Iam 14, and pretty smart I guess, and wise (and humble about it too :)
I am really into peoples feelings but i still tend to tell you like it is, theres plenty of people out there who are always a pain in the butt and making everyone around them feel like crap, i dont want to be that person.
I awnser a wide variety of questions even ones i dont know anything about, in hopes i can help maybe even alittle bit, but dont ask me retarded stuff i dont want the drama queen stuff, im here to help if your not here to whine.
Also dont ask me gross sex problems im a christian and i dont know anything about 'blow jobs' so dont ask me about them...also if you dont like the awsner i give you then dont read it.
And just for the record I could care less about the rating you give me, so if you got a negative comment send it to someone who cares, and low ratings are good for me there showing im saying it how it is.
In all christian love, 2tammy2
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Location: Washington
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is there a gang where the symbol is a fish hook? because i saw a couple guys wearing baseball caps with a fish hook in the corner and im pretty sure it was gang related.. (link)
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im not sure but heres a website showing lots of informationthat could help you decide if they were or not:http://ga.essortment.com/gangsignsands_reyp.htm
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ohkay so i just got photoshop elements 5.0 but i cannot get the brush tool to work. everything is so confusing, i want to color my picture black and white, but not the whole thing how do i do it!!!!. cause i know theres a black and white brush and like colorful brushes and everything, but where? cause like the color wont go on my picture:[ (link)
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google it or call whoever you bought it from they can help u
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So I really like this show called "the best years" and its really new. It just premiered yesterday. So anyways the main actress, charity shea (that's her real name) well I like her hair a lot. And I wanna get my hair cut like hers. So I went on google but there no pics of her with straight hair so the person cutting my hair could see what it was cut like, so if anyone can find me pics of her with straight hair or w.e then thank u sooo much (link)
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here you go i hope theres some straight haired ones in here:http://images.google.com/images?um=1&tab=wi&ie=UTF-8&rls=HPIC%2CHPIC%3A2006-28%2CHPIC%3Aen&q=charity%20shea
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I was thinking today about how amazing it would be to be a ballerina..i've always admired how graceful and hardworking they are..i'm a very clumsy person but I know it's possible to become graceful and I'm passionate about music and dancing freely and feeling the music but I've never been enrolled in dance classes or anything like that before and my question is..what exactly is it like being a ballerina? is ballet worth all the time and effort? basically I just wanna know about it from anyone who has done it or knows somebody who has done it. thank you! (link)
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I did ballet for 5 years, and its fun i do not really like tutus but hey, i loved being in the lime light because i was in the Nutcracker, you get what you put it in, but some people get the talent naturually, iam a normally very clumsy person but i did really good in ballet and i was graceful too.
It also helps if your flexible...
Unless you live in Britian or something youll probably get ridicule for doing it I did
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HI. I dont know why, but latly I have been a little moody. I mean REALLY MOODY! I screamed really loud at my brother and told him I hated him bec ause he wanted to borrow my GBA (Game Boy Advance). I dont normaly act this way and I am really suprised at myself. my real questions are is there anything i can do, does it go away, and is there anyhthing I can do to relive that stress? PLEASE HELP ME! IM HAVING A PARTY AND I DONT FWANT A BAD REPUTATION! THANKYOU! (link)
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ok sorry no cure for this one, im the exact same way and guess what its called-hormones, unless if you intend to die(no im not suggesting it) theres no way to get around them, just relax and theres really nothing you can do about it but remember even if you feel totally hosed you still have control you decide in what mood your in.
Just relax and have plenty of alone time and if you yell at someone then just apologize they understand whats going on with you (puberty) even if you dont.
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I'm 22 years old. When I was 19, I got married and my husband and I decided to have a baby. Well, I had a miscarriage. I was devestated, but I decided to try again. Well my husband and I split up for various reasons, and I was engaged to another guy. Well, I got pregnant again, and later had another miscarriage. I started to feel extremely scared, so I went to my doctor and asked him what was wrong. He told me that it was just a flaw and that I could conceive a baby. So I tried again. About 5 months ago I became pregnant with twins. Well, I just lost one of the twins, and I'm ready to sue the doctor. I guess what I'm asking is, can I sue him, and will I ever be able to conceive my own child? And what should I do about this baby? (link)
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Im not sure you should sue him, some women do have random miscarriages and i guess he thought you were one of them, i wouldnt abort the baby it may turn out to be your only child, besides if you abort it youll probably always end up asking yourself would it ever live, but then again im 14 so i really have no clue
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what happened to all the cool movies? now there are just lame ones to watch (link)
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also all the new ones suck 2, i think the movie writers are losing insperation, or something.
