I'm a simple girl, I don't need a lot to please me. I love giving advice and the greatest pleasure for me is knowing that I have helped people out. I am often misunderstood and judged to quickly because of my age. But I have been through enough in my lifetime to understand and identify with many of the people who come to me with problems. I am willing to do whatever I can in order to help you all out, so anything you need, just ask :) I answer all questions honestly... no matter how much the truth hurts.
E-mail: xkelseyx12@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Age: 15
Member Since: June 6, 2008
Answers: 166
Last Update: June 19, 2008
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ever since i can remember when ever i pee i tear. why ? (link)
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...this sounds like something you should definatly see a doctor about. it could be nothing, but its better to be safe than sorry
Hope everything works out for you :)
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Where can I find hollister-like camisoles/tanks/flowy shirts for less money? (link)
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target and walmart often have cute tank tops. you can also try kohls and mervynns
Hope you find what your looking for :)
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Im having a hard time finding pictures of bangs for my new haircut.
Right now I have kind of long auburn hair with some layers
I want it to be atleast 3 inches shorter (to my arm pit) with side bangs.
Pictures would be great! All I really need is bang pictures, not nessacarily of the hairstyle.
Thanks so much! (link)
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here are some...
http://theenvelope.latimes.com/media/photo/2007-03/28201496.jpg
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/5/d/f/asianhair36.JPG
http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/long/
Hope these help you :)
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I gave a moon and star necklace to my best friend for her b-day and the chain broke. but she bought a knew chain with a love pendant the font is old english. the love pendent is on the same necklace chain with the moon star pendent. she showed it to me today and she said that the font looks like my tattoo (gemini) on the pendant. it sounds silly of me but does that mean anything? i like her but i know she doesnt like me in that way but i am just curious. (link)
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it could possibly mean something, and it also could mean nothing. your best bet is to just be up front with her and ask her. ask her if she meant anything by it. do it casually though because you dont want to scare her with such a bold question.
Good luck :)
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ok well long story short my phone had been dropped in the water by a friend.she gave me $100 which is about half.my parents wont help pay cuz they said its may fault.im only 14 yrs old so a real job is out of the point.i need $450 for the phone i want.i kinda need the money quick.i also would have to pay for activation fees and i dont know how much that is.also im thinkin of insurents just incase lol.so does anyone have any ideas thank you
here is a pic and the price of my phone:
$229.99
http://www.wireless.att.com/cell-phone-service/cell-phone-details/?device=LG+Trax+(Refurb)&q_sku=sku1220006
here is a pic and the price of the phone i want:
$449.99
http://www.wireless.att.com/cell-phone-service/cell-phone-details/?device=Pantech+Duo&q_sku=sku1080007
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babysitting is always an option. post your name and number at local places such as the YMCA [if you have one] also you can go into day cares and sometimes they will hire people under 14 to help. if you know your neighbors you can offer to help clean their houses or even house sit if they are going on vacation.
Unfortunatly at age 14, your options are kinda limited.
Hope one of these helps for you :)
by the way.. i am an owner of the pantech duo and i highly suggest you DONT buy it. unless you buy the PDA package which is 30 dollars a month-quite ridiculuos- and even with that the phone is still incredibly slow. i have had waranty send me a new phone FOUR times and every one they have sent me does not work. this phone is new, so they are still trying to work out all the problems. so i highly suggest that you look into a different phone. The blackberry pearl is actually cheaper than the duo and it has a longer life span to it, if that makes sense, my sister owns it and she says it works really well. for me the duo is constantly freezing up and it doesnt have service very many places.
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*make-up*
well everyday i do the same thing-mascara and eye shadow.sometimes i may add eyeliner but only after school.i hate having the same look!!!nxt year im gonna be an 8th grader but im gonna be going to a high school for math.i want something new for next year does anyone have any ideas on what i should do or use and price isnt really a prolem.
*hair*
ok its similar to the make-up.i got it cut like two weeks ago.i cant seem to style it like the lady so or well at all.so everyday i straighten or well kill it lol.i would wear it up but its too short and sometimes when i go out i do that puff thing with the bangs but im tired of the same look can anyone help me and give me tips on what to do.
thanks to everyone! (link)
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okay well i wasn;t able to see the pictures but i think i may have a few suggestions.. to add something new to your make-up try changing colors. i have fun using different color eye liners and eye shadows. try mixing and matching to make new combinations :)
as for your hair... you can try curling it in ringlets, that is always pretty. you can also try pinning it in a messy bun. this was my favorite when i had short hair. when your hair is wet just randomly take chunks of hair and use bobby pins to pin it to your head. it comes up looking messy but cute.
