Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
Gender: Female
Age: 16
AIM: BrittanyMichx39
Member Since: June 17, 2005
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is it wrong to be jelous of your stepfather when he gets expensive presents for his birthday and you dont (link)
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Well, you do have to remember..it's the THOUGHT that counts! But, does he get these expensive presents from people who get presents for you as well? If he does, then yeah. I'd be jealous too, haha..but only b/c I get jealous more easily than ANYONE I know (over EVERYTHING/EVERYBODY)! It is so hard for me not to show that I am jealous too! If you wanted to, you could talk to whoever is getting him these expensive presents and ask them why there is such a big difference in the prices of your presents and his. Atleast you get gifts tho! Remember that.. and also think about this when you feel like you want something more than what is giving to you..there are a lot of people in this world who are way less fortunate that you or me!
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i've been eith my girlfriend for about a year. alto of people might think we are to young for it, but her mom gave me the permission so it's cool.
ne ways, i need a way to propose to her. keep in mind, we are in high school. so i donno...any one have any nice idea's? (link)
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I found these websites that you might want to look at. They have creative and orginal ways to propose to someone. However, in my opinion I think anyone in high school is way too young to be even THINKING about marriage! You don't even know what you want in life yet! You don't know where you are going to be one year, 5 years, 10 years down the road! Think about this long and hard before you make any decisions!! Make a list of the good/bad things about getting married at such a young age, and see which you have more of when you are finished. (good or bad) Anyways, here are the websites..
http://www.romanceopedia.com/E-TheProposal.html
http://www.theromantic.com/stories/marriageproposal/proposal16.htm
http://www.romancestuck.com/wedding/proposals/big.htm
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there is this guy that i have known for a while and he is hott and everything but he is like a brother to me and he asked me out should i do it or should i just say no?
love ? (link)
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If you are asking whether or not you are in love with this guy, only you would know the true answer. Being in love means you can say anything, and do anything in front of this person and not feeled judged! You should be able to talk to this person about anything and trust him with everyone. (if the feeling is mutual!) You should feel nothing but happiness when you are with this person, talking to this person, or even when you simply hear his name! There should be no secrets between the two of you, b/c if you LOVE him, why should there have to be? I don't think people fall in love til they are older and more mature, but it all depends on who you are I guess. I am constantly telling people that they can't fall in love til they're out of school, or older..but so many people think that they are, so I dunno, maybe I'm wrong! But anyways, if you like this guy and think he would be a good b/f for you..go for it!! Be careful when you make your decision tho! Make sure it is what you want, b/c you don't want to end up regretting it later on. Good Luck!
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two months or so ago, my bf broke up with me :( ever since i have been to scared to ask anyone out because i figure they're going to say no..
Can Someone help??¿¿ (link)
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Heyy. You definitely shouldn't be afraid to ask someone out, especially if you like them a lot. Rejection is something that a lot of people are afraid of, but you can't let it hold you back! Just b/c one guy broke up with you..doesn't mean they are all going to be that way. Just be careful who you trust next time, and get to know that as well as possible before going out with them! Be friends with the person first, that way they don't really have a reason to say no to you, unless they don't like you anymore than a friend. But you can usually tell when/if someone does. If they flirt with you, look at you a lot, touch you, laugh at your jokes, smile at you..those are some ways you can tell if someone is interested in you or not. You are probably going to have a lot of relationships in the next few years. You are also probably going to break some hearts, and get your heart broken once or twice. That is just life. There really isn't anything you can do about it either, except just wait it out. Time heals all pain. But the worse thing you can do, is be afraid! Just follow your heart!! Good Luck!
