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hey.. um i'm not sure if you remember me i'm the one who liked alot of guys. i just wanted to let you know that your advice really did help me.. i found a great boyfriend and it's because of you . thanks so much!! you can i/m me anytime i think we'd be good friends.. demj20 thanks again

hey girl!! im so glad i was able to help ya!!!! ill save your sn! good luck with you and your new beau!!! xoxo!

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so I've never been kissed but pretty soon its gonna happen and well, will he know? I dont wanan tell him just because its kinda embarassing. But can he tell? !! thanks.

no he cant!

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so where do i begin? My family is only me, my sister and my mom. We're always contantly fighting! It gets so annoying!! I'm always fighting with my sister and sometimes my mom, and my sister is ALWAYS fighting with my mom. How can I make it so we fight less? My mom and sister are very...if i say something little their all over me. my sister doesnt quit until she gets her way!! how can i make it so they fight less often?

next time you and your mom get in a fight.....instead of tyring to say hurtful things and come up with comebacks, just go up to her and give her a hug. your mom is going through so much each day of her life. she is having to raise two girls all by herself and being a mother is not easy im sure. so because she has so much on her mind and so much weight on her back...the smallest things could make her snap. as for your sister...just let her have her way on things that aren't even worht fighting over. then if you really want your way on something then just tell her nicely that she got her way last time. being very calm and reasonable about things is a good way to reduce fighting!

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what can happen if you consume more then 4 advil at a time? i jusy had 5 advil at a time, can i puke or what, i need an answer asap

lol nothing will happen honey....those pills just help headaches and body aches.....they wont do anything

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Hey..
i'm 13 and i'm going to get my belly button pierced..but i have no idea wut to expect. heres some questions i have:
Does it hurt?where should I go?how do they pierce it?what is a clamp?i have an weird belly button. Its between an innie and an outtie .can I still get it pierced?
how long do I have to keep it in?
If you guys have experienced it..ypu can leave ur screename or email so i can ask u other questions.
Thank you ! xOxOx Lauren

hey girl!
it feels like a really quick bee sting.....go to either a doctor or a CLEAN piercing parlor....they just put the needle through the skin after the clean your belly button...a clamp is this meatal thing that clamps down on your skin and take away just a little of the pain and hold the skin in place......yes you can still get it pierced.....you should keep it in for about 6 weeks....southerngirl49@houston.rr.com....ask me anything! when i got mine done it didnt hurt at all and i dont take pain very well!! lol

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how sure are trojan condoms.. like what percentage??

98% i think...same as any other one

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if your going to make fun of me please dont answer this question. I feel like if my hair dosent look good,or i got bags under my eyes,because of my friend. I feel like she controls my life and if i dont use a cirtain shampoo in the shower,she'll no and make my hair look bad. Its so weird i dont want to feel this is makes me hate her,i dont want to hate her..But she also always has a good time with friends and leaves me out..could this be a part? I need help! **rate high**

well you shouldnt feel like that at all. you are your own person and its your life! if you want to use a certain kind of shampoo then go for it! but you should never feel that any human(espically a friend) has control over your life. next time yall go do something dress how you want and look how you want and dont even worry about what she thinks! and as far as having a good time with friends and leaving you out....ask her about it. just say "i like hanging out with you but every time you go out with your friends you always leave me out". if she is a good friend then she will understand and try to fix it.

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How come im so shy?!?! >:O i guess if your outgoing your "popular" but i am outgoing sometimes,and it dosent really help! Any tips on becomeing,well i guess popular?

you cant be shy!! just be friendly to everybody you meet and always make your first impression on people a lasting one! wear cute clothes and dont dress like everybody else! throw parties at your house and invite people to go out on the weekend and do stuff. if your shy...just think about this....the worst thing that could ever happen is people being rude...and you dont need people like that anyway! lemme know if you need anything else!

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i eat and eat and eat...but some how i dont have ANY fat on my what so ever.[[maybe a little but i am pretty skinny]]. Nothing can fit me in pants! im a size 14 [[not waist wise]] so i always need a belt! What im really asking is if anyone know any brands that are pettiet[[pronounced petteet,excuse my bad spelling]]brands that would make my butt look...well bigger!

angel jeans and also dollhouse should do the trick!!!