Hope these work for you :)
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hi there,
i'll be going to visit family on Long Island soon and will want to make a day trip to the City. can you get to manhattan with public transport in a fairly easy way? i'll be in East Meadow.
thanks! (link)
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the train was my best friend when i lived in the city :) it is easy, safe, and fairly inexpensive.
Good luck and have fun :)
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im 15
ive made out with one boy
ive never had a relationship
all my friends have
its embarsing.
what can i do.
I thought by now SOMETHING would of happened for me to have a love life.. (link)
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its okay... you just may not be ready. there is nothing wrong with not having a relationship yet. You're only fifteen, you have plenty of time to date boys! if you're realy dead set on having a boyfriend... if there is someone you like tell him how you feel. if you keep your feelings in, chances are nothing is going to happen. boys are clueless when it comes to girls a lot of the time, and they are just like us girls: afraid of rejection. so if you like a boy, be sure to tell him so he's not confused as to whether or not you do like him. and if you don't like a boy yet, try finding someone who makes you feel special and really happy.
Most of all, don't freak out just because you have yet to have a realy relationship. Your only 15 theres no rush!
Good luck :) if there is anything else you need, feel free to inbox me!
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13/F
A long time ago (a couple years) i was told that a family member i'm close to was sort-of abandoned at birth by her mum. Here's the story -
Her mum was overwhelmed by her birth, and this huge change to her life that she had 'sencond thoughts'. she took this family member to my granny, who took her in - and would have raised her if need be - but my granny (after a night or so) managed to convince the mother to take her back.
If this family member (that i'm v.close to) found out about this (i only just found out she doesn't know) whoknows what could happen to her. She hasn't had the best life - her parents divorced, she gets bullied badly etc... - and this could make it worse (if she finds out).
My Mum told me about 3 or 4 hours ago (we got onto the subject when i was talking to her about my family for a family tree project at school) that i'm not even to breathe a word to any one other than her.
About 1 or 2 hours ago i realized that i have told someone. I think i told 1/2 people, but i'm not sure. I'm not even sure who. I told them trusting them not to say a word to anyone and even though i know they've probably forgotten (i told them a while ago) or if not they would have said by now if they were going to say, but i still can't help feeling sort of scared she'll find out and guilty for telling.
I dont want you to tell me it's alright etc... but have you got any advice for me? Also should i tell my mum that i think i told someone? Thanks loads!!!!!! (link)
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yes, tell your mom! she will be able to calm your fears and help you come up witha plan. also think very closely about who you told and do damage control ASAP!
Good luck :)
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In around a month i have something extremely important to me coming up.
I've recently had my Hair cut, and its jst abit longer than a bob.
I dont really like it to be honest.
Could my hair grow back in a month? n shoulder length?
Any ways to speed the process up..? (link)
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it really depends on how fast your hair grows... but going on prenatal vitamins can help. even though your not pregnant, it makes your hair and nials grow longer. you can find these vitamins at any drug store.
Hope this helps you :)
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so i went for my hair cut.
And it was faily long before, and now its close to a bob.
I wanted it shorter but not THIS short.
It doesn't suit me at all.
Other say it do, some say "Its different" and others just say "its really short" but i dont like it
Is there any way my hair can grow back quicker?
xxx (link)
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Prenatal vitamins :) i donated my ahir to locks of love last year and it bairly covered my ears.. i was so upset. i got it cut in may and the next day i went on prenatal vitamins. by the first day of school it was close to shoulder length. It may seem weird to take prenatal vitamins because your not pregnant but it doesn't affect your body other than it makes you hair grow faster and also your nails.
Hope these help you as well as they helped me :)
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Well , exactly a week ago my boyfriend of a year and 3 months broke up with me. My heart was literally broken, he acted like he didnt even care. Well we know [ maybe] down the road we could be together again but we just was not happy with the [ relationship ] , the argueing and everything that was going on was to stressful [ so he says ]. Well its been hard for me because i see he's been hanging w/ girls alot and doing his thing. But i feel bad if i do anythng ya know. My question is , should i just not care sense its the summer time & just have fun w. everyone. And just flirt and havve a goodtime ? I just dont wanna like make out w/ people and then me and my boyfriend get backtogether and him have not done anything . I dont want him to do anything ''/ but i know he probley will. idk i have so many emotions in me . Can anyone help with that& tell me how to get through this b/c they say each day gets easier but it doesnt =( (link)
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breaking up is one of the hardest things that us girls have to go through, I am not exactly sure how old you and your boyfriend are (this could change things) but no matter what: it sucks! my advice is to try your hardest to move on. it may seem impossible for you to do right now and it may seem like everything is falling apart around you. this is just because i main part of your life has just taken himself out of your life. my advice as to what to do this summer is to do your best to live it like there is no possibility of you two gettng back together. this way if you guys dont get back together you won't be dissapointed. You don't want to set yourself up for dissapointment. as hard as it may be to realize, if he wasn't happy with your relationship now, there isn't a whole lot of hope that he is going to wake up tomorrow and be happy with it.
