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Q: My friend threw me a suprise birthday party this past weekend and her birthday is next weekend. I would like to do something for hers (she'll be 17). what could i do besides through a party?

Another thing you can do besides a party is you and her go to the movies,surprise her with a sleepover just the two of you and just go to the mall and tell her she can pick a present and you buy it.[If you have money,of course.]Bye!

Q: Well Im going to have a tropical-themed bedroom soon and I would really like some fish in my room. But my mom said I cant because she doesnt want to clean the fish tank and I just dont have the time to do it.What should i do?

Just tell your mom that you'll take good care of the fish and that you'll clean the tank when it gets dirty.BYE!

Q: me and my one of my friends were friends since kindergartin...and noweveryday she follows me around doing the same exact things i do.All my other friends say you should tell her to act like her self and not be me.I really need help.what should i say?

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You should tell your friend wat your other friend said to say.Just tell her that you wanna be u and that she has to be herself.But...say it to her in a nice way

Q: See, I like this boy...well actually i used to like him I dont know...but like...he is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO cute on the outside but on the indside hes a little strange and has a bad atitude and he is always talking to my friend. And I want to get over him beacause i dont like is atitude at all..but i cant!!!!!!! he is just so CUTE!!! does anyone know a way i could do to get over him..I tryed not thinking about him and sayin to myself not to but i cant help it!!! help meeeeeeeeeeeee

All you have to do is...try to look for another crush or boy and try to look at other guys except for him.Just think about how he has a bad attitude and say in your head(ugh,im so over him!)Hope I helped!

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Q: i need to know, how can you become a pretty person outside? i dont think im pretty or anything,i want to be a girl some guy would like. but how? tips? gerneral stuff? im a kinda preppy person,i dont dress bad,i wear makeup,but i dont know how to be pretty. i have brown hair,big brown eyes,long eyelashes,dark eyebrows,kinda light skin,kinda circles under my eyes,oval face shape,4"9 13...please help i want to look nice and aprochable,and pretty.

Well.....even though i never seen you before i think youre pretty.Do you just wanna look pretty because some boy or you just want to fit in?Because i can help you.All you have to do is try to dress prettier and do your hair pretty and make the boys look at you all the time.BYE!

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Q: Hey guys!! I'm 16/f and this guy just got me a new kitten. It is orange, white, and striped. I really really wanna find a cute name for it. I don't want something too common, yet I don't want something too different. If anyone can think of any cute names, please let me know. I've already looked on the internet a lot, and I've only found four really cute ones. I like peaches, colby, cheeto, and peanut. If anyone can help me out and think of more cute names that'd be great. Please answer asap!! Thank you so much! Oh by the way my kitten is a boy. So I don't want a name that's really girlish. Thank you!! My kitten isn't really furry, but he's not very short haired either. I'd say his is medium length in between if that makes sense lol. He's very playful. If anyone likes any of the names I suggested please feel free to tell me. I'm thinking of maybe going to the library and getting some books with kitten names in em.

My cute names are....Derek,Scruffy,Lil'Dog,Remi,and puffball.Those are really cute names!Your welcome.

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Q: 16/f.ok so i just moved to a new school and the very first day i met this really nice girl. shes so sweet, and i sit with her at lunch. ive even gone over to her house and hung out with her. shes not really the type of person i usually hang out with, but shes so sweet. but over the weeknd i met these group of girls that go to my school and tehre more my type. they invited me to sit with them at lunch and they want to hang out with me more, but i dont know what to do. these girls dont liket he girl i met the first day and they dont really associate with her. who should i sit with and how do i break the news to the other one? thanks.

p.s-sitting with all of us together would NOT be an option. thanks.

I know wat your feeling.You should sit with the sweet girl bcuz the other people dont like her but you like her.Or sit the the person you think is the right person to sit with.BYE!

Q: Ok, in school, I don't have many friends, because I'm shy. I don't talk to anyone. I'm just scared to. What should I do? I barely talk to teachers, either. ):
-Way Too Shy.

Well...Im really shy at my new school but i got over it.All you have to do is try to talk to someone that you think is like you[like shy and friendly]and try to talk to that person and say that you want to be friends with them.Bye!

Q: My friend keeps popping my pimples. It's gross. How can I make her stop? She randomly comes up to me and holds my face and BLAH. She didnt seem to understand 'Stop!' I hate going to class with blood smeared on my face.

Hi!All you have to do is tell your friend that it makes you uncomfortable that she is popping your pimples and to stop touching your face.Hope I helped!Please write me a comment.Thanx!