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my girlfriend is mad at me because i was mad at someone and wouldn't tell her who. i wasn't mad at her and told her that but she wouldn't believe me so what should i do. i am 14

go to her house....bring her a teddy bear and some flower and give her a big hug and a kiss!!!! :-)

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I just bought a Lacoste shirt off ebay and it arrived in the mail today. I'm having doubts to whether it is truely authentic or not. The seller confirmed that it was authentic with Devenlay on the wash tag- it doesn't. It has two pearly-type buttons..It looks plastic but it also looks shiny and pearly. The alligator is kind of big. There is not care label..on one of the labels, though, it says "Designed in France. Made in Peru. Hecho en peru. RN 87551-CA 15998. The tag says that it is the caiman style. Can anyone give me more info to wether it is authentic or not? Thanks

alot of ebay stuff isnt authentic...i LOVE lacoste stuff and everything i have, has a care tag...i think you might have bought a fake one :-/

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I;m 13 f, and I've been having a lot of different thoughts about things. I have a little of OCD, if that might be a conclusion of whats going on..
Okay, it started just maybe a month or 2 back, and I've been having thoughts about sucicide, like overdosing on pills and stuff. That's all I think of, and it wont stop! What can i do to help this?

get out and do stuff with your friends more often....OCD shouldnt have anything to do with suicide....get a new hobby...start workling out at a gym....set goals for yourself! that should take your mind off of anything bad completly....and if your friends are making you depressed...start hangin out with new people who just want to have fun and put youy in a good mood!

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i like lots of guys and i don't know why... i just thnk so many are hot!! ugh it sucks not knowing which one to choose!! please help

start narrowing it down to personality and not just looks....some of the hottest guys i know are assholes lol...and some of the ugliest are swethearts....decide what you want in a relationship and what you want your man to be like....and what is more important to you..good looks or an awesome personality? and who knows...you might find one with both!! lemme know if ya need anything else gurl!

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hey i wanna know where to get short shorts for not alot of money.. dont suggest hollister american eagel or any places like that.. that isnt my style and i also want some tight shirts.. i want low prices cause i dont have much money til next month and i need em now.. i wear mainly clothing like rocawear,babyphat,ecko..gunit..thanks bunches if you can help

khols!!!

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me adn my friend brooke spend an auwfull lota time together.. and people are starting to call us twins... we look nothing alike.. well kinda i guesss tall and blond hair... we both hate it so much and always say no we don't!! but people just keep saying it !! ugh ..what should we do~!

just ignore it!!!

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i have really frizzy curly hair and for the last year i have been straightening it everyday which gets rid of the frizz aswell as the curl but this summer i really don't want to be straightening my hair everyday i want to enjoy my time in the sun but without the frizz i have tryed loads of different frizz shampoo's but i can't find one that will make me have cute natural curls (like i have) but without the great frizz,
anyone know anything i can try??

get a perm! it will keep your hair the exact way you want it every day no matter what!

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how do you get a girl that is a pussy to tell you stuff to tell you how she really feels...cuz its getting pretty annoying...

(P.S. my guy friend asked this question...not me--no, not a lez)

ask her point blank how she feels

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my thighs are huge!! i bought a bikini and it doesnt look right on the bottom because of my thighs!! how can i get then to thin and even out? can i do that?

run!!!!! that will make your thighs go away in no time

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Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened?

well i dont think you did anything wrong at all! he put the moves on you and you went along with it which is totally normal. i think maybe that he just might have had a little crush on you while you were both there and you two could have been just caught up in the moment. i wouldnt take it very personally because lets face it...most guys arent very bright and sometimes dont think to be like "hey i like this girl...maybe i should guve her some way to contact me" lol..no offense to guys but its true! so what i would do is find out somebody who knows him...get HIS contact info and then maybe give him a call or something. and if you cant do that...then just think of this as a boy who you met at church retreat who made the trip a little more enjoyable! let me know if ya need anything else hun!

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I go to an all girls Catholic School, except recently I was accepted into a co-ed boarding school. I'm going to go to the boarding school, except how do I tell all my frieds that I'm leaving them? Even more so, how do I tell them that I won't even be around?

just be like hey yall im going to a different school now! but act happy about it and dont seem depressed otherwise that will make everybody else upset. and if your moving or something then just say you will be back from time to time to vist! even if you dont think you will be able to...there is always a chance! hehe

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