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Ok here it goes I have tried so many other websites to get advice back and all the other websites are just too busy or liars. So here I go for the third time telling my story and hoping to get some advice back for once. Ok there is this guy I have liked since last year. We met when I started as a freshman and he was a sophmore. He likes to joke around with people so earlier last year for no apparent reason he and his friends start calling me deuce. This goes on for awhile and it gets really annoying but then I start to like him and I didnt tell my friends about it until 2 months of liking him. Anyway we eventually become friends. And his best friend was calling the guy that I like my boyfriend so ok you could say that he liked me I mean it was pretty obvious. But nothing ever happened b/c my best friend started liking his best friend and then the guy that I like just I guess kinda got annoyed and told my best friend that he didn't like me but then told me he never said he didn't like me. An this all happened back in March of last year. In April we started talking again until he supposdly went out with a 7th grader for like 2 days I don't know if it was a joke or to make me jealous but whatever after they ended he came right back to me. In May our friendship got even stronger we started flirting constantly and talking online and over the summer we talked online and we had some really good conversations. Once online he told me he cared about me and to stop being friends with my best friend b/c she brought out the worst in me. And when school started last week and I walked in the cafeteria for our break he just looked at me and smiled and then at lunch he came over and talked to me(and he hugged me on Friday.) And after school all of last week we talked everyday after school. Until last Thursday when he gave me mean looks and said I look at him too much. I know he doesn't like that and I try to not look at him but its just so hard.( and I catch him looking at me too) I really like him I think he does too but is just afraid of what people will think or of having something great with me.)r maybe he is waiting for me to make the move. I mean I just dont know. SO what do you think??? (link)
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Well first of all, I think you should talk to him while he is alone, and then while people are around. If he acts differently (in a bad way) towards you when there are people there, then he definitely can't like you that much. Tell him that you like him and ask him what he thinks about you. He sounds like the kind of guy who is just a day by day person. Seems like he could like you one day, then not even care if he ever saw you again the next. Don't give him as much attention as you do now, and see if it bothers him or if he gets mad b/c you stopped talking/looking at him as much. Who knows, maybe he is just playing hard to get. Guys are liars tho, so be careful what you believe. Another you could do just to see if he likes you, is talk to other guys! Make it seem like you are interested in them, and what they have to say. Don't make that big of a scene out of it tho, just talk to them and see what this guy does. If he gets jealous and you can tell, he probably likes you atleast a little bit. Good Luck!
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OK i have been going out with this guy for a few weeks and we havent gone anywhere or anything he also goes to a different school. SO then i wouldnt know if hes cheating on me or not. Hes really nice and all but im not shure if i should dump him or not. I RATE HIGH!!!!!!
-thanks-
NOT SHURE (link)
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If you haven't seen this guy at all since you have been together, and it's really bothering you..talk to him about it. Ask him why you haven't hung out yet, or ask him TO hang out sometime. I would think it'd be hard to go out with a guy that you never see and that goes to a different school for the reason you mentioned. He COULD cheat on you and you probably wouldn't ever find out, unless you know some of his friends or people that go to his school. You don't have to break up with him rite away tho. I'd ask him when you're gonna hang out and stuff like that. I would try to talk to him as much as possible, on the phone or the internet so you know what he is doing and who he's with. (don't be too possessive or "stalker-ish" tho, that would probably scare him away. haha) Tell him that you trust him, and that if he cheated on you, you would be extremely hurt b/c you like him a lot and you would never do that to him. However, if you feel breaking up with him and getting a b/f who you go to school with and could actually see, or hang out with.. go for it. Make yourself happy, and follow your heart!
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sorry it's a little long well one of my close friends asked me out and he's kinda known as a cheater and I'm thinking of telling him yes but I've been hearing all these rumors that he kissed his ex and that he was trying to hook up with some other girl and it just makes me wonder about him.I asked him if it was true and he said no that he puts it on everything he has and he swore to god. my friend asked him too and he told her the same thing I really like him but I think I might get hurt if I say yes I will rate a 5.please help (link)
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Rumors are tough things to go by. You can't always believe everything you hear, but if you are hearing it from more than a few people..chances are it might be true. A lot of guys are very well known for being cheaters or players. I don't trust very many guys at all. If he seems like he has been mature in the passed, then he might not be lying about the things he swears are true to you. Just watch and pay close attention to the way he acts around you, and other girls. If he treats you better, or does more for you he probably likes you a lot. If he flirts with other girls, especially when you are around, he probably isn't worth it. If you haven't been his friend for a long time..I would suggest getting to know him as a friend first, then if he seems like a good guy, and treats you the way you want to be treated..think about giving him a chance. Don't rush into anything, and be sure this is what you want. Don't feel pressured into giving him an answer rite away, but don't make him wait forever. If you tell him that you aren't sure, and he just gets a different g/f..forget about it. The rumors are most likely more than true then!
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Whenever i like someone, I get really shy and i cant talk to him in person. Is the any advice that will help me not be shy and accually talk to him in person. i have no problem talking to him on the computer by the way. :-\ (link)
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In my opinion if you were willing to, you could see a counsellor. Someone who is able to work with you, and try to help you build your confidence up to the point where you can actually talk to guys in person! I get embarassed very easily, which causes me to be quiet when I have something to say, very often! A counsellor would help you figure out why you are so shy, and help you work on fixing that!
Here are some websites that you might want to look at.. I found these (by searching on google) where people talk about overcoming shyness. You might like to read them,
http://www.teenadviceonline.org/archive/45972.html
http://express.7.forumer.com/a/overcoming-shyness_post280.html
http://www.ym.com/jsp/body/askanything/jan0101.jsp
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-so-shy-around-him-i-can-hardly-speak.html
I hope you can find some of that information useful!
