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my sister has been charged with hit and run, she injured two people but they weren't killed. Will she go to jail for this or will it just be fines/probation? This is the first time she ever did something like this, she has no record at all.
if she does go to jail any idea how long it will be? Will it be more than a year?
If she pleads guilty will it be a lesser punishment? (link)
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Hit and run, with or without death is still a serious crime. Besides, it all varies from state to state. Each state has their own laws. Your best bet is to look up local laws. But here is a site that might help a bit.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hit_and_run_(vehicular)
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My boyfriend is always telling me i'm having sex with someone else because I feel looser than normal and I have been with no one else. So is it even possible for a man to be able to tell by the feel of the vagina? Now i'm curious (link)
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I suppose it can be possible. There are vaginal muscle exercises which can help tighten it. I believe they are called kiegle...keegle.. something along those lines, I am pretty sure I misspelled it ;/. Kiegle exercises though help tighten your vaginal muscles. But in general, sex without the exercise, or too much sex/masturbation can loosen these muscles, even if it's with the same partner. The way to perform these exercises is quite simple. It's like... When you have to go to the restroom really bad, and you hold it in, so you don't wet yourself ;p. Just do them over and over. Hold for 5-10 seconds, release. Repeat. Do it for as long as you see fit. It'll take time to get a tighter feeling down there, but if you do them for around 5-10 minutes a day, or even more it'll speed the process.
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Whenever my boyfriend and I "Get to it" I always have fun but it's usually short lived, he lasts about 5-7 minutes tops and I'm always left hanging, he tries after with foreplay but it doesn't work because he gets completely uninterested and tired and I want him to be excited. Is there anyway I can get him to last longer? Positions or tips? I got him a ring and it helps a little he lasts about 1-2 minutes longer but nothing substantial. Does anyone know anything that will help?? Please?? (link)
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There are multiple ways that can help him last longer. There are lubricants which contain benzocaine or other numbing agents which may help, other ways, you two could do more foreplay BEFORE getting intimate. That may help you at least. It may also even take time before he can last longer as well. Check around google for ways, and items which may help prolong his performance.
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I just recently made a post about my boyfriend of over a year. To explain quickley he has been attempting to cheat on me for the whole relationship, lies to me, flirts with other women and says hes single when he's not. My question now is Im still having trouble figuring out what to do, I cant trust him but I am really trying too because he swears he wont do it again he wont hurt me anymore. BUT during the weekend we had a huge might, it started when we were grocery shopping over a minor little think like pancake mix. He asked me if I wwanted some, I said if you want some sure. He blew up and stormed off down the eisle. When I asked him what was wrong he got into a rant about how I can never make decisions and how I do and say things wrong. I couldnt believe it he made me feel worthless within seconds! :( Later on that night I couldnt say anything to him without him getting upset with me so finally I decided to take some quiet time and not bother him. Well he got mad that I wasnt paying attention to him and stormed off to the bedroom. I went to talk to him and he started yelling at him how I cant give him time alone, how I am always there. I said ok I will leave you alone then, all he said was F*** YOU!! over and over. He has never swore at me but his temper seems to be getting alot worse latley.
I asked him why he is getting so upset with me over minor little things and he told me it is because he has all this bottled up anger and he doesnt know how to deal with it. He went on and on about how this was hurting him and how he was worried that it was making him sick. But he never once said anything about worrying about how he was treating me. All he said was this was the reason he was treating me like s*** and all I can do is deal with it until he figures things out. Another thing that I have found out is that when he has a problem with something or someone he will complain to no end and when he says he will confront the person he really doesnt. Instead he goes to them and puts all the blame on me and makes himself look good. My roomate told me this when he had a talk to him about helping out more with bills. My boyfriend made it out to be all my idea and that all I do is complain about my roomate. Thats not the case at all!
So I am starting to feel really sad and run down. Depressed....I feel like he get enjoyment out of bringing me down....am I wrong to feel this way?? What should I do I just dont know what to say to him anymore without upsetting him... (link)
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If it the relationship continues like this, you're honestly better off leaving. As you have stated, you try to trust him, but can't. Mainly because he's always flirting with other women, and lying about being single, etc etc. I don't know how you've dealt with this for so long, but were I in your shoes, and he continued saying and acting like that, I would have left long ago. If all he does is get angry over small things, all the time... You are better off leaving. If there is no trust, there can be no love, if there is no love, there can be no real relationship. And it does not sound like you are in a relationship at the moment. If you want to work things out, try. But should they not, leave. You'll only hurt yourself more staying in this relationship.
