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I need help, but please dont delete this. First of all, i like this boy named dan. I think he knows that i like him, but see i get shy around him, i dont know what to say when i'm around him and he like never hears me when i do get the courge to say 'Hi' to him. I wanna kno if he feels the same but i dont know how, my friends tried to get who he likes ( if he likes any one) out of him but he wont say. now he kinda avoids me. I dont know how to put it. I wanted to be friends with him first before he found out and now i dont kno what to do. I'm not like some of my friends who will go up to the person or tell everybody who i like. My friends and i have caught him staring in my direction but hey, you never kno right? What should i do about dan? What are some things that i can say to him also? Thanx a bunch!

well.. you can basically just say stuff to him like. Hey whats up stuff like that I mean a classic conversation isnt that hard.. Just talk to him ALOT more.

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on myspace is there a specific place to put links to other sites?

no.

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I went to a private school until this year and everyone was pretty religious and conservative.

Now I go to public school and I have a LOT of more socially liberal friends that I get along with better in a lot of ways. At private school, I was the "weird one." Now I'm not. At all.

Sometimes I can hang out with my old buddies and it's fun, but then a topic like homosexuality comes up and I'm surrounded by people who disagree with me.

I just feel like I'm being pulled in different directions by people who want different things from me.

I miss my old friends, I love them, I grew up with them, but I feel like I'm just too different to really be that close now. I don't know how I can balance my new and old friends, not really time-wise, but in my own mind.

Please help. People who do not write in complete sentences need not answer. If all you have to say is "balance your time," forget it. If you had read, you'd have realized it wasnt about that at all.

Thank you.

When your around your old friends you feel different right? Well, maybe you should stay with the friends who your feel more complete with.

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OK I have been going out with this guy call him bob for 2 weeks yeah I know its' not long but we're alrady having problems. He doesn't talk to me that much, and im the one who gets his and and approches him, he never says hi ok well he has but like 2 times. Im the one who has to make the first move in everything in talking and in holding hands, he doesn't hold mine, I hold his. And I walk him to 3rd period and today he just left (we stand with all the punk rockers on the wall for like 3 minutes and talk) didn't even say bye im leaving or anyhting and it's not the first time. The first time we were holding hands talking to out friends and he just let go and left not even a kiss. I don't know what to do because I really like him I have known him for a year and I didn't know he was like this...please help me I don't wanna break up with him I want this to work.

talk to him.

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my friends always make fun of me and call me a ditz i dont like it but i kinda have to deal. One of my best friends said she thinks shes only friends with me because it makes her feel smart. Should i take that personaly? How can i change i dont liek to be ditsy.

maybe she was joking.. or maybe not. Being ditsy is fun. You should enjoy it because before you know it your gonna be boring then you wont have any friends at all.

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Alright, this isn't a serious question or anything but I need some help.

I have this friend, Bryce, who I absolutly adore. What I mostly adore is the pranks we play on each other. Sometimes we're mean about them but that's just how we are.

He has football off season while I have volleyball off season which is during the same period, 6th. Well, today I guess our coaches were being lazy and just made all the volleyball players and football players go out side and run for an hour together. Well, I was running along side Bryce and a few of our friends when he tripped me, on purpose and I fell flat on my face. It was in grass so it's not like I was hurt or anything but you can imagine how embarrassing it was!!!

Well, I need to get him back...GOOD. But I've run out of ideas and I need more. Any ideas?

you should tell him that he is a asshole. then push him down in a cupful of pudding.

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Me and my friends want to see The Ring 2. Well, originally I told my friend Lauren that her, Sarah and I could go. Recently Sarah and I have been hanging out a lot, with another girl, Krystal. I don't know who I want to go with. I would just invite both, but it's not that easy. Lauren is your typical preppy, VERY girly girl. Krystal is more like goth. As much as I hate labels, that's basically the only way to put it. Sometimes I wonder how Lauren and I get along.

Honestly, I'd rather go with Sarah and Krystal. But I just don't know what to say to Lauren, because I think she really wants to go with us. But Sarah and I both kinda get annoyed with her sometimes.

Who should I go with?! Sorry if it's long =(..

invite the goth girl. (labels are badddd)because it would be wrong not too. If Lauren doesnt like it, screw her. You deserve better friends.

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heyy ok.. umm this has been going on for about a month now and i really cant take it anymore! my friends think ive changed, they think im dramatic, and they think im obbsessed with gossip.. me nd my 3 best friends have been best friends for 2 years now and everything was perfect then.. we never faught.. we never talked about eachother.. nd we were always there for eachother.. this year is different nd were all starting to fight.. nd my 1 friend always takes other peoples sides wen i fite with them.. its like she hates me.. nd i dont think any of them trust me.. nd oh yea my really good friend and i have been hanging out more nd they think i like her better then them and i dont! and they dont believe me wen i say i dont! i said i wanted to kill myself nd some1 told the guidance office nd now i have a therapist! ughh.. my parents now kno about it nd no1 leaves me alone at all anymore! nd another reason why they think ive changed is becuz i smoke nd im 13.. i kno its not smart but ive only done it a couple of times cuz people say it relieves stress nd as u can see theres been alot of that going on in my life! well thanx sooooo much for reading this and please give me adivice.. it would mean alot to me!

FIRST OFF. you shouldnt smoke. SECOND OFF. talk to your friends.

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today i sniffed my fabric softener and it smelt good and i stuck it up my nose and the powder rubbed off into my nose and i have no sense of smell what do i do?

call poison control. you fxcking retard.

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