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Ok well my boyfriend did me wrong and made some mistakes we broke up yesterday and like I know he made some MAJOR mistakes but like I forgive him so fast! I've never felt this way for someone before... is this love or is it just me being stupid? Help me please i'm so confused on what to do!
that is horrible and you need to leave him! u probably have a huge infatuation with him(did i spell that right?). he is not a good boyfriend and u need to dump his ass before he hurts u really bad. i really cant say anything except dump him! pls....
*Oreo*
would having sex with your clone be consider gay or a new form of masterbation???
ummm....maybe both?
my sis has many friends that i like and a fyew that i think like me! -_-;
im not sure what 2 do...
well theres not much info there but i guess just flirt with them. that could never hurt. if they r way older then u, u need to forget about it. don't go after the older ones, all they want is to get into ur pants.
but ya just flirt and mayb one will get the hint and ask u out!
*OG*
ok how do i get bigger boobs without having a boob job? i hwear a size 36A and im 13 but my my freshman yeari wantr at least a 38A or 40A so can someone please help me?? how do i get bigger boobs!!!!WITHOUT HAVING A BOOB JOB
ok if u want to b a 38A or 40A all u gotta do is gain sum weight:) u probably want to b a B or a C. the bigger the letter the bigger the boobs. u shouldn't b worried about the size of ur boobs. u could keep growing until ur well in2 ur 20's so there's nuthin to worry about. u never kno u could end up being a DD. plus if u have big boobs now and u stopped growing ur gonna get bigger once u have a baby. the milk glands swell making ur boobs bigger and so if u have big boobs then have a kid u r just gonna b hatin them and wishing u didnt have them. big boobs r not as gr8 as they seem.
*OG*
ohhh... this is like a wierd quest... but im 12 goin on thirteen and i have something white that smells really bad everyday on my panties? is this normal. it smells strong! and it's making me smell bad under there!
yes it's normal, all women have it all their lives. it's called disharge. it is like ur body cleans it self out and then disposes the bad stuff. it is totally normal but really gross and smelly so u should wear a thin 'liner and change it every once in a while.
*OG*
well,theres is this guy that i like , and im pretty sure he likes me!but when i talked to him hes like "Ur kool and all but ur a little to young"!i dont get it!im not even 2 years younger than him!wats the deal,is it cause hes my brothers friend or sumthing?
i'm pretty sure he said it because hes ur brothers friend. how akward do u think that would b for ur bro if u and his friend r like all on each other. if it was ur bro likin one of ur friends ud probly feel the same way. u should just go find sum1 else bc, well u just should. it mite b hard but you'll get over him.
*OG*
I don't know how this is possible, a while ago, i was crazy for pinapples. I'm still in a while ago though, so i'm still addicted. A cop caught me for eating and driving with pineapples and he recommended me to go to pineapple rehab, i don't know why he said that, is there really a pineapple rehabilitation center.
Piney Woman
r u bein serious? i don't think so but w/e. either the cop was on crack and didnt even kno wut the hell he was talkin bout or this world has gone crazy. pineapples cant do anything really except make you have to go to the bathroom. fruit is good for u and no there isn't a pineappple rehabilitation. y would we waste money on stupid stuff like that. now if u had drugs in the pineapple i could c where the cop was cumin from but im takin this kinda seriously so i must go. hope i helped!
*OG*
life is lonleyness
death is happieness
for me this is what i feel
thoughts of suicide
day and night
should i make teh cut
or use those tylenol pills
rope sounds good
but the gun maybe faster
there are many more ways
that i could say
but the one for me is not today
for i will be strong
for who knows how much longer
many times i cant go on
so a cut here
a cut there
to help me on
now my wounds
will have some time to heal
though the thoughts are still
waking me up at night
i am strong
but for how long
that is a really good poem. it's full of emotion and i like it a lot but if u r really thinking about killing urself(which i hope not) pls don't do it. there r probably many ppl who care for u. but newaz. u should submit ur poem in a contest or sumthing because u have a good chance at winning!
*OG*
Okay I put poems on here....and you guys said be careful putting them on here or someone will steal them...how do I make it so no one can steal them??
there isn''t really a way u can prevent ppl from stealing them. even if u put ur name on it they will just copy the poem without ur name. the only thing to do is not put poems on here unless u want to take the risk of having sum1 steal them. sry!
*OG*
I like to run around town in my favorite running shoes, not wearing socks. This is cool because it's relaxing, but not cool because my shoes smell like the living dead. I really, really don't want to wear socks, so besides that, what can I do to cure these things?
u can get foot odor powder and put it in ur shoes to stop ur shoes from smelling. i wash my shoes.
for your feet just put baby powder in ur shoes b4 put ur shoes on and go running. the powder acts as a deoderizer and soaks up sweat and stuff.
i think if u dont do sumthin soon u mite develop athletes foot. ewww lol.
hope i helped!
....OG....
