'allo!! My name is Helen and i'd very mucho love to answer your questions. chances are i don't really know the answer, but i like to pretend i do. just drop a question in my inbox and i'll answer it whatever it is. i have the unfortunate and unpleasureable duty to inform you that... nevermind.
about me??? oh..k
i'm 14, 5"7, hazel eyes, stawberry blond hair, errr...
i love the strokes (julian v. v. v. hot...
wouldn't you agree? too bad he's getting married...sigh), weezer, coldplay, maroon 5 (kind of), switchfoot's pretty good, reading, and writing.
(oh, and i'm a level 1 moderator)
"Be content with what you are, and wish not change; nor dread your last day, nor long for it"
~Marcus Valerius Martailis
"I believe in imagination. What i cannot see is infinately more important than what i can see."
~adreane rich
"The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and to be loved in return" -the moulin rouge
"But that's not how it works, is it? And maybe its better that way. Because some things are never meant to be anything more than a moment."
~Lucas, by kevin brooks
"A friend will overlook your broken down gate and admire your flowers in the window box."
~unknown
"People don't like it when they don't know what you are. They don't like things that don't fit. It frightens the,. They'd rather have a monster they know, than a mystery they don't."
~Lucas, by Kevin Brooks
"Because he's my friend. Because I know where he stands, and where I stand with him. Because I think he'd die for me, and- and i think i'd die for him." ~allana, by tamora pierce
"The difference between possible and impossible lies with the person's determination"
~ Tommy LaShond
"Being different, being against the grain of society is the greatest thing in the world."
~ Elijah Wood
"A truth that's told with bad intent beats all the lies you could invent."
~ William Blake
"Never let your feet run faster than your shoes." ~ Scotish proverb
(does anyone know how i can get that effing picture out of here? my brother put it there and i can't get it off!)
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ne one kno ne really cool but diff. sites i could go on? im wicked bored (link)
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bored.com is the only one i know of... just go to google.com and type in something random... who knows what'll turn up...
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ANY GOOD BAND NAME IDEAS? (link)
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well, there are some pretty weird names out there.
jim crawford band is named after a hamster. the white stripes have a weird name. the strokes were named for their guru 9a stroke of good luck, i guess) weezer was named for the guitarist who blew it too much... take your pick. nme it after somebody or something.
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i think my cat is mentally retarded!! is that possible?? i need to take her to a vet! oh yeah, can animals get aids? (link)
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i dunno if animals can get aids, but i think so. and about being mentally retarded, YES!!! IT CAN BE DONE!! they can be retarded just like humans.
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well it's weird cause a while back me an this guy started dating and we dated off an on for like 3 years.. well he got sent away cause hes sucha badass and we broke up, when he got home we talked a little but i was in another relationship... So it just drifted away - a couple months later i see him and now all we do is hang out all the time .. or atleast around eachother .. it hurts me because he was my first love and ill love him til the day i die. Im scared though cause he was messing with a friend of mine which i helped them get together but now all the sudden hes telling people he wants to be with me again ... its scarey but my heart is crying for him .. what should i do?
i reallly need your help someone PLEASE!! (link)
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wait, you just said that you like him, and he likes you... so GO OUT!! you said you'll "love him till the day you die' and that he wants to go out with you... so... go out! pretty simple. you probably won't get married or anyhting but hey, have fun.
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i am gay and i think my mum knows, what do i do? (link)
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well, there's really nothing you can do about it, except hope there's a flood gate.
she might take it real bad, or she might be fine with it. either way, she's gotta deal with it, and it's not gonna be your problem. seriously, she can't change you, so she'll just have to accept that your gay and move on.
she might seem angry or sad for a while, but seriously, she'll get over it.
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So I have been having a hard time thinking about whether or not me and my boyfriend should *take a break* or fully *break up*.. so we were talking and he broke up with me and he said in about a week we can get together and see if we should go back out or stay apart..anyways, he already has single in his profile and I hate him not being there =( what do I do? Just wait til HE decides to get back together?... (link)
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no, you should tell him how you feel. after your 'break' tell him that you really miss him being around and stuff. that you still like him, and want to go out with him again. if he says no, there's nothing you can do about it. if yes, well...
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Latley loads of my boyfriends mates have been coming up to me saying hes been taking coke, but when i asks him he says, dont listen to them they are liers and that he hasn't done anything, but i dont know wether to belive him. can you help me?. (link)
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well, it may be either. if your boyfriend and his pals have had a little, shall we say, disagreement, than he probably isn't, those guys just want to get back at him for something he said. or, his friends are geniunely (sp?) concerned for him, and think that you might be able to help.
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Sometimes I act like a boy bc I collect cards that like all the boys in my class have. I spend allot of time trading with this boy. Sometimes I think that he likes me. Should I keep on doing cards or act like a girl girl? (link)
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it is totally your choice. acting like a guy doesn't mean you are one, and unless you're scared of this guy liking you, keep trading! it doesn't matter what other people think anyways. just be yourself. do what you want to do.
