hey! I was wondering if ya have any advice for me..ya see..Im shy and when Im around a guy I dont talk much..well I do but it takes a little while for me to feel comfortable..Im starting to like this one guy and he seems cool but his friends say hes shy..so is there anything I could do to like..be more open..or just to help me feel more relaxed around him?..sorry if thats confusing..I dont really know how else to put it..
Maybe you should try talking to him online first. Talking online is always easy. Just relax and be yourself..be confident. Pretend that if you don't talk to him, you won't have a chance with him. That might work. If all else fails, write a note?
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hey...I liked this one guy...but then my best friend went out with him N he dumped her bc he didnt wanna lead her on bc he still liked his ex...the thing is that I still liked him N my friends r tellin me that hes gonna lead me on N hurt me but I dont think he will bc I guess he still likes his ex N stuff...wut should I do?...should I keep likin him or just try to forget him but still talk to him as a friend?...plz help...
Your question was kind of confusing. I'd say just keep being friends with him or whatever and then wait to see how he is first. If you don't really know someone you will get hurt, your friends are just looking out for you.
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Ok, well heres the thing...I still like my ex boy friend, I think...see I am not sure if I like him...or I just liked making out with him...lol I know it sounds childish but when I am in his arms I feel safe, and it feels like nothing in the world matters anymore...I dont know what to do because we dated for 3 days and then broke up for about a week and then we dated for another 4 days and then broke up and it has almost been a week, both of the times we broke up it was because he was flirting with another girl and had told his best friend that he liked her more then me, and his best friend proved it to me both times...I dono what to do...i want him back, I think...PLease help me I dont know what to do...I feel so good when I am in his arms and when we are kissing but I dont know if i just like the fact of feeling that way, or feeling that way "WITH HIM"....if you know please tell me!!! I need to figure this out because it is driving me crazy!! and I defenately cant talk to him because I would feel so stupid, especially if he says no and he is in like 3 of my classes at school so i would have to see him EVERY DAY! lol and that would suck, but see the other thing is that he is kind of a bad boy lol he has been arrested 3 times and he has a tatoo ( which i love) on his arm...I am askin you because i think you can help me...so if you can i would very much appreciate it..thanks:)
This guy sounds like a jerk. If he was flirting with other girls when he was going out with you then its not a good thing. I think you should try to find someone else. We all like it when we're in someone's arms. It's a psychological thing. Just because he's a bad boy doesn't mean he'll be good for you, or to you. We all love bad boys also, its just thrill. I think you should try to find someone who is totally interested in you and only you.
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hey i have gotten my hair highlighted a couple of times. It is a golden blonde with lighter blonde highlights. Well in the winter im thinking about going to a light brown. Does anyone know of a pretty shade of brown/light brown that you have tried? shade? brand?
Thanks
I'm a blonde too. Try Medium Ash brown..it doesn't matter what kind but its a good color. I used Balsom hair color.
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Okay..there is this girl in my school who nobody really likes..we used to be really close but then we both changed..and shes a big lier..she asked me while I was away from the computer if we were friends..and how it seems like we arent because we dont hang out anymore..She said she had a gift for me because she was recently on vacation..but I dont know what to do because if I accept it then she will wanna hang out all the time and talk on the phone and that kind of stuff and I cant keep giving her excuses?!..What should I say whenever she tells me that stuff again? Please help me!!
Well it seems like she really wants to be your friend. I think you should give her a second chance just dont trust her you know? Accept the gift..gifts are always nice :)
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i want to pierce my cartilage but my parents would kill. my dad would never notice and my mom is such a blonde i could just tell her it was a magnet. ((i pierced my second hole and she still thinks its a magnet)) should i do it?? lol thanx
If I were you I wouldn't do it. Your ear can actually fall off if you peirce it wrong..i saw it on channel 1 in school. DOn't do it unless you're getting it proffesionally done and if you are..make sure its a good place.
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okay well i met this girl a year ago.. at her b/d party at the time she had a b/f after a while we started talking and i told her her b/f didnt treat her the way she should be treated.. so after a while so she broke up with him and we started liking each other.. but we never hooked up or anything.. after a while we started fighting and we stopped talking.. then she got a b/f after a while and by the beginning of this summer we started talking again and we became really close and started to like each other again.. so she stopped going out with her b/f and she even told me one day "one of the reasons im not with him is u" and now we talk every single day all the time and we hooked up a couple of times a lil while ago but she wont anymore cuz she says she doesnt want a b/f and she doesnt wanna lead me on or something but at the same time she likes me or would get mad at me if i hook up with another girl.. we hang out every weekend and we have fun all the time.. my question is what should i do cuz she wont give me a chance?
Actually I think shes being quite selfsih if she gets mad at you when you hook up with another girl, yet she thinks its okay for her to hook up with other guys. She probably just needs some time. If she says she doesn't wanna lead you on and that she likes you, then I guess she likes you. Just keep doing what you're doing but don't beg her for a relationship, that will bug the crap out of her. Hope I helped.
Becca
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is it wrong to mess around with a guy if your not goin out....but ya gotta thing for each other....bc I do and ppl call me a slut and a whore and stuff...I dont see what the big deal is
No its not wrong. It's completely normal. The people that call you a slut and whore are just jealous. Tell them to get over themselves.
