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*Name Stephanie Njunuri
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Okay...

So my sister had dated this guy for 7 months and they broke up, so they were still friends for the 5 months since their break up, but then we noticed our other friend's (who is a girl) screename on this chain letter. So we dug a little deeper and it turns out that this "friend" of ours (who knew about my sister's and his relationship) is trying to get him to out with her. So my sister called the boy and asked him if he liked our friend... and he does, and to make things worse they're going out now...
My sister is really depressed because she realy hated the idea of this girl dating her ex... and i don't really know what to say to make her feel better... (link)
Tell your sister that thats no friend, true friends would consider the others feelingz and no better than to date an EX! Make sure you let your sister know that the boi's a bastsrd and she can do soOoO much better, tell her she will find some one better who deserves her. Jsst ler her know your ther 4 her! *Stephanie* A.K.A ~KiSsEs~


how old should you be before you have sex? before you make out? date? thanx (link)
Sex really doesn't depend on age. you really shouldnt do it until your mature enough to handle the outcomes...such as pregnancy,STD's,AID's, n phisulis. Just make sure before you go to that level your doing it with the right person and your being SAFE! but datin and makin out are a diffrent story. when ever your mature enough, i'd probably say 12 depends on you! ~KiSsES~


okay im an 12 year old male and im pretty popular in my school and im goin out with this really hot gurl one day we were walkin home from school together and she went in with me to my house my mom wasnt there so she went up to my room i just had the urge to do it with her and she felt the same way we decided we werent quite ready yet so we just made out and she showed me her boobs that was the best time of my life know im young but i cant fight the urge.

wat do i do i really want to do it with her (link)
Sex can be very tempting but u need to fight temptations. your only 12 and u have soOoO many years ahead of you for all the *experimenting*.
if you don't love her and you do it now then it won't be as speacial. but if u can't wait USE protection cuz STD's AIDS n phisilus. The first's are the one we regret the most so make sure she's te one! *Stephanie* A.K.A ~KiSsES~


sometimes me and my mom are so close and later she makes me feel like she hates me and makes me feel guilty. what should i do? i am scared to talk to her. (link)
Don't be afraid to talk to your mom. Jus let her know how you feel cuz if you don't nothing will resolve from the situation. Me n my mom are te same way it will probabl help if you tell her how she makes you feel. ~KiSsES~


my boyfriend is leaving for a year and a half. Should i wait for him or see other people? PS im 15 1/2
holding back (link)
i tihnk you should discuss with your boyfriend where your relationship is going that way you know weather you should wait or move on. if you decide your going to wait for him you can still go out n meet new people! ~KiSsEs~


Hey!!!
Today my friend and I were talking and she got mad at me and then she started cussing at me!!!
Heres wat she said "You are a piece of white trash...(the rest was cussing so yea)!!!!!!
Should I take this seriously or do u think that she was just mad and it came out?!?!!?
PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanx,
Confused (link)
Well the best of freinds fight, but she probably didn't mean it and just started sayin what ever came to her head without thinkin about he affect it would have on you. ~KiSsEs~


I met this guy and he says he likes me alot but the other day my friend said he never talks about me. I know he's a guy...but shouldn't he say something about me? (link)
Well not all guys are comfortable about expressing their emotions out in the open, give him some time and he'll come around. ~KiSsEs~


Everytime I shave down there or my bikini line I get these red dots a few hours afterwards...I've tried
- Shaving cream
- Shaving the way the hair grows
- Putting lotion on

Is there anything else I can do?? (link)
It's very common and happens to alot of people......i'll suggest to get a brazilian wax. you can get them at spa's. :) ~KiSsEs~


me and my friend amanda got really close. we even kissed. but a few days ago we got into an arguement and she decided that the best thing would b to block me and never speak to me again. i begged her not to do this but she said goodbye and blocked me and i havent talked to her since. i love this girl. i really do. i dont kno if i should try to get her back or if i should just let her go. i dont wanna let her go but i also want her to b happy. please tell me what i should do. (link)
I dont think amanda made the right choice but she might b afraid because she probably feels the same way about you. Just give her space because she probably needs some time to think things over. if you really love her you would let her go, so she can b happy in time she open her eyes and realize she misses you. ~KiSsEs~


well tommorrow is my ex's birthday an we madd tite after we broke up an my other friend joe.. is sellin dime bags.. an my ex (nick) wants one so im kinda gettin in da middle of this drug shit an i just dont wana get cought the problem is that nick moved to ohio an im in Ny... am i alloud to send it or will they find it? how do i get it to him? i really like him an hes my bestfriend an everything but i dunno wuh ta do!! plz help nicks b=day is tommorrow! (link)
Don't get your self caught up in this one... b-cuz drugs are illegal and they have a machine that checks this kinda crap cuz dat anthrax shyt dat was goin around. dont take the risk because theres a good risk of you gettin caught...besides if he's honestly your friend y would u be helpin him? your not suppose to suppose to encourage him cuz drugs kill and their illegal! ~KiSsEs~


