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I am a person who loves meeting people and giving them advice at their most vulnerable moments. I don't don't give advice for anything rather than my want and need to help people. I just feel happy when someone feels clear or has weight lifted off their shoulders when i give them advice. I am not saying I am perfect or mother Teresa but I can say that with life you get knowledge and the power to give someone advice on something using both your heart and mind. I have a wide range of advice I give because I believe that anyone with a soul can find someone else that needs help an answer. Technology,love,and limitless troubles are something that I love helping with. Whether someone is 14 or 45...I don't care. People are who they are. They are not perfect because they are indeed human. With that I know I have a lot of advice to give.


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have you ever lost a friend? What did you feel like? Do you still miss him or her? I think I'm on the verge of losing my friend, and i just wanted to know what you have gone thru. Thanks.

Yes I lost a friend and it was horrible. It made me feel like rying which I did. I lost memories with that person and lost what we both had gone through. It was something horrible that happened to me. If you don't want to go through this sit down with your friend and talk everything over. I didn't get the chance but you can.

Lifescomlicated

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so 3 days ago my friend told me that she smoked weed that day. i pretended to be all cool about it and laughed along with him but i'm worried. he also told me that he got a months worth on cigs. what do i do? do i just let him or try to stop him or what??

Ok. so you care about you friend right? What are you doing? Don't just stand there. Your friend needs your help more than ever. He is really making a mistake. Tell him he shouldn'y be smoking and that its wrong. You should make him listen to you. If he doesn't listen then tell him he's throwing his life away. You should tell him if you your his true friend.

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im going to be a freshman in high school and i havent had a boyfriend yet. pretty much all of my friends have. i feel like im doing something wrong, but i dont know what. is anyone else in this situation? or has been? i need adviceee. haha

Ok so you don't have a boyfriend and your a freshman. Well think about this there's a guy who is a freshman and doesn't have a girlfriend. All you need to do is get courage and just find that guy. You can find him. Just wait and look. For all you know he could be right next to you and you have not been looking for him.

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ive always been kind of bigger than my friends and im really getting sick of it. people make fun of me because im not super skinny and i hate it.
ive tried dieting and exercising, but nothing seems to work. what should i do? :(

Ok you need to calm down first. You don't need to diet yourself crazy just do it normally. I had to go to a party and my dress wouldn't fit so I lost about ten pounds. All I did was confuse my merabolism. I did that by following the 2,500 calories a day rule.
I decided to eat only 2,500 calories a day and I got skinnier. That happens because your body expects more but when you have less it burns more fat other than dieting. I fyoukeep doing that you will lose weight. You just keep excising every day for about an hour and you will be healthy and look great.

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im 13 and i feel like i havnt grown for ever im 1 inch away from 5 feet and almost taller than my mom and my boobs arent flat but there not big either.have i stopped growing or will i hit a growth spurt soon?

ok im 13 too. I was exactly like you a couple of months ago. I was short like you too. Ok so this is how it works. You have not been having a lot of calcium lately. All you need to do is start having some yogurt or milk in cereal. I had an older sister who was taller than me but after a couple months i hit a grouth spurt too. Since your body is used to having not that mch calcium you grow faster or hit grows spurt. Its like loosing weiht too. So just have some calcium and you will hit grow spurt. You won't grow much but youll hit it. Its normal to not hit grows spur our age so don't worry

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