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Haha, I love you too Ashieeepoo :P
if you dont use it, you lose it?
I honestly have no idea what that means. Lol, sorry I couldn't help.
i am a sexaholic. i bang anytihng drunk with a penis... i mean. i just love it. and im getting weird bumps down there. i tihnk i have vagina pimples but im not sure. what do you think i should do to stop and get help with my vagina pimples
Well if you shave, then that's what the bumps might be from, otherwise it might be an STD, you might want to ask your doctor. The only way you're going to stop wanting to have sex all the time is if this is what you really want. The only way you're going to get used to not having sex all the time is if you decrease the amount of times you do it in a certain time frame, like a week. It all depends on how many times a week you do it now, start by decreasing it twice, like if you did it 6 times a week, decrease it to 4. Hopefully, you'll get used to it and eventually can do with out it. Hope I helped :)
I have a problem. My best friend likes my boyfriend. I'm pretty sure she does because she's always staring at him and trying to flirt with him, I mean she's my best friend! And he's my boyfriend, but I've talked to him about it, actually he brought it up, and he doesn't like her and doesn't know what to do to get her to leave him alone. What should I do, talk to her or just leave it alone?
I think you should talk to her about it. Tell her that it's really uncomfortable for both you and your boyfriend. Also, make sure that you're sure she really does like him, otherwise you might end up losing a friend. Just be honest with her, good luck :)
I just bought and iPod the other day and I can't figure out how to charge it and download iTunes, could you help?
To charge your iPod, all you have to do is hook it up to the computer with a wire that they gave you. One end ( the small one) goes into the computer and the other one (the bigger one) goes into the iPod. All you have to do to install iTunes is go to www.applestore.com and click on the link iPod + iTunes and it should have a link to the download. Hope I helped :)
Well, last summer I met this guy at camp and he seemed really sweet, so we started hanging out. After a while we started dating and after about a month we had sex. After, we broke up and this guy at my school asked me out. He's really sweet and I like him a lot, but I still have feelings for the guy I met at camp. Then about a week after I started dating the other guy, the guy I met at camp wanted to get back together. Do you think I should get back together with him or is he just using me for sex? I really like the other guy and he's never mentioned sex once and he told me he loved me, what do I do?
I think that maybe the guy you met at camp is just using you for sex. The guy you're dating from school seems really sweet and seems to really like you and respect you. Good luck :)
i have the hugest crush on my best friend ryan! i dont want to ruin our relationship but its killing me inside when i see him with other girls. should i tell him how i feel?
I think it's worth a shot. Usually guy friends turn out to be the best boyfriends because they already know things about you other people don't and they already care about you and getting closer to you makes them care about you even more. I think you should tell him how you feel, he probably feels the same way. I hope everything works out :) & do what you want to do, but I think you should go for it.
okay .. im Fat. i know bout the eating right and exercise but do you have any specifics i can follow?
Well last summer I tried to lose weight. Basically it takes time and you can't try to rush it. One of the main things is temptation and it really really sucks, I hate it. Just think about the effects that those things will have on you, like chips. They may taste good now, but in the long run they're not gonna do you much good. I know that goes under eating right, but it's something you should seriously consider because the more you tell yourself no, the more you're going to want to eat them and eventually, you're gonna be like what the hell, might as well cause' I'll just lose weight some other time. Don't think like that because it just made me gain more weight. Lose it now and you won't have to deal with it later on in life. Definitely go for a 20-35 minute walk every night and try to stay away from things that will tempt you. One thing that really motivates me to lose weight is my music. When you're on a walk or exercising at the gym w.e, put your iPod on, headphones, etc. and push yourself, think about what you'll look like after you lose the weight and all of the clothes you'll be able to wear that you never thought you could.
Suggestions for meals:
breakfast: half a bagel and a fruit & milk or OJ,
two waffles and a fruit & milk or OJ, cereal and a fruit and OJ.
lunch: a sandwich with cold cuts and add lettuce because it helps increase your metabolism.
dinner: whatever your mom/dad makes, just decrease the portion size.
