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okay well i moved to Arizona a month ago, and I was 130 pounds when i moved here, I got depressed and sick and I lost enough weight to get down to 115 in just 3 months...just a week ago I was 113, and now im 105..I eat like a PIG and i dont excersize at ALL...is there something wrong with me? Is this normal??
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You might just have really good metabolism. But maybe it has something to do with the fact that you were depressed and sick. Go see a doctor
hey, Sometimes i dont eat for up to two days to try to look better. When i dont eat , it makes me look much skinnier, but i feel really weak. Is it safe to be doing this. Its not like im throwing up every thing i eat or anything. What should i do??
If you're feeling weak then that's a pretty good indication that its not healthy. If you exercise daily, then you'll still be able to eat what you want, and be thin.
well... i seem to be having stomachaches very often. And not just lately, it's been almost forever and i'm getting kind of tired of it. it's always after i eat, every time... and it doesn't matter what i eat. typically greasy foods and fattening foods. i feel like i'm going to throw up, and sometimes i do. I don't know what it is! I have a healthy diet and am happy with my wieght. i dont know what is wrong or what's causing it. anyone with any advice, PLEASE help! i rate 5's.
You should go to the doctor. It sounds like something serious. Or maybe you should try pepto-bismol that may work.
Okay, this may sound really stupid, but I'm serious about asking this question. I'm a girl, I'm thirteen, weigh 105 pounds and I'm 5 foot seven. I'm so tall, and I HATE it! I wish I could stop growing! No offense to tall females, but I think that tall isn't really that flattering for me. My mom is always complimenting me on how tall I am, and I hate it so much! I don't want to be tall! She won't even let me drink coffee to stunt my growth! My doctor said that I might even grow to six feet! I don't want to be that tall! I hate my height already! I'd be happy to be 5 foot four! ARGHH please, is there anything I could do to 'appear shorter' or to stop growing??
5'7 isn't really that tall for me but i guess that's because i'm really tall but don't wear high heels. I really think you should embrace your height because there are a lot of people you wish they had your height but they don't
Girls this is for you. there is one spot down there that gets itchy often. it is on my "pussy lip" on the left side. i was just wondering what i should do because it has been this way for a couple of months now and i don't want to go to the doctor because i don't want them to look at me down there and it could be because i rub it (masterbate)? i dotn know y it would be itchy... so im gonna stop doing that for a while but it still isnt going away. what could it be? do i have an infection? i will rate 5s
It's called a clitoris and you could have a yeast infection. If i were you i would go to the doctor. I don't think they would be able to tell if you masterbated, and even if they did they couldn't tell your parents if you didn't want them too.
I have two friends, or I think they are my two friends.. they are always leaving me out.. like I'm just there for a good laugh or two everyonce in a while but they can cast me aside like an old toy that's lost it's shine. Everytime I make a friend I'm either left for someone else or end up giving up on the whole thing entirely. When they are around me they act like I am their sister or something.. but then they will go off to do things alone.. and they never invite me. I always invite my friends other friend, I always try and include them.. but no.. I'm the third wheel all the time.. v_v I need some help on what to do.. do I stay with my friends.. or should I try and find some new ones..
Do both. Meet new people, maybe this time you'll find people who will appreciate you and like having you around. But you should still try to talk to your old "friends". tell them how you feel. maybe they don't know the way you feel
This may seem like a random and completely dumb question to some, but I'm actually quite serious in asking this. My question is that why is it that young girls ages 12-14 and some even younger, feel that they NEED to have a boyfriend just to fit in? You girls don't understand, when your time comes to have a boyfriend, you'll find someone who will like you for you. Also, my other question is why do you feel the need to dress provocitavely, exposing your breasts, butt, and stomach just to look "sexy"? You don't need to be showing all of that to look sexy. You can be completely covered up and still look gorgeous as ever! That was just my random question for today. Any young girl that feels that way, you can feel free to answer.Thanks.
I feel the exact same way as you do. I'm glad i'm not the only one who feels this way. I think its ridiculous for young girls to be dressing so trashy. Hopefully the slutty style will fade away, and dressing classy will come back in style
ok well this is something that i have already told my mom, and she said that she gets that to sometimes, but there is nothing that she can say that will stop it... but i really think there is something i can do! ok so here is the problem: i know that you get a little bit of white stuff that comes out "down there" but i always get ALOT of white "gunk" down there, it is always al over my underwear, were i have to wipe it out, because it smells, and i also get this irritation almost irritated pain down there to! is there any thing that i can do to treat it? i dont think it is a yeast infection though... but any help...thanks in advance!
You should ask your doctor if there's anything you can do to stop it.
ok well i dont eat anything really... i would say im becoming anerexiox. i know its not good for you but does it mmake you lose weight?
yea but than your become digustingly thin and could die. How come you just can't go on a healthy diet? or better yet don't worry about your weight. I'm pretty sure you're thin. Be a kid worry about normal things
is it ok to curl ur hair with a curler when its still really wet?
unless you want to burn all of your hair off then sure! go right ahead. other wist that has to be the craziest thing i heard of. trust me don't try that.
I love the air force 1 nike shoes. They look nice and they are in style in my school right now. But Im wondering...do they sell them in womens sizes and where can I get them besides the internet? What is the average cost? Thanks so much!