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Sorry i dont have AIM i have msn though..
yeah umm ill talk to you here instead.. or we can go to a chatbox thing on my site.. your choice (link)
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Yeah what is your site, we can try that. Sorry I'm not being of much help, I just need a bit more detail!
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whats the song called? (i'm not sure if i heard the lyrics right)
you and me and all of the people with nothing to do, nothing to prove and its you and me and all of the people and i don't know why but i can't keep my eyes off of you (link)
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The song is called You and Me by Lifehouse. Here are the lyrics..
What day is it
And in what month
This clock never seemed so alive
I can't keep up and I can't back down
I've been losing so much time
Cause it's you and me and all of the people
Nothing to do, nothing to lose
And it's you and me and all of the people and
I don't know why I can't keep my eyes off of you
All of the things that I want to say
Just aren't coming out right
I'm tripping on words, you got my head spinning
I don't know where to go from here
Cause it's you and me and all of the people
With nothing to do, nothing to prove
And it's you and me and all of the people and
I don't know why I can't keep my eyes off you
Something about you now
I can't quite figure out
Everything she does is beautiful
Everything she does is right
Cause it's you and me and all of the people
With nothing to do, nothing to lose
And it's you and me and all of the people and
I don't know why I can't keep my eyes off of
You and me and all of the people
With nothing to do nothin to prove and
It's you and me and all of the people and
I don't know why I can't keep my eyes off of you
What day is it
And in what month
This clock never seemed so alive
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Well you see, I have to make a poster thing that is titeld My Identity.. and we have to expand things like eg. culture on how it influenced your identity... its really confusing, so thats why im asking here! (link)
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IM me on BrittanyMichx39 if you have AIM so we can talk on there. It will probably be easier. I am on rite now, but if you don't have it we can talk on here. I will try to find some information for you but I'm still kind of coufused as to what you mean! Sorry..
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ok me n one of my good guy friends are going out but i think he likes his friends more than me! the first weekend we were going out he ditched me for his friends... it was a saterday night and my family was suppost to go eat with my aunt but the dinner was canceled so i told him i could do something and invited him over but he told me he allready made other plans to go to a baseball game with our friends soo i was sad so i didnt want to go then the next weekend ..... its was friday we went to the movies with our friends so i came late and he was allready there so i called him and we went in another movie and one of my guy friends came too so we went and sat down and he said hes going back in the other movie and i was like uhh why and he said he couldnt do that to his friends i mean omg arnt i suppost to come before his friends ???
help i duno if i should still go out with him!
Ash (link)
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There is definitely something wrong if he is constantly choosing his friends over you! Especially if you were already together and then he ditched your for them. I think you should talk to him about this and tell him how he is making you feel, and tell him what he is doing to you. Ask him to hang out a few more times just to see what he does. Hang out with him if he wants to, and see how he acts towards you. Maybe one time just hang out with him alone, and then another time hang out with him and his friends at the same time to see if he acts any differently towards you. If he treats his friends better than you, I would suggest just being his friend, b/c who knows maybe he will treat you better then. He doesn't sound like a good b/f, but obviously he is a better friend if he is picking them OVER his g/f!
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How can Something eg.school infuence your identity??? easy 5's for first 5 people (link)
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I'm not exactly sure what you are asking but I searched on google ("how school influences your identity") and found this website. It was really long, so I didn't read much of it, but it might help you out. If not you can IM me on AIM (my s/n is BrittanyMichx39) and give me more detail as to what you are asking. Good Luck!
http://gseweb.harvard.edu/~hepg/HER-BookRev/Articles/1997/2-Summer/Davidson.html
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i'm going to get a tattoo on my lower back. But im not sure of what i want. i kinda have an idea..i want a rose or something in that sort. can anyone give me a site that has picture of tattoos!
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I found these sites by searching google. I thought you might like them.
http://temptats.net/triball.html
http://www.etattoos.net/tattoos_designs_lowerback.htm
http://tattoo.about.com/cs/tatart/l/blgallowerback.htm
http://www.eurotattoo.co.nz/armbandsbymonique2.htm
http://www.mytattooink.com/tattoo-pics/lower-back-tattoos.htm
http://community.webshots.com/album/316836926lYCMaE
http://www.tattoojohnny.com/lowerback-tattoo-designs.asp
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if your boyfriend and you are making out and he is doing all the touching and kissing and you just sitting there getting all the pleasure what should i do in return? also if he trys to kiss you once but you turned away your face because you were shy what can you do you make that person want to kiss you or should i make the first move on him with kissing? (link)
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Firstly, try either holding their hand, walking arm in arm, sitting close together, or offering a neck massage.