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so my dad had this huge case... it's really screwed up evryone's lives, i think it's my fault, and because i do i can still talk to some of the people involved in the case. one of those people is my best friend.
well this guy that i'mm really good friends with gets really pissed off at me when i hang out with her because he blames the case on her... so she gets hurt because she doesn't know why this guy hates her, and i get hurt because then i have to think about the case, which makes me hate myself more because i blame myself... and he gets really mad at me... i'm totally lost... i have no idea what to do... any ideas? please! (link)
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Hmm more advice on top of that, well first think of the reasons why its your fault, and then see how redicously stupid it is, and then realize its normal for you have to those feelings and your probably not the only one thats experienced the same things, uhm... maybe just tell your guy friend and your best friend how you feel and tell them their reactions are bothering you i dont know how much more advice i can give you
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Ok so i live in sydney, australia and im looking for a job for my 2 and a half week work experience. I am a creative person but i don't know what i want to do for a career later in life. I decided something for music or art. I was hoping for something like a recording studio because i was considering working in one when im older but they're in the city and i was looking for something local. I searched through the pink pages and found a near by art gallery but i would rather do something a bit more interesting. My mum suggested the music store where i got my guitar from but i only really know how to tune and play afew songs on guitar and a little piano. Im not doing anything in fast food or any kind of food for that matter. I need ideas on ANY kind of music/artistic places that would be in any local suburbian area. Thankyou! (link)
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ok i dont know any places i live in good old united states but just reading this im thinking don't be so picky no place that is really nice is going to hire you for 2 1/2 weeks also you cant just slide into those good positions youll probably have to work really hard for it unless your family is very important in Australia, so my advice to you is dont be so picky
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I've recently put on some weight, maybe like ten pounds (which puts my weight at like 130.) Most of this new weight seems to have turned into stomach fat.
My friend Khalil,saw me recently (we don't live very close to eachother so it was a longer visit) and really liked the extra pounds, he said it made me look softer,and my new belly (which is kinda rounded) was 'adoreable'.
So I was wondering do more guys think like my friend, or are they mostly in for skinny girls? (link)
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if you weigh 130 lbs. then you dont have a belly you just look femenine, and who cares if other guys like it this guy your friend sounds like hes into it so try him out.
Anyway its personal preference so dont go starving yourself to lose 'your belly' if other guys dont like it who cares the right man will love you for who you are...
in christian love 2tammy2
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ok so tommorow is my bdy im turning 16 yay me! lol
but i also have an acting audition for a talent show tomorow morning. im so nervous.what are some tips? like how should i act? what should i wear? make up? and what should i say to them? stuff liek that, oh and any background information on auditioning would be awesome! thanks! (link)
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Happy 16th birthday that is a big deal!!!
Hmm... just act like you normally do if they dont like that then why would you be good for the job? wear something really nice and no cleavage sexy is not good for those things, wear light make up but show off your good features, show them your interested in the job but dont turn nervous chatterbox on them either... i dont know anything about additions so someone else will have to help you there.
Have fun in all christian love 2tammy2
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I really need to know what it feels like when your cherry pops. Yesterday i went for a bike ride for the first time in like a month. i just went again this morning, and i could barely sit down. it hurts really bad, but only when i'm on the bike. i read that it could pop just doing sports and stuff, but what does it feel like? please help! (link)
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ok im not sure exactly what your cherry is, but it sounds like you might have really hurt your tailbone (that always makes me have hurt when i sit down) also when riding on a horse im supposed to sit on the saddle literally my vagina area to the saddle(it dosent help much to wear anything it feels really bad all the time) and my horse will do a mini bucking move and my vagina hurts really bad afterwards and i didnt 'pop any cherries' so maybe your just bruised or something/
And i hear when you lose that tissue inside of you that guys generally break the first time you have sex, can be broken through lots of excercize but there is bleeding
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Are there any statistics or like a precentage on how many of the advicenators are female and how many male? Or like, how many of the questions asked here are asked by girls and how many by guys? Cause it seems to me that every single question on here is asked by a girl, so I just wanted to know. Thanks! (link)
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i think ive seen one male advicenator so far and one male who could be a adviceanator who was a male i think and he was asking a question...