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I read one of the comments on a matter like this, Im also 21, the mother of the child is also 21, I did not mind her going ahead with an abortion, if it was 1 month back, but having a month were all she has been saying is that she is not sure, im growing attached to the little one, and i know being a parent will be a challenge, and i know it will change her body, and i know there are risks, but a father should have more rights, i hate the idea that she owns him/her, look my baby, my future is in her womb growing, and i really hate this arregant woman attitude, i understand if it was an abortion straight away i was happy with what she wanted to do, cause that would make her happy, i put my feelings aside, but now its gone past the point, now im thinking of the baby, and its safety, i know now this will destroy me, she should of done it sooner, she goes from saying she may have the baby, then not wanting to talk for a few weeks, we even spoke breifly about names, then she turned all 'i don't care about anything' attitude, im running about, doing everything, given that i did disapear for a couple of days, just to see some family, let my head balance out, and thats when i come back and she says shes going to the doctors tomorrow, and she doesnt want me with her, i said im going, i cant let her do this alone, if she does do it, obviously i will have to put up with it, i did once say i'll never bring a child into this selfish world, but now its going to be hard to let this one go. so the question how can i deal with this, give me a new outlook on life please, this is making me feel like a bullet in the brain is the best option. at this point it seems like murder. (link)
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It is sad that men don't have much of a say in these things. Perhaps speak with her, tell her if she doesn't wish to care for the child, you will happily do so yourself. She is able to sign off her parental rights, meaning she will not have any say in the child's upbringing, and that she will be able to go on with her life. But she will also have to realize that with an abortion, it can be an intrusive feeling. Not to mention, chances are she may in the end regret it. Of course, if she does do it, the sad thing is you don't get a say in it. But try speaking with her, and let her know that you are ready for this, for the responsibilities of this child. And like I said earlier, she can give up her parental rights if she would prefer to do something else with her life. It may be difficult to speak with her, especially since her hormones are all over the place right now, but try your best. I believe you should have more of a say in this than she is giving you. Be strong and speak out. Abortions are not cheap, and can come with even more risks than giving birth. If it's improperly done, she could end up "bleeding out" and not surviving. There is even a possibility that it may damage her reproductive abilities, making it more difficult to conceive, should she want a child or children in the future.
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Heyy well my moms pregnant [about 2 months ] and i hate hearing her throw up not in a bad way thoee , any ideas about whats good to avoid throwing up or what she can eat ?` for ex :
we heard salty crackers are good !? (link)
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Keeping crackers next to her nightstand can be helpful. There are many ways to avoid morning sickness. Here's a site that helped me.
http://www.moneycrashers.com/stop-morning-sickness-remedies-treatment-tips/
I found that lemon candies and lemonade help through out the day, as well as eating some plain dry toast before getting up to do anything also helps. Also, it may just take time as well, because each pregnancy is different. It is wonderful though with your concern about her. Just be sure to do your best to help her. Also, finding what smells are triggering her *during some pregnancies, certain smells can cause her to get sick* and eliminate them. Try scented candles. But make sure it's a smell she can tolerate. Read that site and try different things, not all at once, but each separately, to see which one is more effective than the other. One pregnancy I could NOT stand meat, this pregnancy, I only get slightly nauseas if I don't eat enough. Hope this was helpful, and good luck ^_^
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I'm the idiot that got married young and fast. We got married in July of this year after being together for 5 months. When we got married, everything changed. It was what seemed like the perfect relationship. Everyone was in awe of what we had, and I couldn't believe I snagged such an amazing guy. After being with a couple of a**holes he seriously was a breath of fresh air. I fell completely head over heels. We were such a good couple, with next to no problems. Yet. I know nothing stays "perfect" forever, but we hardly had any issues and if we did it was little things that were easily solved. Then he met a guy who soon became his best friend. This best friend if his says he's my best friend too. Which is total bull, I'm not an idiot. He got involved in every disagreement we had and made it worse. Soon he got married too, and I was automatically pressured into being her friend. I never liked her from the start, but I did what I thought I had to in order to make my husband happy. I was okay with her, until she started getting involved too. They soon teamed up on me and would twist everything I said and did around to fit whatever it is they wanted to hear or see. One of my breaking points was when I was vulnerable and trusted her with venting about my husband. Just little things like "Man, he kinda pissed me off today" or "He's been on my nerves for the past few days" and then explain why I felt that way. This was through text message. She