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coke or pepsi? (link)
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coke, of course
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Are tampons supposed to hurt? because i hate wearing pads, but tampons hurt sooo bad that i cant even walk some of the time and im a very heavy bleeder so i can wear the small tampons. also does your eating habits have to do with how heavy you bleed? like if i eat healthy food and fruit and stuff will it make me bleed lighter? (link)
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no, tampons are NOT suposed to hurt. you're just putting them in wrong. make sure that when you insert it, you can't see any of it but the string. sometimes it hurts when you're putting it in, but once it's in place, it should hurt at all.
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i have a feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me, everytime i call some girl will answer and she says hes not there and just hangs up the phone without me even getting to say ok or bye, i know its not his mom cuz i know her voice and he doesnt have any sisters, and i know that no family is visiting. what should i tell him?? (link)
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next time you call him and a girl answers, go over to his house and confront him. you have to. your never gonna get anywhere if you let him walk over you.
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I am really white, but i have freckles on my face so every time i go in the sun my frackles seem to get darker but not my skin! i want to go to a tanning salon but iono how much it is, and i heard you could get cancer. should i just put sunscreen on my face then the freckles wont get darker but then i wont get a tan on my face too, what do i do??? (link)
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everything causes cancer. too much soda, too many flowers in your house, too many electronics... and, too much sun. it's called skin cancer. yep. you have the same chance of getting skin cancer from sitting in the sun, as you do sitting in a tanning booth.
if you want to get a tan and can't, a lot of times it's just your genes. your skin just can't get tanned, but it might be something else too... ask your doctor.
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HEY GUYS WELL I DONT HAVE A HABBIT OF BITTING MY NAILS I LIKE PICK MY NAILS AND THEY GET REALLY SHORT AND I WAS WONDERING IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO 2 HELP M ESTOP? I WANT NAILS!!!! *LUV NIKKI* (link)
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just clip them once a week till they're to short to pick, or you can just break your habit, aye? whenever you catch your self doing it, just STOP
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slkd jf;klkvjlkfjslvmsd (link)
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really? wow, i never knew that
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I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex? (link)
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well, if you're religious, then you're not supposed to have sex until you're married, but hey, if you know you'll have a long relationship, and are planning to stay together for a very long time, go ahead. it's your decision though, don't give away what you have to someone who's only gonna be there for a few minutes.
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im 16/f and i weight 110 pounds. am i really really skinny??? (link)
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well, it matters how tall you are. if you're a midget, and are like 4.5", then you're okay. but hey, if your or 5", you are WAY to skinny. go eat some pizza or something.
i know someone who's 14 and she weighs 200 lbs...
you should really gain a few pounds though. not a lot, but enough to make you comfortable with your weight. (ahem about 125lbs is a good start ahem) but don't try to gain it real fast either, that's real unhealthy.
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Hi see im stuck in the middle of 2 friends that are guys and their both my age , they boh want to go out with me me Im looking for MR Right , what do I do??? Jenipher PLz help (link)
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do you like either of them? you said you were looking for 'mr. right' well, if you don't like them like that, then DON'T GO OUT WITH EITHER OF THEM! tell em to give it a rest, and that you'll think about it.
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theres this friend that i have, lets call her "lindsay" shes REALLY skinny i mean like a size 1 or 3 and she's like 5' 8" and she weighs like a hundred pounds. the problem is she hardly eats, i'm sayin like she won't eat anything! i was at her house and for breakfast she ate like 2 bites of an apple and said she was full, for lunch, she had a half of a sandwhich, and only took like 2 bites, and she wouldn't eat dinner cuz she said she wasn't hungry. i told her she would hurt herself, and she said it worked for mary-kate! she says her goals for the start of the school year, she wants to be a size 00 and lose 30 lbs! I want to help my friend, what can i do? (link)
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she wants to be 70lbs? and she's 5.8"? that's crazy, and you better tell her that. You HAVE to tell her parents, and pronto. She NEEDS to eat, like right NOW.
tell your parents as well, lots of times they can help too, telling her parents, or just helping you, yknow, the whole deal.
you also gotta confront her. she might get mad. she might deny it, but hey, if she respects your opinion, you might have an impact.
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ok if theres someone that i like and i wanna start talking to him..what should i talk to him about?? like what types of things should i ask him & stuff..? (link)
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alright, for the first few days (if you talk to him a lot) talk about him, about what he likes and blah blah blah, even if you don't like it. then talk about you and him. not dating wise, but just about like, things in common and stuff, then swing the conversation around to you, and keep it there.
BONUS: visit where he works (if he does) and seem surprised, just go for it, and see what happens.
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OK i'm not blonde but it's just an expression. I think this is how people see me... just a dumb brunette. A lot of people say that I remind them of Jessica Simpson. In some ways I'm flattered (shes pretty, nice, funny, has an amazing husband) but also she acts ditzy. I know I do a lot of the time too but it isnt on purpose. I say things being serious and others think I'm joking... when really I dont know. Also whenever I'm hanging out with people I am ALWAYS the person who gets made fun of. I try not to let it bother me and I know I dont show it that often. what do I do with this?? (link)
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sounds like it's time to ditch em, or tell them to shut up and mind their own buisnee. it might seem kinda crude, but hey, you'll get their attention. and THEN tell them what's up, aye?
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