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So i had sex last Saturday with my bf. We used a lifestyle condom and i dont think it broke. I didnt bleed at all. When he came in me though, i felt warm inside, and when he pulled out and took off the condom i saw the cum in it. i dont think it was dripping or not. Ever sience then, my stomach has been feeling wierd and making funny noises. I am really scared that im pregnant. My stomach is also bloated. Only a little though. Im really freaking out and worrying that im pregnant, cuz my parents would absolutely KILL me....im 15, and so is he. we are both freaking out, could that be the reason im feeling weird? and when i was masterbating yesterday, i could feel my cervix....ive never been able to feel it before...it is about as far in as my index finger. can someone tell me what is going on? thanks :)....
Go buy a pregnancy test asap bc you're prob fine but you need to know for sure. Go buy one if you haven't already by now
I want to die tidaty pls sujjest me the painless way
You should go see a psychiatrist/your school counselor and ask them these questions... see what theyve gotta say
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Sorry for the length. Thanks in advance for all answers.
All my life, I've always been that fat girl that always eats. 2 years ago, it got the best of me, and I started skipping breakfast and eating only a little for lunch. Then, I would eat a ton at home. It went on for a few months until I realized it wasn't doing me any good. Then last year, a started doing it again except I would completely stop eating lunch because I had honor society stuff to do. And it didn't help that I was really self conscious around my bf and two of my best friends at the time did the same as me. It was so hard to stop. After my bf and I broke up and I drifted away from my friends, I started hanging out with a different group that basically forced me eat. At the beginning of this school year, I started high school and joined marching band. We practiced at least 8 hrs a week so I didn't have too much time to eat. But now that it's all over, I don't really have any exercise anymore. I started soccer again this season (I had quit for band), but it definitely isn't enough exercise to cover for the amount of food I eat. And I can't help the amount I eat. I'll just be sitting there, a few hours after I eat a meal, and I'll just go eat. I eat when I'm bored. I eat when I'm alone. Basically I eat whenever I get the chance. And I know its not healthy because I take the big bags of candy and eat it in about 2 weeks and cartons of cookies and eat them in a few days and a few bags of chips a day. And I have no self control. I can't talk to my parents about this because my mom would think that I'm weak and stupid and just yell at me (like she always does in these types of situations) and my dad just eats and eats and eats too. I know we both have problems but I feel like I can't tell anybody. Is there any way that I can stop all this and gain back my confidence?
Start packing yourself healthy snacks to bring to school. I would suggest
LITTLE ZIPLOCK BAGGIES of about 2-3 of these per day:
-triscuits
-celery/tomatoes/carrots
-whole grain goldfish (there delicious, w/ more health benefits/less fat!!)
-dried apricos
-raisins
-trail mix, such as
walnuts, pecans, almonds, peanuts (NOTE*** nuts are very high in calories, all you need is a small small portion)
-multigrain cheerios (low calories, low sodium, fibor, iron the health benefits just keep coming)
BRING THESE TO SCHOOL, SNACK ON THEM EVERY HOUR, and DONT DONT DONT EAT COOKIES!!!!
the reason I say snack on them every hour is because this is actually a great way to lose weigh, by keeping your metabolism going constantly. The key is small, frequent portions.
It will take about a week to lose weight, but I would say if you stuck to this/healthy eating, you could possibly lose 3-5 lbs a week!
also don't drink ANY caloried beverages, only WATER, JUICE, MILK! no soda or anything!
let me know how the weight loss goes. I really hope you achieve your goals and make sure you eat lunch, very important. good luck:)
Lately I've been thinking a lot about myself and it seems as if I can genuinely feel emotion. I'm straying farther and farther away from my feelings and I don't know why or how to fix it. I can laugh and joke and things but I don't feel genuinely happy. But, I'm not sad, angry, upset, or content either. I just feel slightly apathetic all the time.