showed my husband my text messages to her. I told him I felt betrayed. And that I always felt left out, and that they always just talked behind my back for no reason slowly turning him against me. It resulted in me crying and pleading for him to understand that any time he and I have a huge argument they're somehow involved. He said I needed help because of how emotional I was and gave me an ultimatum on seeking the help or he wouldn't speak to me or see me until it happened. So, of course, I went the very next day to see a psychologist. The man told me he didn't know why I even came and that he didn't think I needed mental help. Maybe someone to just be there for me and listen to me, but not for mental problems. I went a head and forgave her. Again, for the sake of peace. I was sick of not seeing MY friends so I decided to see my best friend. Who, unfortunately, lives an hour away. So, I drove there not thinking anything of it since my husband had said before it was fine to see my friends. We had an awesome best friend day, we went to the beach, she bought lunch and I bought dinner, and we called it a night. On my way back my husband called and I told him what I did that day, excited about it because of how much fun I had. He instantly got upset and not even a minute after we hung up I got text alerts on my phone saying that all the passwords and PIN numbers had changed on our bank account. I called him back and explained how I thought it was a little controlling that the one time I go do something for myself he flips out and cuts me off from OUR income. He said I was irresponsible and that he was not controlling me by doing that. We started arguing more, and of course he'd go tell "our friends" about it. Inevitably causing him to drift away from me without him realizing it. About a month later I had a good two hour talk on the phone with my husbands best friends wife, and I actually felt good about it. She vented to me about things and so did I. I felt kinda close to her for once. Until she did it AGAIN. She not only told my husband every little thing I said, but twisted it around to sound worse. It caused probably the hugest fight we've ever had. I immediately cut her out of my life. Never once have I interacted with her since this incident which makes it awkward because my husband still does. She kept sending paragraphs to my phone and I just ignored them. I told my husband how high school I thought it all was and that I didn't want any part of it. It continued. And I kept getting pressure from her husband to make up with her and I refused. I stood on my own two feet and said no she's a fake person and that I didn't want someone like that in my life. It's toxic and stressful. It got to the point where I couldn't take it anymore and I told my husband "I'm not saying you absolutely can't be friends with her, but I am saying she makes me uncomfortable. I can't stand knowing you still talk to her after everything she's done. She has ruined so much about our relationship, yet you continue to speak to her. I honestly prefer you don't be friends with her because you're my husband and our lives are one now. If I don't want her in my life, but she's in yours that means she's still in my life. If it gets any worse I'm gonna have to do the ultimatum thing. I won't deal with it, it's too unnecessarily stressful." Which set off a frenzy of hate. They have told him I'm abusive and controlling and that he should leave me because I'm dictating who he can have as friends. THEY CAME INTO THE PICTURE AFTER WE WERE TOGETHER. How is this even going on? How are they more important than me? I don't understand. He plays the victim all the time now. He says I changed when we got married, which I told him I felt the same way. They have changed him so much. And he doesn't realize it. I try so hard to be happy for him and do sweet things for him and put this behind us. But since he has people in his ear telling him he's the victim he has become a complete douche bag. Always snapping at me with an attitude for no reason, ignoring me, becoming explosive, etc. it was driving me crazy. So crazy that I did something I've never done before, and I regret it it will never happen again I felt so bad. I checked his phone :/ not because I think he's cheating, he's not that kind of guy. I had this overwhelming feeling that he was saying one thing to my face and another to everyone else. I was right. I literally almost threw up, she was telling him how horrible I was and that he doesn't have true happiness with me and he should leave me. He said in the texts that he was still going to talk to her behind my back and that he'd keep her updated on everything. He found out, and oh dear god. That gave them all the ammo they needed. I've never been so stressed in my life, I wake up every morning with a pit in my stomach because I know something stressful will happen. It always does. And I'm pregnant. Why put me through the stress? He says he abuses his prescription meds because of how I stress him out, and how he wishes he could break his jaw so he didn't have to hear me speak. That really hurt. He says he thinks about killing himself everyday and that I'm abusive and controlling. All I do is try and be sweet and move on from this, but since he has people turning him against me it makes it hard. Who's the abuser here? I feel like I walk on eggshells, yet he says he feels the same way. I feel so lost and alone. Like everyone hates me. I never tell anyone anything, I'm very private. I don't even see my friends anymore, and I'm embarrassed to open up to my family about it. I just spend all my time with him and his moodyness trying to make him happy. Am I wrong for wanting his support? And most of all, should I resort to the ultimatum thing if this persists? All I think about is how hurtful it is that people who came along after we were together are more important than me. I can't do this forever. I just want opinions on what I should do in this situation. Should I stick to my guns, or give in like I have before? (link)
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Yes, you both did get married rather young, and sadly, after only a short time. In my opinion, unless it's an arranged marriage, you should of been together for longer to better get to know each other. With you being pregnant, the stress is NOT healthy for you or the baby. It can cause possible pregnancy complications, or worse, a miscarriage. You both sound as though you NEED to go to a marriage counselor. If that does not work, then perhaps you two should not be together anymore. Depending on the length of your marriage, you can just go and get an annulment. But this is only if you've been married for a year or less. If the relationship continues in this way, especially after the baby is born, do you really want your child growing up believing that this is how a relationship is suppose to be? Both being miserable? You want to set a proper example for your child. Either work it out, or just leave. There is no need for ultimatums. Get help, if it doesn't solve anything, leave. If you are working as well, open your OWN bank account, savings, checking, either or, or even both. Your pregnancy health as well as the future health of your child should be more of a concern than staying with someone who refuses to listen. No relationship is perfect, but this one just sounds destructive. It could end up escalating to something worse. This may not be what you wish to hear, but you have to realize, your child is more important than a relationship.
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is it okay to masturbate at age 11? (link)
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It is perfectly natural to be curious about ones body. From what I have read and understand, it's when young ones go through puberty when their hormones change and causes these strange "sensations" in their bodies. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Though it's not something you talk about to friends or anyone. You are merely growing up and your hormones are changing. So don't worry about it.
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I once had a 5-7 yr old boy put his tiny penis in me,did he take my virginity (link)
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The way ones virginity is determined to be lost or still intact is whether your hymen ripped or not... I'm assuming that this happened when you were the same age as this little boy when this occurred, so considering the size of you both at the time, chances are it may have torn your hymen if intercourse was properly conducted. Though, I do not see why such young children would EVER consider or even think about doing that, but if proper penetration was achieved, chances are your hymen was broken at that time.
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12 almost 13-female
Ok so right now I'm in bed and I've been having the worst cramp for the past couple hours, since like 5:30. (like a million little devils are stabing me in my vagina and area above it) I have yet to have my period, but I've been have cramps like this, about as long and around the same-ish time, too. Do you think I'll be having my period soon? and, anyway to get rid of or slightly get rid of my cramps? another question, I do waterpolo from 4:00-5:30 everyday (around the time of my cramps, and trust me, they're not linked.) but I hate the idea of tampons, I can't even get one in! but I dont want to be like the horror movie where the girl hasherperiod in the pool. o-o that would be horrible. so, thats question number two; how do I deal with waterpolo and my hattred of tampons? owch please help soon it hurts very badly. xOx thank you for your consideration. (link)
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Your period may be coming soon. I get cramps when mine is going to be starting. It sucks, a lot. What I would do when I would get them is I would take a couple tylenol, midol, or ibuprofen, and relax in a hot shower. If you don't feel like taking a hot shower, a heating pad will work just as well too. Placing the heating pad on your crampy area of course. As for tampons, at first they do hurt. But do also take into consideration the sizes they have. There are different sizes, such as juniors. I believe those are the smallest ones, so it may not hurt as much. If you do end up with your period, and still don't want to use tampons, then you'll have to sit out from water polo. It does not sound enjoyable, but it's the only alternative you have if you absolutely do not wish to use tampons. Also, do remember that if you do decide to use tampons, and it hurts or you feel uncomfortable after it's been inserted, it means it was not properly put in. Then you'll have to try again. Always be sure it is fully in there, and I don't mean to just ram it in, put it in carefully, as you don't want to harm yourself. It takes some time to get use to, and some practice to get it comfortable, but in time, you'll realize it's a lot more comfortable than a pad. But it all depends on the person.
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Im only 13 but i really like this guy he is really sweet and i want to know if i can do anything to make him flirt back?? (link)
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Well, if you are already flirting with him, but he is not responding back the way you want, perhaps he isn't currently interested in you at the moment. It never hurts to get to know someone first as well. Instead of flirting, try just talking and hanging out. It is usually the best way to get someone interested. Especially if you share the same interests. You are only 13, so there is plenty of time, no need to rush these things, and if it doesn't work out, there will always be someone else in the future.