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okay i have liked my ex-boyfriend now for a whole year...and i am soo sick of it i mean i cry myself to sleep everynight i just wanna get over him but i dont know how i mean ive dated other people but nothing works...please help meee
That's tough. I can't really tell you what to do about that even though I know how it feels. You gotta let these things run their courses. Tell him how you feel and then maybe you'll be able to get over him.
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I tried to make a website at www.cjb.net and i made my username and stuff already but I don't know how to actually make the website. I got to this page http://upload.cjb.net/ and now I don't know what to do! I want a quotes site but I don't know how to make it. Can anybody help me? I rate! Thanks
You just have to make a website...anywhere. Try www.0catch.com. CJB.net is a hosting site...it just gives you a different domain name so when you go to cjb.net click get host or something like that. If you have anymore questions feel free to IM me or hit up the inbox.
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I had sex with the same guy as my best friend's sister has. I just didn't know until after I had that she had already been with him. Well.. I talked to the girl he was with a few days later.. and she told me he had an STD. She said he had Herpes in his mouth. She said she was makin out with him.. and he had a sore on his lip and he said it was herpes and not to tell anyone.
She went to a clinic to get checked today. Can u still get herpes from someone if neither of u have open sores in your mouths? And should i get checked? or find out if she has it and then get checked.. I dont want to have to tell my mom i had sex with him, but im still scared i might have it.
Also, my BFF had sex with him the night after i did (eww) and she got checked too.. should I wait see if either of them have it.. or just go ahead and tell my mom and get an appointment at a clinic?
Please only answer if u know something about Herpes... THANKS!
If he had a sore on his lip its called a cold sore and it is a form of herpes but its not like a disease. It goes away in a few days.
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theres this guy that I like...N I think he likes me too...but Im not sure...he told my one friend that he likes sumone from his school but she knows him really good N she said hes liein...we flirt a lot N he wants me to go to his house a lot...do ya think he likes me?...N I kno girls dont usually do this but do ya think I should ask him out or just wait for him to make a move?...thanx
Yeah it sounds like he likes you. Tell him how you feel and then ask him if he likes you too. Let things go from there...
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okay theres this guy and me and him have been friends for like a year now. he dated one of my friends a long time ago and thats how we met. but anyway..we used to like eachother and we were kind of "together" but never really had the title of dating...and i always kinda had a thing for him but now whenever i see him i think i like him again and we end up making out & stuff like he fingers me or whatever but i cant tell if i like him or i just like him as a friend with benefits...i dont know if he likes me either...but i kinda wanna date him for real this time but i dont know if its for the right reasons..please help
Well if you think about him even when he's not around then you probably really like him. Ask him how he feels about you and tell him how you feel and let things flow from there
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i am really self-consiese about being touched "down there" and well i want this guy so bad but im afraid he will like laugh or something...wat should i do!?!?!?
Just let your fear go...don't worry about it he's not gonna laugh at you. No guy is gonna do that. They aren't that ignorant. We're all self conscious sometimes but that's normal.
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i hav this friend and when we are in a public place he totally ignores me! i mean he comes over to my house and everything but as soon as we are in public he doesn't want anything to do with me...wat should i do? wat should i say to him? i really don't wanna lose his friendship!!
Tell him how you feel about it. If he's embarassed to be seen with you then he's not worth being YOUR friend.
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i need sum help...recenlty it came up and my parents wan to get me checked to see if i am a virgin or not *im not* and i want to know is it true that the docort cant tell them ? or what .. ?
Well...actually no they can't. It's called "doctor-patient priveledge" The doctors cannot tell your parents what went on in the doctors office, or what is going on with you unless it's a serious health problem. The doctors should not and im pretty sure are not ALLOWED to tell your parents if you are a virgin or not.
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i had my guy friend over at my house and he was touching me through my pants and stuff and after i bit it started feeling really damn good and then i stood up and i was all light-headed and my muscles just wouldn't work so i had to sit bak down and he started doing it again and my muscles started gettin really tense and then he stopped and i was still really weak and light-headed...wat does that mean...was i about to orgasm?
Yes you probably were. Girls get more orgasms by fingering and such than they do during intercourse. Either that or you were just REALLY turned on.
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okay, I am an advice columnist here and a lot of what I run into was this fake persona of enviromentalists and people concerned with hate in the world. Why is this instantly called a pot-smoking hippi? I do not understand why anyone could say that about people they have never met. This is really negative and completly unhelpful and also unrealistic considering that we are only a little way off from global warming and multiple lung problems do to our air quality. This has really been bugging me. I don't expect everyone to agree to want to change the world but why cant they atleast show respect for others concerns?
Well if we didn't have global warming we would be in a really big ice age right now. Global warming is NOT that big of an issue. Start digging your underground cave now if you're so worried about it. There's still a lot of underground places to hide seeing on how not that many people are worried about it.
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theres this one girl who calls me a whore...then she tells everyone else that I am N sum of the people she tells r guys...so they all wanna get sum from me but like...she hardly knew me so I dont kno y she called me a whore...its really messing up my life...I tried ignoring it but it just got way out of hand
Well this girl isn't very nice. Next time a guy wants some from you...tell him to go back and get it from her. Or else, simply say that you in fact are NOT a whore and that you won't do such things. Let this girl talk cause eventually it will get old if she sees it isn't phasing you. If that doesn't work...kick her ass.
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Can Sex keep you in shape?
It is clinically shown that having sex is the best way to burn calories.
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