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Hello :) My name is Jess and I'm 15 years old. I live in England and think it's pretty cool (apart from the weather!). I am really interested in Architecture and photography at the moment, and I hope to study Architecture at university. My friends and I have been through a lot recently which varies a lot so I hope I can really understand what most of you are going through. I definitely go for what I can when you ask a question, I just delve right in the deep end and tell you how it is. No babbling for ages, but straight down to the point. Don't be affraid to ask me anything, I'm here to help, not bite. :) x

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Hello! Just about every morning I'm excited to get up and go to school (I'm a grade ten in highschool). When I am sitting in ANY class I'm just thinking about how happy I am to be around other people. I'm popular, but there's SO much girly drama so I rarely go out anymore.

I'm afraid that this will change when I go to university. Will I still be able to socialize in university? Any advice/insight is greatly appreciated.

Thanks! =)

I am in University, and i love it! You make loadz of new friends, go to partys whether it's on campus or not! you can socialize loadz!! Invite someone to your room/dorm (but not that big!) or go shopping or somthing. Don't get worried about it because you will make lots of friends in your dorm, and will seem like you have know them for ever! Look, if you have any questions, ANY QUESTIONS AT ALL, ask me. I know what it is like at university, because i am there! And i know lots about school, because, I have been there done that and yes! ACTUALLY GOT THE T-SHIRT!! Good Luck!!
Luv Jess
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so my boyfriends bday is next week. he'll be 17 and weve been together for about 7 months yay. anyway i was wonderin if besides his present if i also got a thank you card n gave it to his mom and inside where it says thank you or whatever put "for having such a wonderful son" or something along those lines. would that be cute or just weird lol?

well, it is a good idea (to write a note to ur boyfriend's mom) but i dont really think it is nesicary, as long as you give him a nice present and card you should do fine! If you need more advice, DON'T HESITATE TO ASK!! Good Luck! And i hope it goes okay for you and your boyfriend!!
Jess xxxxx

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my boyfriend is turning 18 on the 9th and i dont know what i should get him.
im thinking about making him cookies that are heart shaped and he keeps telling me that he already got what he wanted[me] but i told him that that didnt count.
but i just need some suggestions from a few guys or maybe girls because i really dont know what i should get him. =[

thanks.

food is a good idea, but sometimes in shops (food shops) you can get this bigish cake in a heart shape and you can write a message on it to say possible how much you love him. This also comes with some small heart shaped sweets. Another idea is some smellys, like Hugo Boss or something like that. You should consider asking your parents what they think, but you will have to already told them that you are going out with....... who ever you are going out with. I am sure you will come up with something! If you need any more advice-DON'T HESITATE TO ASK ME!!! Good Luck!
Jess xxxxx

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I am 29 yrs old. I dont have any friends.I have a wonderful boyfriend who is very outgoing and confident.Every now and then he says I need to make some friends. I cant. What do I do, call some girl up and say will you be my friend?? How cheesy. I go out with him where his friends hang out but no one engages conversation with me.They do for a minute then go. I am an attractive person that is not the problem. But how does someone who was abused as a child, not allowed to have friends, phonecalls or sleepovers, and a 10 year marriage where I was not allowed to work or have friends, change and get friendships. It seems so out of reach for me.Help!!!

Well, not everyone is an outgoing person. It isn't your fault, so don't worry about it, it is only probably because you were bought up differently. If you go to work and there are lots of people who you rougly know, it might be worth while to ask someone if they want to go out for a drink some time. It is probably best if you ask three people because then it isn't too biga group and it isn't a small one. When you go out for a drink you will find there will be a lot of convosations! So get your self into one of those, and there you go!! If you need more help, don't hesitate to ask!! Good Luck!

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