Ask hotcherry!

Advice Column | Ask a Question | View Feedback | My Pic!!

About hotcherry



Hey guys! I'm mallory...17/f from cali. I live with some friends in cali, and very often go to Tx to stay with my parents! anyway, if you need advice or w/e, just ask! =)



Ok, for the girls that need advice on their friendships- girls are and always will be bitches! lol...My best advice to you is...get guy friends! They are the best, they don't judge, they dont date your ex's...and theyre cute! =)


Im SINGLE

My friends: I LOVE YOU!! i honestly dont know where I'd be in life without you all.

Hayleigh- I love u so much...You know I'm always here for you, and I'll be by your side (like all of our friends) helping you through this. =)


I couldnt get my pic up so go here if u wanna see!!
http://www.picturetrail.com/hotcherry716

Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist

Website: My Pic!!
E-mail: hotxcherryx716@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: TX!!!
Occupation: haha
Age: 17
AIM: Hotcherry716
Yahoo: hotxcherryx716
Member Since: June 29, 2004
Answers: 166
Last Update: January 12, 2005
Visitors: 9494


Favorite Columnists
Lena

Advicenators.com



i know this isn't really important, but im doing a poll for summer school.. im not in summer skool, but were supposed to be doing this to get ready for our upcoming high skool year, and well here's my poll...

Bush?
or
Kerry?

moderators, plz don't rate this low, it's for skool, also please don't delete this Q!!!!

neither! =)

[view]


What should I do for my 18th birthday thats coming up in 2 weeks?

go clubbing

[view]


do you have any other sugjestions for sex?

sure =P

[view]


Im 14 and ive never kissed a boy?! is that bad!? will people not date me because of that!? i mean boys have attempted to but i didnt let them because they were jerks and they just wanted sex! so help me! i need to know if thats a bad thing! and you'll probably say just to wait....he'll come to me but i cant wait any longer!! :*(

~Help me~

its not bad...and guys wont not date you because of that!! put yourself out there and find a guy worth your while!

[view]


is it coOl to have sex?

if you are ready...and if its with someone who means alot to you! then yeah i guess...but it shouldnt be about how "cool" it is...it should be about how the 2 ppl feel...but having sex wont make you "cool"

[view]


everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him

Well your friends are WRONG! who cares what anyone thinks, all that matters is how you feel about him! next time they say something, just be like "well i like him and thats all that matters...if u dont like him, tell HIM"!! it's understandable how your boyfriend feels about it, but after you do what i said, tell him you did that! he'll feel better...=D

[view]


my best friend is a guy and we've gone out twice but i've been talking to him alot and i'm starting to like him again but after we broke up last time i told my self we would just be friends but i don't know now. what should i do should i tell him try to forget about it or what

well..it depends on why you 2 broke up the first 2 times...But i would really talk to him about your feelings..see what he says and work from that!

[view]


How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do??????

i dont think he's worth your time...no boyfriend should deny his girlfriend in front of annnyone...dump him! there are plenty more out there...and im sure they are alot than him!

xoxo

[view]


theres this really hott guy at my school and i already went out w/ him before but he dumped me...i still like him alot! should i ask him out or not?

eh..i would find out if he liked you first...but there are plenty of other fish in the sea! personally, i would find someone newww...

[view]


Hey see I knew this boyfor about 8 years now and he went away when we was10 years old then he finally shows up yesturday and expects us to re be friends...... and I hardly even reconize him.!
so what should I do?? PLZ HELP

if you knew him for 8 years, then i would give him a shot at being friends!! hang out...get to know eachother again...

[view]


i weigh 92 ponds and im 5 foot 3... am i over weight? or under weight?

youre perfect! it wouldnt hurt gaining some actually

[view]


Please help me i have really curly hair and i want it staright and every prodic i try it doesnt work Is there anything i can use???
HELP ME

a chi!!!! they are the best...its a flat iron! it works on the curliest hair

[view]


i don`t kno if it`sz healthy that i`m 12 nd my bra cup size isz a 36B..isz that bad ??

its not unhealthy! youre just an early bloomer...All gurls grow differently and at different ages!

[view]