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i'm currently in high school and I've promised my self that this year i will study and will not leave my assignment till the due date and so far i have kept to me promise but when i get my projects and tests back my mark does not seem to improve. Also i have this friend that studies at the last minute and copies of my home work and notes and she gets better marks then me. what am i doing wrong? help please (link)
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Instead of working on it right off the bat, take your time until the due date. Do studying on the subject, and make sure your answers are correct. Rushing to do work right when you get it or right when it's due is never a good idea. If you have a week before it's due, take a day or two to do some touch up studying before working on it, and while working on it, be sure to re-read the areas it covered to ensure your answer is correct. Studying may not sound fun now, but when you're older, those good grades will make a difference. So instead of rushing homework, take your time. An hour or two a night before going to bed will help out a lot. I did a lot of studying, just made college that more easier ;p It's never too late to learn, with how kids are now a days. Just remember to keep it up, and work hard ^_^ Your grades will improve, so long as you keep trying. Never be afraid to ask a teacher for some help, or even an older sibling, or parent. Libraries are great for information too. Though with the access to the internet, it may help as well. Just be sure to go through different conclusions, answers, solutions, blah blah , etc while looking on the internet. Because some of the stuff you will find could just be someone's opinion. That's why I like books better ;p But whatever you do, just work hard and be sure to put in at least 1 hour before bed.
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So at school today I noticed little red spots in my underwear and when I wiped about 1-2 weeks ago my stomach and lower back hurt constantly I was moody and I had Mir discharge than normal am I stating????? (link)
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Depending on your age, you may be starting soon. Girls typically go through puberty and start their period around 11+. It'll be scary at first, but in time you'll get use to it. I would suggest going and speaking with your mother and explain that you believe you may be getting your first period, and ask her to explain what you need to do, how to care for yourself. If you are too uncomfortable with speaking to your mother, then ask your school counselor, or a female teacher you are comfortable with and trust. Also, if should you start soon, remember that the sticky part of the pad goes onto your panties.
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I am crushing super hard on my SI organic chemistry student tutor. Let's call me *Kane*. He's really smart, but not arrogant, so cute, funny, and laid back. I want to talk to him, but I just don't when. I only seem on three occasion : 1) when he's sits in on my lecture 2) when i go the SI tutor 3) when I go see my private tutor. I just can't talk to him alone, and its driving me crazy, because I really think we hit it off. I just don't how start with, because he's not the typical guy I fall for, and its freaking me out. I just don't wanna come off as stupid or creepy grrr I don't know what to do, I just really like him a lot! Help! (link)
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Whenever you have a moment alone with him, just ask him if he'd like to go get coffee, or lunch or whatever you think would be enjoyable. I would not suggest going to a bar though, everyone changes when they drink. But go as friends for now until you can get to really know each other. If the first coffee/lunch went well, later on ask if he'd like to go again. It never hurts to get to really know someone BEFORE jumping to the dating.
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How can I get bright red highlights in my hair by doing it myself?
I tried the foil method for dying my hair and that didn't do good. Then tried the highlighting cap, but you can barely even see the highlights, it's light red. I wan't the highlights to be really red . the color I bought is really red but the Highlights didn't turn out the way I wanted. I left the dye in for 20 minutes like it said. How do I get really red highlights? (link)
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In order to get your hair that bright, you will want to bleach it before adding the color. But it also depends on your hair color. The darker it is, the longer you'll want it to stay. At least with the red. If you do decide to bleach it and help brighten the red, please remember to properly take care of your hair afterwards. Bleach can be very damaging to your hair if improperly taken care of. So first off, if you decide to bleach it to make it much brighter, I would suggest only bleaching it until your hair starts to get lighter.. Maybe half a shade. But I guess it really depends on how bright you want it. Brighter than the picture, Or same as, lighter than. After your hair has dried add in the red, and follow the instructions on both packages. It never hurts to go to a salon too. It'll be a bit pricey, but they can get your hair the way you want.
