without having sex?
what are most guys favorite?
preferably for 16 year olds (link)
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Hello,those are the main types of foreplay if the only,toys can be incorporated into foreplay,direct clitoral stimulation,and passionate kissing all over..if I find anything new I will be sure to let you know...send me a private messags if you havd further questions..I hope this was helpful..the best of luck to you! SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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okay im sure its hard to describe but whats the closest thing that cum tastes like? i wanna give my boyfriend a bj but i dont want to like puke because it tastes so bad.. (link)
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Hello,cum is usually very sour and quite pungent,i personally do not like the taste of it but every guys cum tastes different,it depends on what they eat,certain foods give it a mild but sweet taste and others give it a sour unappealing taste.if you arent ready its fine you can always spit it directly out he doest have to come in your mouth..cum is a taste you have to get use to..you can send me a private message if you have further questions..goodluck and i hope this was helpful SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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ok so im only 15/ female in April i will be 16 but Dec 26th me and my boyfriend had sex and we used a condom but he ended up lopsing it anyways we found it and what not but now im 2 weeks late for my period and we starting to freak out right about now especially since hes a year younger than me now should i go to the doctor or will a home test tell me the same thing i dont know what to do please help im so confused and i cant talk to my parents.. (link)
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Hello, there couls be a great chance that you are pregnant, taking a home pregnancy test is fairly reliable especially seeing that you are two weeks late, it is better to take more than one to see more answers, if both are positive it is best to go to the doctor and make sure, pregnancy is a bug step and if you plan on keeping the baby you have to let your mom know..everyone goes through hard times but you have to make the best decisions throught these hard times.you should test as asoon as possible it is vital..if you have anymore questions i am open to hear them you can ask me through my email if you would like..you need someone to talk to at this time to guide you..I hope this was helpful and comprehensible,I wish you the best of luck!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND my email is princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
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so im 18/f looking to get a new job because the one i have now i barely get any hours and business is soo slow [im a waitress & have been at this place for 2 years]. i picked up applications for Outback Steakhouse and Taco Mac and i have a couple questions.
1. is it really necessary to attach a resume? i guess it would look good but that seems really professional just to be applying for a job as a waitress. so is it ok not to have one?
2. it asks when i would be available to start, and i put after two weeks notice at current job. would that make them less likely to hire me? both places said they're hiring, but neither one is like in demand & needs someone RIGHT NOW kinda thing. but is that ok to put? because that's what i would need but that seems like it would lower my chances a little bit.
3. one asks how long i plan to work for them and i put August 2009 because that's when i will leave for college but should i just leave that blank? my mom said they probably wont put the time and effort in hiring me if im just gonna leave then but either way it's inevitable that i'd have to leave so i dont know if i should put it or not.
4. one also asks the minimum amount i need to make per month or per week. i mean i dont know? it asked for expected hourly pay rate and i put flexible, so what should i put for minimum per week?
5. i was told to come back and drop my application off with the manager, so when i do, what should i say/ask?
the job i have now was easy to get, i just filled out an application one night when my family was eating there, gave it to the owner, and they called me. i didnt have to really try and the application was to the point, so that's why im confused now ha.
im hoping that they'll like the fact that i have 2 years of experience and that will help me get hired, do you think so?
also has anyone ever worked at Taco Mac? if so, could you tell me about it? was it hard/easy? did you like it? are tips shared? etc. anything like that you can tell me would be great.
thanks, i will rate =] (link)
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Hello thats is good that you have experience under your belt that is always a plus also if you have any volunteer expericne this also counts even though no salary was received, volunteer services are always good because it shows your effortto want to help without always wanting money in return:),if you have no volnteer experience that is fine too but if you have minimal work experience it is fairly useful!
1.HMM well since you don't have that much experience a resume is not needed, previous work experience is always asked for on the applicaion itslef unless you already have a resume prepared it does not hurt to attach it but if not, its no big deal.
2.You should always be truthful on an application, if you need two weeks notice state this because it would be no good to lie, what if they needed you earlier and you couldn't leave your other job that would show unrelaiability.
3.As stated above tell the truth if you are going to be leaving for college at that time be honest so the company may have the proper notice for a prospective employee, employees are always needed at fastfood places, they will always need people dont worry about lowering your chances.
4.Since you are not looking for a specific amount of money since you don/t have to support yourself you should put N/A for now or just use the wage you made at previous job as a guidline to make the best decsion
5.When you go to drop off your application ask for the manager and hand he/she the application it is always important to be polite and thank them for the opportunity, you should ask about interviews that may be needed or when you might expect a call.you should always make sure you have the companies to check on your application status,those places get a large amount of applicaions and can sometimes forget especially they are not in need of someone right now
It is hard to tell if you will be hired, if they have an open postion you will be sure to get the job because of your experience, dont worry and try not to be too impatient I know it may be hard lol.I hope this was helpful and comprehensible,I wish you the best of luck!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND
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Ok im 16 and i havnt had sex n about a yr but here latley ive been noticing this bad smell n my panties like pee but i wipe good when i do p and i shower reg. I dont know what i need to do please help! (link)
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Hello, what you are experiencing has nothing to do with sex, women sometimes have vaginal discharge especially as you mature more, your body goes through alot. But you may simply be experiencing a vaginal infection or a yeast infection..are you doing anything new latley that you think could have contributed to this and is this the first time anything like this has happened to you? Don't worry women of all ages have vaginal infections and or yeast infections pretty often and they are completley treatable,antifungal creams and antibiotics can be found in your local grocery store and or drug store. Vagianl and yeast infections are simply caused by bacteria..Is the smell the only symptom you have? we can discuss this privatley through e-mail if you would like.I hope this was helpful and comprehensible,I wish you the best of luck!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND
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what's an orgasm??
how do you know when your having one?? (link)
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Hello, An orgasm is an intense feeling of pleasure where your vaginal muscles contract and increase in the neurotransmitter dopamine(provides pleasure).An orgasm is an intense feeling and you will know when you are experiencing one, during sex or masturbation it feels pretty pleasurable but the whole point is to reach that ultimate climax, when you have your first orgasm you will rmemember the feeling and never forget it. It is fairly hard to explain it, it is something that has to be experienced.. if you have any further questions I am here do not hesitate to ask, if you experiment with yourself you will reach orgasm because you know what feels good to you I hope this was helpful and comprehensible,I wish you the best of luck!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND
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i was wondering, if you were to give a bj, how do you do it? and also, what do you do if they cum in your mouth? spit, swalllow or what? can you get pregnant from swallowing there cum?
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Hello, you may think you would suck on the penis that is what is portrayed when speaking about bj's...All you have to do is make sure your mouth is well salivated, you simply wrap your lips tightly and or loosley around his penis and go in an up and down motion, it is suppose to create the illusion of actual sex where the penis goes in and out of the vagina..there are more complex techniques for optimal pleasure but its great to start with the basics..confidence is key when giivng bj's if you seem like you are uncomfortable or dont want to it wont be a enjoyable for the guy ir for you for that matter, You can either swallow or spit which ever makes you comfortable or they do not have to cum in your mouth at all.. If they do cum in your mouth you will not get pregnant but do know that you are at a higher risk of STD's if you go down on him without a condom!!!:) if you have any other quetions i will be happy to answer them:) I hope this was helpful and comprehensible,I wish you the best of luck!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND' you can send me a private message of you would like to discuss this further:)
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