If this is how you feel, you need to find something where you have an HOUR to yourself, in silence, completely isolated where you are just alone with your thoughts.
I would suggest doing yoga, or meditating, or breathing exercises in a quiet room. Or if you can make it to the outdoors, this is an even better way to get in touch with yourself.
The key thing about ^^^ is give yourself alone time with NO DISTRACTIONS. leave you phone off/in the car if you go to a park, make it just an hour for YOU & ONLY YOU!!!
good luck with getting back in touch with yourself:) if you have any questions on yoga/meditating it is something I do about ~5/week, and it really is a great way to stay in touch with emotion & all your thoughts. I really really hope you'll give it a try!!:)
I have Brown eyes,black hair,médium skin and wear glasses. I am looking for a natural look that will make my brown eyes pop. Also if you would give me any color suggestions. Thanks everyone!
I think a shiny gold/bright yellow, if put on in the right amount (aka not covering your eye in it) really flatters brown eyes.
hey. i dont think i am very pretty. please tell me ways i can look pretty as far as hair styles and ways i can do my hair,makeup,facial cleansers, clothes, etc. if this helps, i am 13 and have blonde hair which is layered and straight with a sidebang and blue eyes. please no answers that say "you are preety just the way you are. u dont need to do anything" i am not looking for those kind of answers.
If you want the EXACT answer you are looking for, all in one place, buy a copy of Beauty Rules by Bobbi Brown (she owns a very popular make up brand):
http://www.google.com/products/catalog?q=bobbi+brown+beauty+rules&oe=utf-8&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&um=1&ie=UTF-8&tbm=shop&cid=8704988145658556815&sa=X&ei=km0jTuSkKMb00gH7yf3WAw&ved=0CEgQ8wIwAQ
This book tells you literally how to be beautiful in every way, starting from how to eat right, and going in how to wear make-up that suits your individual face and how to work with different eye colors, so you could apply eye make-up to enhance and bring out your blue eyes.
Also, this book is targetted for 13-14 year olds. I read it a short while ago and I'm 19, it was a little too young for me but for someone like you it would be PERFECT!
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Alright so i'm a pretty girl (not trying to be conceited) but so many guys think I'm this sex freak cause I'm cute. I am not a virgin, i've only had sex once. But the thing that I'm worried about is making out. I've made out with three guys my whole life. And they have all been spread out. Like from the first makeout to the second was literally about 3 years. Then the second to the last make out was about 9 months. I feel like I'm not a good kisser because I haven't had as much experience. So this is what always ends up happening:
When I start making out with a guy I start to giggle and kind of laugh. I don't know why I do this, I think it's because I feel more comfortable and if I am a bad kisser that they will think i'm not really trying since i'm giggling so they won't think anything of it.
Yeah, it's weird. But the past two guys I've done this with have been like "why are you giggling?" Then they think that it's something they did and that I don't want to make out anymore.
Do you have any suggestions for this!? I'm such a paranoid person, I don't want to be a bad kisser!
Don't giggle... You will not get a reputation of being a bad kisser, you'll get the reputation of being weird because you laugh whenever any one kisses you...that's weird dude.
But next time, just RELAX! I swear it's not hard, and FOLLOW the guy. Guy's typically lead so just let him lead you. It's strange and really really awkward if you just laugh. I promise that's more awkward than being a bad kisser, so just try it
well you see i am in year 6 at the moment and a dance is coming up i am scared to ask him incase of him saying no to me infront of every1 what should i do at the last disco he said he was trying to impress a dark haired girl with hazel brown eyes which i have any advice. i am 11 years old and i am a girl.
You are too young to be on this site.
