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I'm only offering you options, choices, and personal advice. I can give you facts, rules, and personal statements. Whether or not you choose to use my advice or not is your own decision but please, respect it. I refuse to sugar coat anything, and I hate saying google it- infact I refuse to use google as verb.



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what is the chance of getting pregnant with condomz?

Wow, everyone is wrong. Has no one ever taken a class with plan parenthood in college, well for my college it is mandatory.


89% of chance of.

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i got my period twice the first ime .. waz in october and the second time was in the begining of january and since then i haven;t gotton my period at all... whats wrong with me??!! help!

Hun I AM GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING.

You're probably not pregnent,
you're probably not diabetic,
you're probably not anorexic or bulemic,
you probably didn't loose a ton of weight,
you probably didn't gain a lot of weight,
and you probably aren't going through menapause
you have nothing to worry about.

I know I am freaking out because I'm 19 and haven't got my period for 3 months! I have none of the situations above.

Just relax, drink a lot of water, and don't think about it.

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hey i know hollister has sales on clothes sometimes.but i was on their website and saw a lot of nice stuff on the clearance i was wondering if anyone was at the store reccently and saw a lot of stuff on sale because i dont want to order it all online and it might not fit..thanks a lot

Whats online & at the store is usally different. At my malls hollister store theres like 2 racks of sale things and most of it is like yellow ribbed tanks with lace on it, UGLY. I suggest you go to the store.

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hey..im in 10th grade regular global history i do really well in that class high 90's and im thinking of doing Ap u.s. history next year do you think I will be able to handle it I never took any advanced courses before. like do they expect you to know everything the first day. Because I dont have everything in my head. I am a fast learner and do well in school what do you think? thanks

I don't know how your school works but in my old high school (now in freshmen college year) you had to take a test and if you score a certain percentile you get into AP classes.

If you're in regular global history and not in honors or AP then yes it may be a lot more difficult in AP history. More fast pace, more tests, harder to pass. I took AP classes and in history in one of my AP classes the teacher gave us an evaulation test the first day to see where we are but our schools are different. I suggest you ask one of the 11th grade APers how it's like.

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I used to hang out with these people.The used to gang up and bug me.I fought with the leader.Big mistake.They ganged up agaist me and fought.I miss being in their group.When I hear them having yelling and fun from my house i feel left out.I want to be a part of their group again but I do not want to look to desperate.I get really bored at home alone.I can't remember the last time I was invited to a party or had fun.Without social contact my state of mind has switched to bored mode.The other day one of them asked why I dont hang out with them any more.I haven't hung out with them for 2 years.Should I start haning out with them again

oh my god im so mad! i had a really good long response and when i killed send the internet stopped working and everything i wrote was gone!

ugh i really don't want to rewrite it like it did but here's what i suggest

be the bigger person and apologize to the leaders, even if its not your apology needing to be said. IM them and say it or do it by myspace inbox or over the phone but especially in person. then go to the person who asked you why you guys dont hang out much anymore and tell her why (without dissing the leaders or anyone in the group). maybe through her/him you can get back into the group.

honestly, if you just want to be in the group because you don't want to be bored maybe it's nor for the best. maybe finding another group to hang with who can be good friends is a better solution. however, if you really are there friends and they are your friends then go for it.

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does anyone know who got voted off tonight?

thanks everyone for ruining it for me! wow, this is crazy sinjaya should go home, actually, he shouldn't have even been in the top 12. this is incredible.

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Is it a turn off for guys if a girl has already had sex? I'm not talking about being slutty or anything, I've only been with one person, and lost my virginity to my first true love. I'm just worried now that I won't be able to be in a serious relationship with someone else.

Some guys like it better when the girls is not a virgin. Because when a girl gets her cherry popped it hurts real bad because there is a sort of lining in the back of the vagina where the penis is inserted and that lining/wall ripps and usually blood occurs. Some guys don't like dealing with that but others don't mind. Usually it shouldn't be an issue.

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Hi! I'm sorry if this is kinda long, but please help!

Alright, to start off, my best friend is in major LOVE with the band Relient K. I thought for her birthday it would be intresting to get her tickets to go see them. There are 1 parent going, and 3 other girls, me and her. Tomarrow the 3 other girls are comming over. We are going to figure out a way to present them to her at her party [ since most of the people at her party either wern't a part of it or wern't allowed to go. How should we approach this? Creative ideas wanted!!!

Make a big like problem, a fake one. Like one of you should pretend to fall infront of her and pretend to fake cry and be in total pain. Make her think you broke your leg. Have one of your friends be behind you with an empty water bottle when you do this so they can crunch the bottle to make it sound like a grows broken bone. Then have your friend who you want to surprise check out your leg. Put the tickets in a small envelope and have the envelope sticking out of the top of your sock and in big bold letters write HAPPY BIRTHDAY _______. It should be pretty obviouse, she'll take it, open it and scream. haha


have a good one.

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youre absolutely gorgeous.
sorry this isnt a question.
=]

Well thank you =)

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ok right now me & my bf make out with he feels me up & stuff.
i need more ideas to make it more exciting but i wont go past letting him finger me and i wont give hima handjob.
i need things to spice it up.
thanks a lot.
=)

- Try kissing spiderman style
- Give him a little lap dance

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jobs . . . . . . . .



yea tomorrow im gonna be with my bf and we are gonna play around haha
its gonna be my 1st time
but i want to know

1-are they fun?
2-how old were you when you 1st gave or recied one ?
3-how long do they last?
4-does it feel weird ?
5-do you enjoy them?

1. for the guy more. but it can be because it's sort of kinky and gets you and the guy in the mood.
2. i got buisy real fast, 13
3. depends on how in the mood the guy is.
4. first time off it does. the taste is a little, weird but you can get use to it.. really it is sort of like the more you've done the better you are haha.
5. depending on the situation. i use to hate it but now it's sort of fun:)

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what are technical difficulties

when an electronic device isn't working properly but can be fixed soon.

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i had dry sex with this guy
and i really like him
tomorrow
im giving him a bj
but i know im not skilled at it and he isnt either
what do i do ?
im 18 / f
if that matters !

Ever eaten a lollypop?
Ever eaten ice cream of the cone?

Think about it... if that still does't work out I suggest: http://www.ehow.com/how_1000252_oral-sex-man.html

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I'm going to my boyfriends grandma's on Sunday (Easter.) & I was wondering what would be a cute outfit to wear? I don't know if I'll be able to go out and buy something, but what's cute to wear?

Thanks. :]

Don't you love it how people give you the option like (oh wear a cute skirt, or dress, or jeans with a top! but never actually give examples. real helpful aint it.)

It's your boy friends grandmas so no va-va-voom cleavage or super low cut denim. My boy friends g-ma is super short and I'm 5'8.5 so I never wear heels when i'm around her because it makes giving eye contact easier.

a thin sweater type jacket like this which is long gives you a slimming affect. you can choose to show a little cleavage or hide it depending on what you like more (make sure to wear some type of top underneath) i suggest it in red or mustard yellow http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=28446&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=10&iSubCat=23&iProductID=28446


a dark skinny jean with a hint of stretch to hug the legs a bit will give movement and with the long sweater with look really cute. http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=24135&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=1273&iSubCat=11283&iProductID=24135


any simple flat (shoe) will look good with skinny jeans.


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Any tips on how to improve my serve, backhand, and forehand?

Serve- reach high and make sure to stretch your sides and calfs before hand. Keep an eye on the ball when you throw it up because if your racket hits it in the wrong space you can loose all force.

Backhand- Again, stretch your arms (tricepts and bicepts). Keep your arms solid to get loose or else you'll loose your power and the ball will go limp.

Forehand- STRETCH! again, I say this because you need to. Personally I recommend you keep your arm slighty bent once you make contact with the ball then after it's been hit you can keep it bent or reach out but always follow through. Once you hit the ball doesn't mean the round is over, keep your arms and wrist solid.



It is said that for every hour of lessons, you should practice for 4 hours. After you've solidified your strokes, play points! Work on strategy and placement, patterns, etc. If you want to be top level, you should also work on fitness. Agility, strength, speed, etc.

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Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a wile now and i'v givin him a hand job but not to the point were he cummed.I'd like to give him a full on hand job but he says he basically that he doesn't want the cum to go everywere(on his pants and stuff)(and i don't really want that ether)....I supose I could give him a glowjob and just swallow it but we havn't gotten a chance to yet. So my question is, as lame as it may seem, what do i do with the cum?Or I dono,just how do i overcome this problem?

thanks for reading and hope you can help.

REAL EXPIERENCES talk best so when you give him a ahdn job make sure when he is about to cum you have one hand doing it's thing and the other cupping the tip of the penis so it catches the cum. When giving him head it's sometimes hard to tell when the guy is going to pop a nut he will usually pre-cum so thats a sign of it. If you're okay with the taste then just keep on going with it but if it really makes you want to puke even if you do spit out just switched to a hand job.

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for easter, i want a new purse. not too big, but not small. but i dont know what kind. what are some purses for around $100 like that?

- http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/jump.jsp?itemID=78&itemType=CATEGORY&iMainCat=77&iSubCat=78&sort=0&viewall=All

- http://www.planetfunk.com/p_template.php?shop=w&id=w_handbags

they have about $100 bags, better than macys stuff which most goes over $100 plus they stay current.

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15/f. I have shoulder length, naturally wavy blonde hair. I usually take a shower at night, let dry overnight, and straighten completely on medium power in the morning. Occasionally, I take a shower in the morning, blow-dry on medium power, and straighten just a few pieces on low power. I always use leave-in conditioner after getting out of the shower. I was wondering, which combination of straightening/blow drying is healthier for my hair? Letting it dry overnight is easier, but I'm concerned about frying my hair the next morning.

Blow drying is the worst for your hair. I suggest you stick with the first one. However, why not wear your natural hair sometimes. I'm sure it's not that bad.

If you decide to continue the blow drying & straightening I suggest you use a hair protectant shampoo and conditioner so your hair won't be damaged so much. I'm not sure what brands are good but I suggest you ask a hair dresser or just go to the isle at your drug store and find one like that.

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i want to know EVERYTHING about sex. everything absolutley everything. like for example wat is a tea bag? and what do u do in it? i want to know what everything is and how you do it.

thanks

Tea Bagging is when a guy lowers his testicles into another persons mouth. Hence- making it look like a tea bag into the water.

EVERYTHING is a little personal so I suggest this site... http://www.everythingaboutsex.info (click the For Teens)

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I'm doing an audition for my school's drama club and I have to memorize a Shakespearean love scene. Any advice?

pronunciation! pronunciation! pronunciation!

desire, passion, and yet a hint of bitter.

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