If everyone in the world had both female and male parts...would gay people be considered gay??
uhh...
idk what it is, but i've just been really out of it lately. and i hate it. my mom yellz at me for doing stuff, and then she yellz at me for not doing thingz. see im tha younest of 3, i feel like im alwayz getting blamed for stuff. like. . . i . . . cant. .. breathe. its really hard, and sumtime i feel like i want to just die. I feel like no one cares. but at other times everythingz F***ked up. idk wut i cant do. plzz help.
i kn wut u mean. i'm the oldest of 2 but my sister is always saying i did stuff and i just cant wait to move out. sumtimes i've thought i want to die but (not to get real religious in case u rn't) God put us on this earth for a reason and just think, if u wanna die now u'll never b able to come back. it would suck. just let things go and countdown to when u can move out. it calms me down and i haven't gone crazy...yet. lol. but newaz everything will b ok. u mite go a little crazy but eventually u'll b on ur own and things will b better.
....OG....
um...well im 5'7" and i weigh 140 at most.am i over wieght?
no ur not! the average woman is 5'4" and weighs as much as you do so u rn't overweight. u rn't underweight either ur just right.
....OG....
If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help?
yes u should. even if u realized what u did was dumb sooner then most ppl u still had some reasons to make u cut yourself. if u talk with sum1 about y u did that u mite feel a lot better. even if u realize cutting is stupid u could want to do things that are worse like...well i dunno but there are worse things u could turn to. k well hope i helped.
....OG....
I have been having these major break outs around my hairline and on my nose..I have tryed alot of stuff that just dont seem to work any ideas?
just wash ur face 2 times a day. after you wash ur face rinse ur face with cold water to close the pores and then put sum moisturizer on ur face. if u dont ur face will feel really tight and it will b dry. don't overwash ur face because if u do that it will dry out the skin.
this may sound kinda wierd but sumtimes u can just put toothpaste on it. this is usually only used for like big pimples but u never kno. the toothpaste dries out the pimple. mouthwash works too.
u can use the alcoholic stuff that u put on a face pad and rub on ur face to dry out the breakout but dont do it too often because it will dry out ur face.
just a couple of suggestions. always use moisturizer. o and the grease from ur hair(no matter how many times u wash ur hair ur hair has grease because of natural oils) can cause breakout around ur hairline and on ur forehead so sumtimes pull ur hair back and don't touch ur face a lot. um ya thats a lot but i hoped i helped.
....OG....
after i shower i lay with my pusssy up towards the bath tub facuet and turn it on.. the pressure feels amazing and i really enjoy it.. but is it wrong and will it hurt me?
um...it's called douching. douching is flushing out your vagina. sum women do it with regular water or a special douche powder mixed with vinegar(ud think that'd hurt). it's not a good idea because u already have fluids from ur body that rinse and keep ur vagina clean. douching can change the chemical balance in ur vagina and cause infections. it can also push bacteria up into the uterus and cause an infection. that's y it's not a good idea. and if anyone was wondering it's pronounced DOOSH-ing lol. k well hope i helped.:)
*OG*
my mate keeps sayin she wants a kid and she wants it at a young age. wot can i do to change her mind
pregnancy isn't all its cracked up to b. babies r wonderful if ur visiting them but when u have one its a different story. ur sick all the time when ur pregnant and when u have the baby ur sore and u dont want to take care of it. my aunt just had her baby and shes having a lot of problems. shes 34 and this is her first baby but she cant seem to get things rite. she wasnt breastfeeding rite and was getting really frustrated. she even said she didnt want the baby anymore and was crying every nite. she has her husband to support her but its still hard. there are financial problems and a lot of other things to worry about. her baby could b premature or have a deformity. you just never kno. ur friend needs to think about those things. its not fun having a baby. hope i helped.
....OG....
i am addicted to cutting my wrists and i know its bad but i just cant stop what should i do? im not going to go to a doctors because they just dont understand and i didnt tell my parents because they would think i was crazy
i understand what ur saying. i have grown up with kids who cut themselves. they r my very dear friends and i dont want them to hurt themselves. parents would overreact and probably make u cut more. u need to find sum1 u trust and have them hellp you stop. u mite really hurt yourself. u could cut too deep and bleed to death.
another thing you could do is find something to occupy your hands when u cut like try reading a book or cooking. anything that will keep your hands busy. that has worked for a lot of people.
hope i helped!
....OG....
Hey y'all, Newayz im going out with this guy named Damion, and we've been dating for about a year and he likes to talk about other gurls in front of me and i dont really trust him. I truley think he is cheating on me, but i also love him to pieces,and i kno he loves me alot to and i jus cant give up on him because we already been through alot. Got any suggestions??
You need to talk to him about how u feel. if u ask him if hes cheating he'll defenitly deny it so u mite never find out if hes cheating on u but u need to tell him that it bothers u that he talks about other girls in front of u. if he really likes u he'll understand ur feelings. if he doesn't stop he's really not worth the time if he cant respect ur wishes. just talk things out and c where u both think the relationship is headed.
....OG....
well i like this guy, we go to church together but that thing is that i told him that i liked him but he doesn't liked me, but even know i know he doesn't like me i can't get over him i have try so badly but i can't and we still friends, but i really love him and i need a advice of how can i get over him
i've been in the same boat. i thought i loved the boy and would never live without him. i figured out i wasn't in love with him. i just liked him a lot more then i did anyone else. we r good friends and a friendship is always better. sumtimes after you go out with sum1 there is no friendship or there is akwardness(is that a word?) between the two of you. it's not fun so don't take the chance of ruining a great friendship with a short relationship.
....OG....