But maybe you could ask him over aim chat or whatever kind of instant messaging you use because then he can't say no to you while everyone is watching, and he might say yes!
okay so theres two guyz one let call him chris i met in school. his a senor and im a freshmen problem is he has a girlfriend...so out of nowhere he started talking to me and then it turn in to flirting and then touching he huges me grabs my waist and hips. i realized this was wrong lil to late because istarted liking him alot. he was the first guy to ever give me that kind of attention in high school. i have tried everything to stop liking him, ive stopped talking to him iv e gotten mad at him but nothing works. a week ago he unhooked my bra and i didnt like that so ignored him for a day thats when i stopped liking him and thats were the other guy comes in let call him jerry, this guy has kind of been on the backround(his a sophmore 16) but one day we did a project together and he is so lead back and sweet and nice and was flirting with me big time and i started liking him. he is not all touchy feely like chris and i like that about him but the problem is that he barly flirts with me in school now and its because chris is alway constently touching me, poking grabbing etc...in front of jerry and ive seen the looks on jerrys face that tells me he doesnt like it.i dont want jerry the wrong idea that i like chris and that i like to be touched like that. so what do i do to i get chris to back off and jerry to know im intreasted in him and that i like him??? help!
When I first saw this question I though you were going to say which one should I date.... Thank goodness you're not into Chris because I promise you he doesn't like you he is fully the player type. But I like Jerry and you should communicate to you that you hate that Chris touches you like that and feel uncomfortable so that Jerry won't be mad with YOU.
As for Chris, just stop ignoring him completely. If he grabs your butt or unhooks you or anything literally don't flirt with him or give him any satisfaction.
Hey! So I'm fifteen, and I'm a sophomore girl. Theres this guy... Hes basically like my brother. Were extremely close. A year ago he helped me through a really tough break up by just talking to me when I was down and telling me I was a wonderful person and letting me cry on his shoulder and what not. I also helped him when he was feeling shitty breaking up with his girlfriend. Since winter break we've been texting literally like every day... But I've started to grow some more feelings for him... There will be times when I think he feels the same way, that hes hinted at it so much that I think "okay he really does like me!" but then he ALWAYS drops a bomb like, "you're like my sister not a girl I'd ever date" or "I wanna ask this girl to prom"... But the last time he said those things was like a month ago. He actually asked me to prom! (in this really cute poem haha). Which makes me think he really does have feelings. But he dropped another bomb... He completely avoids being alone with me... He won't take me out to lunch with just us too and we were going to go get his tux together and he invited one of out friends... I just don't get him! He texts me everyday, flirts, asked me to prom, jokes about hooking up all the time... I don't understand. All of my friends say we like eachother but he denies it so obviously I do too! But I do like him... And I'm scared to ask him. I also don't know what to expect at prom because were gonna be doing a lot of couple-y things... And spending the night at our friends house and going to her lakehouse the whole next day... In a group of couples. It honestly kills me when he drops those bombs and I just don't get him... Help!
I wouldnt worry about it that much because he obviously likes you. Not only do you guys have a good friendship but he asked you to prom!! That's a good sign.
But I would say he 'drops those bombs' either because of commitment and doesn't want you to expect things like this or just to see how you react to that kind of stuff.
I would just say take it easy at prom and just have fun!!! It'll be a great night
I am a freshman in college and there's this amazing girl that lives down the hall. She is gorgeous and funny and so many guys text her and want her. At the beginning of the semester, we started becoming friends and we liked each other and hooked up at a party (drunkenly). We ended up sleeping in the same bed that night and from there, we started hooking up and it turned into something special. we slept in the same bed for weeks (but did not have sex). I really liked her and asked her out. She said no, but didn't really give a reason. A few weeks later she ended up telling me that she lost interest in me and didn't like me anymore. I was super depressed for a few days and she ended up talking to me about it. She said that she doesn't want a boyfriend and her feelings changed. After that, she was really mean and cold to me and embarrassed me in front of all our friends and there was a lot of tension. We started arguing a lot and it was almost like she didn't even want to be my friend. She would roll her eyes every time I entered the room, etc. I got really mad at her and bitched her out calling her mean names (drunkenly). There was a lot of tension, but then we made up. She all of the sudden started being nice again and it was just like it used to be. Now we have become friends again and I feel the same dynamic from when we were "together". I really want to date her, but I don't know if she likes me again. I think she still thinks I think she is a bitch and that I lost interest, but I really think she's the sweetest girl I know and I want to date her. I am not some sort of pig. I have never had sex, and I only hook up with girls that I like a lot. I want to know what I should do. (Tell her how I feel, or let her come to me). Everyday when I get a text message, I hope it's her asking me to hang out and watch TV like we used to.