If you sense hesitation, reluctance or disapproval, stop what you are doing, smile and start a light conversation. You have not put either of you in an awkward position. As the evening continues, reassess the situation.
If he/she is responding positively to your touch, move into a comfortable kissing position. Move in closer and tilt your head up or down and establish eye contact.
If you feel comfortable and have good eye contact, move in slowly for your kiss. Notice if they begin to move towards or away from you. If they do not move in closer to you, move back a little and reassess the situation.
If they lean in slightly towards you, then its time for that romantic kiss.
Remember, start off slowly, with no tongue. Don't end the kiss suddenly, instead move away slowly, and then move back for another kiss. If he/she seems hesitant, just stop.
I found that information at:
http://www.crush.com/kissing-tips/make-first-move.htm
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ok wellmy bff is going out with this guy who is my frien well he came to my house to hangout and then well he started flirting with me and well i kinda flirted back on accident all of sudden he is makein out with me and i like kissed him back and he is really hot and i love him i have since like 3rd grade and so now he comes over and we kiss all the time is that really bad should i tell Alison (mi bff) ??????
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Yeah, you definitely should tell her, even tho it might ruin your friendship. what you did was wrong especially if she is your best friend and they are officially "together". Just explain to her how it happened and tell her that you are sorry. I would suggest that you stop kissing him if they are still together and if it ruins your friendship with your bff! If you decide not to tell her, someone else could find out and tell her, which would probably make her even more mad than if she heard it from you b/c she probably thinks that she can trusts you. If you like him you should tell her that too. Good Luck!
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Touch his hand, or his arm. Smile, a lot. And laugh at his jokes, and just talk to him a lot. Don't be annoying though, by always trying to be around him, or never letting him pay any attention to anyone else. (I've done that before, haha) Make him feel like he is important to you, and you can also wink at him if you are in school and he looks at you but you can't talk to him (if you are taking a test, or doing work.) There are so many things that you could do to flirt with him! Always pay attention to him when he is talking to you. And remember to SMILE!!
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What do yo call a person without a religion? think its someting called Athiest(sp) or something.. am i right?? ill rate 5's for the first 4 people that answer (link)
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Atheist : one who does not believe in the existence of any gods.
Theist : one who believes in the existence of a god or gods; specifically : one who believes in the existence of a personal God viewed as the creator of man and the world.
Agnostic : one who believes that it is impossible to know whether there is a God or gods, that it is unknown and probably unknowable; yet does not profess true atheist.
(information found at http://www.ethicalatheist.com/docs/definitions.html)
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ok heres the deal, i really like this guy named Chris...were good friends, and i really miss him bc its still summer n we dont really hang out. i miss him so much...school starts in 4 days n i really want to impress him, this year we start high school =) i cant wait, so anyway, my question is, how do i like flatter him when he sees me? ill rate high =) Please Help! (link)
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I think the easiest way to get his attention is to wear an outfit that will make him say "wow!" Pick an outfit that nobody else will be wearing. Wear perfume that smells really good, and do your make-up (if you wear any) so he will notice that too! Smile, he will love that and that will definitely get his attention. Make sure he knows that you are smiling at him, and not somebody else! And don't be afraid to flirt with him! He should notice you, then for sure. Good Luck!
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Welp this one girl angie was going out with a kid jon. While they were going out i sort of did things with jon =/ They broke up though and i lost my virginity to him. I asked him if he would ever consider going out with me becuase i dont want to be used. He said he would consider it but in his away messages and things it says how sorry he is to angie and how he wishes he could go back. i dont know if hes faking it? But i dont know what to do..somebody please help! (link)
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Guys are jerks. Most of the guys I know are really into having sex, getting drunk, and you know the rest. I don't think you should waste your time on this kid, b/c even if he is only playing games with angie's head telling her he wants her back and everything, who's to say he couldn't do the same thing to you! You have to look for a guy who isn't just interested in getting you in bed! If you don't want to have sex, don't! Don't feel pressured into it, b/c there are a lot of risks that come with it, such as getting pregant, or an STD, etc. etc. Guys don't usually care about feelings til they get older and mature a bit. If he wants you, let him come to you, don't try to get him. But make sure he isn't just trying to get with you b/c he doesn't have anyone else, b/c guys are good at that too. They just feel like they need someone for comfort or something. It is hard to tell whether or not a guy is lying to you about things like that, but just pay close attention to the way he acts towards you, and other girls. You don't deserve, need or want to get a guy that is more likely to lie to you and use you for sex, than tell you the truth and actually care about your feelings. Good Luck!
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