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Well firstly I just wanted to ask where r some good places to masterbate? and what are some good things around the house I can use during masterbation? As well as is it normal that when I'm masterbating I don't really "scream" when it feels good but I just kinda moan but not so loud... oh, and I'm 15/f
Thanks anyways :D (link)
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I hear a hair brush, and shower head (if you run it over that area in the shower, also it is very normal to 'yell or moan' its just your bodies way of releasing tension from intense arrousal or however you speell that lol
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can you get moody when you have your discharge on? (link)
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ok when your a teenage girl(which i assume you are) you dont need a reason to be moody its like a permament state of mind for most of us, anyway yes i think so because i get my discharge a couple days before my period so it could be due to the hormonal change or pms, and if you get discharge after like me then also probably from a hormonal change
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Ok.. Lately I think I may have noticed a change in my vaginal discharge. Like I dont know if it may be due to changes in sexual activities with my partner or not but like I dont know if i should worry or not about this. I have been noticing more of a whiter discharge. It isnt clumpy it is more like a gooey snot like but looks milky. There hasn't been any weird smells or itching none of those symptoms. But I want to know if it is normal and what may be the general cause and if I have an infection or not. Is this normal? (link)
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ya i get thick and gel like stuff and then snot like stuff othertimes, my doctor tells me it just depends on the time of the month, if it turns dark or smelly then its an infection but i think its totally normally
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ok, im a sorta preppy girl, and i really like this guy whose a skater. He listens to like Metallica and stuff, and skateboards and plays video games. Im pretty sure (99%) that he likes me too. we always talk on IM, and i need some good conversasion starters becuase were so different. Any suggestions? thanks =] (link)
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I know you guys can be together, i hate being identified as something, and those titles later in life dont mean anything, anyway ask him about skateboards or other skater stuff, in my extremely rocky love life ive learned dont bother them to much, dont tell them gross girl stuff, and listen to what they want to say so start something out like cool skateboard whered you get it and he should (if hes interested) unless he is shy will yabber on for 80 years about his skateboard and then you guys can go from there
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I go swimming at my neighbor's lakehouse in the lake ALL THE TIME, and I don't even think about it. I don't go swimming past 12 feet deep of water and I know there's fish in the water, but it just hit me that fish bite! My friends have gotten bitten by fish a few times (not at a lot) and now I'm scared I'm next. I'm afraid they're going to bite my toes and I want to wear some kind of shoes to protect myself. What are some good shoes to wear in the lake that won't allow the fish to bite? There's a lot of sunfish and a few otters & I'm wondering if those kinds of creatures are known to bite? Also, what can I do so the fish will leave me alone when I go swimming? Please help!! (link)
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i wear 'water' shoes also known as boat shoes you kind most of them at local stores like Fred Meyer or Safeway
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my legs keep iching and ive been doing evrything to make it stop... WATER LOTION i dont no what else to do (link)
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maybe your allergic to the lotion your using try unscented lotion and if your legs keep itching then see a doctor
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My friends have all these expectations on me! And I have one week to make them come true! You see, everytime I see them (once a year) I always look great! but this year, I've let myself go and I hate to say it but.. I'm ugly. Lats year everyone called me "smoking hot" and I was homecoming queen, this year that all changed, I got depressed and turned ugly and now boys wont even look at me. The thing is - my friends how live overseas are not aware of this change! So they say these things to me (online) like "its gonna be so much fun hanging out with you again,, you always draw a bunch of boys to us, i never get to hang with boys when ur not here" or "remember that guy you thought was cute? well i showed him ur picture and he thought you were hot so i told him i'd hook you up when you got here, and now he can't wait!" it may sound corny, but everyone is expecting me to look GREAT! They're always so proud to walk around the mall with me because I'm pretty! The boys love when others try to pick me up and im like "no sorry..im with these guys!" and the girls love how guys try to pick me up and I turn their attention to them instead!
But that wont happe this year! Im soo ugly now! And I know "real friends shouldnt care" and i know they'll still love me, but I feel so bad! I want to look good, to be their main pride!
I don't want to feel like they're ashamed to walk around with me.. :( help!
I have 5 days to make myself GORGEOUS! Do you think I'll make i or should I just cancell the trip?? Hvae YOU ever made a dramatic change in a really short time? Or does it take longer? (link)
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Ok first things first do not cancel the trip, and maybe see a doctor to see why you are suffering from depression (or its probably just a teenage thing) anyway maybe its a good thing for your friends that you need encouragement and no one can be hot all the time (some people like me rarely do) but i would suggest start excercizing, buy a new sexy outfit, and get your hair cut in the newest trend where ever you live, and remember its nice to be noticed as being hott but it can be emotionally draining to be expected to be all the time as you noticed, so just be true to yourself and dont compromise your feelings for your friends they really do care so tell them what you told us and everything should be fine
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