There's this one guy that I'd do anything for. It's crazy, yes. But I love him so much...it hurts. And he never talks to me. Never pays any attention to me. But I can't tell him how I feel, he's too cool. He intimidates me. And I don't know what to do, because all I want to do...is be with him. (link)
Try talkin to him and start a conversation with him, that way you guys can get to knoe each other and you'll be more comfortable around each other cuz he probably feels the same way you do. If he's not paying atttention to you and not talkin to you tell him how you feel and DONT let him intimidate you. Hope i helped ~KiSsEs~


Me n my partner always get in arguments n stuff... Before I tell u the rest of the story let mee tell u tht i hav alot of pride... We were at the Roxy n we got into an argument again, thn everybody started crackin up when he said sumtin personal about me, I had to do something.... so we fought ( of coarse i kicked his ass lol) n e ways was I wrong for throwin the first lick? (link)
It's good to have pride but too much it can lead to trouble. YES you were wrong for throwing the first lick cuz as a friend you should have told ya patna how you felt, but now from experience you know NOT to tell him any more of your personal buisness.


lets say i have my best friend and my girlfriend that ive been going out with for 2 years 5 months 7 days 15 hours and 22 minutes(as u can tell i really love her)get in this huge fight and they both ask me whos side im on.which side should i take or should i take a side? (link)
DONT take sides Friends are special and obviously your girlfriend means alot to you, so tell them if they really cared about you they would try to get along, if that doesn't work then let them solve their problems on theri own and ask them not to put in in the middle.


Ok well my boyfriend did me wrong and made some mistakes we broke up yesterday and like I know he made some MAJOR mistakes but like I forgive him so fast! I've never felt this way for someone before... is this love or is it just me being stupid? Help me please i'm so confused on what to do! (link)
I don't think your stupid because love can make you do some stupid things but whatever mistake he made must be a forgivable one. let him know how he's making you feel so he can stop.


I have been having these major break outs around my hairline and on my nose..I have tryed alot of stuff that just dont seem to work any ideas? (link)
have u been wearing your hair in your face? cuz ur grease could be cloggin your pores?i advice u to use pro-active because its a miracle worker! it pretty co$ty but its definetly worth it!


How many people regret their time having sex?

* raises hand * (link)
Alot of people regret their first time but u did it for a reason sex is a deep expreesion of love and ppl often comfuse that with pleasure yes it can be both but u learn from mistakes by experience....now ur feelin doubtfull wait next time to make sure he's da rite guy!


ok ive only had sex with 2 guys but im always doin stuff with guys. like with the guys that havnt gotten hand jobs or fingered girls, stuff like that. ive only done this like with 6 or 7 guys.. am i a slut? (link)
Well no u are not a slut, u just need to calm down and try to stay in one relationship. and then u can start to do that kinda stuff to that one guy instead of all kinds of guys. Make sure your being safe and don't just go messin round with n*e boi wait 4 the rite one ~how old r u~


How do I get my best friend to talk to me and trust you, while he still has a girlfriend and all? His girlfriend is putting stuff in his head and how do I prove that also to him? (link)
If he's honestly your bestfriend then u shouldn't have to make him trust u. jus give your friend some space and eventually he will open his eyes and realize that this girl is not right for him, no need to prove it cuz he'll see it on his own.


well after seeing my ex yesterday.....today when we were talking he keeps on talkin about other girls and everything and that they are cutter and prettier than me and it really hurts....he keeps on telling me how all the other girls are all over me and it really hurts b/c before i went to see him yesterday, he thought i waz da finnest gurl and sweetest and everything and now everything itz so weird...im so sad...wut do ya think????? am i not good enough for him :(?? he is not that fine but he is okay.... (link)
Gurlie u deserve sooo much better than him. he is insecure and he wants to make u jealous so that later on ull want to get back with him, he misses u. Don't be sad u cant llet him put u down like that. good luck


If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help? (link)
YES!!! u need to seek help because your crying for attention and its possible you'll do it again. its just good that you realized it was stupid before it got even worse. If your crying about EVERYTHING? then you need to take some time and get your life together because your not just hurting yourself but also the people around you! DONT say "IT WSNT ANYTHING BIG" because it WAS and the fact that your STILL thinkin about doin it makes things worse!




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