Q: Judi my friend. is avoiding me. I don't know why. What do I do?

--Confused In Maryland

Well.....All you have to do is talk to her and ask her why has she been avoiding you.Tell her how you feel.Cuz i thought my friend avoided me and i talked to her.HOPE I HELPED!

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Q: hi, well its going to be my friends birthday in november, and im wondering what to get her, incase i need to save up. she'z only a friend and i dont what her to think i like her in THAT way. she's going to turn 15 i think. any ideas? thanks in advance

well i think you should get her something she really loves.Like if she wants a cd of her favorite singer then by her that or watever else she likes.Hope i helped!

Q: Hey.......I need your help.......what do i do if someone talks about me??? Because I cant help to NOT Ignore it.......PLEASE HELP{ ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

If someone talks to you ummm.......Id ignore it cuz who cares wat other people think about you.Thats wat i do wen someone talks about me.But wat i suggest you do is not talk about that person or else you are in big trouble.Bye!

Q: Okay.....well school for me is starting in September 5 and im so nervous and My best friend moved so we cant walk together.......and also when i get to school i'll be by myself so How can I not be scared? And how can i have confidence?

well....i think you should just walk to school and think of the good things that are going to happen this year for you.BYE!

Q: I wanted to send an e-mail to one of my best friends have always been there for me no matter what and that I can tell anything to and let her know how much I appreciate her. I've been best friends with her since third grade and I am now in seventh. I was going to put all of our good times in the e-mail, but I don't know what else to put. Does anyone know of something else that I can put in the e-mail?

you can put all of the good times in the e-mail.And you can send her a card to show how much you care and appreciate her.And jst think of soething that will keep you best friends 4ever.

Q: does anybody know any websites or stores that have like really cute pencil cases for school? i tried searching online but it came up with all ugly ones lol. thanks! :]

well...i think walmart has cute cases.

Q: My friend just told me she smoked weed. She is 14, and I don't know what to do. I can't get her in troble. She said she only smoked half a bowl. What can I do to get her to quit? I don't want her to fool up her life

Even if she smoked half a bowl doesnt mean its okay.Talk to her and tell her that if she doesnt want to die and get sick she should stop for her sake and her families sake.Hope I helped!

Q: I was just wondering what do you think would be an appropriate age to start dating?

In my opinion,I would start dating like wen im 16 because i think 15 and under is a little young so i would pick 16.BYE!

Q: My best friend and I always go shopping at the mall together, but there`s been a problem lately. My friend always wants us to match & it's starting to get annoying because I want my own style. For example: We both were shopping together & saw the same purses. We ended up buying the same one`s but in different colors, and now my friend wants to make a habit of this and buy matching purses for every season like a fall purse, winter purse, etc. This friend & I went to the mall this past Sunday [ Yesterday ] and she saw what I had picked out to buy, it was like a tshirt and a pair of jeans, and then she picked out the same one`s. She DID ask if I was okay with her buying the same thing`s as me and since I was on the spot, I said yes. Well now I don`t really want to have the same thing`s as my friend, because I want to be an individual, not a twin!! I`m not sure what I should do or say, because I would feed bad asking my friend to take back her purchases and I don`t want to take back mine. So what I`m asking, is, what should I do to stop the matching in the future? Please Help!!

Well.......That could get annoyingsometimes.But wat you have to do is talk to your friend and say to her that you would really want to dress in your own way.And hopefully she will understand.BYE!

Q: i've been friends with this for like 3 years and we've always been close because we saw each other pretty much every day. now we're both in different classes and we never see each other i just feel like i wanna cry because i just miss her and all that we've been through together and i really just don't wanna lose her as my best friend. has anyone else been in this situation? if you have can you tell me about it. and how can i get my friend back. thank you soo much.

Well....This never happened to me.And I think wat you should do to get your friend back is to invite her over your house sometime wen she has the chance that you can go and hangout with and talk.And you could invite her to the mall and the movies too.I HOPE I HELPED!BYE!

Q: ok so my school is seperated into colors, and the guy i like (lets call him Phil) is in my color. and i'm a very shy person when it comes to boys. I'm a 13/f and i'm really really really nervous that he might be in some of my classes. I already know he's in my band class. I need advice on how to get over my fear. please help!! I'm so shy and nervous around boys. please help! thnx tonz

Well..Everybody is nervous around their rush even me,but you need to try to get his attention.Like try to make him be your friend and see wat goes on by there.HOPE I HELPED!