Hope I helped :)
I asked a question about how much to pack, and this is what I plan on packing. I'm going away for 5 days.
7 tank tops & shorts sleeved shirts
5 pairs of shorts
1 mini skirt just in case
3 pairs of flip flops (I'm not gunna wear sneakers.)
11 pairs of underwear
1 face cloth
1 hair straightner
tons of earrings necklaces bracelets etc.
all my make up (mascara eyeliner lipgloss etc)
1 pair of sunglasses
3 bras
purses cell phone ipod all that good stuff
1 sweatshirt (its warm there)
3 bathing suits
3 pairs of pajamas
tooth brush and tooth paste
a hair brush and a few elastics and headbands
shaving cream and razor
Does that seem like enough stuff for 5 days of vacation? Or do I need more of something or did I pack too much? Or did I completely forget something?
Haha, yeah that's what I would take, sounds good, have fun :)
im only 17 and i had sex with a guy whos 28. one night he made a sex tape without me knoing it! hes black mailing me but should i still call the police?
Yea, I think you should call the police. In my opinion, that's harrassment and he had no right to do that unless you gave him your permission. It's your decision, do what you want to do, and I hope it all works out. Good luck :)
Is it possible to get a blister or like a blood blister from shaving close to your vagina, if not what else could shaving cause?
No, most likely shaving cannot cause blood blisters. Mostly what shaving can cause is irritation, redness, and tiny red bumps. If you're not sure, then I suggest maybe asking your mom or your doctor. Good luck.
I'm going away for 5 days on Sunday. I have no idea how much to pack! I never pack enough and I run out of clothes by like the 3rd day! I don't want that to happen again!! It's going to be REALLY warm even at night so I dont need any long sleeved shirts. How many shirts, shorts, etc should I bring? I need a list please! If you were going away for 5 days what would you bring?? Please help!!! Lists only please.
Hmm, I'd bring:
1. 5 shirts, including one extra (just incase)
2. 5 pair of shirts/capris, and an extra pair
3. 5 pairs of underwear (obviously)
4. If you wear sneakers during the summer, then a few pairs of socks
5. 2 pairs of sandals
6. 2/3 pairs of pajamas
7. Shampoo/conditioner
8. If you shave, shaving cream, razor, etc.
9. Toothbrush & toothpaste
10. Hair brush & extra elastics or w.e
11. Wash cloth & soap
12. iPod, cell phone, camera, anything electronic you might want to bring
13. Accessories: rings, earrings, bracelets, anklets, etc.
14. Make-up if you want to bring it
15. Anything else that I may have forgotten
Have fun on your trip, hope I helped :)
everynight i use a vibrator to pleasure myself. im only 13, is this wrong?
No, it's not wrong. But if you are very religious (Christian) then some people say that it is a sin to masturbate. I don't believe that it is a sin and practically everyone does it. So basically it's up to you what you wanna do, it's your decision, no one else's. Good luck :)
hi i was wandering if anyone could help me find a cute middle name.... my daughters first name is gonna be Kylee ( pernounced like (kigh leigh) and i need a cute middle name to match with it. i appreaciate it! Thanks!!
*sarah*
Wow, that's exactly what I was going to name my daughter if I ever had one, seriously I love that name only I'd spell it Kiley.
Some suggestions:
Kylee Ann
Kylee Marie
Kylee Madison
Kylee Annabelle
Kylee Elizabeth
Kylee Aundrea
Kylee Bridget
Kylee Abigail
Kylee Brooke
I have an addiction, and it is sex. I feel like i have to have it or i`m not complete for the day. I tried to have other addictions instead but it just dosn`t work. When i have sex though i hate that i am having it, except it is just so pleasuring.What should i do?
There's nothing wrong with wanting to have sex, I mean who doesn't? But sometimes a lot is too much. Try doing with out it for a week and then see how you feel. We've all dealt with temptation and it sucks. It's sort of like when I was dieting and stuff, I tried it for a week and turns out, it really does work, you just have to stick to it. Instead of completely blocking sex out from your life, gradually decrease the amount per week. Like say next week do it only two or three times the same with the next week and the next. After that, bring it down a little. Eventually it's only going to be something you need every once in a while and not all the time. Try it, trust me, I bet it'll work you just need to really want this. Hope you do what you think is best for you, good luck :)
in the end of the school year, this boy and i started flirting and i began to like him. now its the summer and we never see each other but i still really like him. should i tell him how i feel online or wait til school starts again?
My advice is that you start talking to him online, ask him how his summer's been and then suggest that you guys hang out some time. Get his number or give him yours and tell him he should call you or that you will call him. Sometime after you guys start hanging out, tell him how you feel. Hopefully he will feel the same way and by the time school starts, you'll have a new boyfriend. But if he doesn't, then ask him if it's alright that you guys be friends and maybe after he gets to know you a lot better, then he'll feel the same way. Good luck with everything :)
there is this girl at my school that is a total bitch to everyone including me. she is really rude to me and my friends and says bad things about them to me. it bothers me alot but i just keep my mouth shut. i want to stick up for myself but i want to be the bigger person and instead of blowing up on her. should i keep quiet or say something?
I don't know, I think that in this situation, being the bigger person requires you to stand up for you and for your friends. You're already the bigger person by not being the one going behind other peoples' backs and talking about them. Tell her that whatever she has to say, she can say to someone else, you don't have to be rude about it, just say that you don't care what she has to say about you or your friends. By being quiet, all you're really doing is keeping all of your anger in, this way you'd atleast be able to tell her off without saying anything mean about her to her. If she doesn't stop, ignore her, it'll drive her crazy. Hopefully she'll stop, and if she doesn't then there's nothing you can really do except go on living your life as if she weren't a part of it. Good luck with everything :)
i have and appt. to get my braces taken off in a couple of days. Do you know if it hurts? and how long does it take?.. my friend said it takes an hour.. but mine is scheduled for 30 min.
hope you can help!
Haha, no it doesn't hurt. People I've met used to freak me out and tell me that getting them on hurt and you should know that it didn't. All they really do is take the brackets off one by one until they reach the bands and all they do is give them an extra pull. It doesn't hurt and takes no time at all. The extra time is spent cleaning off your teeth and getting all of the extra cement off. Trust me, the results are amazing. I was sad to get my braces off, but eventually you get used to not having them there anymore. Congradulations :)
At school me and my best friend hangout a lot and one girlthis, lets call her "Margret" always sees me and my friend together and makes all these wicked stupid comments and thinks we are lesbians. She wont quit it and i think she even told some people that me and my friend are lesbians and i dont want my repuation ruined! what should i do, this girl wont quit!
Well obviously this girl sees something wrong with being a lesbian, I'm not one, but she seems to think that being one is a bad thing. Don't let her get to you. Apparently, you and your friend are really close and I don't see anything wrong with that. My best friend and I are really close and so are a lot of people and their best friends, but you don't see other girls walking around calling them lesbians. My advice to you is don't worry about her, people in life who go around acting as if they know everything, don't get very far in life. It's the people who are above that that do go far. Ignore her, I bet you've tried to but keep on trying because eventually she'll get what's coming to her. She'll realize how much of a jerk she is and she'll feel horrible. The downside to this is that she'll probably keep torturing other people and making false accusations. Keep trying and don't let her get to you, that's the worst thing to do. Good luck with everything :)
age: 14
gender: female
the problem: two of my best friends absolutely hate each other. when im with each one alone, we get to talking and talk bad about my other friend. i feel really bad but everything we say is true! sometimes i may tell the other friend what they said and agree with the person i told. i am a backstabbing friend? i feel awful but what should i do?!
This has happened to me alot, I guess what you really need to do is when the subject of the other friend comes up, either change the topic or maybe try and get your friends to like each other. You're not a bad friend, but eventually one of your friends might find out that you were talking about them behind their back, so it would probably be best to try and not do that anymore. If you want your friends to like each other, what you might want to try doing is tell them that you don't want to choose, they're both your best friends and you don't want to be the one stuck in the middle. It's not fair to you and if they both really are your best friends then they'll listen to what you have to say and will try harder. Good luck, hope everything works out :)