So just do your best to move on, see other guys. flirting is always good because it makes you feel good to see that another is interested. and if something comes out of your harmless flirting, then maybe it was meant to be :) whatever you do, don't dwell on the past. honestly if he is expecting you to wait around for him to get over his unhappiness, you deserve better. If he is out moving on with other girls, you should be able to have fun with other guys. I KNOW it may seem close to impossible at first because you and your boyfriend obviously shared some really strong feelings for each other, but it will eventually get easier.
If you need any more advice, or you just want to vent about your ex.. you can either email me [xkelxeyx12@yahoo.com] or write to my inbox.
I hope i helped, and I hope everything works out for you :)
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my name is Kyra,
i think i have herpes,
how do i kno for sure? (link)
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the only way you can truly know for sure is see a doctor.. check out this website with symptoms and if you more than two of them, you shoudld definatly go get checked out!
http://www.globalherbalsupplies.com/herpes/symptoms.htm
hope everything turns out okay :)
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15/f
There's this boy that I'm completely head over heels for. Have been since last school year! I met him a year & a half ago and I've been drooling over him for a year. Now, my crushes usually last like a month at the most( I've only had one other crush that went on for 4 years but now I'm just kind of like "I want to be his best friend forever' mode with him now) so I know that I really like this boy. But the problem is that he's a grade higher than me & so we don't have ANY classes together (MAYBE a math class next year but I think he's taking a different math class) so I don't really see him much. We talk sometimes but it's just a plain "Hey buddy" type of talks. And he has been going out with my sort of okay friend (like, we're more than acquaintances but not enough of friends to actually hang out?)for a month and he still is going out with her. But I don't know if I'm making it up (probably) but I still feel like he has some type of feeling other than friendship with me because last year HE really liked me (it's an irrefutable fact) & today I saw him when he was dropping his gf off at school & he asked if I needed a ride since we lived like 2 min away from each other & he seemed like he wanted to. Like I told him my mom was coming but he kept asking if I was sure and went ahead and made me call my mom. And now I wish I could've just gotten a ride with him although my mom was indeed on her way to pick me up *sigh*
But anywhos, next year is his senior year and I don't want to either think about him any longer or just straight out tell him everything I think about it. But I can't do the first one no matter how hard I try and I shouldn't do the second one because he has a gf who happens to be like okay friend.
What should I do? Don't tell me to hang out with my friends because my mom hates my friends & she "banned" me from them (no joke).
Thanks a bunch (link)
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you really need to talk to him, because it is not fair of him to be sending you mixed feelings. you just need to sit down with him and sey "okay we need to get things straight because it seems to me like you are sending me mixed signals because i get the feeling that you maybe have other feelings for me other than friendly." then tell him that you have feelings for him but you obviously aren't going to do anything about these feelings while he has a girlfriend. if he tells you that he has feelings for you, tell him that you aren;t going to do anything with him unless he breaks up with his gf. and if he says that he doesnt feelings for you, you need to move on. it may be hard to hear, but you have to know for sure. and if he doesnt have feelings for you, there is no use in waiting around.
Good luck :) if you need anything else just ask!
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Theres this guy I kind of like at work and the other day we were talking about our facebook pages, and he asked me how to spell my name so I thought that he was going to ask me to be a friend on his, but he didn't. I haven't known him that long now. Should I wait and see if he asks me later, ignore it or should I ask HIM to be a friend? And how would I play it off if he actually says no because I don't want it to be awkward at work. Thanks for any advice :) (link)
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just friend him yourself.. chances are he just couldn't find you or maybe he hasn't gotten around to it yet. And he really has no reason to say no, its not like he is promising to marry you when he friends you haha. but if by chance he does, no big deal. he is just a n=boy, and there will be others!