Does she ACTUALLY think you think shes a bitch? If so tell her that you don't and that she's the sweetest girl you know. If you KNOW she would want to date you, then add in that you also want to date her.
Paige...I have this crush! i dont know if he likes me tho!!!we have been talking al lot on facebook!!!I am sooooooooooooo shy to tell him that I like!!!lik...his friends,his brother,AND a lot of other people say he likes me...But i dont believe them!!! He has to tell me!! Everyday I wake up sobbing because Of him!!! I miss him if i m not around him for more than1 hour!!! i cant believe I am tellin u this because i am so popular I am soooo hard to get too.But with him I feel...I fell so different!!!When he talks to me I cant help giggle ing!!I cant help a smile when I am around him!!! he is the hottest guy in school!!!What should I do???I m heart broken when he is not around me!!! Please wright back to me!!!tell me what should do...PLEASE!!!
No offense, but you seem kind of obsessive and clingy, judging by all your !!!!!!!!!s and the fact that you are so unhealthily attached to him (that is really a problem if you miss him after just one hour, and sob because of him?--This could be considered kind of stalkerish). I am just saying, you should not act this eager or be so obsessed or you will SCARE HIM AWAY and FREAK HIM OUT.
Just be chill a lot, STOP SOBBING thats psycho, and try to get him to hang out with you in real life, like maybe at a lunch place/coffee place or movie. Keep talking on facebook and if he likes you he will want to hang out with you but i can guarantee he will be freaked out by you if you keep acting so clingy like that.
me and my boyfriend are really good atmaking out and stuff, but i want to go to the nextlevel. whenever we makeout im always ontop of him. i want him to someetimes go ontop of me. i want to do more. can yuo help me? do you know how to dry hump or just hump? i want to please him. so plz help me.
If you always make out on top of him, one time after you do it roll onto the bed and push him on top of you, and smile and say 'my arms are getting tired, its your turn to be on top,' and pull his lower back/maybe butt close down on top of you and then start making out there.
Dry humping is just grinding your pelvis area against theirs. Similar to lapdance movements almost is kind of a way to think of it.
Ok so me and my bf have been dating fer a few months and in those few months I think I've fallen in love with him. I need to give you a little bacground on him to you though, it all starts with everyone hating him cuz he is not the best looking guy, he is quite a loud mouth and if you tell him to be quiet he will say "that's what she said" , if anyone tries to hurt me or flirt with me he will threaten to beat them up (yep, he is a total badass), his hair is always greasy and I don't know why, but he is soo sweet to me and I we tell eachother we love eachother all the time!! He got me a stuffed animal today for no reason that was holding a heart saying i love you. So can anyone tell me why he acts so overprotective of me and is always talking? P.s. he told me that in all the girls he has dated that he never felt the way that I make him feel around them... IS IT LOVE?? and we haven't kissed yet. Can anyone lso give me ideas on how I can kiss him on school grounds?? (I'm 13 and please don't tell m that I'm too young please???)
I don't think its love and not because you're young, but its that you haven't kissed him yet you just don't really know what love is. I think you have a huge huge crush, and that's super cute :)
It's not love yet but it's a good relationship so keep doing what your doing.
And feel no pressure to kiss him because it is a scary thing to do for the first time. And I think a good idea would to not have your first kiss with him be on school grounds. You should find a better place to kiss him for the first time.