No air force ones' are mens sneakers so you would have to get them in a man's size. they sell them at footlocker, finish line, footaction, champs. they average cost is about $80.
does anybody know how to use a hair curler? i just bought one and i dont know how to use it. can someone explain to me step by step how to use it. thanks =)
First grab a section of hair and grab the ends with the curler. hold the curler in a diagnol position ( I'm assuming you want spiral curls) and then just wrap her hair around the curler, and release the curler and you should have a nice curl. sorry if this wasn't clear enough
I have a problem with my clothes. I don't mind the way I dress or anything...I just feel I need to change something..add more style to me. I usually wear jeans, skateboarding shoes, hoodies and fitted tees/layeredtees, what can I ADD to this to make my clothes more......exciting? Lots of tips would be great, and I'll rate you a 5 no matter what.
Sometimes accessories can really spice up an outfit. A cute purse, some earings, a nice belt can really change an outfit.
How in the world do I get my co-worker to stop interrupting? She expects you to respond the split second she yells from her office. If you don't respond she marches out and starts talking to me even if I'm on the phone or having another conversation. Just some sarcastic help on shutting her down would help :)
Tell her plan and simple you won't tolerate her tantrums any longer. If she continues to be a problem go to Human Resources or your boss and complain.
does anyone know if brown or penn take applicants who have graduated a year early? thanks!
Yea, why wouldn't they?
well i have two best friends ((Rachel and Rissa)).. well heres some back ground.. rachel hates rissa but rissa doesnt hate rachel.. but rachel stayed over last night and i wrote a letter to my mom saying that riss was comming over soo she was like.. okay ill have rachel go home!! soo then rachel gave me the silent treatment cuz she new that something was up!!! soo i couldnt tell her cuz i didnt know if rissa was even comming over ((we had planned her coming over for a while)) so then we got back to my house and rachel says I WANT TO GO HOME. soo she goes home and then all of a sudden i get a text message saying WE CANT BE FRIENDS AND MORE and i was like why and she never responded.. well i no she will get over it and everything but when shes mad.. she tells everything i told her.. and she has alot on me like stuff im not going to get into.. but its really bad if she tells the people which i think she will and i dont know what to do about this because i think this could be a lonnnnnng fight and she will tell people everything and i have a few things on her but she will just deny it.. i need help!!!!! HELP ME PLEASEE
I think you should stop being her friend. Real friends don't tell the secrets of their friends, even if they're mad at each other. Talk to rachel and ask her why she's mad. and explain to her what happened and that you just didn't want her feel uncomfortable because you know that her and rissa don't get along. If she's mature she'll understand, if not then its her loss that she's losing a good friend.
hey..
I'm a 15 year old girl and I have this big crush on my big brother's best friend.....this guy liked me last year but gave up on me because I didn't want to be more then friends....but since we havent bin talking all that much I'v realised that I really like him alot but I dont think he wants me because I didn't want him last year....how would I go about trying to get him?
thx in advance!
Start talking to him again, and casually start flirting. but don't make it obvious. If he flirts back then maybe you guys have a chance at a possible relationship. If he doesn't flirt back or just blows your off, don't get discouraged. Just continue to talk to him and when the time comes ask him out.
ok.... so there's this boy who i THINK fancies me. We hang out in the same group of friends and i've been to a few sleepovers with him, but the problem is he's in year 9 - 2 years younger than me. i'm a really youg in year 11 though so the age thing shouldn't be a problem. I'm not sure how i feel about him, but i'm thinking that i might like him... Argh i don't know what to do! if i do go out with him then people at school will start talking... i dont even know if i like him like that but im sooooo confused
help!
Get to know him a little better, so you can see if you really like him. If you guys do end up going out then just ignore what people say. Its none of their business anyway
Alright i recently got my hair cut to shorter then i ever had it before...kinda past my shoulders...and it's soo thinned out too but the point is my hair use to be where my boob was...around there and its about
------------------------------------------- this much. how long do u think will it take for me to grow it out again? my said a month but then again it's her...so please help! i've been depressed about this since wednesday! i'm never getting it cut at that place again. please help!
First chill out. Remember it IS just hair. they way you made it seem i thought you were bald. I think maybe 2 or 3 months it will be back to its old length. Don't think of it as a bad hair cut try to have fun with it. maybe you can do new styles with it that you couldn't do with it before. Stay positiv. maybe other people will like it
Hey okay here is the deal i was going out with this kid a few times recently we started getting in fights (while we were not going out) and worse came to even worse i told my boyfriend things he had said to me such as going to Hell and stuff. my boyfriend thought he had said he was going to kick his ass even thought he said if he keeps messing with me he was going to fight each other but my ex got his friends involed and my boyfriend got his friends involved and they couldnt fight because most of them had to work that day and time and im afrid if they ever meet they will get in a fight and some one will get hurt. They will be going to the same school sortly and stuff
So my question is what should i do about this i want to be friends with my ex but i no he dont wanna be friends like that because every time we are we end up liking each other again.
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First, try to get your ex and boyfriend to stop fighting. Tell them that what happened with your ex was old drama and you're over it, and hopefully they'll both be mature enough to get over it also. But as fat as being friends with your ex goes, i think you should be acquaintances first, just so you guys won't start to like each other again good luck