Hey BabesZ!Ok well this isnt really askin 4 advice but,i just wanna kno what ur prospective is on my Relationship cuz ppl think im crazy!Ok make a long ass story short,Last year,july 16,03 i started goin o/w my boyfrined,we lasted 2 mnths nd broke up cuz we never saw eachother,so i never got over him and we liked eachother again,so we started goin out that following Ocober 5th,we lasted again for 2 mnths reason being,he cheated on me w.1 of my ex.best gurls,(they actaulyl Had sex =( ) so that was sad cuz i really had storng feelings 4 him nd i never thought it woudl happen,but we never stopped talking he would ask 4 me back all the time nd tell me that he made the biggest mistake of his life nd he would just go on nd on about how much he cared!so it had been about two mnths that we had broke up,nd i gave him 1 more chance!On janurary 21st i took him back,nd i kno it was dumb all my friends couldnt believe it,but the feelings i had were UNREAL! so we have now been together for about 6 mnths..and its been goin great..the 3rd mnth in i gave him my virginity nd i def kno hes been faithful and shit cuz i live in a small town so i would kno if he wasnt lol,i love him to death but the 5th mnth in i kinda kissed a guy, reason being..he was being an ass so i couldnt take it and it just felt like the right thing to do at the time..:( nd later that night i called my baby nd told him,this was the first time i had ever heard my boy cry :( thats when i new he really loved me,i was in shock hearing what i was hearing.."how could u do this..u dont kno what love is" and i just keept saying baby yea i do i kno i love you, i never knew how much he loved me,i always doubted it,cuz ive never had full turst for him after he cheated,but hearing him cry made me believe nd fall 38493483943 times more in love,so now we are both faced w/hate lol not between eachother but our friends hate us cuz we only hang out w/eachother,but w/e i love him and i kno he loves me,we actualyl wanna get married..i kno its crazy but we do,nd i couldnt be more sure hes the one for me and im sure he feels the same,i just dunno if what we have is healthy,i mean we have been through so many fights bcuz we are both so scared of loosing eachother,but we also fight cuz hes so goddamn jealous of guys and FRIENDS..i cant even go to my girls house cuz he thinks ill do drugs and cheat again..but i guess he has a reason to be scared? i dunno im so confused about shit tho 4 some reason, i dunno what do u think about this? Telllllllllllll meee what ya think hunnie..thanks MuahZzZ!!

hey gurl! =D Well...it seems like u 2 really do love eachother now! when you guys fight, it will make you stronger...but just try not to focus on the little things when it comes to fighting! He needs to let you go hang out w/ your friends though...i would sit him down and talk to him! tell him that he NEEDS to trust you!! Let him know that you love him SO much and you wouldnt do anything to hurt him! And about the friends that hate you guys for being together, well they need to understand what you 2 have..but you also should try and include them when you 2 hang out! they might feel left out...Its normal for a guy to be jealous of other guys when it comes to their girlfriends! theres not much you can do about it...allll of them are like that! :-/ Well I hope this helped!

u can always IM me on aim... hotcherry716 !!

-xoxo Mallory

[view]


ok theres this boy that REALLY likes me n i dont want 2 b harsh n tell him i dont like him n back off n i have already told him i have a boyfriend!!n he wont leave me alone!!in a nice way 2 tell him 2 back off n leave me alone!

Well..if u have already told him that you have a boyfriend and he still doesnt get the picture...then have your boyfriend talk to him! boyfriends are good at that =D

[view]


ok say ur boyfriend hasnt called u n like 3 months
what do u do?

well 1st i wouldnt consider him my boyfriend =D!! 2nd...i'd call him and see what happened, and i'd ask why he didnt call!! but remember its not just the guys job to do the calling!

[view]


okay, my two BEST FRIENDS are made at me becasue i went and hung out with one of my friends and not them. now they are mad at me...what should i do?please help fast!!

-so confused-

i have been there before!! i just told them that i wanna hang out with my other friends too...and i told them that if they hung out w/other friends, i wouldnt care!! they'll get over it! its just jealousy! =D

[view]


Hey. I really want to join the step team for my middle school, but I don't know how to step. I don't know if they will teach you how to step or if you already have to know it. Please give me advice because I really need your help! thanx.

hey!! yeah they will teach you! you can always take step classes out of school also! =D

[view]


Omg.. i really like this boy in my school we hang out all the time movies at eachothers houses but i odnt know if he likes me but....im afaird if i tell him how i feel he will be like all weird around me and stuff!!! Should I tell him how i feel or just keep it as freinds?!?!?
Please help ME!!!

tell him!! if you dont, you'll always wonder...

[view]


There is this guy that I have liked for 2 years (I saw him in my 7th grade yearbook when he was in 6th and I was in 7th). I am now going into 9th grade. We see each other often and we are good GOOD friends. He is one of my best friends. Well, he flirts with me like no other girl. His mom even says he isnt the flirting type. All of the people who were in our drama class say that they think he likes me. He tries to make me laugh when I am sad and he is a sweetie for life! We went and played pool today and everytime I went to shoot, he would be saying something like "I know then...." and then he pauses, watches me (making it obvious), adn then when I am done, he starts talking where he left off. I took pictures of him the last day of school and they didnt come out. Well, he had his mom take a pic of him for me! My mom gave it to me as an early b day present (his mom and my mom work together! WOW SMALL WORLD!) Do you think he likes me? With all these clues? Everyone says he does but I dont know. Please help!

aww...yeah it reeeeally sounds like he likes you!! you could always have your mom talk to his mom and see what she says! but you should really talk to him about how you feel...im sure the feeling is mutual! =D let me know what happens!

[view]




<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker