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I am a teen who has been through tough break ups all the way to being threatened about my life. I just love helping erebody else. Its one thing if an adult trys to understand a teen. But it is another thing if a teen trys to understand the Teen.
(us teens lay it down like it is, you feel me?)

You got anything on yo mind let it out, even if its embarassing, cause I have people asking the same type of Whateva, u kno what I'm sayin?

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ok i recently entered a poetry contest and well they wrote me after a while telling me they wanted me in washington d.c with a group of other deserving poets to the internation libary of poetry and the whos who the poet and the poem i think thts a book they wana publish my poem in and they said theres no fee of anything i actually get money for it..do you think its a load of bull ? or is it true? has anyone ever heard of it? well thx in advance...

I hate scams don't you. In this situation I just hope nobody takes your poem makes money off of it and empties your pockets. Make sure you read all the regulations, and policies. They always reveil the secret. Trust me you'll find out. Or try to get the hotline of the website, and personally call, and say you have a lawyer present just to get the word out of them.

PS I am a great columnist I've been through it all. Spread the word

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I need help to find a sample of a babbysitting ad.

What if my parents work and the job is out of my neighborhood?

I ask my people all da time. They are the time of parents that watch the news so damn much. The more bad things on the news that happens to young children the more rules and curfews at my house are changed. You need to discuss this with your parents. One at a time. Having them both in the room when you ask them can mess a whole lot up. Ask the one who is more likely to say yes. If this job is ok for ya, and if they or a close family known friend can take you out of town while they are at work. Damn I wish I tried dat.

PS. I am a excellent columnist spread the word I've been through it all

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I'm a guy, and have known my best girl friend for 3 years now. I'm 17 and so is she. I've fallen in love with her over the years, and I don't know how to tell her. I know our relationship wouldn't change or anything, so I'm not unsure about that..it's just how to get it out. How can I tell her, when, where?

Good question. You have been friends with her for three years right. Then take her to a place you guys love to go to around the frist time you guys have been close. Buy her a gift. You might have to go to Victoria's secret for this one. Buy her a special scented lotion with a note inside. when you fist talk just say its a gift from a friend that youll open it later tell her how you feel that you want to hook up then give her the gif, and look her in the eyes not in the breasts and tell her you care about her and how much you want to be with her. Then you are all settled. Trust me I know alot of guys like you who not on the cheating side. The kind of man that cares about a woman for her not for looks. Trust me she will love that about you

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Me and my best guy friend talk all the time on AIM. Mainly every night before school. But I have 2 classes with him, and he RARELY talks to me in class. Is there a reason for this? It kind of makes me upset.

This is a guy friend, right, then maybe there is another girl in his life that knows about your firendship with him, you is trying to worsen it. Or maybe he thinks that you spend to much time on him, or that you are obsessed with him. So try trying to talk to him after school when you are both alone, and try to get to the bottom of things. I have also had a guy frined that have stopped talkin to me over his girlfriend. It happens ya know. Girls always want control over their man. You'll just have to accept his ways.

PS I am an excellent columnist, that has been through it all. Frm wanting to kill myself, been threatened to be killed boy drama, girl drama, and life drama spreaad the word. I've goteen all these crazy things in my life. Now I'm just a teen helping everybody else

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I don't want to say my real name on here in case she tracks me down. I'd prefer to be called by my username.
I'm a homosexual seventeen-year-old female. My girlfriend broke up with me eight months ago. Shortly afterward, she called me and threatened to kill me. I tried to get a restraning order, and the only reason it wasn't granted was because she didn't get served. I didn't know her address. She contacted me recently, wanting to get back together and I said no. I haven't heard from her since.

And all this time, I have kept every single piece of paperwork having to do with the restraining order. Does this mean I'm not over her? I heard that if you still have things that have to do with your ex it means you aren't. I'm keeping the papers because I don't feel safe.

Keep the papers
Look honey, you must really love and hate this girl at the same time. Your instincts are playin games wit u right now. If you feel so unsafe you can't walk out of the house without looking left to right to see if she's there. Then you need more help than you have already gotten contact the FBI, or the witness protection prgram to help you out. This is one of those times where fate comes knocking at your front door. You can't run away from this person. If she calls you again say this to her: *Be sure to use a soft easy tone, you don't want this person to snap over the phone

"Look we were a very good couple, and then you have decided that you do not want to be with me. I have accepted that decison for 8 months now. Now you call me back, and decide you want to kill me, I don't understand, my heart was broken."

Be sure to say this phrase exactly as it is written. If this is used the wrong way the person will take it the wrong way. With someone that is a threat to your life, you don't want that to happen. You are a bold person Speaking about this openly. This is just a start. You need to confront this person in a non hateful way speak to her as if you were having a mother to daughter conversation with an innocent 9 year old you'll be fine. No matter how much she screams or yells. Keep your soft tone the same. I'll pray for you every night if you want me, too.

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