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I know that i can answer my own question but i want to know what yall think....I am mad at two people right now and in a way i feel like i know what to do but then i feel like i dont know what to do....LOL! i have already talked to them both about it and tried to reason with them. i know that, that sounds really stupid but i just really want to know what yall think that i should do.

~Signed the person that needs advice sometimes too~
sammie

well you should try to talk it out and reason with them and they are really good frierdnds for you adn you don't want to loose them.
That is all the advice i got for you sry

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Ok, ok. I admit it. I'm not eating enough. But no one will leave me alone about it! I have this one teacher who's about to call my mom. I seriously don't want to eat more, but if everyone (like my mom) gets on my case about it, I will have no choice! I'm doing well losing weight! I have never looked better! And if everyone gets involved I'm gonna gain it back. Everyone always asks "What did you eat today" And when I say "nothing" they get all mad. How do I get them to leave me alone? (Please don't be like everyone else and tell me it's not good for me) I just want to know how to get them off my back. I would lie but I'm a bad liar. Thanks.

hey i have a problem to but it is not about eating i think you should just tell them it's ur body and you can do whatever youw ant with it and if they really cared about you they would be there for u 100 percent.

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My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way??

i have friend exactly like that every time i want to tell her somethign she is like i am just being myself, but i say pull him aside from all his friends and just say hey i really need you right know please listen and is he doesn't then tell him ok look you really need to learn how to not make jokes when i need you i love you to death but i need someone to talk to and i want that person to be you but all you do is make jokes can you try being a lil more serious.

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I’m female, 15, and I hate everything about my family, I’ve always been rejected and pushed aside and neglected, my brother is the center of everyone’s life because he is such an asshole, my parents give him whatever he wants because they can’t stand to hear him rage and scream and say everything bad and hateful he could possibly say. I think they give him such free rein because he has turrets or however the hell you spell it and they just blame his bad behavior on it. They have always been too focused on trying to help my lying, trouble making, hates-the-world, asshole of a brother, so I can never feel anything- they can’t deal with me being sick, or sad, or angry, because they can’t help me, they’ve stopped trying because as soon as their attention would switch over my brother would do something and start screaming and saying shit about me, and how much he hated me and my parents and that everyone else does everything wrong, not him. My parents won’t get him help, they now take their anger at him out on me, they yell and scream at me when I tell them what I think of my brother and how I think they’re doing stuff wrong with him and how he needs help, my dad always punishes him at the wrong time when he’s actually calm, he can never say anything right to my brother, and then they ask me to go give him food or ask him stuff and my brother takes shit out on me. I hate everything about my family, I’m tired of being pushed around and neglected, and they’re making me into a person I hate, what can I do that doesn’t involve anything that costs money? because I’m not that rich. Plz help me, I’m honestly ready to kill myself.

OMg i know excatly how you feel!!! You have no idea how many times i have tried to kill myself and thought about it, but my friedns always help me when that happens to me and my parents ignore me for my sisters i always get soo pissed off but i just call one of my friends and talk to them about it and it calms me down there is really nothing that can be done to stop it except when ur old enough move as far away as possible. You need friedns at a tim elike this i haev tried to talk to my parents b4 but they are like we haven't done anyhting wrong and shit like that i say just talk to ur friedns i am sure they would be like glad to help

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okay this is actually a very long thing but ill make it as short as i can:
Theres this guy and we were like BEST FRIENDS last year and we were always flirting and everyone knew we liked eachother.. and then over the summer we told eachother that we really do like eachother.. and then the next school year rolls around and were still friends but like the whole school knows hes trying to ask me out, so things are a little harder and more akward but we try hard but then things start to get so annoying cuz people wont stop bugging us and like mostly him cuz he is just like retarded and too afraid to ask me out so we like take long walks talking about it and he says he wants to ask me and not me to ask him and that he still likes me and everyhting but he still doesnt do it.. it gets really old and i let him know that but things kind of continute the same then things start to slow down a little cuz we both have kind of lost energy trying to find time for eachother cuz were not in any classes together and not from the same town. So then all of a sudden he says he doesnt like me anymore.. after liking me for sooo long, and then a few days later he says he does and tehn the next week he doesnt, so RIGHT NOW hes saying he doenst but omg he acts like he likes me like even more now and he like i dont even know but now im hanging out with a lot of guys more than usual and he gets all like jealous kind of and i don know what to do, cuz we will prolly never end up going out cuz hes stupid but i still like him, but i hate him for what hes done to me and how he wasted my time!! ahh i need help! please do your best, i knwo this is kind of too retarded of a situation but i tried


Deathly confused,
well it is not a stupid reatred question there are allot of people in ur position. First of all i would consider urself lucky to haev someone like u that much, but back to ur problem it think u should tell him that u r not gonna wait around for him and if he is to scared to ask u out then if is missing out and just try to ignore it when he keeps changing his mind about how he feels about u. That may not be the best advice but it just might help. i hope it all works out
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