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anybody ever heard of teenagers going on blind dates to do something fun??

yeah, what else are they for

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What does a guy do when they finger you ? does it hurt? could you explain what it feels like help please
i'll rate good!!!

every girl is different, i used tampons before i got fingered the first time, so it didnt really hurt, it usally feels good, he just slides his finger in you, somet girls can cum from that and some cant, so if you dont the first time a guy does that to yu, dont feel weird, if it hurts tell him to stop, its not like your obligated to do anything lol, and you cant really explain what it feels like, its one of thoses feelings you cant explain

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I have a boyfriend but my parents don't know! I'm only in 7th grade so I don't know if they will be angry. I'm the only girl in my family so my Dad may make me break up with him! Should I tell my parents?

ask your dad simply if it would be alright if you start dateing, if he says yeah then tell him whats up, if he says no, i dont want you to lie andall, just wait till he would understand

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I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what?

Ask your friened first, break it down to her, ive had alot of friends fight over that kinda thing, but just talk with her about it, she cant blame you for wwhat your heart does.. if she says its ok, go from there

*Jenna* rate me please

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ok i am going camping august 6th with my best friend and there is this skater boy there that i am so crushin over and my best friend, Jess, and i started skateboarding to becuase he does but we ended up really liking it so we're not changing our selves for him, any ways we might see him when we go becuase he has a permenant (sp?) spot there and we have never really talked to him just kinda drooled over him and followed him while he was near the rec hall skatebaording but i am really nervous becuase if i see him i dont wanna choke and fall off my skateboard since i have gotten pretty good but everytime i am around him i always trip and fall cuase i get nervous he has been on my mind since i first saw him and i was wondering if anyone had any advice to "keep my cool" around him and i also wanted to know if there is some way i can get up my courage to talk to him cuase i am shy but i dont wanna like loose him or anything ... please help ... i am a 15/f and he is 16/m if any of you need to know that and if you want to talk to me instead of message me my s/n on advicenators is Sk8ter_gurl_101

ask him to help you with one of your moves!!! lol if hes good i mean. i cant tell you how to get courage because its all your own choise, but just realize hes just one hot guy, theres quiet a few in the world. eithor just walk up to him and say hey, or ask him to help with a move, or somethin like that, hell never know you like him unless you dont

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hey everyone, I am 15 and I need some advice...my boyfriend of 9 months is leavin and movin to Oregon in a few weeks. I live in Florida and I wanna try to do the whole long distance thingy but I dont think that he wants to. I love him soooo much and want to be with him. Does it really work? Should couples that are in love try it? Please Help ME!!! xo0x ~manda [ aka confused]~

If you really love him, ask him if thats what he wants to do. ive had a few longdistances before, sometimes it works out sometimes it doesnt, its just about how much you both want it to really work

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15 female

i got my 1st GOOD hicky from my best friend (which is a girl) but we are really close...we were on the way to someones house w/ her and her boyfriend and she was showing me the hickys' that her boyfriend gave her and i was like hey i want a hicky!! and she gave me one...is that wrong for ur best friend to give u a hicky!!??

*I AM NO BI!*

no!!! lol if your not into her like that its not bad, just dont be bragging to people around you that might take it the wrong way. but you shouldnt feel bad about what she did

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my sisters and me are fighting alot and they are herting me like big bleading scarches what do i do

does your parents know? if there hurting you that bad you need to talk to them or your parents about it. if there kidding stupid fighting just talk about it with them, on a seriouse discussion, if they are trying to hurt you, tell your parents or someone, who can discuss it with all of you

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I am 16, been on varsity football since my freshman year, im going to be a sophomore, im not really worried about having a girlfriend, sometimes i just wish i had one, do you girls like to get close with a guy before you date them, as in like a best friend relationship, or do you like to meet guys and find something new about him day in and day out....?? i dont no anymore lol

each girl is different, i like to at least know the basics about a guy before i go out with him, but him becoming my friend and then more is awsome, just dont become to good of friends, some girls take that as thats all you want. if your interested in a girl, just ask her to dinner or a movie or somethin, and if you like her ask her out the next day

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f/15 ok i have been going out wit this guy for about 2wks and he's really sweet, but the problem is that i want to break up wit him. got any tips to let him down gently?

dont lie to him, thatll hurt him more, just tell him your sorry, you just dont think that you two can work

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Hi i'm 14 years old. I'm going to be straight foward about this lol. Sometimes when I go to the bathroom there is a white liquid that appears in my underwear. What is it? And what does it mean? Thanks for your advice.

It sucks! lol and its unconfortable sometimes.. its just another thing added to being a women, i startyed that 3 years before my period, so it doesnt even always signal things, just that your matureing. the top name? when you get horny you get wet, its kinda the same thing, but you dont have to be horny for this to happen

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im 12 yrs old i dont know anyone who has had sex (well people my age and a couple yars older) but when i read some of these problems on advicenators most of the people are like 13 or 14 and say that they have sex a lot its kind of creepy my sisters 14 but she hasnt had sex im wondering if these people are either lying about their age or more mature than me. i feel like when im 13 or 14 that il be soo pressured into sex and stuff. i hear these unbelievable stories of guys and girls having sex since they were 12. its so perverted and i mean is it weird im not ready or as into it as other people are?

Just take your time, dont do anything you dont want to, i was pressured into it the first time, and it sucked, just wait till your ready, not when your friends are or stragners your age

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i went to a party at the end of skool in the middle of june. i got drunk n was unconsious. i've been throwing up and noticed a little bulge below my belly button. could some guy have fucked me while i was unconsious?HELP PLZ!

If it was in June, then you should have had your period by now... if you havent, you need to tell your parents, unless your usally late or something. if you havent even gotten your period yet.. you dont need to worry about being pregnant, you should have a bump after a month of being pregnant though

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Hi I'm 14 and I'm 5'2ish. I weigh 110. I wear a C cup and I think around a 3 in jeans. (Not sure maybe a 5) But the problem is, I look at everyone else and I feel that I should weigh 100 or 105. I was going to do chrunches and things to loose weight. But I'm always too lazy. (lol) I used to dance and do gymnastics ever since i could walk. (not gymnastics, I just started that) But I quit. Um..what's your advice on, if I should not worry about it, since I'm still growing or be more cautious because I seriously don't want to gain too much weight. I want to be considered skinny, not in the middle, which I am now? Also, I love to eat! (lol) I think it's kind of an emotional thing for me. I'm definitely not fat or anything like that but I don't think that I could give up food. Thanks for your help!

i am basiclly the same thing, 5'2 110 and about as young lol, trust me your not chubby at all, you have nice curves i bet, that men will love, compared to some girls who look sickly skinny! dont give up food, its to good! just dont go overboard everynight, you know. your still growing in height, so youll thin out even more, dont even worry about it
*Jenna*

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