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is there a name for it when you drink and get horny
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No. At least not to mine or Google's knowledge. I believe you are talking about alcohol. Which I have heard is quite common to get aroused while drinking. I believe it has something to do with alcohol thinning your blood, therefore it pumps through your system a bit faster, also your temperature typically rises. Which happens to most if not all people who get aroused, faster blood flow, increased temp etc. Also from what I have noticed, it all depends on what you drink as well. I've seen people drink vodka and just get plain angry and mean, while others got aroused. But, as for there being a name for drinking and being aroused, I have never heard of one. Could always start a new one, who knows, it might catch on ;p
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Okay, I am 18, female. I've known this girl all my life, basically. We went to elementary, middle and senior high school together and were put in the same home room every year because our last names both start with an S. She has been dating this guy for about two years. This guy and I talk a little, we have each other's numbers and text sometimes, rarely. I don't talk to this girl much, though. As we entered high school, she got to be popular and forgot her friends from elementary school (me.) However, tonight I went to a party. I saw her boyfriend kissing another girl, Not once, not twice, but many times and they were grinding on each other. His best friend was there and saw it all happening and didn't try to stop it. I texted my roommate and asked if she could ask the best friend if the couple is still together and he said that they were. He covered up for them and everything! As per me, I have a guilty conscience, but I don't talk to the girlfriend at all, I talk to the lying boyfriend more. I just don't know what to do. I don't think the girlfriend would believe me if I told her but I think the girlfriend has a right to know. I haven't talked to the boyfriend much lately because he's turning into a douschebag (I guess college does that to you).
I just don't know what to do. I know I would want someone to tell me if my boyfriend was cheating on me but, honestly, I don't think that I would believe the girlfriend if she just talked to me completely out of the blue and told me..
Help, please! (link)
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Your situation does pose some quite difficult problems. You barely talk to this girl anymore, you caught her boyfriend with another female, and your conscious is telling you to tell the one being cheated on. Perhaps going straight to her would end up just adding more to the problem. Personally, I would stay out of it honestly. Despite what my conscious was telling me I should do. You don't want to take the chance of possibly ending up in a huge argument, as I've seen many "popular" girls do. They always seem the type to be overly emotional. At least while I was in high school, that's how the girls were. If you feel you must, then I would suggest to stay out of any possible arguments, and just put a note where she would see, and no one else would notice you doing so. Though with how most people are, they won't believe it without proper proof. IE; Pictures or whatever.
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Why do i have what looks like skin on my tampon?
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It's alright, this "skin" you are speaking of is merely the old lining in your uterus being flushed out by your menstrual cycle. When a woman ovulates, her uterus grows a thicker lining to hold the egg until fertilization. If the egg is not fertilized, the uterus then sheds it's old lining which is then flushed out during your menstrual cycle, only to repeat the process until you get pregnant, or hit menopause.. But of course after the child is born, the process then again repeats, while after menopause, you no longer drop eggs.
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19/f
I've been really stressed out and am staring to get depressed for really no reason particularly. i started cutting almost five years ago and occasionally relapse just from the urge to do it. i started doing it because i was very depressed and was at a horrible point in my life then. things have changed alot since 5 years ago but i still continue to resort back to cutting. i feel like i'm starting to lose control and will end up reverting back to the way i delt with anxiety and stress, which was cutting... ALOT. although i'm much better at managing the need to do it, when i get depressed it just takes over me and i cant stop and i dont want to stop. its a very sick way to deal with emotions or lack there of. I only cut on my hips not om my arms because i live in south where its hot and wearing long sleeves its just impossible and having a job with cuts on your arms raises some awareness so i try to avoid cutting my arms even though when i feel the urge to do so it is on my wrist. i guess i'm asking how do i stop an old addiction from taking over my life again?
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Have you ever considered going to counseling? It may not sound like fun, but no one has to know except for you and your counselor. Unless you choose to tell anyone, but it wouldn't hurt to go see one and figure out what is the cause of your cutting, as well as getting help to find more constructive ways to release your stress that does not involve the harming of yourself. Then there is also the option of medications that help even out your mood. It's never too late to seek help and find a good solution, but in the end, you'll feel better.
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Hey everyone! Me and my bf wanna have good costumes this year for Halloween! We wanna be something cute but scary at the sametime or either one is fine! Any ideas are great thanks!:) (link)
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Honestly, it all really depends on what you both enjoy. But combining cute and scary, that's quite difficult. I don't know how that would be possible to pull off honestly... Unless.. You both went as rabid rabbits or something. lol. If you're looking for a couples costumes, there's MANY out there. Google is a good start, as it can give you many sites as well as costume ideas. I'm sorry that I wasn't that much help, but considering that you didn't state any interests, it'll be a bit difficult to give you any ideas. And by interests I mean like.. What do you enjoy? Movies, certain horror icons that kind of stuff.
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