I hope this works for you :)
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Yesterday I borrowed some lip gloss from a friend who had a cold sore. Admittedly, I wasn't thinking. I didn't realize I could get cold sores from her until much later in the day. Well, anyway, me question is: Is there anything I can do to prevent catching cold sores? I know I already exposed myself to the virus, but is there anything I can do? I really really do not want cold sores. Thanks. (link)
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once your exposed, you can't prevent them any longer. but if you do get cold sores from using the chap stick, immediatly put abreeva on it and keep it medicated. hopefully it will go away quickly.
Good luck :)
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OK so herez the deal.
best friend+boyfriend= us over with
i like the guy, i've known him forever but i h8 them together. theve been together for about 6 months now and he has changed the hell out of her. she is a completely dif person. looks AND actions. she says she still wants to be friend and all that but she acts like she doesnt give a shit n e way. as long as she has him. things have been going completely down hill for me since it started happening including all my friendships, family, just about everything except for my boyfriend who i love with my whole heart.
i understand she thinks she loves him but what am i suppos2 do when she dumps everything else to change for him. i've tryed talking to her, i've tryed giving up, n e thing i do never works. i gave up for a while and then she got mad cz i gave up. i hold on and nothing effin changed. i dont no how to handle it n e more...i need help... (link)
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wow this is a crazy question because i have just recently gone through the same exact thing. like you my best friend started dating this guy I knew and she changed a lot. I know it seems like she is abandoning you right now, but she will come around eventually. even if she is spending all her time with her boyfriend right now and changing a lot, eventually she will realize that she still needs her best fried, you! just give her, her space right now and wait till she come to you. and when she does, just tell her that as much as her boyfriend needs her, you need her too. tell her that you respect her relationship but you still want her to make time for you. just try your best to be understanding and just explain to her that you still need her.
I hope this helps you, is you need anything else just let me know :)
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ok. well i weigh about 120-125. and im 5 foot 5. bu ti still have a little tummy and UGH! it bugs me so much and i wanna loose weight, so now i started only eating salads and not eating anything for dinner. i also eat breakfast. lets just say i stay off the junk now for a week. and i run and do exercises i saw in magazine with weights. when should that help me? in a month? 2 weeks? i really wanna loose 10 pounds in about 2-3 weeks. will that work? and if so, what can i do to loose that many pounds..im TOO FATTT! (link)
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wow, it seems like you have a really good plan so just stick to it. However, skipping dinner is a bad idea. It isn't healthy and if you skip a meal you are more likely to eat later, which could be worse. So just eat a small healthy dinner instead of nothing. Stay positive also, saying that your fat isn't good for your self esteem. Just because you have a little tummy doesn't mean your fat. Your more likely to see results if you are positive about your appearence and you just want to enhance it a bit.
Good luck :)
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Hey guys. I'll be turning 16 on the 29th and I was planning on having a party with about 17 or 18 people, both boys and girls (5 guys, 12 girls or something like that). I don't live in a neighborhood, my house is pretty secluded, and I don't have a pool. So I was wondering if anyone had some good ideas as to what we could do. We can always watch a movie, but I feel like that might be too boring to do the entire time. Thanks to any suggestions! (link)
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okay both these ideas may seem a little lame.. but i have attended both kinds of parties and we all had so much fun :)
... a murder mystery party. this can be done at home.. you can go the folllowing website and it plans the whole thing for you and sends it to you via FEDEX.. it is about $8-10 per person, but like i said. it was a lot of fun and totally worth it!
www.host-a-murder.com
... also if you dont want to have it at your house. i went to a laser tag party. it may seem kinda immature for a sixteenth birthday party, but i promise if you are there with friends it doesnt matter how old you are.. it is so much fun!
hope this helps.. if you don't like either of these ideas, try googling teen party ideas.
:)
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well i liked this guy who's like 2 yrs older than me, i just found out he used to date a girl who used to hate me,well he's really cute and i know he;s single but i freak out when i see him around school how do i get him to like me?? what do i need to do?? plaese this is important! (link)
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most important thing, stay calm :) don't panic and don't get shy or nervous. he's just a boy.but you really can;t MAKE someone like you.. it unfortunatly just doesn't work that wat. but you can let him no you are interested by flirting. make him see you as more than a friend. when i met my last boyfriend he told me that the thing that made him realize i was interested was when i passed by him or if we were in a group together i would lean over and whisper compliments in his ear. it may seem nerve racking but it really works. and guys are like girls they like positive reinforcements. so the next time you see him lean in and whisper something like "you look really good in that shirt" or "you smell good" in his ear. then he'll get the idea that your interested in something happening between the two of you.
and it doesn't matter that he used to dat someone that hates you.. as long as the two of them are completely over, don't let it bother you!
Good luck :)
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